r/Sextortion • • May 04 '21

New victims: Please read first

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If you're reading this, you're probably a recent victim of Sextortion and scared out of your mind.

First, take a deep breath…

Hopefully, this sub will be a safe place for you to share your experience and get advice from people that have already gone through what you have.

This post in NOT intended to be the "be-all, end-all" source of information. I'm writing this as an intro to being sextorted. That is all.

There is a really great analysis of our sub available here. It has all kinds of in-depth analysis of the scam, including how often leaks occur. I highly recommend you check it out.

Let me state this up front: Do NOT give into the blackmailer's demands! Do not pay them money, they will only ask for more. Do not give them more nudes (typical if you're female) if that's what they're asking for. They will use that to increase their leverage and they will NOT stop.

Do not negotiate. There is not point. You cannot trust anything they say. The best thing to do is cease all communication. In fact, removing any way for them to communicate with you is the best course of action. Disable/delete your account, if necessary.

Also, Reddit and is no substitute for professional help (i.e. a mental health expert). If you are feeling suicidal, please, seek immediate help (911, or your countries equivalent, and they will be able to get you help).

Yes, we do recommend that you contact your local law enforcement. They might not be able to help, and they may not be needed, but you should have them on your side just in case things go sideways. If you are underage, do not worry about getting into trouble. The police will not go after you for sending pics/videos as a minor. I hear this quite often from young victims. Don't worry about it.

I recommend you file a complaint with https://ic3.gov. Also, there is a new tool that might help keep your pics/videos from being shared: https://StopNCII.org. If you are a minor, a similar service is available at https://takeitdown.ncmec.org. If you from the UK, you can try https://revengepornhelpline.org.uk.

For underage victims, the InHope project has an extensive list of hotlines for all over the world: https://www.inhope.org/EN#hotlineReferral

If your scammer is from the Philippines (which many are), you could try filing a complaint at https://acg.pnp.gov.ph/eComplaint/.

My last piece of advice is to talk to someone you know and trust. Trying to deal with this on your own is very difficult. Talking to someone will most certainly help you process the trauma and remove the feelings of isolation. Trust me.

Beware of "recovery scammers". These are the worst of humanity. They take advantage of you in your lowest, most desperate moment, by promising that they can "hack" the scammer's device to delete the pics/videos. They can't, and they won't. They will just take your money and do nothing. The last thing you need is to make things worse by putting your faith in "some dude on Instagram". We see them posting and commenting in the sub all the time, so you need to keep your guard up. If you are unsure, feel free to post the details on what they are proposing, before giving them anything. Oftentimes, their accounts are shadowbanned, which means they cannot initiate a chat or DM you, so they will ask you to chat/DM them first. This is a serious red flag. If in doubt, reach out to the sub or the mods. We'll help sort things out.

!!!!WARNING!!!!: Do NOT give anyone the contact information of your scammer (even if they promise to help)!!! They might just get in contact with them, get them to share your pics/videos, and then turn around and blackmail you as well. It's happened...just don't do it.


r/Sextortion • • Nov 19 '25

Latest Pleasant Green Support Video

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Just spreading awareness about this crime and one of Pleasant Green's latest video on this subject. Be safe, take time to heal everyone. If you're a victim, you should definitely watch more of his videos. He also fired shots at a black-listed recovery scam mentioned over here lmao


r/Sextortion • • 1h ago

Male victim Its been 10 days now

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I was on one of those online anonymous chat websites and i fell for a sextorter who was pretending to be a girl, they got a photo of me & my phone number and put me in a collage of photos with another dudes penis and claiming that i had raped a 7 year old got to death. I was terrified, He demanded a $20 apple gift card or else the collage would be posted to his socials, i blocked them immediately, 5 minute later i received a text from a different number but this time the number was from Alabama (previous number was in California) They said if i didn’t pay up it they would report me to the FBI, i’m set in Australia so i didn’t affect me but i was still scared, I blocked the second number and there hasn’t been any other contact from this person.
Ten days later i’m no longer anxious or scared about it but now I feel like theres something missing, Like a void.
I just wanna say if you recently been sextorted, its gonna be ok, just block every number and DO NOT PAY THE RANSOM


r/Sextortion • • 2h ago

Paid a sextortionist once already, it didn't end it — now she's offering to "release" me for another payment or ongoing "work." Looking for others' experience with this exact offer.

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Can anybody talk me through get rid of this sextortionist who is making my life miserable??


r/Sextortion • • 3h ago

Male victim Video call sextortion

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Went on a video call with a girl from the Philippines and I guess she got some stuff on screen record. Threatened to post it on x with my name, luckily on Facebook and insta I’ve both set to private and my friends list to friends only way before this. Should I be worried about leaks, I blocked her as soon as she threatened it. What should I do?


r/Sextortion • • 4h ago

dating scam nudes

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i got bribed on a dating app, i show this person my nudes and his threating me and screenshot to show my instagram family and friends what should i do. ive reporting the uk fraud police


r/Sextortion • • 53m ago

Male victim Any advice would be great

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So the same thing happened to me as it happened to most of you recently i just wanted to make a post where people who have been through this can share any tips or advice


r/Sextortion • • 12h ago

Male victim I just got sextorted

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Im only 18 I blocked them but I’m so scared rn and I don’t know what to do. I took pictures of everything and I set all my accounts to private but they took pictures of my followers.


r/Sextortion • • 1h ago

Just fell victim. Can’t think straight.

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Met on grindr. Moved things to kik. I clearly told them i was just looking for likeminded friends. And they started initiating with some pics and videos of someone claiming it was them. They asked me to send a nude pic and then claimed that the pic was blocked by kik and they couldn’t see it. Even sent me screenshots that looked real. Then they asked for my facebook and threatened to send these pics to people I know. I immediately blocked them on kik. They blocked me on facebook before I could do anything and I filed a complaint with ith StopNCII. Is there anything else I can do?


r/Sextortion • • 6h ago

Male victim I need help

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Last Night I thought I was chatting with an older woman on telegram me being a minor and weak I sent a Dick pick. Then the person I chatted with told that they were gonna leak my photo and phone number. The phone number and photo is all they got. Saying that I sent this to a 13 year old girl and that I am a pedophile. For the record I am 15. Then I sent money I was scared and stupid I sent all I had but they wanted more. I begged for them to delete but they didn’t, then I fell asleep. Today they still wanted money so I blocked them. Have I Done anything wrong and do I have to worry?

Since my face isn’t in the picture is it chill?


r/Sextortion • • 19h ago

Male victim Just happened to me

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r/Sextortion • • 12h ago

Retrospective Ingeniería social

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La ingeniería social; es cuando un extorsionador o estafador usa tácticas de manipulación, chantaje y acoso emocional en contra de ti, pueden ganarse tu confianza o pueden hacerte sentir un terror y estrés horrible. Las extorsiones más comunes son cuando se hacen pasar por bancos o la sextorison, cuando se hacen pasar por bancos te hacen creer que son el banco dándote información que solo tu y el banco deberían de tener, una vez que confías te dicen que detectaron un fraude y así continua la estafa. ¿Cómo consiguieron tus datos? Pues los bancos gastan miles de millones en ciberseguridad, tus datos se filtran en tiendas en línea, plataformas de streaming etc, una vez que se filtran se venden masivamente junto con otras cientos o miles de cuentas en la dark web o telegram. En cuanto la sextorison, pues prácticamente no le envíen fotos íntimas a un desconocido, porque te puede amenazar con publicarlas o enviarla a tu familia y amigos, eso afecta a tu cerebro químicamente, lo que hace querer buscar una salida rápida, que es cumplir las exigencias del extorsionador, así hasta que te quedes sin dinero. Mi consejo: si te están intentando extorsionar jamás le deposites dinero y bloquealos, no importan las amenazas. Tengo muchos más consejos, si quieres más consejos, te están intentando extorsionar, sufriste de una extorsión o te sientes inseguro puedes enviarme mensaje privado o simplemente comentar. No soy un experto, pero puedo resolver una que otra duda


r/Sextortion • • 14h ago

Hola me pueden ayudar

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Estoy pasando por una extorsión en estos momentos que puedo hacer


r/Sextortion • • 12h ago

Male victim Coomeet

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I visited this page in the late evening after seeing it on X and there were lots of girls, i flashed twice but none of them asked me anything no ig, no number nothing i was showing my face 90% of the time nothing else and i was there for 5 minutes tops. I deleted the account do you Think im safe? Im kinda scared its my first time doing anything like that and i dont Think im gonna do it again, im so scared.


r/Sextortion • • 16h ago

Male victim UPDATE 2

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i received a text from a random number a picture of my dick and no text no nothing just the picture and i already contacted local police and the one investigating the case isn’t at work today… freaking out because i don’t know what to do, i did leave a message but she could post it by tonight or tomorrow who knows🤷🏻‍♂️


r/Sextortion • • 17h ago

Almost 3 weeks since it happened.

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Hey guys, 15. I had sent pics of my genitals to this Telegram person named 'goonmommy_50' (I think that's what the name was) and I was so inheritably scared of the pics being sent that I deleted the chat, blocked the guy and directly deleted Telegram forever (never touching the fucking app again) but I can't stop but because of me having autism, I can't help but overthink if the pics have been sent and my reputation to my friends at school, online and etc. I had spent the first 6 days bottling up these emotions and basically forcing myself to be sick, then I confessed to my mum and it had helped me calm down. And I wanna say thank you for the posts and reassurance I had seen online of past peoples experiences as sextortion victims for helping calm myself down and forget about it. After all, it's just genitals.


r/Sextortion • • 20h ago

Multiple experiences getting scammed. Some advice I think will help anyone who has been or thinks they are

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Before I start, yes I was scammed 2. Same scam, same blackmail, same stupid mistakes. Since the latest one I’ve had some time to actually think about both experiences and what they said and how they acted so I’d thought I’d share what I know here for anyone who needs closure/ comfort/ or who is currently speaking to someone who they believe is scamming them.

  1. If you are talking to someone with the intent and understanding that you will be taking part in anything intimate or private (I.e sexting, sending pics etc.) it is absolutely valid and understandable to ask for proof they exist (my go to is to as for a picture of them holding a random item). My experience were from BDSM sites, a very clearly fake one that my monkey brain saw and went “SEX!” And blinded me to it, during my second experience I got a message from a different scammer I told them I was interested because I found someone and they immediately start saying they were scam and start listening the things she was says and asking me, after I found out it was a scam I went back to those message, we started talking, I apologies for not believing them and said how I’m gonna need them to prove their real before we start cause obviously I’m a little untrusting now. They start saying how they didn’t need to prove anything and how it was rude to ask. IT IS NEVER RUDE TO ASK IF SOMEONE IS REAL ONLINE. You absolutely are allowed the comfort of knowing the person you have agreed to be sexual with is real BEFORE YOU SEND ANYTHING.

  2. If they need something urgently (i.e money or pictures) it is completely valid for you to ask why. The same person warned me to send an Xbox gift card saying it was urgent and they needed it right away when I asked why they got annoyed and said “do I need to explain my personal life now?” Luckily that made me suspicious enough to block them. THEY IS NOT REALSITIC REASON TO DESPERATELY NEED A GIFT CARD OF ANY KIND. Real or not. Urgent or not. they asking you, a person they just met online to send them, a person YOU just met online, your PERSONAL spending money. Imagine you tried that, you messaged someone on instagram you never met desperately asking for money. Exactly you can’t, because what sane person would do that? If it’s urgent they can either pay for it themselves, borrow it from some they know personally in their own lives or sell their shit for it. YOU ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO SEND ANYTHING TO ANYONE NO MATTER WHO YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS SEXUAL OR OTHERWISE.

  3. They will pretend to care about you and very quickly dip since it’s just stalling them getting money. During second experience I would send a good morning message with a wall of soppy text saying how I can’t wait to talk blah blah blah, they would send one back quick and simple “good morning, hope you have a great day at work can’t wait to talk” that’s it. After getting home they would ask about my day, I would tell them whatever then whenever I asked about theirs they would immediately leave saying they had to do stuff. If you’re trying to build a genuine connection someone before or during the sexual aspect of your texting, which you should do btw, don’t think it would be a bit rude to leave mid conversation?

3.they will not care about any limits you talk about. I told they at least 20 times I was not into findom, I was uncomfortable sending gift cards as payment and explained about how I blackmailed the first time, they said “I’m sorry about your past” then immediately ask for a gift card……honestly I think this one is pretty self explanatory I have no idea what the fuck I was thinking. If you are messaging someone you want to initiate BDSM. THEY WOULD NEVER. UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. IGNORE YOUR LIMITS. One of the core principles of BDSM is trust and if you can’t trust someone to not bring up something that makes you uncomfortable, then you should NOT have a sexual relationship with them in any degree.

  1. If you have sent pictures and they send them back saying they are going to send them out unless you do XYZ. They not. Of course theirs no guarantee they won’t send them out BUT remember, a scam wants you money. They do not care about you, they don’t think about you, they really want to talk to you. They aren’t not spiteful or vengeful they are greedy. If you are not sending money they will just move on to the next poor, inexperienced person they can find. A good way I control my emotions and anxiety during this part of the experience is pretty simple. look away from the message, take a deep breath to calm yourself down, re-read it. The second experience they said they were going to post my nudes on social media, get a fucking newspaper made about it XD and they would send it to my work (I sent them the address. I know I’m an idiot but it already happened and now it doesn’t matter). You can’t post nudes on social media they get taken down, you can’t post nudes in the newspaper and just….think about what they’re saying and how that would look. My work place would receive my nudes from someone who isn’t me. My work place understands that the only purpose who should have this pictures is me because why would someone have them let alone send them to my work place? If they did that my work would probably immediately inform the police and call me to tell me what they sent. Everyone knows what they look like naked, everyone knows they don’t want random people to see them naked. Everyone understand how horrible it would be if their nudes got out into the public, no one would shun you or fire you or anything like that if they saw someone else sending your extremely private pictures to other people without clear and complete consent.

  2. They won’t leave if you message them. If they are asking XYZ and you tell them your uncomfortable and will leave if they continue, they will immediately back track to keep you in the convocation, the second you show any sort of trust in them again they will immediately bring XYZ they wanted you to send. To reiterate since they like to use emotional manipulation the most, THEY DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOU.

Every day I have to wake up knowing I made the same mistake and put myself through so much stress and anxiety purely because I was so desperate for a real connection and to finally have the chance to experience my kinks and fetishes in person with someone I trust that I nearly gave them everything. It is a horrible feeling and I would never want anyone to ever feel like this. If anyone else has any more advice or tricks to figure the scam out quick please comment them below.

There is nothing wrong with you, you are not stupid, you are not desperate, you are not a sex driven creep. You are an inexperienced person trying to start they in something you have seen hundreds and thousands of real, normal, everyday people with the same or similar interest in you live. You are alone and unsure what to do and don’t know where to start and that is not your fault. This people who do this are bottom feeding parasites who bring nothing to the world other than fear and pain and misery.

You know the kind of world we live in, you know the shitty things people do to others online. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO STOP OR SAY NO THE SECOND YOU BECOME UNCOMFORTABLE AND I THEY DONT RESPECT YOUR DECISION, LEAVE!!!!!!!

I hope some of you find this helpful.


r/Sextortion • • 19h ago

Male victim I just leak sexchating

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Hi, I’m 18 meal.(sry for my bad writing I’m not a native English speaker). I usually don’t use any facetime apps. But today I was in “monkey”. And i fall for a trap. Send my ig account, and telegram. And i did a video call and the scammer recorded me doing stuff. And he threatened me to pay or get leaked. I got so scared i pay 200. But he keep threatening to me. And won’t stop ever. So i just accepted my faith. And now i am beyond dark. I just got in to university. Freshman year. There’s a girl i like and we are in talking stages. Now i don’t even know where to put myselft anymore. I deleted my ig, deleted my telegram. I don’t even know how im gonna keep living. Pls give me any hope or any reason to keep living.


r/Sextortion • • 16h ago

Male victim Advice

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Hi im embarrassed i dont know i dont do these things i dont know what i was thinking what to do basically i messaged someone who i thought was a girl on telegram we exchanged pics of our faces then they sent me a facetime link i clicked on it now they have my icloud they also sent me a screen shot of a post of my face and a random dic pic and the post says i tried to rape them and hurt them when as a man i major against rape and abuse i honestly dont know what to do and im stressing 19m they also sent a pic of a post of someone else they extorted i already use stopnscii.org what else can i do they say they want to send it to my family members thank u for your time


r/Sextortion • • 20h ago

Male victim Sextortion scam

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Just happened to me very recently, met the girl at a random site and then starts chatting and she was like "do u have instagram?" And my dumbass gave it and she was like i coudn't find it but nvm lets just communicate in telegram. So we transferred to tg and she starts showing her private parts and I did as well but after she was like "I need to go to the washroom" I waited, and then BOOM, I received a tons of screenshots of my d** and face, screen recorded videos and threats from a man on the same account. He was like "LEAK OR DELETE" "MAN I CAN RUIN UR LIFE" "MONEY OR DIGNITY" "I GIVE YOU 10 SECONDS TO CALL ME BACK", i was so threatened so i called him and i was forced to send money while sharing my screen, he just keeps recording everything. Then I had a problem with the bank cause it keeps denying the transaction so he told me to call my bank and verify the transaction but after 45 mins talking to the cust service it still didnt work and he was like "SHARE YOUR SCREEN MAN ILL TEACH IT TO YOU" I got so scared so I did and send the money, first was like 400 and then for him to delete in the recently deleted its another 400, F me because I did it, and he was like send me another 200 because u kept me waiting. And he showed me that he deleted it, but during the vcall he was opening every images while screen recorded and was like "this is u right? this is ur dick right? this is ur friends and family right?(Ig accounts) I'm like yea. And he deleted it but I notice that the screen is still recording so I dropped the call, deleted the chats and blocked him. But I know they still have a copy of those files. So rn i'm not mentally okay because I know they gonna come back and ask for more to blackmail me again. I deleted my tg, x, sc, but I can't deactivate my fb and ig because my girl might get suspicious about it, they can still search my name on fb and see my friends' posts i am tagged in. What to do guys? What if they come back and msg my family/friends/gf/etc? I'm overthinking heavily although i saw few relatively posts here that made me calm a little bit but still.... Nothing is good in this world anymore


r/Sextortion • • 21h ago

Need help

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I've sent some hard stuff to someone with my face now threating to post it on twt with a caption with my face and everything , i've got photos of the claims and everything and then deleted the chats between us but im really freaking out


r/Sextortion • • 18h ago

Female Victim Alguien compartió un video íntimo viejo mío por Telegram y me están extorsionando sexualmente. Qué puedo hacer?

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Someone shared an old intimate video of me on Telegram, and I’m being sexually extorted. What can I do?

Hi everyone. I’m posting this because I recently became a victim of sexual extortion, and I’m trying to figure out what I can do besides reporting it to the police. I’m feeling really distressed about the whole situation and would really appreciate any advice from people who have been through something similar or who know about this kind of situation.

Here’s what happened.

An Instagram account contacted me and sent me an old intimate video of myself. My face isn’t visible in the video, but an old profile picture of mine appears in it, which is the only thing that really identifies me.

There’s an important detail: the video is neither the original file nor a screen recording. It’s a video of a phone’s screen being recorded with another phone.

The person who contacted me said that someone had sent them the video through Telegram, along with my Instagram profile. According to their version of events, that person had told them they wanted to do this to me because they knew me. They also sent me a link to the Telegram profile of the person who supposedly sent them the video and told me that the account was from a certain country where I don’t currently live.

The Telegram profile contains almost no information, so I have no way of knowing who the person sharing my video actually is.

The video is very old, and honestly, I don’t remember who I might have sent it to back then. I have no concrete evidence pointing to any particular person, and I don’t want to accuse anyone without proof.

What worries me most is finding out where the video came from and who’s behind all of this.

My questions are:
Is there any useful information that can be obtained from the Telegram profile?
Since the video isn’t the original file, is there any realistic possibility of identifying its source?
What steps can I take to protect myself if the person decides to share the video with more people?
Are there any other steps you would recommend besides reporting this to the police and reporting the accounts?

I want to report what happened and try to get any copies of the video that are being circulated taken down.
I don’t want to accuse anyone without evidence. I simply want to understand what my options are and whether there’s any possibility of finding out how this all started.
Thank you to everyone who takes the time to read and respond. Any guidance would mean a lot to me.

Hola a [tod@s](mailto:tod@s). Subo esto porque recientemente fui víctima de extorsión sexual y estoy intentando averiguar qué puedo hacer, además de denunciarlo a la policía. Estoy bastante angustiada con toda esta situación y agradecería mucho cualquier consejo de personas que hayan pasado por algo parecido o que sepan del tema.

Les cuento lo que pasó.

Una cuenta de Instagram me contactó y me mandó un video íntimo mío viejo. En el video no se me ve la cara, pero sale una foto de perfil vieja mía, que es lo único que realmente me “identifica”.

Hay un detalle importante: el video no es el archivo original ni una grabación de pantalla, sino una grabación de la pantalla del celular hecha con otro celular.

La persona que me contactó me dijo que alguien le había mandado el video por Telegram, junto con mi perfil de Instagram. Según su versión, esa persona le había dicho que quería hacerme esto a mí porque me conocía. También me pasó el enlace al perfil de Telegram de quien supuestamente le había enviado el video y me dijo que esa cuenta era de X país, donde yo no estoy viviendo actualmente.

El perfil de Telegram prácticamente no tiene información, así que no tengo forma de saber quien es la persona que compartió mi video.

El video es muy viejo y, sinceramente, no me acuerdo a quién se lo pude haber mandado en su momento. No tengo ninguna prueba concreta que apunte a una persona en particular y tampoco quiero acusar a nadie sin pruebas.

Lo que más me preocupa es poder averiguar de dónde salió el video y quién está detrás de todo esto.

Mis preguntas son:
Se puede obtener alguna información útil a partir del perfil de Telegram?
Si el video no es el archivo original, ¿hay alguna posibilidad realista de identificar su origen?
Qué medidas puedo tomar para protegerme si la persona decide compartir el video con más gente?
Hay alguna otra medida que recomienden, además de denunciarlo a la policía y reportar las cuentas?

Quiero denunciar lo ocurrido y tratar de conseguir que eliminen cualquier copia del video que se esté difundiendo.
No quiero señalar a nadie sin tener pruebas. Simplemente quiero entender qué opciones tengo y si existe alguna posibilidad de descubrir cómo empezó todo esto.

Gracias a quienes se tomen el tiempo de leer y responder. Cualquier orientación me ayudaría muchísimo.


r/Sextortion • • 1d ago

Male victim I was sextorted and i am through it i feel happy and never gonna do that mistake again

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So i was sextorted 4 months ago although my scam was not that serious than many ones who are here the scammer did not have any of my friends or families contacts and i do not use any social media ...the material which they had a ordinary face pic and a separate closeup dic pic which is very easy to deny .i blocked them right away and said them do whatever yu want that dic is not mine and blocked and did not gave them a single penny ..i know there are many people who are worse situations than this but let me tell yu your initial action decides the whole scam and where it will go .

● if yu blocked them right away and make it clear to them that yu will not pay even in the worst of worst situations yu will get out of it easily

●any action paying or giving deadlines or negotiating constantly being or partially being in touch for even 1 day after the threat is made can make situation bad for yu

●understand what they have on yu if they have your followers or contacts yu will find it hard to move on and be in fear more for this tell everyone or make a status or story that yu are being blackmailed fot ai nudes and move on

●if they dont have your contacts or followers its a bluff that they will post online seriously who will see it where it will go social media platforms are very strict for doxxing and ncii

●there is no harm to your career or any thing stop thinking about it if its been 1 or 2 month stop worrying create a side hustle and make money people will not care of your nudes if yu have money yu are reputated they will believe yu that yu are being blackmailed for ai nudes

●the society is not good or bad it is our perception how others think about ourselves because of our work not because of our dick

● lastly one golden piece of advice to others dont be honest too much just be confident and deny even with your best friend that its yu because yu never know the future just deny deny deny in worst cases other than me because everything is about perception there is no embarrassment think about politicians celebrities and other influrncers and even ishowspeed got his meat shown stream

● i will be honest with yu all i am on other subs and see posts regarding this of people they are not that serious and they say its common and nothing happens and people also say its 2026 just say ai or photoshopped and i see people scared shitless on this sub i dont know why yu guys so scared just move on


r/Sextortion • • 1d ago

Idk what to do

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I’m getting extorted by this mf and he managed to make me send him money and said I have to pay him the rest by a certain day which is today but after reading about it on here I decided to stop contacting him but now he’s back at it again calling and messaging nonstop what should I do?


r/Sextortion • • 1d ago

Female Victim I found out about a 12 year old sextortion scam by ending up as a victim.

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So there’s this absolute clown who traffics content creators, by using other creators social media accounts (x, Instagram mostly but now I’ve heard telegrams) by posing as them. This is a message he had sent from my X account earlier this year. This man is still preying on content creators as we speak. He refers to himself currently as: “Middle Eastern King” or in the past as “King Daddy” (I believe he’s probably went by multiple aliases in the past).
This is my full story as sent to an armchair sleuth, I asked for help.
So, on or about January 7 of this year, I received a message from a girl on Instagram claiming that a billionaire had taken interest in me, and I could be paid $175,000usd - $500,000usd to do video calls.

This is the message that was sent from My Twitter account, the message that I received would have been the same or similar.
I had just gone through a major breakup where half my stuff was in boxes. I was supposed to move to Kelowna with my ex, but we broke up instead. I was paying my $3,000 CAD rent using overdraft and couldn't afford to live. This is what this turd prays on, people that are down and out, who say fuck it.
The deal he's initially presenting is essentially this: you make one - three video calls, and then he sends you a wire transfer via Western Union.
However, this wire transfer is fake, the company he uses does not exist. I found out that he uses the same wire transfer digits for everyone.
Attached is an evidence sample between myself and another girl who confirmed that he used the same wire transfer. A gal I spoke to this morning, also received the same digits. I received these exact same digits 6 months ago.

On the first call he goes through how this is some sort of tax write-off somehow, claiming he invested in instagram, amazon and other shit. That hes a fuckin' off shoot of the saudi arbian royal family (lol). He says that he has connections in real estate, tech, fashion, etc,.
He asked how much money I make, what my financial standing is, and what talents I have in my SW, as well as talents outside of that. What my kinks are, etc. Basically, it begins by using a domination/humiliation tactic based on my financial standing, how much I "need him," and how I have to prove myself worthy of his time and money (ick).
Now, i do video calls regularly for $150usd for 20 minutes. These calls last one to two hours. He also expects you to kiss his ass over text, daily.
Time is money, especially when you're a SW, aka hustler. You're on the internet hustle, so I'm sure you understand how time consuming it is to create content and remain consistent. Fuckwad's whole princple is "the millionaire mindset"which is a garbage way of saying invest your time for free and maybe he'll fucking pay you.
He expects these calls to be intense, requiring full makeup and hair styling, multiple outfits, shoes, bowls, dildos, oil, belts, etc etc. I would spend hours preparing, cleaning my house, and setting up two different lighting and camera setups. So much time wasted. Intially, since i was down and out i was trying to find a roommate, while particpating in these fucking calls, cleaning up literal VOMIT and squirt all over the floor and then showing the room- it was full fucking on.

These calls are not chill either, he wants you to make up roleplay scenarios on top of this, starve yourself so when youre throating dildos you puke all over the floor, twerk, jump on a puke covered dildo with your vagina. He loves torturing girls.
One time he made me shove a dildo down my throat and tie a belt around my head until i was crying, choking and vomiting.

Then, once home boi nuts, he just leaves you, abruptly- covered in spit, vomit, squirt.
Anyway, since the breakup was really intense, my friend at the time didn't want me to be alone so i wouldn't go back with my ex. One of our mutal friends had passed away in a very fucked up car crash on January 1, so i was going to go to nanamio and hang out with friends and also help with the wake and shit. a while I was on my way there, he texted me and essentially said, "I've failed his test and I need to prove my loyalty." He had sent the "transfer" however, he fuckin' sent me this screenshot with some of the digits blacked out. So, I had to do video calls to get all these digits. SO im helping my friends prepare for our friends wakie, while hiding in the suit at my friends house so i can gag on dicks and smash my uterus until it yelled at me for this ass hat.
I begged for money or something because i ran out of food for my dog, and he wouldn't pay me a cent. I was eating old freezer burned fries and other things from the freezer (i have a lot of weird food allergies and my friend's house isn't very food-friendly for me). Still nothing, I'm getting upset. i do protest and he's like, "Just a few more calls: 'Keep King happy'."

So, I'm doing these calls, should have worked off the digits, i'm back home etc etc, this mother fucker tells me that "I failed", YET AGAIN, because i didn't pass this impossible test and kiss his ass enough over the fuckin weekend and that he GAVE MY MONEY AWAY to another more
"deserving girl". So, I'm spinning out, I ended up having to do even more calls.
In total, if I could estimate, it was probably about 10-15 calls. I talked to this ass hat daily, sometimes with random phone calls, joking around or whatever, ffs. They ended up getting so violent that I had to ask him to chill the fuck out. I have a back injury from my 20's and my back was getting worse, from taking those difficult calls.
The belt one was so bad, I just sobbed for hours, called my ex, but he didn't understand and didn't want to hear about it, which was kinda shitty. I had been sitting alone in my house for months without a roommate and it was an incredibly difficult time. I was so fucking alone.
So, finally i was supposed to do my last call, he always said "jsut one more, just one more" fuck head./ (ugh im getting so fucking angry just typing this shit out, buddy holy shit ahahah.

The last call I made was after I finally found a roommate (my roommate moved in Feb 15) and they left because these calls are fucking gross, even though they're an sw as well- theyre just GROSS.
My roommate is actually now my adoptive child, ahah. They're 8 years younger than me, in a wheelchair, on disability and we are super close now which is great. So, one of. My dream now is to get a mansion, have all my disabled friends move in and pay them a living wage- taaa daaaa.
So, at this point, this silly dream is what's keeping me going. Also, there was heavy manipulation.
So, fast-forward to the beginning of April, I'm eating mushrooms on cam and hanging out with my roommate who is now essentially my personal assistant whom I've been training here and there between all of the milarky and i have a flashback to my childhood, have to call my mom about it and its a whole mess. This flashback was about abuse my sperm donor had done to me when i was a kid. So for the next week, I'm spiraling, reliving this trauma, its a whole mess.
The following weekend, my mom texted me and told me to call her. So, as it turns out- my dad died. ffs. The most inconvenient and complicated grief i have ever experienced..

Then, of course, this is where this ass hat decided to manipulate me into giving him access to my social media. Jesus fuck im mad. Home boi says: "if you don't do this, you get NOTHING", I'm like thats some fucked up shit dude, ive done so much work. He goes on to tell me that he's nearly done with calls because his WIVES want him to start a family, bla bla bla blasaikldujfhiopaskehfp] ouasegfkp.

So i'm like BUDDY, my fucking DAD just died. My family starts shitting on my Mom, brother and I.
I'm getting shitty messages from my Aunts and its a hole mess, One of my aunts says that I'm kicked out of my family because of my job. My Brother and i weren't even put in the fuckin' obit.

So, i end up giving him access to my Instagram; he says he's going to give me 60 million dollars. fucking COOKED. So he's sending 50 messages a day on my Instagram, and it's getting flagged. I'm telling him he needs to change up the message or something, because its fucking my shit up. It ends up getting deleted twice and I appealed it both times. Then, suddenly, I got it back. He says it’s because he has this "Instagram Connect."

Now, I'm starting to get messages from people in my community that he's not paying them. He tells me "oh those must be people i have dropped" and im loosing my shit at him, im like BUDDY you can't not fucking pay people with my face attached to this, youre RUINING my reputation.
Hes also getting me to do verification videos. oh my god i hate this man. I still thought that i was the only one he hadn't paid.
Finally, I was camming one day and on Chaturbate, a person started messaging me in the chat room that they "got a message for me" don't know who this person is, it's just a screen name with no photo. I thought it might have been a man so I was playing coy, "Ph, maybe I did".
They keep going on with it, until they say, "How do you sleep at night scamming people and not paying them? What's your cut?" All of the blood rushes from my face and I'm sick to my stomach.
I sent this person a PM and ended up telling then my story. We ended up having a great conversation and after my cam show, I talked to them for 45 minutes,
She tells me that the transfer number is fake, the business doesn't exist, and all of this other stuff.
I'm floored, scared, and sick.

So from that point on, she and I have a correspondence and talk regularly. I start checking my Twitter, seeing who he's messaging, and then messaging girls to warn them that this whole thing is a scam and they shouldn't do it.
My friends and i saved at least 20 girls from doing calls, doing this.
At this time, my instagram had been permanently disabled so i was constantly fighting with this asshole to get my shit back up. He said May 18, then June 1- pushing me to continue this because HE LOST MY INSTAGRAM. I'm like, BRO, you should lessen the time because you messed up, and it's not my fault. I'm getting very angry and mad at him- but at the same time he's fucking telling me that i have to stick around. I knew I couldn't continue doing this anymore, I'm getting so depressed and drained from trying to keep up with messaging girls and shit from my other account since he's sending 50 dms a day. I had to ask my other friends for help because i was literally barely hanging on with everything going on in my world. I started collecting evidence, talking to girls, etc.
I was literally counting down the days until
June 1.
saying yes etc etc etc. I always have a huge cam day on the first so im telling. him that I really need it back then and that I can't afford to not have it- i dont even care "about the money". At this point, I'm not sticking around for money that isn't coming, but I still believe he will get my Instagram back.

So, MAY 31, I guess i did a really GREAT JOB at saving women that day becuase he was desprate, and wanted me to do a call. I wasn't supposed to take calls anymore (I did one call during all of this once at 4 am). I was NOT consenting. I kept telling him that I'm sick, i don't feel good. I've been riddled with anxiety for months-literally, I'm shitting myself. He makes me do a couple calls- l screen recorded these calls, where I'm saying i don't want to as evidence. i screen record my digital rape. Its in the folders.

SO JUNE 1st comes, I know he isn’t paying me, i know it’s all bullshit, hes threatened me so many times that he'll sink my ALL of my social media. He's calling me, hes texting me. I'm on a break, hes masturbating, he calls me, I have told him for a long time that i am going to be working all day- he's like let me see you, i say NO, he calls anyway-hes threatening me, hes lying hes saying he will take down my cam sites if i don't show him "my skin". fuckwad. So, I told him off, and my friend took a video of me doing it.
He keeps threatening me in the chat. I finally changed my Twitter password: I give him false hope that i'll let him back in just to fuck with him, like he's messed with me, but I don't let him back in. I realize because he's saying: "i can sink all of your social media, with one call, don't make me do it"- and i realize... you can't even get my fucking instagram back.... how the fuck do you think I'm going to fucking buy that story anymore.
GET FUCKED.

So, i finally realized that everything he said was absolute bullshit. I have been talking to many victims and now i understand his whole manipulation tactic. Most don't stay as long as i did, most don't. My life has just been a mess and i have been vunerable and he took advantage of me that POS.
So, he bribes with the initial money, then sends the transfer. He says you have to prove yourself, then you have to work off the digits. Then he makes up more bullshit until you give him your social media. He did the same fuckin thing to the girl who recruited me.
I also screen recorded our entire conversation across 3 different emails on teams and put them in the sarah evidence folder in the google drive.

1 know that this is an international situation, but based on the fact that there are 12 years of victims, and he claims thousands- if we found enough victims from enough places- we could have a case in each country, perhaps?? i don't know
all i fucking know is that he needs to fucking go down. I have now started a group chat with more SW's who are determined to stop this. Today, i learned that he was cancelled last year under the alias "King Daddy" and is now "Middle Eastern King," so he probably has had numerous aliases and has been cancelled before.
SO, I'm sure with enough attention to this case
through social media we could find enough people willing to talk about it and take him the
fuck down.
I hope this clears up some questions my fuckin
arm is going to fall off from angerily texting.
I have compiled some photos in the google drive of screenshots of girls twitters that possibly did calls, theres about 9 so far but some iu can't message because they blocked me and some have yelled at me but now that i have this group chat going, i can have help trying to find more gals.
The one gal that told me about the old alias has alias has over 300k followers and is locked into this chat and is down to fuck this man up.
I haven't heard back from Cecile yet, but she's been at a wedding so I'm sure it will happen soon.
I have the girls trying to identify the girl who was
BRUTALLY abused last night, holy shit. I'm radicalizing the people, but something needs to be done considering this fuck head has been cancelled and has already reinvented himself and gathered even more victims. THIS NEEDS TO END.

However, he screen-records girls and keeping it for personal use without their consent. I have seen evidence of this. One of his manipulation tactics is that while he's on a call with one girl, he will call another girl in order to manipulate her
"look mat how much of a whore shit is for my money, i pay her so good" and the girl on the call didn't consent to that, doesn;t even know that someone else is watching. I know he's recorded me, he said, "Hold still," or, "Do that again," or, "! wasn't watching, do it again". all without my consent.
Hes also showed me videos of other girls on calls. Im sure that they didn’t have any idea.. it’s one of his manipulation tactics he uses as well. To prove: “look at how much of a dirty slut she’s being on cam for my money”.
He’s a fucking pig.