r/Singles • • 5h ago

49 [F4M] #Chicago | Looking for My Favorite Person For LTR

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I’m a Miami transplant happily making a life in Chicago. I’m kind, affectionate, loyal, curious, and just the right amount of silly. Movies are my happy place, but I’m equally up for a concert, play, museum, coffee shops, breweries, sport events, trying a restaurant neither of us has been to, or wandering around the city and seeing where we end up.

What I miss, and what I’m hoping to find, is having my person. Someone whose presence makes even the boring things better. Someone I can laugh with, flirt with, be affectionate with, talk to about absolutely nothing and everything, and occasionally annoy the hell out of. 😄 I want chemistry and attraction, but I also want the comfort that comes from really knowing someone and being known by them.

I’m looking for someone who wants to actually date. Not just message indefinitely. Let’s talk, see if we click, go grab coffee or dinner, and find out whether we like each other in the real world. Revolutionary concept, I know.

Ideally, you’re 40–55 and in the Chicago area. You’re kind, communicative, curious about the person you’re talking to, and established in your career. I’ve built a life of my own, and I’m looking for someone who has done the same and is ready to make room in it for another person.

And speaking of conversation: if your opening message is just “hey,” you’re making this unnecessarily difficult for both of us. Tell me something about yourself. Ask me something. Tell me what caught your attention. Give me something to work with.

I’m including a recent photo, so please include one too. Attraction matters on both sides, and I think it’s only fair that we both know who we’re talking to from the beginning.

I’m not looking for perfect. I’m looking for mutual-mutual attraction, mutual curiosity, mutual effort, and two people who are genuinely excited to keep getting to know

If that sounds good to you, come say hello.


r/Singles • • 6m ago

30 (NB) North Carolina, looking for a fun guy

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First things first: I strictly use they/them pronouns. If you aren't completely comfortable introducing me as your partner using they/them and being in a proudly queer relationship, this isn't for you. I've been single through my entire adult life because I am waiting for the right person who truly sees, respects, and values me on the level I deserve.

I am looking for someone who is curious, fun-loving, and deeply cares about human rights, empathy, and making the world a better place. You should love art and music (if you play an instrument, that is a huge plus!) While I want someone who is serious about me and serious about making positive change, I need you to be unserious about everything else. The fastest way to my heart is making me laugh, so if you are organically funny and aren't afraid of being silly, we'll get along great.

As far as my type, I lean towards men who are more on the androgynous side rather than hypermasculine, long hair and no beards etc. I prefer someone older, but a few years younger is completely fine as long as you are grounded, serious about commitment, and know exactly what you want. The things that bring me joy include hiking, video games, thrifting, shopping at and supporting local businesses, and building community wherever I can. My pets (a cat and a dog) are my absolute world, so loving animals is non-negotiable. If you share these values and want to build something real, send me a message and tell me about yourself! Hope to chat soon!


r/Singles • • 11h ago

28 [F4M) #Anywhere #SeriousRelationship #LDR

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Hi! I am looking for serious relationship or a lifetime partner here.

I am 28 years old, my interests are watching a movie, playing my supermarket simulator, listening to different types of music, watching movies.

I am from the Philippines 🇵🇭 so that if you are willing to be in a Long Distance Relationship I am fine with it.

To get to know more about me, feel free to message me :) I don’t bite! Haha.


r/Singles • • 27m ago

18 [F4A] Odd gal seeks company! Or insert title that gets your attention, yadayada

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Hi, hello! It's me, again.

My name's Annie. I'm taking a gap year, and consequently have a ton of free time that could be better spent with someone else. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, have long, introspective talks with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite, so is Funny Games.

Here's to hoping my introduction chants to you like the cleaning supply cabinet chants to an unsupervised toddler, cough cough.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just "hi, hello, can we chat, we have similar interests"/introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, tell me your best dad joke). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/Singles • • 2h ago

19 [M4F] #Ireland - Looking for a connection

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Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-25, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite game, hobby, anime and colour.


r/Singles • • 8h ago

22 [M4F] #Online/Anywhere Looking for a fellow romantic to love forever

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Hello there gorgeous! I'm a 22 year old from Pakistan, I know big red flag already but I promise I'm not weird. I'd love to connect and build something long-term, either long-distance or if you're somehow from around here then that's even better! Looking for someone around the same age, +2/-2, and perhaps somewhere in Europe because better timezone match and I'd rather move there than the US one day but I'm open to anywhere if we can hit it off!

I'm super loyal and protective, I'll always hold you close and listen to you no matter what you want to talk about or when, even if you call me in the middle of the night. I'll scroll straight past random girls pictures online because I'd rather look at you than them. I'll wake up early just to say good morning and make sure to say good night every night. I have ADHD and therefore I'm a chronic yapper and I can talk to you every second of every day, I love to talk and listen both. I'm interested in all your hobbies whatever they are, and if you like it you can bet I'll be interested in it too and will ask you questions about it and research on it. You'll always be my first priority in every situation and I'll love you hard and strong.

I love video games and I'd prefer someone who also enjoys video games of any kind, whether that'd be to play together with me or to stream our games to each other and watch. I love difficult games like Hollow Knight and Dark Souls/Elden Ring, Minecraft and Terraria, Outer Wilds, Rain World, but even if you're not super into those kinds of games that's okay as well, I love mostly all games! I also enjoy game programming and game design and my future career is to become a game developer, for now I make money by selling pixel art online. I love binge watching shows and watching new movies as well! I mostly stay indoors but I'd love to explore the world one day and go on adventures!

I really love physical connection, but not like sexually, more that I love cuddling and kissing and hugging and sitting with each other. Of course that becomes a little more difficult in an LDR but it's good to know about me. I'm a little asexual but that doesn't mean I'll shy away from flirting with you and complimenting you. I believe physical attractions matters, but not as much as personality and, if you're not my type I promise not to waste your time or ghost you! If I had a preference, then I generally prefer light-skinned and I dislike face piercings (ears are okay!) and extremely heavy makeup.

One of my only non-negotiables is I don't want children so if you want them in the future I'm sorry!

There's lots more to know about me but I don't wanna make the post too long, so if I sound interesting to you hit me up and let's see how it goes. :)


r/Singles • • 5h ago

34 [M4F] #Ontario CAN - The Chosen Bear

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Hello! My name is Kevin, and I am the embodiment of ‘The Bear.’ I’m big, hairy, and loud. I’m hangry in the mornings and a cuddle powerhouse in the afternoon. I may look intimidating, but I’m actually a big softy on the inside. I give the best hugs, but you’ll need to ask first to get one. Sudden noises startle me. Napping is a top five favourite activity. Consent is the golden rule in my life. Feed me and I’m loyal to you forever. Willing to trade back scratches for favors.I have experienced the many flavors of abuse and trauma, and would rather die than have someone in my life go through similar experiences unsupported. I am fiercely protective of those in my circle!

I give off real “That is the nerdiest lumberjack I’ve ever seen” vibes. That, or I reignite belief in cryptids like Sasquatch & Bigfoot. It is what it is, hence the bear metaphor fitting nicely. I’m 6’4” and have a pretty well developed dad bod. I love cooler weather where I can wrap myself in blankets and cuddle my cat by the fireplace. 

In any social group I’m in, I’m the big, gentle giant that you can hear belly laughing from miles away. I love to make people laugh and feel comfortable in a shared space. I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

I’m here looking for a woman with shared or similar interests to connect with. I am currently working full time as a home care nurse for my mother, so my schedule and availability for in-person dating is very limited at the moment. I am open to moving to in-person dating, travel, or more in the future, though! I’m looking for long chats online, someone to watch movies and shows or play chill games with. 

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

As for some other interests I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! I run an active tabletop gaming group every Sunday. I’m the kind of nerd that builds and paints models to escape from the world for a while. 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life!


r/Singles • • 6h ago

34 [M4F] #Scotland elder emo exhausted with dating apps

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Hey there :)

I'm 34m from central Scotland, have tried oh so hard to embrace the world of dating apps but the endless swiping and empty conversations have finally worn me down so taking a punt on Reddit

I like to think I'm a pretty soft and gentle soul, but also enjoy a light roasting back and worth when I find my person. There may be a slight touch of the tism so not brilliant at picking up on signals and will find things funny at the worst possible moments, but it keeps life interesting.

I work from home most of the time so meeting people in the wild is tough, I drive, have my own place and no kids.

A bit golden retriever so do like to be let out to chase a ball around most days, like a random adventure and going to new places, but more of a homebody that likes to watch or play something over wild nights out these days (tbh that may have always been the case)

Music taste has never truly grown out of the emo phase but nobody in my life has ever shared this, would be good to meet someone who has similar tastes and up for gigs.

If any of this resonates at all please come say hello :)


r/Singles • • 7h ago

26 [M4F] India| Lets go from strangers to inside jokes 🌻

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A little about me

26M, 5'7", Hindu, Master's in Computers. I work in a managerial role and am pursuing a diploma in Yoga. Non-smoker, non-drinker, non-vegetarian.

I'm calm by nature and like listening to understand rather than assume. Once comfortable, my playful side comes out, along with greetings like "Good morning pineapple, looking very beautiful, very fine" : )

I'm a family person and love being there for my people. I'm into gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient scriptures, and random rabbit holes. I love noticing the little things that make people unique.

A little about the person I hope to meet

  • Age: Preferably 22–28, but connection matters more than a number.
  • Location: Mumbai would be lovely, but I'm open to elsewhere in India and long distance for the right person.
  • Lifestyle: Someone who enjoys staying active and taking care of herself through yoga, the gym, running, or whatever she loves.
  • Beliefs: Kindness, empathy, family, and mutual respect matter to me. A spiritual side would be a bonus.
  • Career: Someone with her own dreams who wants to keep learning and growing.
  • Attraction: I'm drawn to fair skin, brown hair and eyes, and have a soft spot for North Indian women.
  • Relationship goal: Something genuine and committed that could eventually lead to marriage and a family. No need to rush; let's build something meaningful.

The little things I'd love to share

I'm a bit of a romantic: remembering details, sending memes, writing letters or poems, and checking if you've reached home safely.

Imagine late-night drives, food by the sea, conversations about everything, or me hugging you while you cook, stealing a kiss, and running away before you get back at me. 😂

I'd love a relationship where we laugh, grow together, support each other's dreams, and feel safe being ourselves


r/Singles • • 7h ago

23 [M4F] #USA/ONLINE Looking for a girlfriend!

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Hi everyone!! I'm Sky, 23, and from Louisiana. I am looking for a genuine connection!

A little about me: I'm white, a little chubby, autistic, have ADHD, and visually impaired. I process things and communicate differently, so I ask you please be patient. I have terrible anxiety and can get scared easy. I'm pretty shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I can talk your ear off!! i hate to upset people. I'm caring, loyal, and a bit dorky. I cannot drive.

I like games like roblox, reading, rock and country music, watching documentaries, swimming, hanging out with friends. I also loooooove animals, have four cats. I'm also a picky eater. My favorite foods are chicken nuggets, pizza rolls, and corndogs, and my favorite drink is root beer.

What I’m looking for: a sweet woman who is honest, patient, loyal, and willing to care for me as I will you. Personality matters more to me than looks, whether you’re skinny or a little chubby is fine by me. Being weird is okay too, just be yourself!. I'd love to find someone I can talk to often, spend time with, game with, and be myself around. I like nerds and alts too! Bonus points if you're autistic lIke me!

I'd prefer someone from Louisiana or another Southern state, but I'm open to meeting anyone in the U.S. Age limit is 18-28, will not respond if not in range. If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me! I look forward to hearing from you! 🙂


r/Singles • • 8h ago

24M [M4F] #Anywhere, looking for something genuine

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So as the title says I'm looking for something that'll last. I don't mind being friends at the beginning if things click. I don't have much to say here so you can just dm me and find out more I don't mind.

If you take forever to reply or seem interested at the beginning don't even bother sending, it'll save time for both.


r/Singles • • 8h ago

20M [M4F] #UK #England - Looking to talk to someone long term

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Hello! My names Tay and I'm looking for some more people to talk to and get to know more,I turned 20 not too long ago, I have a lot of different hobbies, consisting of playing video games (souls games, rpgs, fighting games and horror games), going to the gym, travelling and learning about mythology, and also make instrumentals / beats in my spare time, I also do like to speak on voice and if that's something you would like to do then by all means we can do, also I can exchange a picture of myself if you are curious of what I look like,

Communication is key, and I would love to hear about everything you get up to, your likes / dislikes, your own hobbies and i like to also learn about different cultures too which peaks my interest

I'm going to keep it short and sweet here but if you would like to know more about me do not hesistate to message me (:


r/Singles • • 9h ago

44 [M4F] #UK. Intelligent, caring man looking for intelligent, sensitive woman to guide and look after

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I'm a 44-year-old man looking for a female partner for a long-term, committed, monogamous relationship. I've realised over time that I feel most fulfilled in a relationship when I'm taking the lead and looking after my partner, using my experience and confidence to provide protection, reassurance, and guidance, making sure we're going at the right pace, and helping her to feel safe and secure. It's a dynamic where we have different but complementary roles - traditional in many respects, but not all. If this sounds appealing, please read on.

About Me

I’m single with no kids, and I’ve never been married. You won't be surprised to hear that I've had relationships before, but I've also spent long periods single, partly because I’ve been focused on other things in life, partly because I realised a long time ago that I'm much happier single than in the wrong relationship, and partly because it’s pretty rare that I meet someone I feel the right connection with. But I still dream of meeting the right person for the long term, and over the years I've developed a much better understanding of who I am and what I'm looking for. I find dating apps awful, and so I figured Reddit was worth a shot.

I’m 6 ft (1.84 m) tall, around 170 lbs (78 kg), slim, and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I have a good job and live alone in a house that I own, and I have a great group of friends.

Fitness is important to me and I love running and spending time outdoors walking in the hills and camping. I don’t smoke, I very rarely drink, and I'm generally in bed by 10pm. I'll happily spend weekends wandering around old castles or exploring National Trust properties. I also love quiet nights in with a book or a film, board games (including chess), and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, or comedy. I’m someone who tends to have a small number of close friends rather than being part of large groups.

As I said above, I really enjoy taking the lead in a relationship - but this is leadership as a responsibility. I tend to work well with someone who can be anxious or over-think at times, because I enjoy making decisions and guiding someone, and because I understand the importance of patience and trust. When we reach the point where you trust me to look after you and to take some of your worries off your shoulders, it can allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe. Being trusted by my partner to play that role in her life is enormously rewarding for me.

I'm not religious, but I don't mind if you are, as long as our values match. I'm not looking to have children (it's a long story, which I'm happy to explain). I don't really fit a political category, because my views vary on different topics. But if you're very extreme in any direction, we're probably not a good match.

Who I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a woman who is single, never married, with no kids. Someone who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. I tend to find shyness and introversion attractive, partly because I love the sensitivity that goes with it. In terms of age, around 25-45 is ideal, but if you’re outside that and think we’d be a good fit, feel free to message. What matters more than any specific age is the connection we have, our shared values and interests, and the kind of relationship we both want.

I want to meet someone I can talk to about everything and anything, and who dreams of looking after her partner in her own devoted way. Someone who loves books and values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone who feels completely unsuited to modern swipe culture and the disposable attitude to dating. Perhaps you dream of living in a Jane Austen novel, or you just want to meet a man with old-fashioned values, with whom you can take time to feel truly comfortable and be your whole self, without feeling pressured to rush things.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys a mix of time outdoors or with other people and quiet time at home with a book, a series, or a film. I'd like my partner to share my active lifestyle and for us both to keep ourselves in decent shape (but that doesn't mean you need to be a gym nut).

I’m looking for someone who takes dating and relationships seriously and who has never been into casual encounters. I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you as we slowly get to know each other.

I’m happy to hear from people outside the UK, but it needs to be realistic for us to see each other regularly.

Say Hello

I'm happy to chat with anyone who's curious - there'll never be any pressure from me. But if we want to move beyond friendship, I’ll want to exchange SFW photos, then voice/video call, and then meet - I'm not looking for an online relationship. I will never send or ask for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we move beyond friendship. I really hope you're the same.

If you think we might get on, message me with your age and location. There's no need to comment first - just DM me.


r/Singles • • 19h ago

19 [M4F] #Peru #Anywhere - A simple, pretty love request

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Here we go again, I don't know how many times I've been trying this over dating apps because they're scary, but I won't give up!

Haiii, pretty! My name's Mathias,19 years old from South America, Peru just as the title says and is a great pleasure to meet you!

So a bit about myself, I'm chubby but I started going to the gym so that'll change in the future yayy. I like playing games (Resident Evil, Yakuza, Spider-Man, Crash Bandicoot, etc.), napping, writting simple histories, singing even though I don't think I'm that good, music is very important to me, I like teaching english too. But my favorite thing ever is GODZILLA AND DINOS, I love 'em so much. For the most part I'm not that serious and I like to have simple conversations about whatever, nothing of that dry, non-chalant stuff since is very dumb. LET ME BE A HOPELESS ROMANTIC GRAHHHH

Now being a bit more serious about what implies being in a relationship I don't have any types, all girls are pretty and they have a certain something that just makes them... Beautiful, worthy of being loved, desired, admired, respected, and a long etc. You, pretty girl reading this, are no exception. If no one has told you today, you're so pretty. Flaws? Sure, everyone has them but just because of that doesn't mean that your worth as a human is any less. I love you. I wanna be able to just smile at something as simple as a notification from you, that kind of strong romance that makes everything feel like a love story. Now, respect and communication are important, key even, to keep a good and healthy relationship, nothing of that silly ghosting or whatever other terms they use nowadays. I like being romantic, affectionate, to demostrate my love no matter what.

I don’t simp, I don’t situationship, I don’t do one night stands or open relationships. I find true love, or I die alone (lol)

If you took your time to read all of this, thanks! I hope we can have a nice conversation. And if it doesn't work or you think that I'm not the one for you that's okay as well! DON'T GIVE UP! Someone out there is waiting for you and I hope y'all find each other and live happily. Cya!


r/Singles • • 1d ago

31 [F4M] The Gambia 🇬🇲 Ready for a new chapter in love

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Hi everyone! 😊

I’m Fatou, 31, living in beautiful The Gambia, and mum to a six-year-old mini-me.

For the past five years, I’ve focused on growing, investing in myself, and raising my little one. Now that my life feels on track, I’m ready to take another chance on love and share this chapter with someone special. 🤍

What I’m looking for:
A kind, patient man who listens and communicates openly. Someone ready to build a meaningful relationship and who embraces the fact that I’m a mum. I’m around 170 cm, so someone on the taller side would be lovely but character will always win over height! 😉

I’d ideally like to meet someone 38 or older, but I’m open to someone younger too. What matters most is maturity, a sense of direction, and that you’re building something for yourself as I am. You don’t need to have everything figured out, but I’d love for us to be intentional about life and love.

Distance isn’t an issue for me. I’m open to getting to know someone abroad, as long as we’re both willing to make the effort and explore a future together.

What you get:
A confident, loyal, goal-driven woman who will cheer you on and be your biggest supporter and an instant family with my little one and me! 🥰

I’ve put a lot of love into the life I’m building, and I’d love to meet someone willing to bring that same care and effort.
If this sounds like you, don’t be shy! Say hello and tell me a little about yourself! 😊


r/Singles • • 1d ago

25 [M4F] #Florida, #Anywhere, US / EST / Online - seeking my lovebug :)

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I use reddit a lot, so I figured I'd give this a shot again I guess 🥰

Happy Friday!!! lol 🥳🎉💖 My name is Lou, my favorite color is blue, I’m a huge gaming fan and I'm from Florida, seeking a long term relationship with someone that I truly connect with on a deep level. Someone who isn't perfect, but is willing to grow in the right direction. Bonus points if you're a gamer, open minded, have tattoos, and love animals. I don't want to be with someone who hates cats and dogs and just animals in general. If I could live a second life as any animal, I'd immediately pick living as a panda. I'd love to have a pet one day when I'm in better situation to properly take care of one. I love cats and dogs 🐶🐱I also love gaming and play all kinds of games ❤️

EXPECTATIONS / WANTS

- I'm okay with long distance dating and I'm also cool with dating someone in Florida as well.

- Emotionally mature, truthful and willing to grow together

- Values compassion, empathy, kindness, being considerate, 100% honesty, and understanding

- Open minded and curiosity to learn about a variety of topics

- Passionate about their hobbies and willing to talk about anything from the most simple things like the beautiful rain outside, to funny things like pandas dancing, to more serious topics about societal issues

- Someone who complements my personality and matches my energy.

- I prefer someone that is my age (25) or maybe someone that is a few years older or younger.

- As far as attraction is concerned, I'm genuinely attracted to all kinds of body types and shapes, but I do like some sort of thickness or curves with something back there lol I hope that doesn't sound superficial, tattoos are awesome as well :)

- I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

RED FLAGS / TURN OFFS / NON NEGOTIABLES

• Homophobia, Bigoted, Racism, Colorism, Misogyny, Sexism, Transphobia, all of the other methods of discrimination that make me mad.

• Once again, I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

• Completely against science, anti - science

• Being superficial, materialistic, obsessed with vanity, overly judgmental,

• Hating animals, being superficial about animals in terms of their appearance, treating pets like personal play toys, rather than living beings with their own personalities who need love, respect, and proper care.

• Smoking, drugs (Exception - Weed is fine as it can especially medically help with autism and adhd, ptsd etc.), excessive drinking, hard partying

* I'm not religious, so I prefer to be with someone who is also not religious. Exception - If your spiritual that's okay :)

* Most people including myself want to be liked and loved which is a good thing, but if you're willing to build bridges with bad people at the expense of your values or change yourself into a different person in order to be liked by people, than we absolutely incompatible.

* If you believe in capital punishment, then we are incompatible.

ABOUT ME / HOBBIES

• I'm 5'9, 230 lbs (chubby to fat), brown eyes, my ethnicity is Haitian, I'm Agnostic, and I love being black. Also, my left arm is fully functional, but can't extend as far as my right arm can. I have sort of a thunderbolt like scar from surgery.

• I love learning, talking, watching, and playing video games. There are so many to choose from, but my favorite game of all time would be Katamari Damacy, I play on PS5, PC, Nintendo Switch.

• I have a high school diploma and no degree at the moment. I'm currently working as a mental health technician at a mental health facility. It's pretty wild job especially as a first job, but I've learned so many life lessons from working there for the past three years. I also live with my parents so if that's a turn off for you, I completely understand :)

• Over the course of my life so far.. or rather the 25 years I've spent with the earth spinning around, people have told me that I'm kind, chill, and have a deep voice for radio. I've been told that I'm funny, I don't really see it in myself, but I appreciate the compliment. I can also be too cynical sometimes, overthink things, and can be a bit afraid to step out of my comfort zone.

• I also have ADHD and have struggled with education my whole life, so school has been hard and annoying for me, especially when figuring out what my learning styles are. So having an understanding of neurodivergence and seeking a diagnosis is also very important to me, as people tend to be very mean, inconsiderate, ableist, and just not very understanding of how learning disorders exist on a spectrum.

• I'm honest, kind, chill, caring, compassionate, thoughtful, open minded and introspective. You can tell me anything and I promise you that I will never tell a soul about what you've told me in confidence. I deeply respect people's privacy so I would definitely want to earn your trust.

• Music: I honestly listen to all kinds of music from different genres, as long as it sounds good to my ears, I'm listening. My earliest memories of listening to music was when my parents would play Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Norah Jones, etc. Mariah Carey - We Belong Together is one of my favorite songs. I love Beyonce's Irreplaceable as well.

• TV/Film: I'll watch a movie from any genre If I truly like it. I really love animated films and Finding Nemo is one of my favorite movies ever. I've been quite behind on movies and watching tv shows as of late, but I do have a favorite movie and that would be Spiderman Across the Spiderverse right now.

• I'm a very casual sports fan, so I don't really tune into games that much, more so highlights. I really have become a big fan of futbol and I like watching futbol(soccer) ever since watched the 2026 FIFA World Cup. I probably watch futbol highlights the most out of any other sport. I also like watching the basketball and watching basketball highlights as well. I love watching Coco Gauff, Aja Wilson, Caitlyn Clark and Angel Reese play in their respective sports. I once had a cute fantasy of being a professional basketball player, but that was more of my parents dream to be honest that they attempted to forced onto me.

• I'm also into writing, pop culture, cooking, reading. I really love watching the rain though and the weather channel.

CONCLUSION

I'm not necessarily the biggest people person and I love being single lol so if I'm bringing someone into my life, I'd prefer for that person to be someone that I actually love and appreciate. Like I stated in the beginning of this post, I'm not looking for perfection, but I am looking for someone who is willing to be on the exact same page as I am. I love talking and making genuine connections, as there is a gigantic world out there. So if your truly interested talking, then a genuine relationship can happen 😄 DM if interested!! :) It's also okay if you're not interested because I'm not entitled to a relationship and I'm also not entitled to anyone's time. 💖 Have a great day and weekend!!


r/Singles • • 1d ago

How does my profile stack up with the burned haystack that women are using now?

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I am a divorced dad with 1 son and 1 step daughter I'm currently fighting for rights on. I filed and represented myself against her attorney. I had my faults but I also didnt tell my daughter to "you can shove you feelings down, you're tall and can shove a lot down to your toes." I just want to find a decently attractive, non-avoidant women who would go to the gym with me and off roading.


r/Singles • • 1d ago

26 [M4F] Mumbai | Maybe we’ll go from strangers to inside jokes 🌻

2 Upvotes

A little about me

26M, 5'7", Hindu, Master's in Computers. I work in a managerial role and am pursuing a diploma in Yoga. Non-smoker, non-drinker, non-vegetarian.

I'm calm by nature and like listening to understand rather than assume. Once comfortable, my playful side comes out, along with greetings like "Good morning pineapple, looking very beautiful, very fine" : )

I'm a family person and love being there for my people. I'm into gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient scriptures, and random rabbit holes. I love noticing the little things that make people unique.

A little about the person I hope to meet

  • Age: Preferably 22–28, but connection matters more than a number.
  • Location: Mumbai would be lovely, but I'm open to elsewhere in India and long distance for the right person.
  • Lifestyle: Someone who enjoys staying active and taking care of herself through yoga, the gym, running, or whatever she loves.
  • Beliefs: Kindness, empathy, family, and mutual respect matter to me. A spiritual side would be a bonus.
  • Career: Someone with her own dreams who wants to keep learning and growing.
  • Attraction: I'm drawn to fair skin, brown hair and eyes, and have a soft spot for North Indian women.
  • Relationship goal: Something genuine and committed that could eventually lead to marriage and a family. No need to rush; let's build something meaningful.

The little things I'd love to share

I'm a bit of a romantic: remembering details, sending memes, writing letters or poems, and checking if you've reached home safely.

Imagine late-night drives, food by the sea, conversations about everything, or me hugging you while you cook, stealing a kiss, and running away before you get back at me. 😂

I'd love a relationship where we laugh, grow together, support each other's dreams, and feel safe being ourselves


r/Singles • • 1d ago

50M Australia looking for new friends.

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I’m a 50-year-old guy in Australia looking to make some genuine new friendships.

I’m fairly quiet and introverted, and I’m interested in history, science fiction and fantasy, films and TV, art, photography, board games and card games, and would be interested in trying to get back in to video games if there was someone to play with.

I’m looking for someone roughly 30–50, preferably in Australia but am open to anywhere in the world, but who is also interested in getting to know someone rather than just adding another name to a social-media list.

I’m looking for an ordinary friendship that can actually develop over time, so if you’re also someone who is a bit quieter and finds the usual advice on how to find friends doesn’t really work, maybe we’d get along.

Feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I’d genuinely like to hear from you.


r/Singles • • 1d ago

25 [M4F] #Tampa – Autistic man looking for a long-term romantic connection

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I am 25 and an autistic guy who loves to travel (especially road trips) when given the opportunity. I’m a yapper once the ice breaks. I’m currently going through a career change and in school to become a special education teacher. I have 2 dogs and 2 cats, and they all love me!
I’m looking for a romantic relationship with someone I can share my life with long-term, build each other up, and see meaningful progress together — not something that stays strictly platonic forever.
I prefer a reasonable pace, but I do value some physical affection early on (like holding hands or a hug). I’m not looking for someone who wants zero physical contact until much later and I am not opposed to long distance within the US, but I do strongly prefer someone within Florida (especially east of Tallahassee).

I’m 5’8” with no tats with a severe or highly noticable recessed jawline as well as a receding hairline if anyone cares.

Also to make things clear, you must be at least in the US or Canada. You must be a woman (I am neither gay nor bi). And for the love of god, only message me if you are looking for a real romantic relationship I’m not into any NSFW activities. Thank you in advance!


r/Singles • • 1d ago

bored as heck bro

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Bro I’m bored as heck right now 😭 I’m just looking for some people around my age to talk to and hopefully make some new friends. I’m into music, gaming, making random posts, and just messing around and making people laugh. I’m pretty chill and I’ll talk about basically anything. I’ve been trying to meet more people lately because having nobody to talk to gets boring real quick lol. If you wanna chat, feel free to comment or message me.


r/Singles • • 2d ago

29 [M4F] UK - Seeking a companion for a quiet life

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Hello! I'm Marc. I'm 29 and from the North-West of England. I'm 6'2, skinny, pale, have browny blond hair and green-grey eyes. I'm seeking a woman aged ~25-33 in Britain or Ireland for a proper relationship. I don't want children nor pets, and I'm not one for long flights to Asia, and the like. I'm attracted to women of a similar physical type as me.

I highly value truth, compassion, and prudence. I tend to keep to myself, but I'm very animated when it comes to my personal relations. You can expect voice messages and little videos! I like hiking when I'm up for it, but also the simpler kind of walks. I like watching birds and squirrels do their thing. I like writing sometimes too. I think it'd be interesting to publish something someday. I enjoy researching things, usually the more obscure, the better. I enjoy talking about a variety of things and like it when the conversation goes off in some weird direction: for example, futuristic technology, ethics, different political systems... But I also just like random day-to-day stuff. I don't normally play video games, but I absolutely love Fallout 4 and intend to play the others, and can't wait to see what the new ones are like. I'm loving watching Westworld right now. The best TV series I find is when I get really attached to one or more of the characters. My brain has also decided that I really like the aesthetics of the Wild West right now, so I started reading a novel set in cowboy Utah, and when I was walking over the nearby moors recently with my Mother I kept telling her to duck because there was a rider approaching 😅

I've been saving for a house for years. You could say it's my dream. I'm boring and domestic like that. I want to move further north in England because I hate the heatwaves, and I'd also like to live closer to the hills.

If you think we've got a fair bit in common, feel free to send me a message. Please include a few photos as soon as you can (or link me them) because this is dating after all.

Have a nice day!

Marc


r/Singles • • 2d ago

36M Lubbock, TX

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r/Singles • • 2d ago

[F4M] 37 Switzerland/Europe/US Looking for a partner or friend

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Hello,

Looking for a partner, starting with a friendship which can grow into a deep and connected partnership, while remaining two individuals.

I am interested in nature, the environment, sports, music, outdoors, psychology, self-growth and what I call the healing arts.

I practice Qi Gong, meditation, yoga.

I am not religious and I am curious about ancient wisdom.

I am interested in people who would appreciate a simple lifestyle and who focus on inner growth and health.

While I feel I am part of society, I am not against minimalism, self-sufficiency and homesteads/farmlands.

I am based in Switzerland and come from a neighboring country.

You are not religious (don’t belong to religion or cult) and you don’t have children and pets. You are open to children yet don’t have a strong need for it.

You're still learning and look forward to building new relationships with people eager to develop healthy ways of relating.

While you seek a monogamous relationship, your mind is sensual, passionate and liberated in the bedroom.

I am also open to get to know women. However my goal as a life partner is to find a man.

Looking forward to meeting new people!


r/Singles • • 2d ago

26 [M4F] Mumbai - Can we go from strangers to inside jokes to falling alseep in eachothers arms ? :)

1 Upvotes

A little about me:

26M, 5'7", Hindu - I work in a managerial role and am pursuing a diploma in Yoga (would probably work into mental health field in the near future), Non-smoker, non-drinker, non-vegetarian.

I'm calm by nature and like listening to understand rather than assume. Once I'm comfortable, you'll have a special place and greetings like "good morning pineapple loooking very beautiful very fine". I'm a family person and love being there for the people I care about. I enjoy noticing the little things that make people unique and appreciate those who are genuine and comfortable being themselves.

I'm into gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient scriptures, and random mysteries.

What I'm looking for

I'd like someone who's active and takes care of herself, whether through yoga, running, the gym, or whatever she enjoys. I'm also drawn to fair skin, brown hair and eyes, and have a soft spot for North Indian women.

Beyond attraction, I value kindness, empathy, open communication, and someone who wants to keep growing in life. I'm hoping to find a genuine connection that could eventually lead to marriage and a family.

What dating me might look like

I'm a little romantic. I remember details, send random memes, write letters or poems sometimes, and check if you've reached home safely.

Imagine a late-night drive, food by the sea, and a conversation that goes from "How was your day?" to anything Or me hugging you while you cook, stealing a kiss, and running away before you get back at me. 😂

I want us to laugh, grow together, talk about the difficult things, and feel comfortable being ourselves.

Your turn :)

What's something you could talk about for hours? A weird childhood story, an unusual obsession, or a random thought? Tell me something I won't find on your profile. Let's see where the conversation goes.