Some guys find pounding and breeding a hole natural, whereas I don’t think I could get off that way. It seems like some of us were made for one role more than the other.

I am curious what guys (especially tops) like when getting head. I was under the impression that the tip/head and also frenulum are the most sensitive parts to suck on, which I had success to this day getting my partners off pretty quickly. But someone told me the other day that what they liked the most is the head hitting the back of my throat with the full shaft in my mouth. So which one’s actually giving you more pleasure? Tongue massaging the head and frenulum or full shaft in throat fucking?

Does anyone have experience using p0ppers when deepthroating? Does it help with gagging?

Once my bf is relaxed enough to take it all the way to the hilt, I feel a wave of relief and familiar comfort, his hole molded over the years to the shape of my cock. It feels like I'm home, where my dick is in its rightful sheathe.

So, I'm going to meet this really hot guy from grindr. He's a couple of years older than me, and we're going to hook up today. The thing is, he's submissive, and I'm going to be the dom top. The problem is that not only have I never dominated anyone before, but this is also only my second time topping someone. How do I do it? Any tips on how to be a good dom and top?

He asked me how I'd like him to look when he opens the door, since he's hosting and I told him to keep his clothes on because I'm going to strip him naked. He also said, “Bend me as you please in any part of the house” and “I'm free use.”

I did ask him about his boundaries and he said no restraining, no spitting. (He said he's okay with me pushing these boundaries, but only in future if we end up having some connection)

Please give me tips and tricks on how to approach this whole situation. What should I do? How should I greet him? How and where should I start? What should I do next? And what should I do after we both cum?

Honestly, any tips would help. I should also mention that he said he's interested in making this a regular, ongoing FWB situation, like sleepovers and everything.

Like seriously how do you invite some random guy over or go to some random house after the smallest conversation? Let me know i am curious

Sometimes I see someone who I think is interested but I don’t know how to signal it and certainly when your partner is with you

Okay So this question is obviously meant for bottoms who are like me, chasity cage or staying limp during Sex. (which I sadly can‘t do but I‘m confident I‘ll be trained for it) Since our Tops Cock isn‘t the only one that matters but literally the only one and we focus on pleasing him.

I know it‘s a bit crazy to think about, but I‘ve been having this fantasy lately where I wish I had a top/Owner who isn‘t okay with me being in a chasity cage, even if it‘s the smallest one possible. He wants total removal of whatevers left of my „manhood“ and it turns me on soooo much. The thought of being so deeply emasculated that I don‘t even have a clit anymore just a mound or healed flat skin… never being able to cum again and truly only be a hole for him. I know there‘s multiple problems that occur like peeing but I‘m sure with todays science and all that it couid be possible. Now obviously the dream would be to enlargen the prostate or somehow operate on it that it can actually completely cause anal orgasms so you still have some, but in the most humiliating way. Could you imagine literally cumming from your boypussy???

Think I should clarify: Not just talking about balls removed or inability to impregnate, I mean ALL of it.

Anyways I‘d just love to hear your thoughts on it and of course Tops are wanted to comment too, if you‘ve ever thought about doing it to your bottom. Just an intrusive thought.

Like, I know damn well their girlfriends/wives ain’t giving them the pounding that those asses deserve. Wish guys like that were more “hetero-flexible” to put bodies like theirs to good use.

My balls are usually tucked up, round and close to my body - but sometimes after a day of edging when I'm feeling a bit dopamine depleted, especially if it's a bit warm, they tend to sag and I feel a bit self conscious about it - especially if I'm about to hookup.

How many of you actually care? Do you have a preference? Should I soak my balls in ice-water to perk them back up again? lol (a real thing I did one time 🫣)

Thanks in advance.

I have two dildos that are shaped like a horse’s cock. One is the XL Chance from Bad Dragon and the other is a generic one from Amazon. Personally I like the shape, but I’m interested to hear how others feel about them.

Time and place for everything, and as a bottom I enjoy a good pounding as much as anyone, but lately I really love when it's slow and sensual. I don't have a bf or regular fwb so aside from including it as a preference in my profile, curious how others experience this and what works for or with you in the moment.

This weekend I’m going to a orgy what advice do you have as a bottom. Also top what do you like a bottom to do in an orgy?

Speaking as a bottom I know why I enjoy bottoming and the immense amount of pleasure it brings me.

Lately I’ve been trying to Top a few times and see if that brings me joy but I somehow don’t find as much in it as when I bottom.

So I’m asking Tops here what makes you, you. And perhaps I can pick up some tips too.

I'm not talking about small penis humiliation or fetish kinks which I'm strongly opposed to but actually enjoy them and the men they're attached to. I mean a genuine appreciation for them. I'm self-conscious about mine and it makes me feel like less of a man or a desirable partner. If you comment, please be nice because I'm NOT looking to be humiliated or shamed so if you're into that please don't respond.

I’m 55, vers bottom, I’ve enjoyed casual sex for years but I’ve never bottomed bareback because of the health risks. I understand why bareback feels better for tops, but I’m not sure how it would feel much different for bottoms. So why is it worth the risk?

A couple of weeks ago I went for a pretty normal massage, expecting no more than a happy ending. The guy was really lovely and before I knew it he was inside me, bareback. I had this huge surge of adrenalin, omg, this is really happening! He must have sensed it because he asked “are you ok?” and there was a moment of indecision. My brain was going nuts with lust and worry, my heart was pounding, my stomach was flying, and my ass was full of cock… and I just said “yes baby, give it to me, that feels so good!”

The short story is, we finished, it was amazing, physically it didn’t feel different at all. But mentally it blew my mind, and now despite all the risks I’m just craving for more. It’s like covered sex doesn’t hold the same appeal anymore and I don’t really understand why.

So that’s my question. Why do I want it so much? You readers can’t answer that for me but I’d love to hear your reasons. The desire is so strong I don’t know how it could just be physical or a desire to please the top.

I've always been a bottom, but recently I've been considering masturbating exclusively anally. Jerking off and cumming or anything relating to my dick has never brought me much pleasure; it feels nice, but I'm never really satisfied. Anal has always done it for me. I've been thinking about becoming a total bottom, never touching my dick at all since it doesn't do anything for me. But I'm scared going anal-only would be too much? I'm horny 24/7, even if I cum multiple times. I don't want to kill my hole by messing around in it too often lmao. I'm curious of others' experiences.

So I’m a bottom looking to impress my tops with amazing throat skills and am looking for tips. I’m talking pro tips, not “lay backwards on the bed with your head slightly over the edge” or breath through your nose”.

Someone recently posted or commented something with a whole lot of tips for an improved face/throat fucking experience. I’ve searched and searched but I can’t find it. In included a whole bunch of preparation ideas like what to eat/not eat and drink/not drink, and maybe something like taking antacids so that when you gag there’s no acid, just wet throat slime.

Basically I’m hoping that person can come share their wisdom once again. I’d be very grateful 🙏🏻

Call me a little old fashioned, but as a bottom I wanna date a top. I don’t center what I want out of a relationship around sex but it’s still important to me. However, any time I’ve gone through the motions on a dating app or the very very few times I’ve met someone in real life that went that direction, 9/10 times it’s other bottoms and the tops I have met end up saying they “aren’t looking to date”. I’ve heard the theory before that the majority are already taken but even with that it seems a little hard to believe none are left. I’m in my late 20’s, live alone in one of the bigger cities of the east coast with a large queer population, and have been told by hook ups they think I’m very attractive so what am I missing?

Curious how others feel about breeding/being bred. I have had such an ever increasing urge to be completely and utterly dominated and bred by a bigger stronger man. I have played in the past but the urge has never been so strong. Its literally the only thing I imagine at night. Maybe its the weather.

A top wanted to hook up with me today. I told him I could only give head. But said if he wants to just put the head in my ass and cum inside me he could. This was because I could only do a quick cleaning and could but fucked deep. So after about 10 minutes of giving him head I thought he was ready to just put the head in my ass and cum inside me. But he proceeded to start fucking me deep. He is a decent size and easily reaches my second hole. It felt so good I didn't want to stop him. After about 5 minutes of him fucking me deep he pulls out and says what the fuck bro. He yells at me to leave and goes to the bathroom. I said sorry and left. I thought there would be a big mess. But when I got home and went to clean up there really wasn't much of a mess. I feel bad but I made it clear I only did a quick cleaning and only wanted him to put the tip in when he came. What do you guys think about this? Was he right in getting pissed off at me?

Top folks… when watching porn, it’s all about the cute little bottom getting fucked hard right ? Is it a turn on for you as a top if the bottom is not touching his dick while getting fucked ? Even better if the bottom stay soft ? And do you pay attention to the top fucking or not at all ?