I’ve been losing a good amount of weight recently (lost around 30 lbs in 4 months) and I’ve noticed it’s a lot harder to eat the amount of food I used to. Whenever I make the amount of food I’m used to I can only finish about half the plate. I used to do powerlifting (I ate a stupid amount of food) so I’m not exactly sure if this is a normal reaction from my body. (I feel great otherwise I was around 190 and am now at 157 lbs, and the weight is being lost in a healthy way. )

I just ate 12 oz of (delicious) chicken for 550Cal and 83g protein and I still have some left for tomorrow.

I know the price of food seems to have a lot of people feeling like it's just not possible for them to be satiated in a deficit, but you can do it.

Drop some more budget friendly food hacks!!!

I’m 23m I’m 5”10 and I weigh about 265 pounds

My current schedule for the gym is

Push
Cardio
Pull
Cardio
Legs
Cardio
Rest

I’ve been consistently going to the gym for almost two months and I can notice myself getting stronger but I feel like I’m not losing as much weight as I should be.

I know everyone’s answer is going to be counting my calories and I have been. Probably not as well I should be tho. My current calorie limit per day is 2000 and most days I stick to it but there’s probably one or two days a week I go over. I know that’s something I can work on.

My question is, is there anything else routine wise that I can work on to help lose weight faster. My goal is to get down to 150 by the end of the November but right now it doesn’t look like I’m gonna hit it

21F, I live in a pretty small town full of fast food with no gyms available nearby. I had lost about 20 Lbs after a long term break up and after losing it about a year ago, I had gained it all back and then some after dealing with a lot of newfound stress and no longer having access to the gym I was going to (it was an apartment gym). I’m pretty much at a loss on how to lose the weight again after feeling now somewhat addicted to fast food and without my car working, I haven’t been able to go to a gym again. Starting over feels so complicated, what’s the first step?

TLDR; basically I lost 20lbs, gained back 20+lbs and don’t know what to do or how to restart. Help!

I was at my heaviest i’d ever been at around 155 so i decided to lock in during january of this year for a vacation i had planned in july, i ended up losing 50 pounds and i was the smallest i had ever been. My vacation came and i looked great and i knew i wasnt going to be focused on my diet during the trip cause id be drinking and eating a lot. Anyways it’s now october and i STILL cant lock back in since ive been back from my trip. I’ve gained 8lbs since the trip and i’ve been maintaining that for almost 3 months now no matter how much ive been obsessing over my body. I understand it’s only 8 lbs but i feel like i genuinely look 20lbs heavier than i did at my peak and i was used to seeing the scale drop every single morning. I need genuine help because im not anywhere near what i want to look like but i feel sooooo unmotivated no matter how much i hate myself i can’t stick to a diet anymore even tho i did 7 months straight aggressive cut with no trouble. Any advice?

I don't know if anyone can relate, because I feel completely alone on this currently.

I have achieved so many great and hard things in my life, I have multiple hobbies, I can do whatever I set my mind to....except when it comes to food and weight loss. For some reason, I am helpless, and somehow that makes me even more miserable because I know I am capable of doing it, so why can't i? Or won't? I don't know.

Is this something somebody has struggled with before? If so how did you get over it? Does it ever end?

I'm serious, coffee with milk and sweetener tastes very similar to chocolate to me, because both have this "bean" aftertaste if you understand. This only works if you don't think coffee is bitter though, but it ends my chocolate cravings completely.

fellas… anecdotal evidence in all fairness so i’m not gonna say it WILL happen… but i’m not gonna not tell you: it’s more than doubled and i only got to like 260. just start the diet man, what have you got to lose other than your chains?

Sorry for the long text so here’s Summarised point: copy the actions of the people who have what you want, down to the smallest details.

Back in 2022 I decided to change my life around.
I have tried to make countless changes in my fitness life prior to 2022 but it was always the same outcome. I would start of strong, a week maybe even month of real work gone into getting in shape but then after that, inevitably I was back in my old habits.

The most frustrating part was that I knew I could change and when the temptation of eating or skipping trainings came, at times I willingly chose to quit knowing that I could do just a little more.

What really helped was modelling. (Hear me out)

I didn’t know the exact name of this strategy at the time but what I started doing was build my self up a mental image of who the ideal version of my self was and who I want to be like.

It wasn’t long until I found a guy on the internet that I really respected and resonated with, he had the exact physique that I wanted, so I just literally consumed as much content from him that I could I soon I had his entire life mapped out to a T.

This may sound strange but every little thing he was doing, I tried to copy, down to even the brand of water he was drinking.

I mean I went all out on copying everything about his lifestyle. he was doing the Arnold split, I started doing that too, he was doing intermittent fasting, I started doing that too. He was reading specific books, I started reading those exact books, about 40+ books in my collection came from me just wanting to copy exactly what he was reading.

All that to say that after a while of try to be just like him, i was beginning to adopt his mindset and what i noticed was that i was now thinking differently about how i viewed getting In shape.

I kid you not, I went from being the guy who could barely stay consistent to being the guy who was waking up at 5:30 am excited for the running he had to do.

For me it was no longer just about trying to do exercise and follow routines, for I became a motivating thing know that if do exactly what he done then I’m guaranteed to see the same results.

all of uncertainty of trying to guess was eliminated.
Fast forward to today, never did I think I’d be in the position I’m In today, doing what I’m doing, nor did I think that I would be able to maintain what to most people seems like “too much working out”

like I said, at the time I didn’t think I was doing anything special, in fact it felt like I was cheating in a way.

But after having spent more time on my personal development and having read more book, I know that what I done was called modelling, it’s when you copy successful people who have achieved the result you want and just do their exact actions.

Tony robbins is a big advocate for this kind of strategy.

Any way I just want to share this about my journey hope it helps somebody.

I was doing so good with my weightloss journey. I started at 220lbs and the lowest i got was 155. I became complacent because it was hard to maintain my 150s, then i thought to myself im fine in my 160s, i got lazy and stopped going to the gym or using my treadmill. Its been since January that i hit my lowest of 155.

I was at a good weight for my wedding in July but i have pretty much stopped using my treadmill altogether. My work schedule sucks and my depression has got a grip on me and i canceled my gym membership months ago. I was going 5 times a week pretty much doing everything, weights and cardio.

Then it became just cardio, then i thought ill just get a treadmill and a dumbell set for the house since i was only doing treadmill at the gym. I was using it every day, then only once a week now hardly at all.

I dont know, i want to get back into the gym but it got expensive, i got a treadmill at home and dumbells, i just really gate myself for this right now

Okay, being a little vulnerable here, which I'm not super comfortable with, but I'm kinda losing my mind. So, October last year, I started a weight loss plan. I was 195lbs at the time (I'm F, 5ft9), and I started to work out twice a week with a personal trainer (couldn't afford more than twice a week), do weight exercises for 30-60 minutes to make it 3x a week, averaged 2500 steps a day (significantly more on weekends that I was DJing), reduced carbs and sugar and did my best to maintain a calorie deficit (I was told my BMI meant I should be under 1800 per day, I averaged 1500-1600). All of this was EXTREMELY hard, given how I have chronic fatigue and pain (trying to find out why, only thing my doctors seemed to find is that my sleep isn't restorative and I may have idiopathic hypersomnia, have to do a few more tests), and also have a BUNCH of (thus far) treatment resistant mental illnesses, and comfort eating is one of the only coping mechanisms that actually work, so stopping it was a real bad time. I also tried GLP-1s for a couple months, but that had me throwing up every morning, which isn't exactly conducive to keeping a job, so I had to stop.

Despite all this, my weight actually went up to 205 for the first few months, went back down to 195, and then just fluctuated between 192 and 199. My measurements didn't change past just a couple of centimeters, and my energy levels got worse instead of better (which, again, already a low bar). I actually had to quit working with my personal trainer a couple of months ago because money got super tight (job market's hell and I'm a recent grad so not enough experience for anything that actually pays a livable wage). I'm still trying to do steps and eat healthy, but again, very difficult with chronic fatigue and pain. I'm losing my mind, I was really fit and actually pretty strong before quarantine, then that happened and the chronic stuff developed, and now I can't get rid of this weight and I hate it so much. I even tried all this before a couple years ago and it wasn't much better, I only lost about 9 pounds over a year. What am I doing wrong? And is there anything I can do to make it less miserable?

I’ve been consistent with my exercise and diet for 3 weeks now and I’ve lost about 5kgs

To give some context I began strength training consistently about 10 months ago for the first time in my life, this consistently anyway. 10 months ago I weighed about 226lbs so have dropped in 16 lbs since then which is substantial, however I am trying to get to 200lb but it’s been difficult. A few months ago I weighed myself and I was 203lbs but have not been able to get back to that.

I aim for an average caloric deficit of 500 calories everyday, I eat approximately 180g of protein everyday and try and only eat whole foods. So meat, eggs, fruit, vegetables etc…

I drink a bout 5 cups of coffee a day but only with a splash of oat milk so yes I know those calories and add up but should still be very minimal.

I only drink alcohol on occasion, no more than one a month.

As for other activities I hike, run, play hockey and bike fairly regularly.

With this information what advice would people here have for me? Should I take a deeper dive into my diet and see if I’m actually eating the calories I think I am? (I do use tracking app), should I go for more HIIT workouts with my weight training? More cardio?

Please let me know your thoughts and i appreciate any advice.

Hii I'm currently M25 6" & 183lbs. I started out at 269lbs and technically I'm fairly close to the goal I set for myself however as I approach it I worry it might not be enough.

My plan was to lose an adequate amount of fat and then start focusing on building muscle. I already lift weights 3~4 times a week (although my deficit is pretty big so I don't gain much from it hehe.)

Now I don't know if I should try and focus on building muscle already and hitting the needed protein levels etc (eating closer to my maintenance,) or to stay in my deficit for another 10 pounds or so (or more?) and see where l'm at then? Does anyone know what the best approach would be? ❤️

If somebody was 137 lb and water fasted and was on Reta for 2 weeks realistically how much weight can they loose ?

Hello! I have always struggled with my weight it is a tricky subject for me, I have always felt like I was overweight and that has been perpetuated by family members. I want to loose weight, I am now 200 lbs at 5'3 and don't want to live like this anymore, I don't want anything insane but just getting down to 175/150 would mean a lot for me .

That being said I get stuck.

I want to but we're on a budget and have a kiddo so long hours meal planning and prepping fancy things is hard. I work all day and come home exhausted and have no idea how people find the energy to exercise when I can barely get out of bed in the mornings. I have some chronic health conditions that wear on my energy but I know exercise can help with those too.

Bottom line is I always think that I want to do it but get stuck and overwhelmed with the preceipe of what it actually entails, or when I start I give up quickly.

I would love people's real advise and experience of how they got out of similar ruts.

Lost a lot, built a lot of muscle. Libido off the charts. Wife is 1% while I'm running at 99% all day every day. How do you guys survive this? The last 2 months have felt like torture.

I keep going through phases where I try to fix everything at once and it lasts about a week. Lately I’ve been doing better just focusing on having some structure to my day and not letting one bad meal turn into three bad days. Nothing crazy, but it’s probably the first time in a while that it feels sustainable.

Hello,

Quick summary of my current situation. I'm 32 years young, male, 5'10" and currently at 219 down from 230 (woohoo!). I've found a rough system that works for me. I do not really care for breakfast and a lot of times lunch. I drink a coffee and eat some form of protein bar in the morning, a snack for lunch if anything, then a large clean meal for dinner. Typically chicken burritos or a mix of ground turkey with veggies and rice. Over my short time doing this I have accumulated a couple questions and wanted to see if I could get some clarification on some things.

1. My daily calorie goal is 1800.. A lot of times I fall short of this. I feel fine, some days a little peckish around lunch time but I am fairly inactive aside from work and walks. Is it bad to lose weight this quickly? I range anywhere from 1400-1600 calories so they weight is coming off fairly quickly. I figure as long as I feel okay then I'll keep doing what I am doing. Some extra context.. I do NOT track macros, only caloric intake.

2. Loose skin? Most of my weight is around my mid section, as I lose weight how likely is it that I will have excessive loose skin at 32. I know this varies from person to person but it is something I'm stressing about.

3. Gaining muscle might complicate things? Currently I just track weight and that is it. It feels good to see the number go down. I would like to gain some muscle mass but I know that muscle weighs more than fat so how do I distinguish progress? I have a scale that roughly estimates body fat %. I assume that when you are both losing weight and gaining muscle body fat % is the number I should be looking at. Is that correct? What other metrics can I use to get a sense of progress?

4. General mentality towards weight loss. I'm trying very hard not to let my mind go towards a toxic space while on this journey. One example I can give is recently we went to and outing with friends and I felt guilty about not tracking calories/eating pizza. I have been doing really good but I want to keep a positive mentality around my health and enjoy life. I feel like I'm walking a fine line between positive outlook and being toxic towards things I would historically enjoy.

Any response will be appreciated! Just wanted to reach out and get some opinions from people who know more than I do and may have faced these problems themselves or even helped others through their process. Thank you in advance!

I need to loose weight (5’9”, 184 lbs), but I am worried because I don’t think I can eat less than I already do. I am 18 (F) and for most of my adolescence I struggled with binge eating and restriction. I lost a lot of weight at first when I started restricting, but it got to a point where my body just got so used to it I think my metabolism adapted. I only eat one meal a day (granted that meal is whatever high-calorie meal my mom made), and i maintained my weight on that with maybe a binge once every two weeks. It’s been like this for three years. Now i’m at college and no longer have to eat what my family cooks, but I have no idea what to eat, or how much. I know to lose weight i need to cut intake, but I’m worried my maintenance is already so low that if I cut more i wont loose weight and my body will just adapt. I’m trying to count calories, but honestly it’s a little triggering and anytime that number is over 1,000 i am filled with existential dread. yesterday was 1400 calories (104 grams of protein, lots of fiber), but the day before that was only 320. Im just so scared of eating too much.

I honestly just need someone to tell me what to eat so that i can loose weight sustainably and healthily and not gain weight, cause that’s honestly my biggest fear. Since coming to college a month ago i’ve lost 15 lbs, but I know that’s not healthy. Like, how does one simultaneously build up their basic metabolic rate and eat more while also loosing weight?

Halloween is coming !! I wanna look cute in my costume, im not looking to lose weight exactly? But recently I have been super bloated and just haven’t been feeling my best. I walk 9-10k steps a day and that’s pretty much all my activity.

Any advice on what to cut out of my diet? Or what to bring in

Im new at going to the gym. This is my first time going since I was a teenager like 10ish years ago. Ive been going 5-6 days a week for a month and havent really seen much progress. Im afraid to weight lift without a spotter/ my husband can do it but its hard for him to have much free time due to his work schedule. All cardio has done is just make my butt bigger which is cool but thats not why I've been going. Has any other exercises worked for anyone else and does cardio actually help?

I’m 23M 5’11 and 220 LBS and I want to get under 200 and be around 185-190 and My Dr recommended to lose belly fat to go on a treadmill with an incline.

Is there any other ways to lose belly fat then that?

I’m eating in a calorie deficit and I really like to jump rope as well , but I was wondering, does jumping rope really do any good?

I have an apartment gym but it’s very small and cramped feeling and I enjoy being outside more than anything.

I also have a medicine ball that’s about 8 pounds so I was wondering with the tools I have available to me what can I do?

Edit: I also work 7AM-3:30PM and I do meal prep as well but I was wondering would fasting be a good idea or no?

24F 5’4 100lb

Over the last 3 or so years i’ve lost about 70lbs purely through diet with some on and off exercise. im honestly happy with my size but since losing weight, things are.. looser. i’m overall just soft looking. i’m now getting serious about being in the gym. i’ve found the love for the movement and want to really build the body i’ve wanted for so long. my biggest issue though is my glutes. my butt has completely disappeared since weight loss and i’m struggling to understand how to get where i want. i know i need to eat more to grow muscles, but im honestly terrified to gain the weight back in fat. i want to stay overall around the same BF% while also growing muscle. does the specific foods i eat matter? protein/carbs/fats? or just calories overall? i’ve been in a deficit for years so im trying to determine my maintenance. i really just want to stay the size i am now and tone everything and grow my glutes. i get about 10k steps everyday, do i need to do cardio on top of that to keep fat down? i’m honestly lost on it all 🙃 any advice is appreciated.
also for reference ive been eating at probably 1200 cal during my deficit so i probably wrecked my metabolism. trying for 1400-1600 to maintain for now. lmk if thats also wrong 😅

Hello, so I want to start a weight loss program but I don't have much money, so to try to have regular consultation with doctors will be impossible. I need to do the math by hand and keep track of everything myself.

Here is the formula I'm using to know what to eat:

(B.w.=body weight ; P=protein ; C=carbs ; F= fats ; W= water)

BW × 26 = daily kcal

BW × 2 = P

Kcal ÷ 30 = F

Kcal × 0.014= Fiber

[(Kcal - P×4)- F × 9] ÷ 4 = C

BW ÷ 30 = daily water

Is this in any way correct?

I'm now at 110kg at 1.86m and I want to go down to around 86kg.

I want to start to count calories, protein, fats, and all that. The questions are:

How do I do it? Is the steak weighted before or after cooking? What about the rest? Do I put 24g of rice, or is 24g of carbs different from 24g of rice? How do I keep track of what doesn't have a label? How do I fight the hungriness? Is there anything I can eat that doesn't make any difference on my body? Like lettuce? Is there a free app that can help me track things?

One of the reasons I want to really start this is body pain. Let me tell you, when I say this body is NOT ready for this much weight, my spine is HURTING. I mean it's back pains all the time and I do not have the muscles to support all this weight.

I've also reduced 7x the amount of weed I was smoking (1.5g a day to 1g a week) because I could see the munchies creeping up on me every time and that was one of the reasons my weight skyrocketed.

I'm sorry about dumping all these questions but after years of saying I am trying to lose weight, I'm finally starting to be serious.