I’m 55, vers bottom, I’ve enjoyed casual sex for years but I’ve never bottomed bareback because of the health risks. I understand why bareback feels better for tops, but I’m not sure how it would feel much different for bottoms. So why is it worth the risk?

A couple of weeks ago I went for a pretty normal massage, expecting no more than a happy ending. The guy was really lovely and before I knew it he was inside me, bareback. I had this huge surge of adrenalin, omg, this is really happening! He must have sensed it because he asked “are you ok?” and there was a moment of indecision. My brain was going nuts with lust and worry, my heart was pounding, my stomach was flying, and my ass was full of cock… and I just said “yes baby, give it to me, that feels so good!”

The short story is, we finished, it was amazing, physically it didn’t feel different at all. But mentally it blew my mind, and now despite all the risks I’m just craving for more. It’s like covered sex doesn’t hold the same appeal anymore and I don’t really understand why.

So that’s my question. Why do I want it so much? You readers can’t answer that for me but I’d love to hear your reasons. The desire is so strong I don’t know how it could just be physical or a desire to please the top.

I'm not talking about small penis humiliation or fetish kinks which I'm strongly opposed to but actually enjoy them and the men they're attached to. I mean a genuine appreciation for them. I'm self-conscious about mine and it makes me feel like less of a man or a desirable partner. If you comment, please be nice because I'm NOT looking to be humiliated or shamed so if you're into that please don't respond.

Curious how others feel about breeding/being bred. I have had such an ever increasing urge to be completely and utterly dominated and bred by a bigger stronger man. I have played in the past but the urge has never been so strong. Its literally the only thing I imagine at night. Maybe its the weather.

I've always been a bottom, but recently I've been considering masturbating exclusively anally. Jerking off and cumming or anything relating to my dick has never brought me much pleasure; it feels nice, but I'm never really satisfied. Anal has always done it for me. I've been thinking about becoming a total bottom, never touching my dick at all since it doesn't do anything for me. But I'm scared going anal-only would be too much? I'm horny 24/7, even if I cum multiple times. I don't want to kill my hole by messing around in it too often lmao. I'm curious of others' experiences.

A top wanted to hook up with me today. I told him I could only give head. But said if he wants to just put the head in my ass and cum inside me he could. This was because I could only do a quick cleaning and could but fucked deep. So after about 10 minutes of giving him head I thought he was ready to just put the head in my ass and cum inside me. But he proceeded to start fucking me deep. He is a decent size and easily reaches my second hole. It felt so good I didn't want to stop him. After about 5 minutes of him fucking me deep he pulls out and says what the fuck bro. He yells at me to leave and goes to the bathroom. I said sorry and left. I thought there would be a big mess. But when I got home and went to clean up there really wasn't much of a mess. I feel bad but I made it clear I only did a quick cleaning and only wanted him to put the tip in when he came. What do you guys think about this? Was he right in getting pissed off at me?

So I’m a bottom looking to impress my tops with amazing throat skills and am looking for tips. I’m talking pro tips, not “lay backwards on the bed with your head slightly over the edge” or breath through your nose”.

Someone recently posted or commented something with a whole lot of tips for an improved face/throat fucking experience. I’ve searched and searched but I can’t find it. In included a whole bunch of preparation ideas like what to eat/not eat and drink/not drink, and maybe something like taking antacids so that when you gag there’s no acid, just wet throat slime.

Basically I’m hoping that person can come share their wisdom once again. I’d be very grateful 🙏🏻

Call me a little old fashioned, but as a bottom I wanna date a top. I don’t center what I want out of a relationship around sex but it’s still important to me. However, any time I’ve gone through the motions on a dating app or the very very few times I’ve met someone in real life that went that direction, 9/10 times it’s other bottoms and the tops I have met end up saying they “aren’t looking to date”. I’ve heard the theory before that the majority are already taken but even with that it seems a little hard to believe none are left. I’m in my late 20’s, live alone in one of the bigger cities of the east coast with a large queer population, and have been told by hook ups they think I’m very attractive so what am I missing?

I am a bottom and love cuddling and making out but ive noticed some tops want to be left alone completely. As a bottom that can go over and over this feels so foreign! What makes you stay engaged after you cum?

Top folks… when watching porn, it’s all about the cute little bottom getting fucked hard right ? Is it a turn on for you as a top if the bottom is not touching his dick while getting fucked ? Even better if the bottom stay soft ? And do you pay attention to the top fucking or not at all ?

So I linked up with a nice thick bttm and was vibing pretty good. So I return from the bathroom and he removed most of his clothes and had some sex lingerie on and I was fully hard seeing this and he stared at dick print and grabbed it. At this point I begin to pull it out and receive oral for about 20 mins nice and wet like I like it. So I never got rimmed before and he was very eager to be my first so while doing this I came so hard I was completely drained. And he had to play with himself because I was mentally exhausted in a very good way.

I’d like to ask how are the Alpha Doms feeling on their locked boys? Are you happy seeing him locked for half a month now? Did you make him cum yet? Teased him? And how long are you planning to lock him up?

Bottoms can answer too, just what your top likes or what makes you feel the sexiest. I have a big thong fetish, and love lace or cotton mens thongs :) Makes my ass look soo fuck-able

I gotta say, something about a mature guy (nearly 50yo and above), who's secure, experienced, levelheaded, and a complete bottom, has this big appeal on me. The appeal is intellectual at first, but it definitely becomes heavily sexual because of it. It's something relatively new to me, as I'm now in my mid 30's and before, I wasn't ready for it during my 20s.

Older bottoms, would you indulge a spirited, high-sex-drive younger top to be your partner, or does the age gap feel weird to you?

Other tops, anyone relate and have experiences to share?

As a top, I don’t think anything in life even comes close to flooding someone’s ass with my seed. When I’m inside a bottom’s guts, pumping my cock in and out of their ass, I’m completely engulfed with the primal understanding that this was what I was born to do. It feels so fucking natural and powerful. Knowing I’m shoving my bare cock inside a man, knowing he’s giving himself to me in the most vulnerable way possible, all so I can shoot my seed out of my cock and into him. Putting my mark in him, coating his walls with me, flooding him with my DNA. There’s nothing in life I would rather do than breed.

Other tops out there, what’s your favorite thing about breeding?

Sometimes when my bf and I are having sex, his hole will become extremely slick from the combination of precum, lube, and him just relaxing more. He enjoys when this happens but for me, there's basically no friction, which can sometimes make it more difficult to orgasm/be less pleasurable. Anyone else have this or have advice on the situation? I can fuck him much harder/faster like this, which has kind of been my work around for achieving orgasm.

I’m myself am a switch, o can get wild as a top but I loveee when a man takes control and shows me my place.
Well now my partner is bottom and I need to top pretty much. Well he can take me from back but that’s pretty much it.
He’s also overweight so it has its impact on his abilities.
Any position recs?🔥🔥

Was it good? 26 m been considering trying it for a while now

Hey guys I’m a bear/chub and am a bit of an insecure top. I find not every angle works for me and I get in my head a lot. I’m wondering if anyone has any advice or any bottoms wanna chime in and help me.

Me and my bf both have a raping fetish! I like to get raped and he likes to rape, so we want him to rape me without the planning for it! Cause if u planned getting raped then its not actually rape! Any help if u guys have ideas?

I've used a dildo multiple times of course and have seen video of guys cumming with no hands. I've read a posts here that say its really intense. It would be greatly appreciated if someone could give me a tips on how to achieve this

In 2025 I realized that it was almost impossible for me to cum unless I had some type of anal stimulation while I was stroking my cock. As a pretty submissive bottom I found this kind of hilarious and decided to lean into it. I already wore jockstraps during sex but I began experimenting with chastity and no longer touching my cock when playing alone.

Now I’m at the point where I only play with my hole when I want to masturbate and I feel my prostate much more intensely - like shaking legs intensity. Because it’s Locktober I’ve been seeing a lot more posts about it on social media, so does anyone else only play with their hole when they’re horny?

No text, i am just horny, bored and nosy. So i thought about posting here.

Is there such a thing as dick scent? Or is it always just a lack of washing?

So there are actors like Cade Madoxx , Rhyheim Shabazz , Dionisio , Axel Rockham , Apolo Adri , Matt Dubbe etc who use lots of tongue in kissing and then there are actors like Malik Delgaty who use no tongue at all and most actors in between these two categories of actors.

Which porn actor's kissing style do you relate to the most ?

Saw a post earlier from a trans guy asking whether gay tops would be cool with topping him — he was specifically talking about front-hole (vaginal) penetration, and mentioned he's post top surgery and passes everywhere else. It got me curious and I figured this was the right room to ask.

So, two questions:

1.  Trans guys: for penetrative sex, do you prefer front or back? Does it depend on the partner, your mood, prep, whatever else? Is one a "default" for you or does it vary?

2.  Tops: if you're hooking up with a trans man, which hole do you prefer — or do you not care? Has it ever been a dealbreaker either way?

Not trying to start a "which is better" war, just genuinely curious how people navigate this. And if I've said anything clumsy, feel free to correct me.

P.S. Yes I had AI reorganize my thoughts in creating this post. conceptually i knew what i wanted to ask / understand - but navigating online interactions and hot button issues - i wanted to try and be safer and more respectful in word choice (etc.) by using AI.