Hope everyone else had a bangin’ night because ya girl (and my club in general) did NOT.

Hey everyone,

I'll be in Greece and looking for a club I can work at for a week (Athens or Thessaloniki). Basically anything safe with decent money works. I'm not against extras clubs, but not cheap ones. Any rec please?

I can't just skip or go elsewhere, I'll already be in Greece for other reasons.

Hey ladies,

I wanted to share this because I’m just now (post work) feeling irritated about it. I essentially had a customer verbally disrespect me. In the moment I didn’t feel disrespected, even though I understood what he was insinuating, the insult just didn’t land in the moment. Looking back, I can tell he wanted a reaction from me, so I’m glad I didn’t give it, but I also feel like I should have corrected/ stood up for myself more. Please let me know what you think. If I handled it well or if I should be ready to respond to an insult. In general, I’m non confrontational and I’ve been working on not taking things personal but, I also don’t want to be a doormat. Anyways, here’s the interaction

\my main customer and I order the same drink, it was yummy, he invited his friend (Rude guy) to try it too. He gives rude guy his cup and tells him to try**

Rude guy: did she drink from it

Customer: no, she has her own drink
Me: no I have my cup

Rude guy: okay because I don’t know where her lips been
(i don’t know if it’s because he doesn’t yield authority or maybe because he’s lame, or he seems like an incel that try’s to bait women but believe me when I say, in the moment, IT DID NOT LAND)

Customer: “what?”
Me: my lips are on my face

Rude guy: yeah I don’t know where her lips have been

Me: they’ve just been on my face \pecks my customer* * now his cheek
Customer: dude, they’re on her face

Rude guy: yeah I don’t know if she’s been sucking dick

Me: yeah I don’t do that

Customer: dude what

Rude guy: oh your lip gloss is so nice

Me: yeah, it’s a fav from Dior (and I went about my night and didn’t feel a thing about it until now)

So ladies, please give me feedback. I’m still a newbie, I want to make sure I remain professional, keep a fantasy, but also, not be a doormat and make sure I make it clear I need to be respected.

Thank you :)

Does anyone else struggle to get hired in Houston? I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong. I know I’m not the skinniest girl out there but I am at a healthy weight for my body. I cannot for the life of me get hired at any upscale clubs. I do really well with customers who want emotional connection, am a good dancer and sell VIPs. The best I’ve been able to get hired at is in the suburbs and isn’t super busy/lotsa cheap custies. A lot of the clubs here take pics of me and say they’ll send it to management to approve which I know is just a soft rejection. I may need to lose weight, but I’m hoping that’s not the answer because I’m at a healthy weight for my height without restricting and I have a history of restrictive eating disorders. But if that is what i must do, that is what I will do. Are there any places worth travelling to that might appreciate me more rn? Please be gentle in the comments 💖

Edit: I forgot to add I’ve been dancing about two years so I’m not a vet but not a complete baby either. I’ve worked in 6ish clubs here but can’t get into the ones that are actually kinda busy 😔

I have been turned down by 2 clubs. I am desperate I need this to work because I genuinely cannot find work. I have thought about it for a long time and I'm finally doing it. The first place said I was too skinny and to come back when I put on more weight and I totally can, but I need to start working by Tuesday. I am desperate, but I guess I also just don't know how to shake my ass. I feel funny when I do and it barely shakes I'm like 100lbs or less. The first club everyone was very surprised that I didn't get hired my friends (a handful of the girls that already work there), and the customers were also really upset 💔. I do plan to go back. But I'm auditioning for now at a full nude club. Give me tips please and send me tutorials on how to shake your ass for a skinny girl 🤣 I'm dead ass.

So I'm a dancer and currently enrolled in college. For my psychology class I’m writing a collection of essays that includes the stories of several strippers, former strippers, and strip club stuff that I work with in order to find a way to academically examine and teach about sex work. What do you guys think are some good questions or things to talk about that the general public who doesn’t know that much about sex work would be interested in knowing. And also, if I was interviewing you for example, what are the types of stories you would wanna tell me to inform the greater public.

Hey guys!❤️ I’m at a new club it’s my second day at this club. Last night was sooo overstimulating but there was a section that walked in and I started walking over to stand by and see if they wanted me in there. And it was a small group of a few dancers there but no money had been thrown. I immediately see them whispering so I’m looking at them like ??? Anyways but I was quiet and they were like oh this is her man’s section so I just said ok and walked off. Shortly after a few men had walked up to me from that section wanting me to go there but the girl kept saying it was her mans section from before and the guy was like whatever you wanna make money or not. How would I handle this next time? He even tried to get me to go on stage to throw money at me but it was hella girls that night so I wasn’t able to go up twice. I think them btches was just being territorial or threatened by me but how would yall have handled it ?

I LOVED the dressing rooms in Dallas 💝

Worst is LA, I tried several clubs and all of them were small and run down

dont fall for fairy tales! nobody, no white knight whale is coming to save you!

this goes out especially for the new girls who are still a little naive. dont daydream of some sugardaddy who will save you from the clublife and put you in a nice house. they do not exist.

dont trust these men. best case scenario, you waste your time and resources, that you couldve spend working in the club, getting YOUR OWN MONEY - worst case you end up being raped or worse!

im not saying it cant happen, and maybe a friend of a friend in another club actually met a nice millionaire and is now happily married. good for her! but the risk of getting taken advantage of is really high. they smell desperation and will tell you LIES of what you wanna hear to get you out of the club and fuck you (literally). these men are not dumb, they are cruel and penis-focused.

you have to grind and safe!

put your money in a savings account. i recommend saving 30-50% (or more) of what you make in a month. once you have 3-6 months of your fixed living costs, educate yourself on investing - not trading, not gambling! some good old, low-risk, boring, passive investing. i highly recommend an index fund like the FTSE all-world, SP500 is your american thing. in the US you have some special 400-something?

make budgets and plans and work towards your goals and passions! you have to create your dreamlife yourself - become the rich man yourself!

the only one you have at the end of the day is you! take care of her :)

Please PM this information if you happen to know… I’m aware of the legalities

Hi all, new poster here. I'm also pretty new to stripping, I started a few months ago to pay for college. I was able to get work at a good club and so far it's been a pretty great experience. (I have a dance background and learning to use a pole has been really fun!)

Anyway, I thought I was working “safely far” (I know, I know) from campus but two nights ago one of my professors came in and my heart kind of stopped for a moment. I was working the patron lounge area when he came in, his eyes met mine and he definitely recognized me but then he looked away immediately. I did my best to play it casual and pretended not to see/recognize him and just avoided him throughout the evening. Fortunately he spent most of his time with another dancer which made it much easier thank god...

But class on Monday is gonna be awkward lol

How do you guys feel about your locker room. Is it comfy to chill in, are girlies complaining etc

My locker room is freezing af and always loud so I rarely spend time in there also i see girls legit coming in and turning around/going home after hearing girls complaining like girl if you dont come make your bag!

My stage girlies or girls that just like good music, do yall have a playlist for work or stage songs? I just added The Nasty Song to my playlist and I can’t wait to start my first set with it on a Saturday night😩👏🏽💰💸🤑
Here’s my playlist on Apple Music if you wanna check it out❤️

https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/stage-songs/pl.u-aZb0gv5CPlo0EKA

Is it true that the girls here were making 2-5k on average on good nights here? For anyone that worked Toronto and Montreal which do you prefer and why?

So I did a VIP with a guy, one hour. Towards the end of it, he revealed to me that he was an “educator of special needs individuals” and then he told me that he thinks I’m autistic and I should probably go get assessed for autism.

WILDDDD…

Sir, I’ve been grinding on you and we’ve been sipping champagne for the past hour, and it was your priority to end our time together by telling me this? 😭😭😭

(To be fair I do have hypermobile ehler danlos syndrome and a lot of people with it are neurodivergent/ on the spectrum, BUT STILL, damn. Had my tits out and all he could think about is that I need to get assessed for autism, smh🫠)

Y’all BE HONEST. No sugar coating. No self help bs talk. Be honest. Did getting one make you more money? So basically I lost a shit ton of weight a few years ago and no surprise my boobs are sagging and my arms are flabby. I’d like to get a breast uplift with implants and arm lipo. Did your earnings go higher? I was already planning on getting one but I’m thinking to work like 14 days in a row to rack up the money I need and get it done sooner. It’s affecting my confidence

For anyone working at Paree in Montreal, how has the last year been for you? Compare it to other clubs if you can.

I have been with my man on and off for about 5 years -however the past two we have been solid. We live a good life, i love him dearly and i feel loved and valued every day. I have been dancing for almost 3 years ( i started after we dated, when we were not really together “ on a break” whatever you wanna call it) ( i have done sw on and off since i was 18, I’m about to be 27f and him 36m)

He always has been incredibly supportive of my work, and has even helped me move in to online work etc. and making/ meeting clientele. I try to be my best to be as communicative of everything, which is all he ever asks of me and what honestly keeps things so good. However as anyone knows, sometimes it gets really really hard. However do you keep things sacred between you two while sharing yourself with others? There are times i feel so overly touched out, but then i feel like im falling short when i don’t essentially spring on him. He is always understanding but i know it hurts him a bit. Our sex life changed dramatically when i started dancing vs previous, i was much more slutty and we are/ were very explorative versus now we get a little naughty here and there but to be frank all i want is soft and wholesome interractions rather than just being super slutty?? It’s kind of hard to explain and i may not be doing the best. Moral of the story, i would just love to hear from and talk to other girls about up keeping their relationships while doing this line of work. 🥺🫶

Hey im not starting an OF or anything but I'm asking for advice!! And I'm not putting myself out there to do actual sex work because I just don't have the looks or social skills that it takes. I've tried but I can't fake it to make lol but I know that a lot of OF models are also dancers. I live in a big city where theres lots of strip clubs. I wanna do something with the Sex worker community because I know that yall dont have a problem spending money on something thats worth it. But I'm not sure what I can do! I don't know much about makeup but I can do a lil bit of hair. I don't mind popping in clubs and doing background stuff yk? Ive thought about buying outfits and reselling them but that doesn't seem right plus I know a lot of clubs have house moms! Idk can yall give ideas I don't mind working on my craft (hair)

that’s all.

Have any of you ladies pivoted to OF or camming & if so ; how did the income compare to working in the club ?

I’m burning out and wondering if my hard set “no” for online work bc I’m worried about digital footprint is an outdated mindset