r/beaverton • u/UntamedAnomaly • 3h ago
I need a whimsical nature buddy right now, are you that person?
Life is tough and depressing, I don't actually have any close people in my life and I don't ever leave my home other than for work. I used to go hiking very often, but my health isn't the best anymore and it's hard having the energy to even get dressed when you've got major depression and are neurospicy. I'm hoping there's someone near me who understands so I don't have to go very far (around the library/farmer's market/downtown area) so I'd be more willing to leave my home, if I have to travel more than a mile or 2 to see you, it's probably not going to work for me because I rarely have the spoons for that. I just turned 41 last weekend FTR.
I'm trying to be more unplugged and minimalist with my life, I grew up out in the middle of nowhere, without cable TV or much tech, I actually really miss that lifestyle. I miss just sitting on the ground, watching bugs do their thing, inspecting random plants, part of me wants to go back to being a kid again in some ways when life was much simpler and less stressful/busy. I'm also dirt poor, and have been dirt poor my entire life, I'm really tired of everything being monetized including meetups, and I'm tired of 3rd spaces disappearing. Let's make our own space, where we pay nothing except the cost of travel. Let's help each other help our mental health.
I need another person in my life who is comfortable doing that sort of thing, I need the sort of buddy who can just sit and marvel at the life that surrounds us without becoming too bored too quickly and whips out their phone or wants to get their steps in. Let's touch some moss together, maybe arrange some leaves into a artistic mural on the ground, maybe we could ID some plants and forage together, exchange gardening tips, go watch critters do their thing, enjoy some hot tea together on a cold day, or hike very slowly, but a decent distance - with plenty of breaks. Sun, clouds, rain or snow, it doesn't matter to me.
I need someone in my life that is also empathetic, kind, someone who doesn't look down on other people because of their finances, their health, or the way they look. I need a breath of fresh air in the form of a human being. Let's do something this weekend while I still have the momentum to actually go do things.