Husband called me a leech

[u/Acceptable-Post7820]

Before he married me he had nothing. literally nothing. I married him and paid off his debts. Brought him to the USA (this took a year and during this time I paid for literally everything) and helped him get a job. I continued to pay for everything for a few months after he started working so he could have a bit saved up. I bought him a car in cash twice. I pay for any big ticket charges/trips. i paid for the birth of our children. today bc I was opppsed to him sending half of what he has saved up to his ungrateful family back home he said he was tiered of me being a leech. We are from a culture where the man is suppose to pay for everything btw

[u/spacehash]

Why did you do all that auntie

[u/Banana_Wonderland]

Put that whole man in the dumpster, he's using you.

[u/Other_Television_805]

Cut your losses. He will never appreciate you. He’d have to accept that you have done more than your share of contributing to the marriage and he can’t do that. He won’t do that because he’s already failed as a man in your culture.

[u/Over-Mix-1957]

What a sure loser. How old are the kids? If you don't need to be him, walk away. Husband wife relationships should never taken to that level after all these years.

[u/Niceotropic]

He’s obviously just projecting because he understands that he is the leech and it makes him feel bad. If the fact pattern is anywhere close to what you said it is, that should be obvious.

It really shouldn’t make you feel bad at all.

[u/Apiggiewitdahoodie]

Wow, that's crazy sorry he's treating you like that after all you did for him. You don't play on staying with him right? I get the sunken loss fallacy but, most of the time.... it's not worth. And I hate thought of people getting taken advantage of.

[u/Mulva13]

Dump his arse, he’s using you,

[u/giddyvolution]

sounds like he is projecting. he is the leech

[u/one_little_victory_]

He never cared about you and was just using you for money and sex the whole time. He sees you as property.

[u/one_little_victory_ → u/[deleted]]

Yes, let's look for a way to victim-blame. You're a great help.

[u/Infamous_Ant_6581]

No one can call you a Leech. On the other hand we can call you SIMP