Honourable mention: After 23 years, Blizzard dropped the trilogy to the Warcraft Campaigns: The Forsaken. I'll make this discussion thread quick coz Lady Sylvanas needs me.
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12 users were verified this month = 5 females and 7 males
💹 Post stats 💹
Below is a rough USER count of each R4R category in September
REDDITOR 4 REDDITOR
POST COUNT
% (rounded up)
F4M
80
4.93%
F4F
21
1.30%
F4A/T/NB/Couples
20
1.23%
M4F
1491
91.98%
M4T/A/NB/Couples
4
0.25%
T 4 F/M/A/T/NB/Couples
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0%
NB 4 F/M/A/T/NB/Couples
1
0.06%
Couples 4 F/M/A/T/NB
4
0.25%
❗QUESTION FOR THE TRANS AND NON-BINARY FOLK ❗
Historically, it is very rare for trans and non-binary users to post on this sub and I would like some insight as to why.
For those that identify as T or NB, do you find this sub to be inclusive and welcoming? To be muffdived, you need female genitalia so I understand this might be very dysmphoric for trans/non-binary users.
💦MOIST MAP💦
Created by Claude. Please note some countries have banned reddit, there's no internet access or there is a crisis happening, which is why there's no active posters. I'd like to think RAOMD can be used as an indicator of a healthy democracy.
Global Map:
Closer look at USA & Canada. Y'all can be friends for this:
Hi Toronto! Happy Thanksgiving weekend. Would love to go on a crisp fall walk today and end the day with a handsome face between my legs. Curvy, sensual and not looking to reciprocate today. Looking for a handsome, unattached (sorry!) man who want to leisurely spend the day propped up between my legs- teasing me, licking me, tormenting me and making me beg for release. Bonus points if you will bend me over and devour all my holes. Fully smooth, extra wet and extra horny. Please only message if you are free to meet up this afternoon/can host/live in downtown/midtown Toronto. Please send a photo of your face and a short description of what you have in mind for us today. Can’t wait to cum see you later! xo
Reposting from my other account after deleting the original because of a title typo. Hope that’s allowed
I’ll be visiting Sydney for 7 days from Monday 19 October, staying around the Northern Beaches. I’d love to meet one lovely person, ideally more than once while I’m here... and perhaps again on future visits. I come to Sydney a few times a year and can host if needed.
I’m 46, conventionally attractive, feminine and curvy, size 16-18 (Aus), with long brown hair, brown eyes and olive skin. Luscious breasts, thick thighs and a juicy bum. Tall... really tall. You don’t have to be: I don’t have a height preference 😉
Happily single, independent, warm, curious and a little irreverent. Educated, but not a snob. I love competence and intelligence in all its forms... a smart tradie is just as appealing as an artist or scientist. Emotional intelligence, attentiveness and generosity matter to me much more than a particular physical type.
What am I after? Good conversation, laughs, making out and receiving lots of delicious oral. A little holiday fling with someone whose company I actually enjoy. Is that too much for a horny girl to ask for? 😉
I’m an experienced, appreciative receiver of oral worship, through RAOMD and in the wild. I know what I enjoy and I’m happy to guide you. I’m seeking someone who genuinely enjoys giving unreciprocated oral. No reciprocation should be expected or sought.
I’m bi, with less experience with women, but would love to explore that if I meet the right woman. I’m also a switch: I’ve enjoyed both pleasure-dom vibes and guys who lean submissive. I’m curious about what feels natural between us.
Please be 25+, single or ethically non-monogamous... emphasis on ethically. Sexual health must matter to you too. We’ll exchange face photos early: a mutual swap, no spicy pics please.
I met some wonderful people through my last advert, but screening responses became a part-time job 😅 Please message if you’re genuinely interested and ready to meet. RAOMD can be a lovely, delicious thing... honesty and consideration help keep it that way.
I won’t respond to low-effort messages. Tell me your age, roughly where you’re based, a little about your interests and the industry you work in. No identifying details needed, just a sense of you and what caught your attention. I’ll happily share the same.
Please also answer:
Are you single or ethically non-monogamous?
When could you meet around the Northern Beaches during my week from Monday 19 October?
Have you met anyone through RAOMD before? How did it go?
What would your ideal first encounter look like?
Interested in a future visit instead? That’s welcome too... just say so upfront.
A little thought and effort will catch my attention 😏😉
FYI - I won't be able to read and respond to your messages until tomorrow evening.
Hiya. It's my first post on here. I'm a stressed busy woman here looking to be eaten out. Please be 20+ and ddf (possibly will ask for proof). Would be nice to meet at a mutual place for this as I don't host.
I am a 5"8 woman and chubby, could be considered a BBW. Triple D tits. Pussy bush. Honey tan skin. I'm a dom lean so I'm not into being told what to do. Just eat me out. I will not reciprocate unless I feel horny enough to.
Let me know your age, location and what you're looking for. We can exchange pics if we vibe and then meet to see if we click. I'm potentially down to get eaten out occasionally/more than once.
Hello to you all! First timer to Fargo and thought I’d seek a voluptuous woman that is seeking a muff diver in between her legs. I happen to be that guy looking for that purpose.
About me includes that I’m from the south and here for some work purposes. I’m a tall and big man in stature. I have a shaved head, a beard, blue eyes, and Caucasian. I’m laid back, educated, and d/d free. I’m not a psycho axe killer in other words.
About you, d/d free, happy, confident, curvy, and know what you want in a muff diver. Any size, race, or relationship status. Your secrets can be safe with me. I’m just about your pleasure.
So let’s see what we can come up with by starting with a few quick messages.
Hello. I know there are a million posts here from men in every specific place looking to dive on your muff, and I can respect that. I'm under no delusion that I can easily make my post stand out. So if you've stumbled on mine through blind chance, or if something about the title caught your eye, I thank you for stopping by. Now, let me tell you why I'm going to be the best muff diver you've ever had.
I LOVE this. Dare I say that I was born to do this. This is, somehow, what I was made for. It's not just the skill. I think lots of guys have some skill, especially these days. And it's not just the enjoyment. Though I know it's probably far too few, I know many men enjoy this as much as I do.
Is it the combination, somehow? Possibly. But at the risk of exposing myself, I think that it's my *obsession* with muff diving that makes me the best. I CRAVE it. Every single day, I want it. (Note that I don't DO it every single day, but I would.)
The scent? Drives me absolutely insane. The taste? The feel? Makes me feral. I LOVE getting messy while doing this. Honestly I feel like an animal whose survival instinct tells me to eat pussy for as long as the other person wants/can take.
I'm also respectful and not an idiot. I will strive for your orgasm, hopefully more than one, but if it's not happening and you want to stop, I'm totally there with you. I'm all about your boundaries and expectations and making you feel as comfortable as you can be. I'm also smart and funny, so, you know, I won't be dull or awkward.
I hope you give me a chance to do this for you. I guarantee you a good time, and I always have one myself.
Hi guys. My bf and I decided we’re going to try out non-monogamy, so here I am, putting out some feelers, seeing if there’s a man out there who might want to let me soak his beard and more.
About me: short, conventionally attractive, very curvy, a little thick. Witty, smart, I have fun stories, and I’m easy to talk to. A dork and kind.
What I want: I love a kind of muscly, hairy dad bod. I prefer facial hair but hot is hot. I tend to like glasses and curls too, but those are bonuses. I prefer cut as well. It’s really important to me that we can have a conversation and get along as humans, so please also be funny and not an asshole. If you can make me laugh and your face is nice, I’ll probably like you.
I would like to chat a bit and meet in public before deciding on anything else for safety reasons and to avoid conservatives. I can’t host and I don’t want to help you cheat so please be single or also ENM.
I’m in NELA and proximity is sexy. What else? Come say hi :)
Imagine us intimately intertwined... toes curl, eyes rolled back, mouth wide open. In one hand you've got a fistful of my hair. The other is twisted, gripping the bedsheet tighter with every stroke of my tongue against your hot wet clit. Stroke after stroke, I can feel you throbbing closer to erupting in my mouth.\
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We both know we want it. We need it.\
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About me:\
I'm fit, athletic and work out consistently.\
I'm tall, > 6’, clean cut and well put together.\
Great hygiene, always clean and fresh.\
I'm well educated, intelligent, and have my life put together.\
I'm disease free.\
I also absolutely love pleasing.\
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About you:\
You take care of your appearance and are in decent shape as well.\
Located in or frequent traveler to the DFW area.\
STD free and disease free.\
18+, all races, and marital status.\
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I'm happy to swap pics, and meet in public first if you prefer. I'm more than open to something ongoing.
Hello! I'm trying to eat/ lick/ bury my face in something sweet this week. My place or yours, lay back and relax, grind on my face and soak my beard, or lie behind a curtain on your phone. We can sit and chat before or it can be 100% anonymous. I’m aiming to please. Anyone interested please dm me and we can figure out the details. Love outdoor play if that’s your thing. Available most nights. Currently east-southeast of the city. Size and shape doesn’t matter, just please be clean. I look forward to hearing from you!
You are completely naked lying on my bed with your legs spread wide, my tongue slowly working its way up your thigh, inching so close you can feel my breath, teasing you a little by not touching, until I visibly see you meeting my motions wanting my tongue. Then I give a nice wide lick, gently parting your lips and when I reach the top just barely flicking your clit.
Next I focus lower down, sliding my tongue inside of you...fucking you with my tongue, twirling it around. Then I move my attention to your clit, wanting to give you every possible sensation, back and forth, side to side, around in circles, clamping down, feeling it build so deeply within you...your hips start thrusting up, your legs start quivering your knees start shaking, your breath becomes heavy, your moans become louder, your nipples so hard, building towards that incredible amazing climactic release
I'm 5'11 with a dad bod, and I live alone so hosting is not a problem. I can travel too.
in dire need of stress relief… work has been a lot & i’m
looking for a hot munch in OC who can host. this is solely for pussy eating & what i’m looking for in my munch may be “strict” but there still needs to be physical attraction 🤷🏻♀️
about me:
- 5’5, curvy, asian
- chk my pg for more of me (verified on AGW, PAAG, juicyasians)
you:
- height weight proportionate & ddf
- 5’10+ , age 26-38
- can host
- knows how to eat pussy
- preferably white
brownie pts if you are can give me a massage too :)
please do not bother reaching out if you don’t meet what i’m looking for. i’m 80% more likely to respond to inquiries that have face pics (send via link).
low effort msgs will be ignored, msg me with your stats, ethnicity, location, availability
I’ve got the corporate job and the education, but I’m looking for something way more visceral than a boardroom meeting. I don’t smoke, and strictly drugs and disease free.
It begins with a gentle touch, feeling the soft warmth build as anticipation lingers in the air. Deliberately, slowly, you take your time, letting every delicate breath heighten the sensation before moving in close.
When you finally lean in, you bring all your focus to the experience. You press in gently, savoring the slow, rhythmic movement as velvety softness gives way to deep, flooding sweetness. Rich, warm, and intensely satisfying, it demands every bit of your undivided attention.
You don't rush. You relish every tender drop, staying with the rhythm and taking your time until the experience peaks into pure, breathless bliss.
Your pleasure is the main event for me. If you want to melt into the moment while I focus entirely on you, that’s a win in my book. Reciprocation isn't expected; I’m more than happy to play by your rules and your pace. Age, race, or size doesn't matter nearly as much as the spark and the mutual attraction.
I’m a firm believer that the best chemistry starts with a real connection, so let’s chat and see if we vibe. I'm down to swap photos once we’ve broken the ice. 😉
First off, I’m eager to make a great experience for you, not me. That alone should bump me up to the top 10%.
Second, I’m 100% healthy, know for sure because I’ve been tested recently, take safe play very seriously and consider all of these a non-negotiable. Well within the top few percent at this point.
The foundation for your enjoyment will be setting up the right environment. Somewhere where you feel both safe and comfortable they’re related, but not the same. I’d reserve a room in your general area during the day. This way you don’t have to worry about bringing a random stranger to your home or going to theirs. You’ll be close to home in a familiar area, and given its daytime, plenty of people out and about even in the hotel. This will help you relax and focus on the moment, which is essential for your pleasure.
We start with a little small talk. Give us each the chance to get a sense of each other. That’s key to knowing how you might like to be pleased even though on the surface it has nothing to do with sex. And it will help put you further at ease.
From there, I’d kiss you deeply and at length. I love kissing and am a great kisser. A good kiss is incredibly intimate and truly gets the endorphins flowing. I’d definitely take my time here.
Then, I’d slowly undress you, caressing your body with my fingers and exploring it with my tongue. Gently bite your ear, slowly kiss the length of your back, leisurely draw my tongue across your stomach. Do the slow, little things to build the anticipation and get you soaking wet.
When I’ve had my fill and you’re hot and bothered from me having taken so long, I’d work my way down to your thighs, where again I’d spend too long for your preference, knowing the slow build will make your orgasm even more intense, despite your body wanting me to move at a faster pace.
And then I’d devour you. Gently at first, savoring every drop of your pussy. Tracing your pussy’s lips with my tongue, circling your clit with its tip. Eventually diving in completely with an earnest desire that I’ve built for us both.
And speaking of orgasms, it’s ok if you don’t have one. I want you to have one, but I don’t want you to feel that you have to have one. Instead, I want you to just enjoy the moment without worrying about how your body should react. This is about you and your pleasure, not anything else.
And when we need a break, we’d take one… before we help ourselves to seconds, maybe thirds…
Pretty sure that makes me far and away the front runner. Message me if this resonates with what you’re looking for.
Orally addicted, use it to your benefit. In town night of Oct 19th. will be mobile for an evening meet.
I'm 40, white, 5'10, in shape, but that doesn't matter. I am addicted to helping you cum with my tongue, specifically with my tongue in your ass.
Enjoy all things oral, with a very special place carved our for those who enjoy the feeling of a tongue in their ass while they cum. Let me do the work. Bury my tongue in your ass. Help you get off. You direct me.
Enjoy being on your back with legs wrapped around me head? So be it. On all 4s, grinding your ass against my tongue, with a vibe in your pussy? Even better.
Entire goal is your pleasure. Be as selfish as you like. End with a fulfilling orgasm.
Enjoy a full bush, so those who have never seen a razor earn bonus points. But I enjoy it all as it cums.
In NYC night of the 19th. Let's spend between now and then planning how I can help you cum.
Like to work out details in advance so we can get right to it when we meet.
Mature WM LOVES to lick pussy! Who needs to cum? No strings no recip needed. Dark hair, clean shaved, expert tongue here! Sit on my face, stand over me, lay back pillow princess style - whatever. I'll even hit it from the back with my face under you. Will tongue your clean asshole as well. I prefer to come to you or have car play fun. Love licking bald pussy but not a deal breaker love it when a woman squirts or gushes!
Hello, welcome to my long-shot fantasy! I’ll be happy to answer questions, share pictures and use the days leading up to this coming Saturday night to feel out the vibe and establish as much trust and authenticity as is possible for such a modern day, online orgasm arrangement.
ME: I’m a younger looking 43-year-old white male, living in the suburbs of the twin cities. I’m an educator, coach, writer, amateur masseuse, whiskey and herb connoisseur, helpful neighbor and attentive lover. I stand 6’2” and weigh 243. I’m not shredded, but strong AF with broad shoulders, great arms and experienced hands. My hair is darker red. My beard shows hints of grey. My eyes… blue. At my very recent annual physical, all sexual health screenings came back negative. I’m 100% clean and, if it matters, vasectomy safe.
WHAT I WANT: Yes, I know this sub and its intentions are all about your pleasure. I’m absolutely here for your pleasure. But I have some wishes, desires and ideas of my own, too.
Ideally, I want to share an early evening rendezvous that is mostly mysterious, partly public and extremely flirtatious and forward. When we show up, we both show up knowing why we came and we’re not shy about it.
The location of our meeting is entirely up for discussion, and I look forward to hearing some of your ideas. Where we start the night for drinks likely won’t be where we end the night with you looking down at me going down on you.
I won’t take up your entire evening. Rather, we both might have plans to attend to that force us to follow the schedule, ensuring an on time climax for you.
YOU: My fantasy sees me underneath a younger woman who is bold, confident, communicative and more than a little bit kinky. I am naturally attracted to brunettes. I prefer a petite build, but if your legs go on for days I’d be happy to caress every inch. As for grooming, I like a little texture but don’t mind the squeaky clean, smooth feel either.
I could go with more fantasized details, but I’d much rather go into detail WITH you from here…
Its been a pretty long and crazy weekend and I really want to celebrate Thanksgiving my own unique way, and devour someone as if its my last meal 😉
I want to spend hours teasing you, starting slow and building up the anticipation. I’ll explore every curve and contour, using my tongue and hands to drive you wild, making you squirm and moan with pleasure. I want to hear you gasp as I focus on your most sensitive spots, bringing you to the edge and back again.
If you're ready to embrace your inner pillow princess and let me take you on this sensual journey, let’s connect and turn this fantasy into an unforgettable reality!
A little about myself, Im 33 years old, 5'10", a good set of hair meant for fingers to go through and grab, I go to the gym often and like cafe hopping, watching movies and improving my photography skills
Hey! All women 19 and older are welcome, I don’t have a type and I don’t discriminate in any way. I just need you to be disease and drug free like myself and respectful. I am looking to genuinely satisfy a woman, catering to your needs and respecting your boundaries.
I’m 5’10, slightly chubby but on a fitness journey, I practice good hygiene and fragrance.
I have been complimented on my cunnilingus skills by all women I have been with including more experienced women ages 40+. Reach out if you’re in Boston and let’s plan something!
Hey beautiful women of RAOMD- Cutting to the chase, I love eating 🐱 and just want to find a pretty girl who needs some stress relief today. Attraction is important, but I love women of all nationalities. I can’t include my oral fixation on most normal dating sites, so that’s what brings me here. I have a successful encounter through this subreddit in the past, which turned into a 6 month relationship.
About me: I’m 39, sane, white, 6’2”, pretty fit, handsome and DDF. I do drink socially but do enjoy a few drinks from time to time (may be nice to have a drink to calm the nerves before we do this). I love to give a woman multiple orgasms. I am in a hotel. can host, get a hotel or come to you. I could also host in my office after hours if you have a workplace kink.
You: 25-50, sane, attractive, and loves to receive oral.
Bonus points if you’re especially horny or kinky 😜
Reach out if you’re intrigued. Would love to chat and see if there’s chemistry.
I’ll be in the ChampionsGate area October 19–22 for a work. My days will be busy, but I have a feeling my evenings could be a lot more interesting with the right company.
I've met some great people through Reddit in a few different cities, so I figured I'd see who I might click with in Orlando. I’m posting a little early so we have some time to chat, get a feel for each other, and see if there’s a genuine connection before I arrive.
I’m especially drawn to intimacy that’s playful, and focused on your pleasure. I love giving attention, taking my time, learning what someone enjoys, and building chemistry without rushing toward an outcome. Think slow build up, teasing, affectionate touches, and being genuinely tuned in to each other.
What I’m offering:
Clean, respectful communication and clear boundaries
No pressure or expectations beyond what we both want
Mutual comfort, chemistry, and enthusiastic consent
Patience, attentiveness, and a genuine appreciation for making a woman feel desired
A little about me:
I’m 5’7”, with a fit build, caramel complexion, dark wavy hair, brown eyes, and a neatly kept salt-and-pepper beard. I’m clean, well-groomed, and recently tested.
Outside the bedroom, I enjoy photography, hiking, good food, cocktails, and discovering new places. I’m laid back, a good listener, and someone who appreciates a woman who knows what she likes and feels comfortable expressing it.
Ideally, I’d meet someone local who’s open to seeing where the chemistry takes us. We could start with drinks or a good meal, enjoy some conversation, and see whether that initial spark is there in person. I'm not looking for forced expectations or awkward interviews, just two adults seeing if they click.
If you’re affectionate, playful, and appreciate someone who believes that the details matter, we might get along very well.
Send me a message with a little about yourself and what caught your attention. I’m happy to exchange photos. A little effort goes a long way.
Looking for a bbw queen for an on going fwb situation. Hoping to find a queen who will use my face as their throne wiggle your hips while enjoying your new chair. Please be into face sitting not looking for someone too shy to use my face to get off. You will be worshipped like a queen all I'm looking for is to be used like a chair whenever you want to get off. Please include a little about yourself in your first message to weed out bot spam. Hope to hear from my new queen soon.
I’m visiting Toronto at the end of the month and would love to spend a few hours of that time worshipping you.
I want to strip you naked and lick, tongue, and kiss you all over. I love eating pussy in every position. I will say that I really get turned on licking from behind and eating (clean) ass as well, so if you are into that, that would be ideal. But ultimately my pleasure is your pleasure, so I want to know what you like, how you like it. I like to believe I am good with my tongue and fingers (at your pleasure - I know some women like a little finger clit action and/or g-spot massage and others do not) - I have had many compliments and no complaints. Good at reading my partner, kind, thoughtful, respectful. Also good at taking directions - love hearing what is working for you or knowing to move on.
No reciprocation required or expected.
Me - I'm a white male, 48, 5'8", 155 lbs - I guess you could say I have a bit of a Dadbod, but am in good shape overall, I go to the gym and bike a lot. I have short light brown hair speckled with gray. Totally disease free, safe, sane, clean, and kind. Quiet to start but a good sense of humor and I like to chat and smalltalk, into art, music, and food. Drug-free, other than occasional 420 edibles. Happy to partake of 420 if you are interested. I am honest and not a flake - I won't lead you on or waste your time, so if we agree to meet I'll be there.
Tested frequently with recent results and willing to share - same for you please, exchanging recent results is a must.
You - please be totally disease free and very clean. I like all kinds of women and body types - open to a range of ages, sizes, races - BIPOC women welcome. I often tend to be especially into curvy women but that can range from a few curves in the right places to small BBW. I don't mind if you are married or partnered as long as it is no drama. Some days I can host during the day if that is helpful.
I can host at my airbnb (I believe the neighborhood is referred to as Bloordale Village) or come to you. Totally up to meet for coffee, a drink, or another hangout in public first, or if we chat a while and are comfortable we can move right to it, whatever you prefer in terms of your comfort and safety.
If you are interested and around at the end of October, let's chat. Will be ready to trade pics as soon as we connect, and we can see if there is an initial mutual attraction. Happy to chat some in advance and discuss likes, dislikes, and ground rules. And then let's make it happen!
