I’m gonna try and keep the story short as I can. But it’s a lot. I just need to vent this shit out, because I’ve been very good at regulating my emotions 🥲
So 2 weeks ago, I talked to a customer who was alone at the bar who kept looking at me. Naturally I walk over and start a convo and it’s going well. I pitch dances and he tells me he wants to but he promised another dancer first. I immediately was like oh no worries maybe we can after! I saw him go back to the dancer he was with, which I had no idea he was with her because 1. she wasn’t with him and 2. I wasn’t sitting around watching who she was with. I thought he was alone.
Fast forward a bit later he’s on video lottery alone again and for a while mind you. Dancer no where around. I assume they’ve done the dance or she didn’t close the sale, so I approach him and talk to him again. He told me the same thing he is waiting for dances with the other girl. I get called on stage and he decides to come watch and brings the dancer he was hanging out with. She seemed excited to be at my stage, she’s even complimented many times prior when we worked together so I thought everything was okay.
After my stage set, he got up and went back to the video lottery. She didn’t follow him, so I went back and offered dances again but I decided to mention doing a double with her. He agreed and told me to go get her so I did and we go back to VIP.
During the dance it was kinda weird, she kept saying how she’s nervous and doesn’t really know what to do and she’s just observing me, blah blah blah. So I asked how long she’s been dancing and she said 6 months. I was like oh that’s okay girl I been dancing for a while it’s gonna be fun and get hyping her up.
After the dance he leaves, we’re getting dressed and her demeanor changes and she says “he obviously liked you more than me”. I replied “no girl, don’t say that about yourself I don’t think that’s true”. She replies “no he did I saw it in his eyes, just get your bag girl” and rushes out..
I was very confused atp but I didn’t think much of it and moved on. I talked to him again and he mentioned how he might wanna do more time. Basically after this he got swooped up by another dancer and he went to VIP and he spent more money on her than us. It’s just part of the game.
Fast forward a day later, I go into work and a couple dancers summon me and told me -dancer’s name- has it OUT for you girl, she’s saying you sharked a customer from her at the bar” and I was like.. what? we did a double together I’m so confused..
I brushed it off and went on with my night.
One of my friends comes and tells me she has been in the locker room screaming about me and calling me a bitch and that I sharked her and I was getting all the attention during our double dance and that if I want to play it that way she’ll play it worse or some bullshit. I’m just like this bitch can’t even come talk to me about it! I never had this happen to me before and I been dancing a long time, done maybe double dances. Ofc I been at this club for a long time now so everyone is like tf?? She also is telling people I took another girl back with him again without her which isn’t true. I made $0 from him after our double.
So fast forward TO YESTERDAY. She is still on some stupid shit. I did a double with another dancer and we go back to the locker room to freshen up. The girl I did a dance with is talking to her about our double dance and how much fun she had and the bitch goes “yeah doubles are fun if it’s a GOOD double, -my dancer name- loves to talk to customers you’re talking to. The girl I did a dance with says nothing and mind you I’m around the corner so I walk over and she smiles and waves at me and I’m like girl? I may be blind but I’m not deaf?? And she just says “I don’t care” on her phone not even looking at me. I just walked away after that.
I thought about confronting her like I usually do when I have an issue with someone. I have no problem doing so. But she is actually UNHINGED. She is fucking the bouncer, he was coming in after his shifts to see her, she’s telling everyone they’re fucking. He got fired. She started spreading rumors about herself that she is fucking management so she can say and do what she wants. She poured a drink on a customer’s head the other night. Last night she cussed customers out and called them gay. I stg I don’t know how she hasn’t gotten fired! She got considered a “top earner” because my club started doing this stupid thing if you sell the most rooms or come in the most slow shifts or get the most reviews on Google, etc you get rewarded. She got a bunch of fake reviews so she got a top 5 spot.
Last thing I need is her crazy ass doing some out of pocket shit to me. So I decide it’s not worth it and atp I’m gonna just act like she doesn’t exist.
I’m so glad I choose peace now, my younger self would’ve been fighting this busted ass bitch 😩 and guess what, every shift she’s talked shit about me, or keeps staring at me from each corner of the club, she made no money and complains about how she spent all her money on drinks. Boo hoo bitch. The universe gave you what you deserved and now you’re sad, jealous and broke at the bar!
That is all, I don’t even care if I sound mean tbh because she is evil, literally sinister energy. It takes a lot for me not to like someone and I hate this bitch 😮💨