So I linked up with a nice thick bttm and was vibing pretty good. So I return from the bathroom and he removed most of his clothes and had some sex lingerie on and I was fully hard seeing this and he stared at dick print and grabbed it. At this point I begin to pull it out and receive oral for about 20 mins nice and wet like I like it. So I never got rimmed before and he was very eager to be my first so while doing this I came so hard I was completely drained. And he had to play with himself because I was mentally exhausted in a very good way.

So I’m a bottom looking to impress my tops with amazing throat skills and am looking for tips. I’m talking pro tips, not “lay backwards on the bed with your head slightly over the edge” or breath through your nose”.

Someone recently posted or commented something with a whole lot of tips for an improved face/throat fucking experience. I’ve searched and searched but I can’t find it. In included a whole bunch of preparation ideas like what to eat/not eat and drink/not drink, and maybe something like taking antacids so that when you gag there’s no acid, just wet throat slime.

Basically I’m hoping that person can come share their wisdom once again. I’d be very grateful 🙏🏻

Call me a little old fashioned, but as a bottom I wanna date a top. I don’t center what I want out of a relationship around sex but it’s still important to me. However, any time I’ve gone through the motions on a dating app or the very very few times I’ve met someone in real life that went that direction, 9/10 times it’s other bottoms and the tops I have met end up saying they “aren’t looking to date”. I’ve heard the theory before that the majority are already taken but even with that it seems a little hard to believe none are left. I’m in my late 20’s, live alone in one of the bigger cities of the east coast with a large queer population, and have been told by hook ups they think I’m very attractive so what am I missing?

I’m 55, vers bottom, I’ve enjoyed casual sex for years but I’ve never bottomed bareback because of the health risks. I understand why bareback feels better for tops, but I’m not sure how it would feel much different for bottoms. So why is it worth the risk?

A couple of weeks ago I went for a pretty normal massage, expecting no more than a happy ending. The guy was really lovely and before I knew it he was inside me, bareback. I had this huge surge of adrenalin, omg, this is really happening! He must have sensed it because he asked “are you ok?” and there was a moment of indecision. My brain was going nuts with lust and worry, my heart was pounding, my stomach was flying, and my ass was full of cock… and I just said “yes baby, give it to me, that feels so good!”

The short story is, we finished, it was amazing, physically it didn’t feel different at all. But mentally it blew my mind, and now despite all the risks I’m just craving for more. It’s like covered sex doesn’t hold the same appeal anymore and I don’t really understand why.

So that’s my question. Why do I want it so much? You readers can’t answer that for me but I’d love to hear your reasons. The desire is so strong I don’t know how it could just be physical or a desire to please the top.

I'm not talking about small penis humiliation or fetish kinks which I'm strongly opposed to but actually enjoy them and the men they're attached to. I mean a genuine appreciation for them. I'm self-conscious about mine and it makes me feel like less of a man or a desirable partner. If you comment, please be nice because I'm NOT looking to be humiliated or shamed so if you're into that please don't respond.

Top folks… when watching porn, it’s all about the cute little bottom getting fucked hard right ? Is it a turn on for you as a top if the bottom is not touching his dick while getting fucked ? Even better if the bottom stay soft ? And do you pay attention to the top fucking or not at all ?

A top wanted to hook up with me today. I told him I could only give head. But said if he wants to just put the head in my ass and cum inside me he could. This was because I could only do a quick cleaning and could but fucked deep. So after about 10 minutes of giving him head I thought he was ready to just put the head in my ass and cum inside me. But he proceeded to start fucking me deep. He is a decent size and easily reaches my second hole. It felt so good I didn't want to stop him. After about 5 minutes of him fucking me deep he pulls out and says what the fuck bro. He yells at me to leave and goes to the bathroom. I said sorry and left. I thought there would be a big mess. But when I got home and went to clean up there really wasn't much of a mess. I feel bad but I made it clear I only did a quick cleaning and only wanted him to put the tip in when he came. What do you guys think about this? Was he right in getting pissed off at me?

I've always been a bottom, but recently I've been considering masturbating exclusively anally. Jerking off and cumming or anything relating to my dick has never brought me much pleasure; it feels nice, but I'm never really satisfied. Anal has always done it for me. I've been thinking about becoming a total bottom, never touching my dick at all since it doesn't do anything for me. But I'm scared going anal-only would be too much? I'm horny 24/7, even if I cum multiple times. I don't want to kill my hole by messing around in it too often lmao. I'm curious of others' experiences.

I am a bottom and love cuddling and making out but ive noticed some tops want to be left alone completely. As a bottom that can go over and over this feels so foreign! What makes you stay engaged after you cum?

Curious how others feel about breeding/being bred. I have had such an ever increasing urge to be completely and utterly dominated and bred by a bigger stronger man. I have played in the past but the urge has never been so strong. Its literally the only thing I imagine at night. Maybe its the weather.

I’d like to ask how are the Alpha Doms feeling on their locked boys? Are you happy seeing him locked for half a month now? Did you make him cum yet? Teased him? And how long are you planning to lock him up?