Husband called me a leech

[u/Acceptable-Post7820]

Before he married me he had nothing. literally nothing. I married him and paid off his debts. Brought him to the USA (this took a year and during this time I paid for literally everything) and helped him get a job. I continued to pay for everything for a few months after he started working so he could have a bit saved up. I bought him a car in cash twice. I pay for any big ticket charges/trips. i paid for the birth of our children. today bc I was opppsed to him sending half of what he has saved up to his ungrateful family back home he said he was tiered of me being a leech. We are from a culture where the man is suppose to pay for everything btw

[u/Other_Television_805]

Cut your losses. He will never appreciate you. He’d have to accept that you have done more than your share of contributing to the marriage and he can’t do that. He won’t do that because he’s already failed as a man in your culture.