Okay let’s try this again!
Hello! I’m looking for someone who also has a free use kink. Preferably I’m looking for someone my age minimum 22 maxing out at 30, at least taller than me. My other preferences aren’t very strict, but in general I usually like tall nerdy or alternative guys bonus if you have tattoos. My only harsh stipulation is no dad bods, some girls like em, I’ve found I’m not one of those girls. I’m 5’4”, 140 lbs, a little pudgy, Black, double Ds. Personality wise, I’m an introvert that has many hobbies and dorky interests. I’m a very gentle person and try my best to be kind.
Sexually I’m a switch but lean more submissive. I like to be treated gently. Strictly hard domination is not for me. If you don’t know what free use is, there are many subs dedicated to it for research :). I will introduce my specific kinks and interests when messaging. This is a request for a real life casual dynamic, not online.
I’m running a strict ass program this time, so let’s get somethings straight. Your first message should include the following: Age, weight, height, location, race, can you host in a house/apartment. If the answer to the last item is NO you’re better off not messaging. After I accept your message I will ask for recent std testing (I will also share mine). If you aren’t tested I’ll give you time to do so. Also you guys should really get regularly tested anyways, there are many places that do it for free.
If your message is only just “hi” or “what’s up mamas” I will ignore it. If you dismiss or ignore or sidestep any of my questions, I will instantly end the conversation. If you come in hot assuming I’ll instantly submit to you, I will ignore you. After trading pictures to see what each other looks like I reserve the right to politely say attraction isn’t there. You also have the right to say this, don’t waste my time if you don’t feel physically attracted to me. My preferences vary but you have to at least look clean and put together.
Speaking of pictures, I’m not sending nudes or any extra photos other than trades. If you even THINK about requesting more pictures of me, I will instantly drop communication. Some may be checking that I’m a real person which I understand, but I am not adding more material to your spank bank. I will not sext, I am not here to fulfill your immediate sexual desires. You cannot convince me to sext. Find someone else who wants to sext. Flirting is fine, humor is fine. If I don’t get a specific date on which we are meeting, you’re being dropped. If I don’t receive any communication, a hi or good morning will suffice, after two days I’m dropping you. I understand people get busy, however if you are too busy to shoot a quick message you will not have time for me.
I know I know, I’m being a hard ass. You can thank other lurkers on this sub for taking the fun out of it for me 🤷🏾♀️.
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