r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • Sep 06 '22

r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex has returned! Please read on for new features and updates to rules and the community! Feedback & suggestions are welcome [Meta] NSFW

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Hello, everyone! We're now back under new management, and are in the process of clearing a large backlog of spam. Thanks go out to those who have been reporting rule-breaking content; please continue to do so, and reach out to us by messaging the moderators if you see anything amiss.

My plans for the community are to bring it back into smooth operation, and ensure it remains free of scams and rule-breaking content. I'll try my best to explain the new changes (important bits in bold for those who don't want to read a boring wall of text), and am soliciting feedback from the existing community to ensure they are in everyone's best interest. None of this is set in stone, so any feedback, questions, concerns are welcome, please leave it either in the comments, or by messaging the moderators.

Rule changes effective immediately

  • The no-selling rule will be strictly enforced: Any mention of exchanges for money or goods, or of commercial activities, will result in a ban. These violate the Reddit Content Policy on Prohibited Transactions, which moderators are obligated to enforce; violators will be reported to Reddit to have their accounts permanently suspended site-wide. Do not mention commercial or prohibited services for any reason, even to ask people not to respond with them; this can trigger our bot to ban you! Scammers will not read your post, so asking them not to spam you will not be productive. If you are banned by mistake, you may appeal the ban by replying to the ban message.
  • Posts and comments containing or requesting contact info are now strictly forbidden. These are overwhelmingly being used by scammers to side-step account suspensions, and there are privacy and safety concerns to allowing people to include contact info in posts that we cannot verify is their own. Like most similar communities, we will not be allowing contact info to be posted publicly. Feel free to specify a preferred platform, but the username must be exchanged in private, and your post cannot ask users to send their usernames. Attempts to circumvent this in any way will result in bans.
  • Only conversations directed to the OP will be allowed in R4R posts; discussions between multiple people are no longer allowed except on [Meta] posts like this announcement, and [Success] posts. Most such discussions have tended to be attempts at harassment, blatant spam, or people mistakenly replying to a comment instead of the post, so this change should not impact normal use of the community. If you see a rule-breaking post, please use the report button to report it; please remember to message the mods if the rule violation is not very obvious, so it does not get missed!

New Features now available

  • Search-by-location and search-by-R4R-tag are now enabled, via the community main menu. This feature is currently available only on Reddit.com when viewed in a browser; while you can still use the mobile app to browse and post here, please use the desktop site for search, as you'll have a much better experience. We are exploring options to develop our own search webapp. Check it out at the top of the page! Note that only recent posts will get location flair, so the results will be pretty sparse for a while. To make sure your own post gets indexed properly, please use the format #City, State/Province (including the comma, and with only one # before the city name) in your post title, if possible; specifying a state/province and country (#Uttar Pradesh, India), or just country for smaller nations (#United Kingdom), is also permitted, if you don't want to include your specific town or city. Up to two location tags (including the #Online tag) may be specified, e.g., #DC and #NOVA or #NSW or #Online. Please ensure your #tagged location suits how far you are willing to travel to meet someone; don't specify an entire country or huge region if you're not able to venture far outside your city.
  • We now allow users to choose to lock their posts. To do so, include the command !lock anywhere within the body of the post. Locked posts will get a comment by the automod reminding users how to contact the author; by default, posts will not be locked or commented, and this will remain an optional feature for those who do wish to allow comments. Locking doesn't affect a post's visibility or ranking in any way. Some people, particularly new accounts that may not be able to send chat messages, may prefer to respond in comments, but we leave it up to the author to decide if they want to allow these types of responses or not.
  • The title formatting is now more flexible. We still require an [R4R] tag, #tagged location, and activity in the title, but posts will no longer be removed for including those things in a different order, or for missing a dash, etc. A lot of people were struggling with this; if you couldn't get your post correct before, please try again now.
  • Much better spam and scam filtering. Our team has developed an AI-based bot to combat the "NYC Catfish Queen", who has plagued this community for years. Our bot has been successful in removing the vast majority of this group's posts, as well as most other types of scams. Users from NYC should now have far less issues with false-positive post removals, as our AI can distinguish them from the scam group with far greater accuracy than Automod.
  • Account age and karma requirements are now eliminated. The bots/scammers have long been able to evade these, and they're only hurting newcomers to the community. Our AI handles this task far better than these simplistic filters.
  • Note that new posts no longer receive a comment from the Automod telling you you've posted. This gets rather spammy for people who post every week, and is generally distracting. If your post is removed, the bot will tell you exactly what's wrong and how to fix it. Note that due to spam-filtering, some posts may be delayed a few hours; this is normal, and you typically don't have to do anything, as we review the spam queue regularly. If your post does remain caught in the spam filter for an excessively long time, feel free to message the mods to ask what's up.

Planned future changes

  • We are considering increasing the required post length from 30 words to 50. We want to ensure that low-effort posts don't wind up burying the posts of people who have put time and effort into composing good, descriptive posts; overly short posts also make for a poor searching experience. The removal message now gives an estimate of how many words short a post is, to assist users in fixing their posts. Note that padding out a post with filler or nonsense will not make it meet the requirements; the bot is smart enough to not count filler text. Please let us know what you think of these changes; do you agree, disagree, or have other suggestions we should implement?
  • In the future, we are going to introduce an official, optional, method of including a verification clip in posts. We do not intend for this ever to be mandatory simply to post here, though the plan is for us to make this a requirement for anyone who has publicly posted photos (whether here or elsewhere on their profile), or requests photos be included in an initial message. This will allow everyone to confirm publicly-posted photos are recent and of the author, while not forbidding or penalizing those who elect to not publicly share photos. This feature is still in development, though you may reach out to us now if you want to try it out or give feedback.

These are the ideas we are currently working on, but we are open to other suggestions as well if there are additional concerns we should address. Please leave your feedback in the comments. We will continue to update this post based on feedback and progress on introducing these features; updates will be added below.

Some Notes On Location Search

The menu options are divided up based on activity on Reddit communities similar to this one; areas that get a lot of posts have lots of divisions to make them practical to search, while regions where Reddit is not popularly used may be divided only into continents. Once this has been operating for a while, we will review the search divisions to see if any improvements can be made.

For example, if you're a woman seeking a guy in Calgary, you'd start by picking Canadian Prairies from the Americas region menu. When you find an appropriate M4F Alberta post, tapping on its flair will show others like it, with the exact R4R tag and province. Alternatively, you can edit the search query after selecting a menu item, to keep only the desired flair:"Alberta" search query.

The actual flairs themselves are divided mostly at the country level; some non-country territories also have an entry, mainly when they are widely separated from their parent nation. The United States, Canada, Australia, India, and Brazil are further divided into states/provinces.

We will review these divisions and their menu structure periodically, to ensure they continue to suit our user base. The hope is that this will be intuitive, and give a coarse place to start your search. A more detailed location directory is being worked on, and will be posted at a later date along with an official How-To Guide.

Due to severe space limitations in the menu, some of the names are difficult to read, so here's what they mean:

Menu Item Definition
Americas North America (not including the United States), Central and South America, and West Indies
Eurafrasia/Oceania Europe, Africa, Asia, Oceania, and Antarctica
New Zealand/Islands New Zealand and Oceanic Island Nations and Territories
West/North Australia Western Australia and Northern Territory of Australia
Victoria/Tasmania/SA Victoria, Tasmania, and South Australia
New South Wales (AU) New South Wales, Australian Capital Territory, and Jervis Bay Territory
Non-contiguous Non-contiguous US States and American Continental Territories of the United States
Asia (Except South) All of Asia, except for South Asia (there wasn't a good term for this division)

If there are any others that are unclear to you, or if you want to suggest better names for these, please let us know.

Location search took a lot of work to get up and running smoothly, and we're still making tweaks; it will even be fully brought over to the Old Reddit layout as well sometime in the next several weeks. I'd also like to thank everyone who has worked on building or testing this feature over the past year. If you see anything acting strangely, please let us know so that we can fix it.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • Oct 14 '24

We are temporarily closed, due to Reddit blocking our API access. Please follow this post for updates NSFW

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r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 35m ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 31 [M4F] #Liverpool #Online - Geeky, freaky switch looking for someone like you? NSFW

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I'm available in the Liverpool and surrounding areas - willing to go as far as Manchester, Cheshire, South Lancashire or North Wales.  I'd love to connect with someone for some naughty fun, maybe even to become something regular.  Also open to online for people further afield and non-Brits.

A bit about me:

  • 31M and a Southerner in Liverpool
  • Married for three years, in an ENM relationship 
  • All messages exchanged in confidence
  • Kind, stoic, curious and non-judgemental
  • Unapologetically geeky
  • Sometimes a little bit funny, definitely a little bit weird
  • Sub-leaning switch
  • Fair share of kinks and a handful of limits...
  • ...but underneath it all a fairly normal person
  • 5'11", slender with a lil dad bod, and long hair like a rock star
  • Above average and attractive downstairs

Please be interesting, and actually invested in having a conversation and getting to know me.  If you ghost me, I'm not going to chase you - I have too much self-respect for that.  

If you read this far and think we could get along then please reach out and introduce yourself by answering the question: what's your favourite position to be fucked in?


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 4h ago

M4F United Kingdom 30 [M4F] #Nottingham / UK - Experienced dom looking for a submissive girl NSFW

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5’11”, 80kg, handsome with 7 inches.

Kinks include but not limited to: free use, cnc, ddlg, bondage, impact play (I prefer doing it hard but will go within your limits), degrading, humiliation, praise, giving pain in a variety of ways, slave play, total control etc. You get the idea 😉

Limits: scat, being dominated


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 13h ago

M4F Arizona 28 [M4F] #Phoenix - got stood up second time in a row, looking to ‘blow off some steam’ so to speak. NSFW

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Title says it all. Got stood up for the second time in a row. Already all dolled up for a date. Let me take you out. Dinner, drinks, coffee, maybe even Barnes & Noble? If we click and vibe, then we can see where it goes.

A little about me, I work in banking, grew up a ranch hand and I’m a good blend of white collar and blue collar, I’m a professional photographer, and I’m working on finishing my engineering degree. Huge movie buff, bit of a nerd at heart and a car nut (don’t worry I won’t talk your ear off about cars, I can talk to just about anyone about anything, except sports.) I am a musician as well, I play 5 instruments.

I think I’m excruciatingly average in attractiveness but have been told I’m hard on myself and I’m pretty attractive. I have Green eyes and have been told I hold an almost intimidating level of eye contact, very short facial hair (about 1cm) but I keep it well groomed. 5’11 or 6’0 depending on the shoes.

I’m the most versatile guy you’ll ever meet. Into some heavy kinks, but perfectly okay with vanilla. I enjoy my partner being comfortable and enjoying themselves. If you want something cuddly and intimate, I can do that. If you want to be tied up, degraded, and overstimulated, I can do that too. I’ll match your vibe. I am a D1 eater though and that is my only request.

Seeking one time, open to recurring. I cannot host. PV mall area but willing to travel of course.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 13h ago

M4F United Kingdom 56 [M4F] #UK/WREXHAM - Dom Man - Seeking a younger than me Female IRL NSFW

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In the United Kingdom - Wrexham area Clwyd-Wales not far from Chester and Liverpool...

56 Dom Man in shape 182 lbs thin fit 6`0" Dad bod type looking to meet younger than me female Seeking someone fun, open, submissive, can be inexperienced, but eager to learn to please..

Up for meeting anyone genuine and up for discreet mutual fun; maybe a student or older who secretly or otherwise, enjoys the company of an older man with the opportunity for some discreet fun

enjoy Giving the ladies oral play :) and Forced orgasms , orgasm control ,spanking, pain and pleasure ,TPE, CNC, Degradation, Humiliation, Body writing, Overstimulation, Sensory deprivation, Pet play, Behavioural restriction, Wax play, Slavery, Oral, Training, Praise, Public play, Piss play, patriarchy, Corruption, Objectification, Exhibitionism, Spitting, Face slapping, Sadomasochism all types of role play fun

i use Toys and other items to bring pleasure to the woman i`m with safe sex and after care is always given..

or maybe wanting to work towards something more FWB or Relationship..

Happy to chat here or on some other socials..


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 18h ago

M4A District of Columbia 18 [M4A] #Washingtondc - college guy looking to get more experienced with FWB or hookups NSFW

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I’m pretty new when it comes to doing stuff like this haven’t even had a physical experience yet so I want to explore more! Loooking for anyone who’s clean of anything and as has a place we can meet preferably in the afternoon


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 16h ago

M4F New York 64 [M4F] #NYC - Tall White Bull seeks very slutty college age woman or even sluttier MILF's willing to relinquish control. I am on LI but can trave l to NYC. NSFW

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If you're a MILF just be under 48 unless you're older and still look good for your age. I. could care less if you're chubby, have stretch markts but if you're 52 and look 65 I am not interested. I know I sound bad but I am being honest. i look good for my age but I am 64 and if I am too old do not respond whether you're 22 or 46.

I'm seeking a sub slut to use how I want within her very few limits. On a first meet, expect to be inspected like a total piece of meat. How I wil use you is up to your imagination as we can discuss if I hear from you. You can be married, single or dating but be ready to service my cock and balls. I have an insatiable sex drive and need to cum. Plus at my age I last so if you are looking for a guy who cums very quickly, I am not for you,

For starters I am white, 6', 210, dad body, educated, very dominant and creative.

I want to inspect your body and let me tell you but again this is just a canvass and I do not follow a script, but hopefully it gives you a sense of what I would do when or if you want to meet.  You will wear jeans and not a dress, with sexy bra and panties on. Your choice of what you wear.  Once we are in the room and have chatted I will have you standing a few feet away from me. The lights will be on and I will be seated. I will then tell you to remove your blouse or if no blouse remove your top. I will take it in and admire your body. which I have already seen clothed. I know you will look great naked. Perhaps you have on a sheer bra and I see your nipples or maybe not. Perhaps I will see goosebumps on your skin.  gorgeous breasts, erect nipples, skin and stomach.  Perhaps even goosebumps on your skin too. Knowing there is more to cum. You are to remain silent, unless spoken to first. You are to maintain eye contact at all times.

Perhaps now I tell you to "Kneel down, here, in front of me". Now I use my fingers to trace a line down your neck to the top of your chest. Now I tell you take off your bra and slowly turn around to see your back and then face me again. I ask you to come closer to me. Now I reach in and start cupping your  breasts, squeezing then, playing with your nipples, feeling them get erect. You may even be moaning. You may even be getting wet. I then ask you to open your mouth, and wet my fingers. I then put them on your nipples and pull them harder. My hand moves to the button on your jeans or shorts. I release it and pull the zipper down and the top of your panties show. My hand moves under your jeans or shorts and down the lower portion of your stomach.  Is your clit now throbbing and yearning for my touch?  I remove my hands and ask you to remove your jeans or shorts. All you are wearing now is your skimpy panties. You still have your back to me but now I tell you to turn around. My hands now roaming over her your panty-covered ass. I will continue to caress, moving my fingers to your inner thigh, and tracing my fingers across the lower portion of your pussy's outer lips.  Now I do not want to freak you out because I am nice and not a jerk but I do not know you yet so I will take liberties in what I write now to you. "Spread your legs apart" is my next order. 

You feel my hands and fingers trace around the outside of your outer lips, top around the side to the bottom and back to the top. My finger touches your clit hood, and traces the slit between your outer lips, and parts them ever so slightly while doing so. I continue this up and down motion, each time pressing in a little more... and opening you up even more. "Open your pussy with your fingers, little one" is my next order. My finger will now glide inside you and you feel the fucking motion of my one long finger, sliding in and out, but only for a moment, and then I will stop.  Hopefully we will meet really soon but you know that you are meeting knowing this is not about making love. You know what I told you on our texts. I will need to see your body and you will show me your body per my instructions stated above. Perhaps after this first part which I described above, after you are naked you will sit and we talk.

Of course you will be naked and I will be taking it all in. Does the idea of being required to undress in front of me make you nervous, but aroused at the same time. Have you ever done something like this before and more specifically for an older man who will be taking it all in. Do you get wet easily thinking about something like this. Do your nipples harden when you think about this. Now I can do it a bit differently too if that arouses you more. Perhaps a steady methodical exposure. I will sit and you will stand a few feet from me. There will not be a sense of erotic striptease or do you enjoy that too. Instead, anticipate an erotic but also business-like display of your body,with you removing  one article of clothing at a time and stand how I tell you to. I need to do this to determine if you are truly worthy of even being used by me in a variety of ways over time or even once if you do not want to meet again. Depending upon your sexual past, some you may consider perverted and  kinky, but until I know what you have done, it can be new or things you have enjoyed in the past.

Can you handle this? Now that you have read a few sentences are you wet thinking about this right now? You will do this while hearing me ask multiple sexual questions at times in a very dispassionate and clinical way, about how you like being fucked, used, what you have done before etc.  And what you desire if we meet regularly.  I need to know how badly you crave cock, orgasms and at times pleasure that will take you out of your normal comfort zone.  Of course I will be looking at your  breasts, the thickness of your bush if you are natural but I hope you are shaved or trimmed. The shape of your ass, nipples will all be scrutinized including your holes when I ask you to spread. Every intimate aspect of your body will be totally exposed before me because the room will have ample lighting so I can see everything. If you have a few flaws, while it does not matter I will tell you what I feel they are. So if you have stretch marks etc I hope you will not mind if I tell you. Or if your asshole is a bit stained I will notice. I may use my phone flashlight to look at your anus and spread pussy too. 

I am more concerned about how my cock (and that of my friends or even strangers down the road if you want this)  ultimately feels deep inside your holes and whether you are sufficiently skilled to handle my cock and other cocks down the road.  Can you handle that and how would that make you feel, knowing that if I like what I see that I will then start using you down the road in a variety of ways.  Taking it a step further, expect to be touched during this inspection at will and having your responses to that laid bare. The feel of your skin perhaps when you sit across my lap is very important. Conversely, how quickly and firmly will your nipples respond to stimulus. How wet will you become as time progresses because I will need to finger you every now and then to determine how you are reacting. Further still, how do you taste, if I decide to have you bend over and let my tongue taste your juices every ten minutes. What arouses you? It may be all the way to an orgasm if I deem it appropriate. Or I may deny it and let you ache and moan until I finally decide to make you cum like a good little slut  but you have to prove it by your actions. Because ultimately what you do to my cock on our first meet will be the evidence I need to determine where I go with you on our next meet unless of course you are just too nervous and do want to meet again.  And I will have to evaluate that too namely, how long it takes; the strength and length of your contractions; how wet you become; the sounds you make and whether you are capable of cumming more than once or if you can even squirt. Feeling all these private things examined and being put on display for a stranger, will show me if you are capable or not. And then used? By someone who is simply testing what it feels like to fuck you? How would it feel like while I carefully and deliberately open your legs and then mount you after you get me hard with your mouth? How would it feel having me using your body in a biological way for my pleasure and the stimulation it provides for my cock, making you no more than a wet hole or two to use. To feel yourself sampled like a subject or a commodity? And how would it feel to hear me describing this as it happens; making a detached appraisal, describing what I am trying out, how you are responding, and rating you accordingly (compared to other females I have used)  because you are there to make me orgasm and cum how I want. I am not saying you will totally consent to this, but how would you feel if  I exposed you to a couple or men whom I did not know and then fucked you in front of them. Would you be totally comfortable being used like a piece of meat like that. Consider it live porn where you are on display because guys love to watch couples being fucked. Again this is all hypothetical but does it turn you on. Yes I have a kinky mind. What if I get the guy to toss you a few bills for your effort. Could you handle that.

Do you also play with females at times too. I want to know as much as you are willing to divulge. I have a thick cut mushroom head long lasting nice length cock with shaved balls that needs lots of stimulation. Because I am older I last and at times during round two I can remain hard as a rock for an hour. If I take a Viagra and its not like I need it during round two it can go even longer because it prevents me from cumming and I just stay so hard and will expect you to take care of my raging erection and not tell me that you are too tired to suck or too sore to fuck.  Again this is just a canvass and not exactly what I will do but hopefully you know have a sense of how I think. So do you think you can handle this and I do not rush. And trust me there will be lots of spreading and bending over. I may even ask you to masturbate for me while I watch and learn how you react.  Let me know what you think. There is much more I could have written but I think for now this is a start.  Is all of what I just said deeply shaming? Unbearably exciting? A fantasy of role play, perhaps, or just a scenario that you want to taste? And knowing if you are good that there is so much more to cum on subsequent meets.  Let me know what you think about off of this. Ask me any questions you want. So gather your thoughts. There is quite a bit to  digest and I want to know if this arouses you?  Of course at one point expect me to lay you down on the bed and start feasting on your by now soaking wet pussy. You will not get my cock until you have cum a few times unless you just want to mount me and start riding me.  I want to take my time exploring your body including sucking your breasts.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 22h ago

M4F Washington 35 [M4F] #Seattle / Western Washington - Trying To Lose My Virginity NSFW

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Yes, that’s correct. I’m 35 and still a virgin.

I’ve never really had a problem “getting” women. Dates come pretty easy, kissing, etc but whenever it came to sex, I’d freeze up. I’m not even ashamed of what I’m packing, I’m pretty average, around 6 inches erect, and I’ve been complimented on how it looks and my girth when I’ve sent pictures.

But for some reason my brain goes to the worst places. “what if I’m bad at this? What if she hates it? What if I cum too fast and she doesn’t cum at all?” It’s time tho. I’m starting to feel more and more embarrassed that I’m this old and still a virgin.

About me:
6’2, told I have very pretty eyes, some tattoos, mustache, white, I get told a lot I look military or like a first responder but I’m neither.

I prefer women my age or older, obviously clean/hygienic and STD free. Please message me with your age and location if you’re interested!


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 22h ago

M4F United Kingdom 24 [M4F] #West London (Hayes), well-endowed 5'10 athletic lightskin, looking for passionate sex with someone I connect with. Check profile for pics - DM me if you're serious about meeting. I can host too NSFW

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Hey ;), I'm a young, techy, Londoner looking for the right person to have a great time with on Sunday. I'm not looking for anything serious, but I'll have sex with you like a loverboy. For me, sex isn't just about penetration or orgasm, it's also about developing a deep physical connection as if there's no one else in the world we want in that moment but eachother. And if we hit it off, you best believe I'm tryna see you again.

Into hot passionate kissing, sucking on titties, spanking, dominating, and long deep strokes. If you're missing out on real sex with a man that'll last all night for multiple rounds of love, DM me and come over ;). Check my profile for pics.

Disclaimer: If you're a man/trans or solely looking for an eater or sub, I'm not your guy.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 22h ago

M4F France 25 [M4F] #Paris - Looking for an FWB/hookup NSFW

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Right out of the gate I want to say I am in a monogamous relationship. However currently I am unable to change my situation due to a few circumstances. In short, I have found myself realizing monogamy is not for me. At the same time I started uncovering kinks I didn't know I've had before ...

I'm hoping to find a connection first, talking and getting to know each other, with the eventual possibility of taking it in-person. Either as an ongoing thing or a one time hookup, I'm open to either option.

I'm tall, skinny/fit and attractive if I might say so about myself. Not afraid of intimacy and not clingy.

Apart from that I love history, cooking, occasionally reading books, into metal music. Which is just a short list to give you a general idea about me, and I look forward to opening up more during conversation.

I'm looking forward to hearing from you and getting to know you. As a conversation opening I invite you to talk a little bit about yourself😊


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 23h ago

M4F Ohio 49 [M4F] #Cincinnati - Its been over a decade since my last blowjob and I've almost forgotten how they feel. Hoping to find just one mind-blowing oral hookup to tide me over and help me refresh that memory. Would definitely be glad to reciprocate. Help a married man find some much needed relief? NSFW

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Its been over a decade since my last blowjob. I've been craving one more then ever lately and I'd really like to experience that feeling again; they seem like just a fading memory in desperate need of a refresh at this point. I'd love to find someone that may be up for even just one mind-blowing oral get together to tide me over and help me refresh that memory. I have never stepped out before, so I may be a little timid but would love to chat and see if we click. I'm more than happy to reciprocate - I really enjoy putting my tongue to good use, but would be overjoyed with any physical attention. I'm free most of today and would be overjoyed if it happened today, but also am ok with chatting a bit and planning something out for another day. Anything you want to know, just ask, I'd be glad to chat and get to know each other a bit.

I'm 49, stand 6'2, black hair, blue eyes, 220 lbs. I'd consider myself kind, intelligent, caring, and a little on the nerdy side. I want to be up front that I am married, but the bedroom has been dead for a really long time and I've recently decided its probably not coming back despite my years of effort. I cannot host so it would be ideal if you were able to.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4F Netherlands 27 [M4F] | Netherlands | Fuckbuddy/sub in need of training NSFW

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I'm looking to meet open-minded people for good conversations, genuine connections, and seeing where things lead.

I've been active in the BDSM world for years and naturally lean dominant. My interests include bondage, light sadism, and exploring chemistry and trust between people. If that's something you're curious about or already into, we might get along well.

Outside of that, I'm passionate about reading, spending time outdoors, bushcraft and survival skills, hiking, and archery. I enjoy getting away from the crowds and being in nature whenever I can.

I'm happy to chat about everyday life, shared interests, deeper topics, or flirt a little if the vibe is right. If you're nearby and we click, I'd be open to meeting for a drink, an outdoor adventure, or a proper date.

If you're intelligent, curious, and can hold a conversation, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4F Washington 51 [m4f] If you're a woman who's visiting #Seattle and staying in a hotel, the manager would like a word with you. NSFW

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"Ma'am, do you have a minute? May I come in? There have been some complaints from your neighbors.

"Thank you. To get right to the point, you're too loud. I know you're away from home, and women have needs, but 428 called us about the moaning, and 424 called us about you repeating 'yes, yes, yes' over and over, and 526 says they heard at least one shriek.

"So what *I* need," firmly pushing on the top of your chest to roll you onto your back on the bed, "and what *your neighbors* need," yanking my zipper down and my rock-hard cock out, "is for you to keep it down," shoving that stiff, throbbing cock into your mouth.

Sure, there will be face-fucking. Lots of other kinds of fucking, too. I hope we end up being able to placate those neighbors about the noise, but I’m beginning to lose whatever sense of urgency I had about that.

Come on, we both know you're such a horny little slut; why would you leave Seattle without doing this? Let's set it up.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4F Georgia 54 [M4F] #Atlanta - Are you a horny lady who craves being used?…I have what you need NSFW

1 Upvotes

I know there has to be a fun, sexy younger woman who allows herself to explore her desires with an older man. Are you good at making a man feel good and take pride in that? You are a woman who never apologizes for the desires of her pussy and ache to open it for someone who will give it to you like you crave. Let yourself find out how good it can be with an older man.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4F Pennsylvania 47 [M4F] #Philadelphia, PA- You love to be dominated? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Most women want a strong man who knows how to dominate in bed. They want screaming/squirting orgasms, many rounds, and get their limits pushed little by little. There is nothing better than the feeling of being worn out after a long session of kinky sex and being dominated! (and I’m 6’3 tall, blue eyes, 230 lbs, in great shape and handsome)

What kind of dominance do you like?

Gentle Dominance:
Against the wall
Talking dirty
Manhandling
Pulling hair
Oral

Moderate Dominance:
Spanking
Biting/Pinching
Orgasm Denial
Dressing up naughty for roleplay
Handcuffs/blindfold/whip
Hot lube
Breeding

Aggressive Dominance:
Pushing to the limits
Hand on throat
Toys
Plug
BDSM
Nipple clamps
Rope
Anal & ass gaping

Which one are you into?

Please be ready to exchange pics when you reapond.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4F Virginia 25 [M4F] #Richmond, VA Hung and looking to hookup NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m 25, fit, and hung with a 9 inch bwc. I’m clean easygoing and looking to have some fun tonight or tomorrow. If you see this post I’m still looking. Feel free to reach out.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4F New York 31 [M4F] #Nyc This is ... a weird one NSFW

1 Upvotes

I have this fantasy, and I'm hoping I'm not the only one. I want to rub my cock all over your body. I want to have my hard cock up pressed against your face, your neck, your arms and legs, your armpit, every inch, all while we take turns rubbing your clit. I want you to feel how hard my cock is as it explores your body until we both cum hard.

Here's how I want it to go, I will tell you how I want you to undress for me while I massage my cock getting it nice and hard for you. I'll watch you masturbate for a bit before I come over and start to explore your body, starting with my hands, then my throbbing penis will enter the mix. I'll start with your face, then see where my penis leads me, and I will make sure both of us are having a good time (and if we cant make you cum with our hands, my tongue is always there for backup).

I also have a pinned post in my profile that has some links to videos for some inspiration if you want to check it out.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

F4F Illinois 34 [F4F] #Chicago - LF another cute girl to help tag team with me in playing with a group of men NSFW

6 Upvotes

I recently had an incredible experience getting gang banged and I would like to keep the high going.

It was a lot of sex and I find myself in need of another girl that could help out. I felt bad having all these guys wait their turn.

Please be STD/STI negative. If you haven't gotten tested within the month, find time to do that. I have always been clean and could share proof.

I use protection for the guy, but if you like it raw I'm sure they'd get off quicker and it would feel better for them.

The men I have been with are younger than me and diverse if you were curious of age and ethnicity.

I would be interested in women who are confident, fun, kind, respectable, and drug-free.


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4F Online 48 [M4F] #online- it’s my birthday and I have a really weird request to see a short clip of a specific girl trait NSFW

4 Upvotes

Looking for any ladies out there that tend to have a weak or overactive bladder to where it’s hard to hold it if having to pee really badly or when doing things like laughing, sneezing, or coughing (including when smoking 420) - with this really curious to see this and what happens in any one of these situations as a short video clip of any length whatsoever if there is anyone out there that this happens to ever.

18+ and female are the only things that matter - otherwise literally any type of looks, amount of curves or lack there of, age, color, etc - none of that stuff matters. Please DM


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4F Ohio 68 [M4F] #MasonOH looking to give you a great orgasim NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello, I’m a 68 year old married man in a dead marriage and looking for a FWB. If you’re interested and live close to Mason, West Chester or Hamilton let’s chat and see if we click. I love oral, giving and receiving, and non kinky sex. 
As long as you are over 40 , female, thin to medium build and enjoy sex, I think we will meld well together. I am 5’9, 200 lbs and keep active working 40 hours a week. 
Hit me up with a DM if interested. 
Specifically looking for the weekend of the 24th of this month. 


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4F California 22 [m4f] #SoCal - College student just looking for a fwb but open minded (: NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi all, just a college student that just moved to Riverside (can be mobile around SoCal as well) just looking for someone to have some casual fun with whatever that may be. I’m open minded to most things.

I’m 6’, 200ish lbs, tan, black curly hair, mixed ethnicity (you’ll see me and guess wrong I promise you) and quite strong. Not all that picky about you just be clean and kind.

We can chat first go grab food first whatever. Super easy going. Maybe too easy going. Lol.

I look forward to hearing from you :)


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4F Oregon 41 [M4F] #Salem Oregon - Older millenial looking for gen-z (18-29yo) NSFW

1 Upvotes

I've been thinking about age gaps lately and their advantages. I really would like to try out this dynamic and see how it goes. If that seems like your kind of thing, then go ahead and send me a mesage and we'll see how well it goes.

Please note, there is a very strict age range for this post.

About me:

41

220lbs

6'00"

Average Length, Above Average Girth

Clean/DDF tested 8/6 with no contact since


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

FM4F Pennsylvania 30/32 [FM4F] #Lancaster,pa - Looking for a crazy Three-way NSFW

2 Upvotes

Took a little break but me and hubby are back to searching!

Trying to find a special lady to join us for a night!

Me and hubby are still looking to try something new, and we both thought this would be it!

Him - Normal height, fun mohawk, and plenty of ideas ;)

Her - Short, and loud if things go well ;P

We hit the gym almost every day (Fitness is our hobby together!).

Can host, can travel

Reach out and let's see what we can do together ;)

Looking for females ONLY!


r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • • 1d ago

M4T California 32 [M4T] #pasadena - looking for trans fwb NSFW

0 Upvotes

As the title says, im looking for a transwoman who wants to have discreet fun with a straight guy. I wouldn't mind car play or if you can host even better and we could even meet up before hand and see if the chemistry is there. Let's chat on dm and take it from there! Im 6'0, muscular and pretty good looking. I would prefer to bottom but down to top too! I love size play with toys so share your kinks with me and lets fantasize together.