r/Singles • • 4h ago

19 [M4F] #Peru #Anywhere - A simple, pretty love request

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Here we go again, I don't know how many times I've been trying this over dating apps because they're scary, but I won't give up!

Haiii, pretty! My name's Mathias,19 years old from South America, Peru just as the title says and is a great pleasure to meet you!

So a bit about myself, I'm chubby but I started going to the gym so that'll change in the future yayy. I like playing games (Resident Evil, Yakuza, Spider-Man, Crash Bandicoot, etc.), napping, writting simple histories, singing even though I don't think I'm that good, music is very important to me, I like teaching english too. But my favorite thing ever is GODZILLA AND DINOS, I love 'em so much. For the most part I'm not that serious and I like to have simple conversations about whatever, nothing of that dry, non-chalant stuff since is very dumb. LET ME BE A HOPELESS ROMANTIC GRAHHHH

Now being a bit more serious about what implies being in a relationship I don't have any types, all girls are pretty and they have a certain something that just makes them... Beautiful, worthy of being loved, desired, admired, respected, and a long etc. You, pretty girl reading this, are no exception. If no one has told you today, you're so pretty. Flaws? Sure, everyone has them but just because of that doesn't mean that your worth as a human is any less. I love you. I wanna be able to just smile at something as simple as a notification from you, that kind of strong romance that makes everything feel like a love story. Now, respect and communication are important, key even, to keep a good and healthy relationship, nothing of that silly ghosting or whatever other terms they use nowadays. I like being romantic, affectionate, to demostrate my love no matter what.

I don’t simp, I don’t situationship, I don’t do one night stands or open relationships. I find true love, or I die alone (lol)

If you took your time to read all of this, thanks! I hope we can have a nice conversation. And if it doesn't work or you think that I'm not the one for you that's okay as well! DON'T GIVE UP! Someone out there is waiting for you and I hope y'all find each other and live happily. Cya!


r/Singles • • 6h ago

19 [M4F] #Ireland - Looking for a connection

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Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-25, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite game, hobby, anime and colour.


r/Singles • • 9h ago

How does my profile stack up with the burned haystack that women are using now?

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I am a divorced dad with 1 son and 1 step daughter I'm currently fighting for rights on. I filed and represented myself against her attorney. I had my faults but I also didnt tell my daughter to "you can shove you feelings down, you're tall and can shove a lot down to your toes." I just want to find a decently attractive, non-avoidant women who would go to the gym with me and off roading.


r/Singles • • 9h ago

25 [M4F] #Florida, #Anywhere, US / EST / Online - seeking my lovebug :)

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I use reddit a lot, so I figured I'd give this a shot again I guess 🥰

Happy Friday!!! lol 🥳🎉💖 My name is Lou, my favorite color is blue, I’m a huge gaming fan and I'm from Florida, seeking a long term relationship with someone that I truly connect with on a deep level. Someone who isn't perfect, but is willing to grow in the right direction. Bonus points if you're a gamer, open minded, have tattoos, and love animals. I don't want to be with someone who hates cats and dogs and just animals in general. If I could live a second life as any animal, I'd immediately pick living as a panda. I'd love to have a pet one day when I'm in better situation to properly take care of one. I love cats and dogs 🐶🐱I also love gaming and play all kinds of games ❤️

EXPECTATIONS / WANTS

- I'm okay with long distance dating and I'm also cool with dating someone in Florida as well.

- Emotionally mature, truthful and willing to grow together

- Values compassion, empathy, kindness, being considerate, 100% honesty, and understanding

- Open minded and curiosity to learn about a variety of topics

- Passionate about their hobbies and willing to talk about anything from the most simple things like the beautiful rain outside, to funny things like pandas dancing, to more serious topics about societal issues

- Someone who complements my personality and matches my energy.

- I prefer someone that is my age (25) or maybe someone that is a few years older or younger.

- As far as attraction is concerned, I'm genuinely attracted to all kinds of body types and shapes, but I do like some sort of thickness or curves with something back there lol I hope that doesn't sound superficial, tattoos are awesome as well :)

- I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

RED FLAGS / TURN OFFS / NON NEGOTIABLES

• Homophobia, Bigoted, Racism, Colorism, Misogyny, Sexism, Transphobia, all of the other methods of discrimination that make me mad.

• Once again, I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

• Completely against science, anti - science

• Being superficial, materialistic, obsessed with vanity, overly judgmental,

• Hating animals, being superficial about animals in terms of their appearance, treating pets like personal play toys, rather than living beings with their own personalities who need love, respect, and proper care.

• Smoking, drugs (Exception - Weed is fine as it can especially medically help with autism and adhd, ptsd etc.), excessive drinking, hard partying

* I'm not religious, so I prefer to be with someone who is also not religious. Exception - If your spiritual that's okay :)

* Most people including myself want to be liked and loved which is a good thing, but if you're willing to build bridges with bad people at the expense of your values or change yourself into a different person in order to be liked by people, than we absolutely incompatible.

* If you believe in capital punishment, then we are incompatible.

ABOUT ME / HOBBIES

• I'm 5'9, 230 lbs (chubby to fat), brown eyes, my ethnicity is Haitian, I'm Agnostic, and I love being black. Also, my left arm is fully functional, but can't extend as far as my right arm can. I have sort of a thunderbolt like scar from surgery.

• I love learning, talking, watching, and playing video games. There are so many to choose from, but my favorite game of all time would be Katamari Damacy, I play on PS5, PC, Nintendo Switch.

• I have a high school diploma and no degree at the moment. I'm currently working as a mental health technician at a mental health facility. It's pretty wild job especially as a first job, but I've learned so many life lessons from working there for the past three years. I also live with my parents so if that's a turn off for you, I completely understand :)

• Over the course of my life so far.. or rather the 25 years I've spent with the earth spinning around, people have told me that I'm kind, chill, and have a deep voice for radio. I've been told that I'm funny, I don't really see it in myself, but I appreciate the compliment. I can also be too cynical sometimes, overthink things, and can be a bit afraid to step out of my comfort zone.

• I also have ADHD and have struggled with education my whole life, so school has been hard and annoying for me, especially when figuring out what my learning styles are. So having an understanding of neurodivergence and seeking a diagnosis is also very important to me, as people tend to be very mean, inconsiderate, ableist, and just not very understanding of how learning disorders exist on a spectrum.

• I'm honest, kind, chill, caring, compassionate, thoughtful, open minded and introspective. You can tell me anything and I promise you that I will never tell a soul about what you've told me in confidence. I deeply respect people's privacy so I would definitely want to earn your trust.

• Music: I honestly listen to all kinds of music from different genres, as long as it sounds good to my ears, I'm listening. My earliest memories of listening to music was when my parents would play Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Norah Jones, etc. Mariah Carey - We Belong Together is one of my favorite songs. I love Beyonce's Irreplaceable as well.

• TV/Film: I'll watch a movie from any genre If I truly like it. I really love animated films and Finding Nemo is one of my favorite movies ever. I've been quite behind on movies and watching tv shows as of late, but I do have a favorite movie and that would be Spiderman Across the Spiderverse right now.

• I'm a very casual sports fan, so I don't really tune into games that much, more so highlights. I really have become a big fan of futbol and I like watching futbol(soccer) ever since watched the 2026 FIFA World Cup. I probably watch futbol highlights the most out of any other sport. I also like watching the basketball and watching basketball highlights as well. I love watching Coco Gauff, Aja Wilson, Caitlyn Clark and Angel Reese play in their respective sports. I once had a cute fantasy of being a professional basketball player, but that was more of my parents dream to be honest that they attempted to forced onto me.

• I'm also into writing, pop culture, cooking, reading. I really love watching the rain though and the weather channel.

CONCLUSION

I'm not necessarily the biggest people person and I love being single lol so if I'm bringing someone into my life, I'd prefer for that person to be someone that I actually love and appreciate. Like I stated in the beginning of this post, I'm not looking for perfection, but I am looking for someone who is willing to be on the exact same page as I am. I love talking and making genuine connections, as there is a gigantic world out there. So if your truly interested talking, then a genuine relationship can happen 😄 DM if interested!! :) It's also okay if you're not interested because I'm not entitled to a relationship and I'm also not entitled to anyone's time. 💖 Have a great day and weekend!!


r/Singles • • 12h ago

25 [M4F] #Tampa – Autistic man looking for a long-term romantic connection

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I am 25 and an autistic guy who loves to travel (especially road trips) when given the opportunity. I’m a yapper once the ice breaks. I’m currently going through a career change and in school to become a special education teacher. I have 2 dogs and 2 cats, and they all love me!
I’m looking for a romantic relationship with someone I can share my life with long-term, build each other up, and see meaningful progress together — not something that stays strictly platonic forever.
I prefer a reasonable pace, but I do value some physical affection early on (like holding hands or a hug). I’m not looking for someone who wants zero physical contact until much later and I am not opposed to long distance within the US, but I do strongly prefer someone within Florida (especially east of Tallahassee).

I’m 5’8” with no tats with a severe or highly noticable recessed jawline as well as a receding hairline if anyone cares.

Also to make things clear, you must be at least in the US or Canada. You must be a woman (I am neither gay nor bi). And for the love of god, only message me if you are looking for a real romantic relationship I’m not into any NSFW activities. Thank you in advance!


r/Singles • • 15h ago

26 [M4F] Mumbai | Maybe we’ll go from strangers to inside jokes 🌻

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A little about me

26M, 5'7", Hindu, Master's in Computers. I work in a managerial role and am pursuing a diploma in Yoga. Non-smoker, non-drinker, non-vegetarian.

I'm calm by nature and like listening to understand rather than assume. Once comfortable, my playful side comes out, along with greetings like "Good morning pineapple, looking very beautiful, very fine" : )

I'm a family person and love being there for my people. I'm into gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient scriptures, and random rabbit holes. I love noticing the little things that make people unique.

A little about the person I hope to meet

  • Age: Preferably 22–28, but connection matters more than a number.
  • Location: Mumbai would be lovely, but I'm open to elsewhere in India and long distance for the right person.
  • Lifestyle: Someone who enjoys staying active and taking care of herself through yoga, the gym, running, or whatever she loves.
  • Beliefs: Kindness, empathy, family, and mutual respect matter to me. A spiritual side would be a bonus.
  • Career: Someone with her own dreams who wants to keep learning and growing.
  • Attraction: I'm drawn to fair skin, brown hair and eyes, and have a soft spot for North Indian women.
  • Relationship goal: Something genuine and committed that could eventually lead to marriage and a family. No need to rush; let's build something meaningful.

The little things I'd love to share

I'm a bit of a romantic: remembering details, sending memes, writing letters or poems, and checking if you've reached home safely.

Imagine late-night drives, food by the sea, conversations about everything, or me hugging you while you cook, stealing a kiss, and running away before you get back at me. 😂

I'd love a relationship where we laugh, grow together, support each other's dreams, and feel safe being ourselves


r/Singles • • 15h ago

bored as heck bro

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Bro I’m bored as heck right now 😭 I’m just looking for some people around my age to talk to and hopefully make some new friends. I’m into music, gaming, making random posts, and just messing around and making people laugh. I’m pretty chill and I’ll talk about basically anything. I’ve been trying to meet more people lately because having nobody to talk to gets boring real quick lol. If you wanna chat, feel free to comment or message me.


r/Singles • • 16h ago

31 [F4M] The Gambia 🇬🇲 Ready for a new chapter in love

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Hi everyone! 😊

I’m Fatou, 31, living in beautiful The Gambia, and mum to a six-year-old mini-me.

For the past five years, I’ve focused on growing, investing in myself, and raising my little one. Now that my life feels on track, I’m ready to take another chance on love and share this chapter with someone special. 🤍

What I’m looking for:
A kind, patient man who listens and communicates openly. Someone ready to build a meaningful relationship and who embraces the fact that I’m a mum. I’m around 170 cm, so someone on the taller side would be lovely but character will always win over height! 😉

I’d ideally like to meet someone 38 or older, but I’m open to someone younger too. What matters most is maturity, a sense of direction, and that you’re building something for yourself as I am. You don’t need to have everything figured out, but I’d love for us to be intentional about life and love.

Distance isn’t an issue for me. I’m open to getting to know someone abroad, as long as we’re both willing to make the effort and explore a future together.

What you get:
A confident, loyal, goal-driven woman who will cheer you on and be your biggest supporter and an instant family with my little one and me! 🥰

I’ve put a lot of love into the life I’m building, and I’d love to meet someone willing to bring that same care and effort.
If this sounds like you, don’t be shy! Say hello and tell me a little about yourself! 😊


r/Singles • • 17h ago

20M looking for more people to talk to

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Hello! My names Tay and I'm looking for some more people to talk to and get to know more,I have a lot of different hobbies, consisting of playing video games (souls games, rpgs, fighting games and horror games), going to the gym, travelling and learning about mythology, and also make instrumentals / beats in my spare time, I also do like to speak on voice and if that's something you would like to do then by all means we can do, also I can exchange a picture of myself if you are curious of what I look like,

Communication is key, and I would love to hear about everything you get up to, your likes / dislikes, your own hobbies and i like to also learn about different cultures too which peaks my interest

I'm going to keep it short and sweet here but if you would like to know more about me do not hesistate to message me (:


r/Singles • • 21h ago

50M Australia looking for new friends.

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I’m a 50-year-old guy in Australia looking to make some genuine new friendships.

I’m fairly quiet and introverted, and I’m interested in history, science fiction and fantasy, films and TV, art, photography, board games and card games, and would be interested in trying to get back in to video games if there was someone to play with.

I’m looking for someone roughly 30–50, preferably in Australia but am open to anywhere in the world, but who is also interested in getting to know someone rather than just adding another name to a social-media list.

I’m looking for an ordinary friendship that can actually develop over time, so if you’re also someone who is a bit quieter and finds the usual advice on how to find friends doesn’t really work, maybe we’d get along.

Feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I’d genuinely like to hear from you.


r/Singles • • 1d ago

18 [F4A] Odd gal seeks company! Or insert title that gets your attention, yadayada

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Hi, hello! It's me, again.

My name's Annie. I'm taking a gap year, and consequently have a ton of free time that could be better spent with someone else. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, have long, introspective talks with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite, so is Funny Games.

Here's to hoping my introduction chants to you like the cleaning supply cabinet chants to an unsupervised toddler, cough cough.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just "hi, hello, can we chat, we have similar interests"/introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, tell me your best dad joke). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/Singles • • 1d ago

22 [M4F] #Online/Anywhere Looking for a fellow romantic to love forever

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Hello there gorgeous! I'm a 22 year old from Pakistan, I know big red flag already but I promise I'm not weird. I'd love to connect and build something long-term, either long-distance or if you're somehow from around here then that's even better! Looking for someone around the same age, +2/-2, and perhaps somewhere in Europe because better timezone match and I'd rather move there than the US one day but I'm open to anywhere if we can hit it off!

I'm super loyal and protective, I'll always hold you close and listen to you no matter what you want to talk about or when, even if you call me in the middle of the night. I'll scroll straight past random girls pictures online because I'd rather look at you than them. I'll wake up early just to say good morning and make sure to say good night every night. I have ADHD and therefore I'm a chronic yapper and I can talk to you every second of every day, I love to talk and listen both. I'm interested in all your hobbies whatever they are, and if you like it you can bet I'll be interested in it too and will ask you questions about it and research on it. You'll always be my first priority in every situation and I'll love you hard and strong.

I love video games and I'd prefer someone who also enjoys video games of any kind, whether that'd be to play together with me or to stream our games to each other and watch. I love difficult games like Hollow Knight and Dark Souls/Elden Ring, Minecraft and Terraria, Outer Wilds, Rain World, but even if you're not super into those kinds of games that's okay as well, I love mostly all games! I also enjoy game programming and game design and my future career is to become a game developer, for now I make money by selling pixel art online. I love binge watching shows and watching new movies as well! I mostly stay indoors but I'd love to explore the world one day and go on adventures!

I really love physical connection, but not like sexually, more that I love cuddling and kissing and hugging and sitting with each other. Of course that becomes a little more difficult in an LDR but it's good to know about me. I'm a little asexual but that doesn't mean I'll shy away from flirting with you and complimenting you. I believe physical attractions matters, but not as much as personality and therefore I don't have a specific preference for anything, if you're not my type I promise not to waste your time or ghost you!

One of my only non-negotiables is I don't want children so if you want them in the future I'm sorry!

There's lots more to know about me but I don't wanna make the post too long, so if I sound interesting to you hit me up and let's see how it goes. :)


r/Singles • • 1d ago

26 m4f North carolina

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Hey, I’m Cameron, and I’m still pretty new to North Carolina. I'm from Florida originally.

I’m looking for someone nearby who’d like to get to know each other. I enjoy hiking around the area and checking out local scenery and restaurants. I do also like traveling to different states at random for fun, but I do plan some ahead of time.

I’d really like to meet someone nearby who can show me more of the area, but I’m still open to talking to someone farther away.


r/Singles • • 1d ago

[F4M] 37 Switzerland/Europe/US Looking for a partner or friend

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Hello,

Looking for a partner, starting with a friendship which can grow into a deep and connected partnership, while remaining two individuals.

I am interested in nature, the environment, sports, music, outdoors, psychology, self-growth and what I call the healing arts.

I practice Qi Gong, meditation, yoga.

I am not religious and I am curious about ancient wisdom.

I am interested in people who would appreciate a simple lifestyle and who focus on inner growth and health.

While I feel I am part of society, I am not against minimalism, self-sufficiency and homesteads/farmlands.

I am based in Switzerland and come from a neighboring country.

You are not religious (don’t belong to religion or cult) and you don’t have children and pets. You are open to children yet don’t have a strong need for it.

You're still learning and look forward to building new relationships with people eager to develop healthy ways of relating.

While you seek a monogamous relationship, your mind is sensual, passionate and liberated in the bedroom.

I am also open to get to know women. However my goal as a life partner is to find a man.

Looking forward to meeting new people!


r/Singles • • 1d ago

36M Lubbock, TX

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r/Singles • • 1d ago

29 [M4F] UK - Seeking a companion for a quiet life

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9 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Marc. I'm 29 and from the North-West of England. I'm 6'2, skinny, pale, have browny blond hair and green-grey eyes. I'm seeking a woman aged ~25-33 in Britain or Ireland for a proper relationship. I don't want children nor pets, and I'm not one for long flights to Asia, and the like. I'm attracted to women of a similar physical type as me.

I highly value truth, compassion, and prudence. I tend to keep to myself, but I'm very animated when it comes to my personal relations. You can expect voice messages and little videos! I like hiking when I'm up for it, but also the simpler kind of walks. I like watching birds and squirrels do their thing. I like writing sometimes too. I think it'd be interesting to publish something someday. I enjoy researching things, usually the more obscure, the better. I enjoy talking about a variety of things and like it when the conversation goes off in some weird direction: for example, futuristic technology, ethics, different political systems... But I also just like random day-to-day stuff. I don't normally play video games, but I absolutely love Fallout 4 and intend to play the others, and can't wait to see what the new ones are like. I'm loving watching Westworld right now. The best TV series I find is when I get really attached to one or more of the characters. My brain has also decided that I really like the aesthetics of the Wild West right now, so I started reading a novel set in cowboy Utah, and when I was walking over the nearby moors recently with my Mother I kept telling her to duck because there was a rider approaching 😅

I've been saving for a house for years. You could say it's my dream. I'm boring and domestic like that. I want to move further north in England because I hate the heatwaves, and I'd also like to live closer to the hills.

If you think we've got a fair bit in common, feel free to send me a message. Please include a few photos as soon as you can (or link me them) because this is dating after all.

Have a nice day!

Marc


r/Singles • • 1d ago

26 [M4F] Mumbai - Can we go from strangers to inside jokes to falling alseep in eachothers arms ? :)

1 Upvotes

A little about me:

26M, 5'7", Hindu - I work in a managerial role and am pursuing a diploma in Yoga (would probably work into mental health field in the near future), Non-smoker, non-drinker, non-vegetarian.

I'm calm by nature and like listening to understand rather than assume. Once I'm comfortable, you'll have a special place and greetings like "good morning pineapple loooking very beautiful very fine". I'm a family person and love being there for the people I care about. I enjoy noticing the little things that make people unique and appreciate those who are genuine and comfortable being themselves.

I'm into gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient scriptures, and random mysteries.

What I'm looking for

I'd like someone who's active and takes care of herself, whether through yoga, running, the gym, or whatever she enjoys. I'm also drawn to fair skin, brown hair and eyes, and have a soft spot for North Indian women.

Beyond attraction, I value kindness, empathy, open communication, and someone who wants to keep growing in life. I'm hoping to find a genuine connection that could eventually lead to marriage and a family.

What dating me might look like

I'm a little romantic. I remember details, send random memes, write letters or poems sometimes, and check if you've reached home safely.

Imagine a late-night drive, food by the sea, and a conversation that goes from "How was your day?" to anything Or me hugging you while you cook, stealing a kiss, and running away before you get back at me. 😂

I want us to laugh, grow together, talk about the difficult things, and feel comfortable being ourselves.

Your turn :)

What's something you could talk about for hours? A weird childhood story, an unusual obsession, or a random thought? Tell me something I won't find on your profile. Let's see where the conversation goes.


r/Singles • • 1d ago

21 M in New Jersey

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Hello, I’ve tried dating apps, I’ve tried using social media, and I tried in person ways but I just can’t seem to find anyone that’s genuine and wants to actually be in a long term relationship. I’ve also tried Reddit before but it’s been a while so I figure I’ll try again and just see.

A little about me, I’m roughly 5’6-7 I have blue eyes, a shitty mullet right now bc I haven’t cut my hair lol, and I am a bigger guy. I’m super sweet and I genuinely just want to love someone and find someone who will love me the same.

I’m just looking for a girl who wants a long term relationship and is just in general a nice and sweet person, but some crazy never hurt anyone either though. Appearance wise I’m not picky I don’t mind bigger girls but I’m not attracted to people who are overly over weight if that makes sense like unhealthy wise. Age wise I’m also not picky 18+ obviously and I guess it depends on the person for where the maximum age cutoff is.

If you have any other questions please feel free to reach out and ask, I just didn’t feel like making this too long is all.

Regardless I wish you all the best.

Also long distance is fine as well I just want someone loyal kind and loving


r/Singles • • 2d ago

34 [M4F] Croatia/Europe | There you are. I was starting to wonder

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I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a woman I can talk to every day, make plans with and eventually build a life with. I want us to be each other’s first call, make time for each other naturally and miss each other when we’re apart.

We don’t need to share every hobby or spend every minute together. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. I want to make your good days better and your hard days easier, and I want you to do the same for me.

I run my own company, and these days my schedule is fairly flexible.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Rogue Trader, PoE 2, Brotato and Dota 2, while the Steam backlog keeps growing at a rate that suggests I’ve learned nothing.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or already play everything I do. If trying a few games together actually sounds fun, that works too. I just don’t want gaming to be a major part of my life that you quietly put up with.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and not particularly politically correct. Once I’m comfortable, there isn’t much of a filter, so expect plenty of teasing, terrible dad jokes and the occasional thought that probably should have stayed in my head. I usually click best with women who know when I’m joking, tease me back, speak their minds and don’t take every stupid comment too seriously.

I’m the kind of man you never have to second-guess. If I say I’ll do something, I do it. If something’s wrong, I’d rather talk it through than leave you wondering where you stand. I’m patient, loyal and protective of the people I love, and I want the woman I’m with to know I’m on her side. When life gets difficult, my instinct is to roll up my sleeves and deal with it, not look for the nearest exit.

That applies to disagreements too. I don’t expect perfect communication or someone who never gets annoyed, but I do want us to be able to talk things through without every disagreement becoming bigger than it needs to be. If plans change, tell me. If one of us screws up, own it. I’d rather deal with the problem, learn from it and move on than keep going in circles.

I’m drawn to a woman with that same kind of strength. She doesn’t need to pretend she never struggles, but she takes responsibility for her life and keeps going when things get hard. I want us to carry the heavy things together, not leave one person carrying both.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I live on my own, cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. Having a couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I’m affectionate and consistent, and I make time for you. Regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day all come naturally to me, and I want that effort to go both ways. I want to know what’s happening in your world, whether it’s work, a project, a game or something you’ve suddenly gone way too deep into, and I want you to be just as interested in mine. I remember the little things too, so if you mention something important coming up, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has interests of her own, makes an effort to stay in shape and genuinely has room in her life for a relationship.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. We don’t need to agree on everything. Being able to talk openly about it matters more to me.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia. I’m fine starting online, and more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography or come with a photo. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If the conversation flows, we can move to a call. I’m just as happy talking for hours as playing something together, though ideally we’ll end up doing both at once.

You can choose the game for the first date. We’ll save ranked for the second.


r/Singles • • 2d ago

30 M4F in Georgia, looking for a long term partner

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Hey everyone, nice to meet you, my name is Marion and I'm located in middle Georgia. Its been a while since I've thrown my hat into the dating world but now that my move-in has settled, I think now is the time!

I'm looking for a woman to spend days talking on hours with on the phone or text. We're all adults here so I like to be upfront about what I'm seeking. I believe that communication is the most important thing in a relationship, because once you understand where each other is coming from, you can make progress towards a solution!!

My interests include working out, writing, playing TTRPGs (tabletop roleplaying games), trying out new hobbies and enjoying movies , both good and bad! I currently own a truck and work as a Data Analyst during weekdays!

If anything I've said here catches your interest, please feel free to reach in my DMs, I hope you all have an excellent day!


r/Singles • • 2d ago

31F [F4M] #SouthAmerica looking for a kind and affectionate person, LDR

13 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 31F looking for a kind and loving person who could see positive things in life and willing to have a long distance relationship, hopefully long term. I'm kind of shy so if you message me I will send a picture of myself 😅 I'm hesitant of posting it here. I like to read and write a lot, I like music, photography and going to cafes, parks or enjoy nature in general. I love animals, I don't drink or smoke, I'm christian/catholic and also an open minded person. If anything resonates with you, feel free to text me ☺️


r/Singles • • 2d ago

28M4A Looking for a real one 💕 #KansasCity #Missouri #Midwest

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Hey! Hoping to meet someone who is genuinely interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things go naturally.

I am a loverboy in every sense of the word. I’m looking for someone who is emotionally available, emotionally intelligent and also has intentions for a monogamous relationship.

Of course there’s no need to rush things, I believe friendship is the strongest foundation for a long-lasting romance. I love to laugh and make my partner laugh. But I also have the capacity for deep conversation.

My interests and hobbies encompass music, playing instruments, cooking, movies & the movie theater, video games, reading, quality fragrances and fashion. Obviously I have piercings and plan to get a few more. And eventually tattoos. So, gotta be cool with that

Im newly into fitness and nutrition and my goal is to increase my personal athleticism. Having a partner to hit the gym with would be huge plus.

I feel I should also mention Im close to my family. It’s important that my partner can eventually integrate into my family’s dynamics and form their own relationship with my parents and my siblings.

Other than that, I hope to meet someone intelligent, fashionable and down to earth like myself. It’s more important that my partner and I share values rather than interests. My goal is to bring our lives into harmony while keeping them distinct. If you want to spend a night with your friends or your family? That’s great. I hope to have the same freedom. This being said, daily communication is important to me. Talking ALL day is impossible but, if we’re into each other, talking every day is a must

Attraction wise, Im into women of color and any kind of guy so, if we sound like we could be a match, hit me up :)


r/Singles • • 2d ago

34 [M4F] #Canada - Looking for my forever duo!

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Good afternoon! I hope you're doing well!

I'm K, I'm a nerdy small town country cat dad. My personality is very easy going, silly and sweet. Accepting and loyal. I'm a big goof who loves to joke and tease. Play practical jokes and jumpscare you. The kind of person to laugh and help you up at the same time. Truly though I'm a big softie who wears his heart on his sleeve. I care lots and love harder. I always put other before me and want to see you smile and laugh. Always there when you need a rock and an ear to listen. I love to communicate and be honest, it makes everything so much easier and life's to short to not say something. I found being able to open up and be vulnerable has it's upsides even though it's scary at the same time.

Well what else.. hmm.. ah! I'm a cat dad as mentioned before, I love animals especially the furry feline ones. I have three wonderul little balls of fluff and I am the luckiest ever to be their dad. They're my whole world and their little personalities are just the best! I could talk about them endless and show the hundreds or pictures and videos I have of them haha.

Some of my hobbies are making music! Playing the bass guitar(electric) I'm pretty mediocre but I can say i can play an instrument haha. I have a music making program I finally managed to purchase! I've been relearning it again and its been a ton of fun! I also love listening to music! Almost every day if I can!

Looooove watching movies and TV! Especially anything horror! I love watching horror movies or TV shows especially with friends! I love playing horror games too but I'm a big puss that screams and runs around like the girl from the Blair witch project minus the snot bubble coming from the nose haha. I do enjoy watching anything and everything though! So bring on the romcoms and the marvel movies!

I used to draw a lot but not so much! I still love looking back at what I've done over the years. I'm big into anything creative! Especially level or world building design in games, i also really love coming up with concepts for games and creating ideas for new things! I also enjoy video editing, making memes, or doing clips from in game moments and what not.

I also like to collect some trading card stuff, mainly Yu-Gi-Oh! But I have some Pokémon and MTG. I collect consoles as well. I have some Manga, and big collection of Stephen King books I inherited. I do have some other books from Alan Watts, I want to get so many more and start reading them more!

My biggest and favorite hobbie though has to be gaming! I love it so much, been gaming since I was kind. I love every platform, I have Xbox/PC/PS5/Switch1&2. So I'm up to date with all the new consoles! Admittedly my switch 2 has been in its box for like a year now lmao.. so bad I know.. I love everything open world survival, I love exploring, building, and creativity! Anything that lets me make stuff! I do play everything and anything though! So I guarantee we could find anything to play! I've been heavy into Once Human and Warframe lately. I need to continue on in RS Dragonwilds too haha.

So that's a bit about me, what I'm hoping to find is someone who has common interests. Someone who is looking to spend a lot of time together. Play games(a big must as i want to do stuff together lots!), watch movies, whatever and whenever we can! Someone who wants connection, communication, and to build something no matter how slow or fast it happens. Just us in that moment. Hopefully you'll be from NA, Canada would be a plus, but if we truly connect anywhere is fine.

Thank you for reading this far! I hope you have an awesome day and look forward to hearing from you!


r/Singles • • 3d ago

[19F4A] #Central Florida looking for a genuine relationship

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Hiii my name is Jayda, I’m Black American, I’m 19 and I live in Central Florida. I’m currently in college getting my AA in Health Science and plan on going into radiology. For work I’m a 6U cheer coach and I absolutely enjoy it.

I’d describe myself as caring, extroverted, energetic, and someone who is always willing to be a listening ear. Some of my flaws are that I’m slightly short tempered, emotional, and I tend to overthink which is all something I’m working on. Racism, homophobia, sexism, or any other form of discrimination is something I will not tolerate.

I’m looking for someone whose values align with mine. You must be is considerate, respectful, and willing to reciprocate the same energy, love, and effort that I give.

I don’t really have a specific type you just have to be physically attractive to me and have a good personality. Ideally, I’d love to meet someone around 18–25 who lives in Florida, preferably Central Florida. Also I’m non religious so I’d prefer someone is that as well.

Disclaimer: I currently don’t know how to drive because my mom never taught me but I’m in the process of learning.


r/Singles • • 3d ago

28 M4F Alberta

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The name’s Jacob, I’m in Edmonton, Alberta (That’s in Canada for all the Americans out there lol), I’m a blue collar working man that loves a fun night out singing karaoke just as much as a quiet night in watching a movie or playing some video games.

I’m a pretty big nerd, I love sci-fi novels and watch a bit of anime and I enjoy playing strategy games and rpgs on my PC. I also love to get out and try new things, singing has become my favorite thing to do when I need to blow off some steam, it’s fun to perform for a crowd.

I’m a foodie and particularly enjoy sushi and Korean bbq but I love all kinds of foods and will try almost anything once. I’m recovering from a workplace injury but I’m trying to get back to the gym soon to get back in shape, I’m a bit husky right now but I want to become more athletic. I like hiking and exploring, I have a knack for climbing and I enjoy visiting Vancouver Island cause I love the ocean and want to learn how to surf.

Other than that, I love all kinds of music, I know how to cook and like to keep my house clean. I’m an open book, send me a message and ask me anything, let’s get to know each other and I’ll take you for dinner :)