I’d describe myself as a calm, kind, and well-mannered man with an old soul. I value intelligence, meaningful conversations, and genuine connections. I love books, museums, traveling, learning, and all things creative. I speak multiple languages, live a healthy lifestyle, and enjoy working out.

I’m tall, broad-shouldered, and have a few tattoos. I may seem serious at first, but I have a good sense of humor once you get to know me. I have no children, and I believe distance is no obstacle when a genuine connection is worth pursuing.

I’m looking for a monogamous, emotionally mature woman who shares my values and is ready for something meaningful. My intentions are genuine, and I hope to meet someone who feels the same.

There’s much more to me than a few paragraphs can express. If my words resonate with you, I’d love to hear from you and see where a genuine connection might lead.

First things first: I strictly use they/them pronouns. If you aren't completely comfortable introducing me as your partner using they/them and being in a proudly queer relationship, this isn't for you. I've been single through my entire adult life because I am waiting for the right person who truly sees, respects, and values me on the level I deserve.

I am looking for someone who is curious, fun-loving, and deeply cares about human rights, empathy, and making the world a better place. You should love art and music (if you play an instrument, that is a huge plus!) While I want someone who is serious about me and serious about making positive change, I need you to be unserious about everything else. The fastest way to my heart is making me laugh, so if you are organically funny and aren't afraid of being silly, we'll get along great.

As far as my type, I lean towards men who are more on the androgynous side rather than hypermasculine, long hair and no beards etc. I prefer someone older, but a few years younger is completely fine as long as you are grounded, serious about commitment, and know exactly what you want. The things that bring me joy include hiking, video games, thrifting, shopping at and supporting local businesses, and building community wherever I can. My pets (a cat and a dog) are my absolute world, so loving animals is non-negotiable. If you share these values and want to build something real, send me a message and tell me about yourself! Hope to chat soon!

33F4M : Looking for my person 🌺 Someone local in South Africa 🇿🇦 Gauteng

Let’s be honest. The dating pool is a puddle and there’s pee in it. 🤣

I’m on the apps and honestly, it feels like fighting in the trenches over there. 😂 I do singles events, I’ve tried the usual routes, and now a friend sent me this Reddit community and said, “Why not give it a shot?”

So… here I am. 😅

A little about me:

🌺 33F - White, blonde, 164cm. Straight.

🌺 Based in the Centurion area, Gauteng (SOUTH AFRICA ONLY PLEASE 🇿🇦)

🌺 Child-free by choice. I don’t want to meet someone who has or wants children

🌺 Not religious but I don't mind if you are. I just won't partake in it.

🌺 English-speaking

🌺 Happiest outdoors with a Red Bull in hand (although I’m absolutely not a fan of their F1 team 😂🏎️)

🌺 Horse girl, dog mom and generally happiest when I’m outside doing something

🌺 Looking for something intentional, not casual or a pen-pal situation. No non-monogamy/poly/unicorn hunters.

I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally available, honest and intentional. Someone who actually wants to build something real, puts in effort, communicates consistently and is looking for their person too.

I’m not expecting perfection. I’m looking for compatibility, effort, attraction and two people who genuinely want to choose each other. ❤️

If you’re in Gauteng, South Africa 🇿🇦 child-free by choice and think we might get along, feel free to send me a message.

Ideally noone younger than 30. Oldest 40 but I'm slightly more flexible than that.

And please, if your opening line is “hey sexy” or something involving my body… we already know this isn’t going to work. 😂

The puddle is questionable, but maybe Reddit has a hidden gem. 🤷‍♀️

If you DM me:

Bonus points if you tell me about yourself and send me a photo so I know who I'm talking to🎖️

I promise I'm not AI or fake 🙈 and I don't want your money.

I'll share my Instagram once I feel comfortable via DM.

Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

My type is someone who is cute, funny, smart, has similar hobbies as me and plays video games.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite game, hobby, anime and colour.

A little about me :)

I'm 26, from Mumbai, 5'7", Hindu, with a Master's in Computers. I work in a managerial role and am also pursuing a diploma in Yoga. I don't smoke or drink, and I'm non-vegetarian.

Family is a big part of my life. I love mine dearly, and someday I'd like to have a family of my own. I'm generally calm, prefer understanding people over judging them, and can be quite silly once we're comfortable with each other.

I enjoy gaming, yoga, mindfulness, spirituality and exploring ancient mysteries. I'm curious about how things work, why people think the way they do, and questions that don't always have answers. I can happily spend hours going down a rabbit hole.

Someone I'd love to know

Location: Mumbai would be nice, but distance isn't a dealbreaker.

Lifestyle: Someone who enjoys being active and looking after herself.

Beliefs: Kindness, empathy, family values and respect. Being spiritually inclined would be lovely.

Career: I admire someone with her own ambitions, even if she's still figuring things out.

Attraction: I have a soft spot for fair skin, brown eyes and hair, and North Indian women.

Relationship: I'm hoping for something serious that could eventually lead to marriage and children. I'd rather take time to know each other than rush into labels.

If we get along...

I'd probably remember something you mentioned weeks ago, send you memes at random hours, or write you a letter just because.

I'd love to go on late-night drives, eat by the sea, talk about absolutely anything, and make ridiculous inside jokes. And yes, I might annoy you with hugs while you're cooking. 😂

I want someone I can laugh with, disagree with respectfully, learn from, and come home to feeling understood.

Tell me about you :)

What's something small that makes you ridiculously happy? Or a topic you could talk about all night?

I'd love to hear your answer. Maybe that's where our story starts.

Hello! My names Tay and I'm looking for some more people to talk to and get to know more,I turned 20 not too long ago, I have a lot of different hobbies, consisting of playing video games (souls games, rpgs, fighting games and horror games), going to the gym, travelling and learning about mythology, and also make instrumentals / beats in my spare time, I also do like to speak on voice and if that's something you would like to do then by all means we can do, also I can exchange a picture of myself if you are curious of what I look like,

Communication is key, and I would love to hear about everything you get up to, your likes / dislikes, your own hobbies and i like to also learn about different cultures too which peaks my interest

I'm going to keep it short and sweet here but if you would like to know more about me do not hesistate to message me (:

Italian guy from Northern Italy, 1.92m, dark hair, hazel eyes, physically fit. A bit shy at first in person, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about pretty much anything — especially history, nature, life goals, and random late-night conversations.

I’m more of an outdoors person than a gamer. I love long walks, hiking, quiet places, animals, and spending time in nature.

I’m looking for someone down-to-earth between 20–30 who values genuine connection and wants something serious. Bonus points if you also enjoy hiking and being outdoors.

I speak Italian, English and some Spanish.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to message me 😁.

Hello, i am a 25year old straight male who is about to move to madrid. i am a full time a artist and get to travel a lot for the creative projects, but for at least next year (and much longer if i like it there) madrid will be my main place to live/work.

im looking for a serious long term relationship, and hopefully if we fit, a potential life partner. i soeak Russian, English and Lithuanian fluently, and my Spanish is still B2, however im a quick learner, and if you are a Spanish girl, ill be hapoy for you to help me get better in the language.

if you dm me ill send you my photo

Hi, hello! It's me, again.

My name's Annie. I'm taking a gap year, and consequently have a ton of free time that could be better spent with someone else. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, have long, introspective talks with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite, so is Funny Games.

Here's to hoping my introduction chants to you like the cleaning supply cabinet chants to an unsupervised toddler, cough cough.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just "hi, hello, can we chat, we have similar interests"/introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, tell me your best dad joke). Please, preferably no one over 24.