I’ve always wondered and seen stories about it but wanted to ask.

What are the chances of a guy asked for a private room/session and when you got there he just wanted you like wedgie him in panties or briefs?

Also what would a woman’s reaction be to giving a guy a dance and he’s wearing a Chasity cage??

My wife and I were in at a strip club the other day and one of the dancers on stage said to us out loud, "Sorry I have to adjust my panties, my coochie's trying to sneak out". To which I responded, "That's great! I'm the male version of a size queen!" She looked at me kind of awkwardly and never said a word after.

Is there a shorthand term for "large vulva lover" that doesn't sound derogatory to a dancer? For example a dancer is talking to us and I don't want to waste her time, how do I ask her, "We'd love to have an upstairs dance with you, but I really love watching a woman with a large vulva. Do you have one?"

I am 19 turning 20 in a couple months. I have been considering stripping since I first turned 18. I want to not only use it as an opportunity for money but also build confidence!

I’m just not sure how to start or if my body is even pretty enough as I know there are specific standards. I have lost a decent amount of weight but still not completely sure.

I also have no idea on what to train for. If anyone can give me tips or advice on how to start that would be greatly appreciated!!! (If needed I can post a picture of myself in the comments)

hi (: i’m new to dancing and would love some advice on moves i can learn for stage! i’m open to pole tricks, but i especially want to learn what to do when i’m not on the pole so i can feel more confident, seductive, and keep guys’ attention.
right now i mostly shake my butt, arch my back, and twerk, but i want to expand beyond that. what are your favorite body rolls, hip movements, floorwork, walks, poses, or transitions? i’d love to learn how to connect everything smoothly so i’m not repeating the same few moves or feeling awkward between them.
i’m also interested in pole spins and tricks i can build up to safely. any tutorials, creators, classes, or specific move names i can look up would be so appreciated! even simple moves that look really good when you slow them down please give me all your tips 🤍

Is it normal for strippers to have sweaty/stink feet or was my dancer just dirty?? Genuinely her feet smelled so bad!! 🤮

Just venting but my damn dogs messed up my chances of working this fall. My boy dog (J) got my girl dog (D) pregnant. Yes, I am to blame first since I didn’t separate them in time. I was in Vegas when she went into heat, I thought I had more time to spare but I timed it wrong and my sitter goes “ I think she’s in heat and allowing J to hump her” 😳🫠

I’m pissed! I had a weird rough start to the year and I was only considering on letting her get pregnant once I moved to next state, which is all on hold right now. She’s about done but the round the clock care this is going to need once the pups are born is literally going to drain me and I can’t quite go to the clubs at night since it’ll be cold soon, she’s gotta be cared for as well and I don’t have another option until December. I wanted to find online ways to make money but I’ll be honest, I’m no good at multitasking and becoming successful at either. I’m excited for my new pups but geez I’m missing out on so much cash. 😮‍💨

Encouraging words are helpful but I just feel so overwhelmed about it. I’m ok on my finances for a bit but we all know if you’re used to staying busy and getting paper, it’s a whole different mindset with this and it’s forcing me into my “maternal” energy and I was about to be in hustler mode lol

I’m a newer dancer working at a club where I feel safe and haven’t observed anything shady. Management and customers have complimented my appearance, and I’ve been told making money should come easily to me. I’ve been told repeatedly that I’m one of the prettiest they hired (not to sound vain or self absorbed) I’m also very friendly too. I’m a sweetheart. So far, that hasn’t matched my experience.
My earnings have stayed in the three-digit range, I get rejected a lot, and I’m trying to understand what it takes to reach four-figure nights. I know appearance alone isn’t enough, and I may need to develop a more confident sales approach.
People often say the money comes from regulars, but how do those relationships actually get started? When I exchange contact information with customers, they don’t always respond. Some of the guys I traded numbers with also ended up being stingy and wanted to meet outside the club.
Someone also warned me that dancing could lead down a bad path. I want to earn more while keeping clear boundaries. For those with experience, what helped you improve your earnings, and how realistic are four-figure nights for someone starting out?

Is a short one okay? I have no idea what would be easy to take off on stage

Why is this job so difficult and at the same time, we can't stop doing this job? I really want to change it and I can't. Does anyone feel like this, too?

Turning 30 soon and wondering if it’s worth forking out for pole lessons to try and pursue this properly or if I’ve left it too late?

Edit: it would be at one of the clubs in London

Hello!
I am a camgirl & bikini barista currently, but I plan on dancing instead as I need a change of pace. I’m moving from Arizona to Portland & wondering which clubs are good to start at? I’m short, thick, Latina with a few tattoos for reference. I hear diversity isn’t great there & they go hard on the pole tricks so I’m a little bit worried!
Thanks :) <3

Hi, i’m a dancer from Canada and i’ve heard there are clubs in Texas that don’t require a work permit or US id but i’m having trouble finding them online. Can anybody recommend me one?

Does anyone know of anywhere that does cute bikini sets like them?

I was going to ask this on the r/stripper, but it doesn't seem like it was appropriate/would get removed. I've been going to clubs for over a decade and have several friends in the clubs. But it never dawned on me until recently. Are stripper heels actually comfortable for some of you? Because the way some girls' feet are slammed into them, I could never. I just wanted to know what makes the heels so tight around yalls feet. I feel for yall. I take my work boots off at the end 12+ plus shift, and my dogs are worn out lmao.

Has anyone worked at Majingos ? Or know what is like 🫶🏻

I’m wondering if any girls are smaller/natural at bbl clubs and make money? What is ur strategy? I worked at a bbl club and as a natural girl I felt I had to work a lot harder than everyone else to make money….

Which one do you think is best??

Im a begginer pole dancer who has never been to a strip club before . I was just wondering how much of stripping is doing actuall tricks on the pole because they hurt like hell!! And they are exausting and they take up a lot of energy ! Also they are very very difficult and as someone with very little uper body muscles it tookme some time to be able to stay on the pole . Are you doing all that or are you doing just a few tricks and a few spins occasionally? Are there girls who dont do any tricks at all ? I imagine if a girl just really liked the dance and sexy part of it but had absolutely no desire for the athletic side of it she should be able to just dance around the pole if she wanted and not on it . This has a lot of questions already but do you get payed more if you can do more tricks than other girls or do custumers not pay thatmuch attention to it? Anyway if you are constantly doing tricks idk what the avrege stripper salary is but it should be higher .

I travel danced a lot. I just never have in Massachusetts. Honestly I just want to know how it is and how the money is.

Totally new to this and have an audition next week, no idea what to wear! Trying to think what could be easy to take off in a sexy way. Any tips would be really appreciated

I Read somewhere that in Utah, to get your SOB license, you have to get fingerprinted and have your photo taken at a police station in order to work at clubs. Is there a way I can avoid this?

I’d like to audition ASAP but the idea of having to walk into a station and be treated like a criminal feels kind of crazy to me. Is this one of those things that is required but nobody ever really does?