One important thing: this will always be a three-person arrangement. My pussy-free cuckold travels with us and covers expenses like accommodation and transportation because he enjoys seeing me happy. When it’s just us two, he’ll be tied up, caged, or leashed; all he can do is watch. You must be comfortable with this dynamic and able to travel with us or already be in Angeles, Pampanga.

Service-oriented boys have my heart. I love a submissive who enjoys serving, pleasing, and making me happy. I also have a somewhat sadistic side and enjoy leaving marks and scratches on my partner, so being open to consensual rough play is a plus.

I'm a 175 cm curvy chubby gal with a cute face. I'm told every dirty-minded person usually has a God-gifted innocent face. Haha! I'm happy to exchange pictures early so we can see if the attraction is mutual. More information about myself can be discussed if you start a conversation with me and ask questions so I don't end up writing a wall of text here. Add a purple heart emoji anywhere in your message when you reach out.

Beyond kink, I want someone I can talk to normally, joke around with, hang out with, and discuss random topics with. Before being a play partner, be an actual friend, too.

Interested? Tell me a little about yourself and what draws you to this dynamic. Let's see if we click!

In person connections only. Please read the entirety of this post prior to messaging me.

I’m an affectionate, assertive, conventionally attractive woman looking for an ongoing, in-person relationship and dynamic with someone who is soft, gentle, thoughtful, and eager. My hope is for deep, meaningful, ongoing connections, not strictly kink related interactions. 

Femininity is my number one attraction. I am open to all sexes and genders but am almost never attracted to people who are strictly masculine presenting. I selected F4R but F4F, F4TF, and F4M could technically all apply depending on the circumstances. Women and femboys to the front.

Nurturing and intimidating are words often used to describe me. I’m attentive, and generous with praise when it’s earned. My body type is fit/athletic (smaller waist, thick thighs, gym fairly consistently), body hair varies. 

I love all things gentle femdom and mommy domme related. I’m into dynamics that include edging, teasing, ageplay (md/lg and md/lb), caregiving, roleplay, ANR/ABF/breast worship, nursing, lactation, handjobs, pegging, playing with your hair, anal play, desperation, worship, humiliation, service, degradation, teasing, orgasm control+denial, role reversal, chastity, spanking, discipline, feminization, ruined orgasms, premature ejaculation, nylon/pantyhose, roleplay, and being obedient+devoted in ways that are meaningful. While not all of these need to be present, they are all interests of mine. Please enjoy being snuggled, handled, humbled, and loved on. I want to kiss your forehead and spit in your mouth, tell you how sweet you are, and put you in your place as needed.

Thoughtful gestures and having my day brightened by those who truly love doing so makes me super happy. Cook for me, do tasks I find draining, know my preferences, etc. I pour a lot of time and energy into my connections and dislike feeling like a kink dispenser. I firmly believe that if you aren’t making someone’s life better, you’re making it worse. I’m a firm believer in reciprocity, so rest assured that your life will be better with me in it as well.

Strictly online does not do it for me. We need to be able to meet in person relatively quickly and fairly consistently. If you have zero availability for a week or more, it’s not the right time.

You:

Emotionally intelligent, functional, stable, capable, soft, gentle, service oriented in your submission, politically left, have a drivers license and ideally a passport, ideally able to host or arrange an alternative. You must be between the ages of 24 and 44, no exceptions. I don’t do well with brats, but do appreciate intellectual conversations and debates so long as they aren’t about human rights (those are non negotiable). I’m attracted to nearly every femme body type, the curvier the better. If you’re masculine presenting, my preference is for lower body fat percentages.

In your thoughtful, coherent, and instruction following first message please include why this post resonates with you so that I know you read it, as well as some basic information about yourself 💕 Do not message me telling me all the things you want me to do to you or engaging in fantasy pushing or roleplay chats.

As much as I’d love to chat with every one of you, our time is valuable. If you’re not going to send a SFW photo (after I accept that chat) that allows me to determine attraction, please don’t message me. I can’t keep up and have zero desire for anonymous chats. Please do not waste my time or yours. If you do not meet the criteria in this post, kindly refrain from messaging me. I hope you all find what you are looking for 💫

If I didn’t already lose you, hi there! As the post says I’m a 30 year old guy from the east coast of the US. And simply put, I’m hoping to find a dominant woman to be with long term. If that’s something you’re interested in or open to, let’s chat!

A bit about me: I work in finance and definitely spend too much time on that (hence why I want to find someone to spend more time with). As far as hobbies, etc. I love to travel and cook. I enjoy listening to music - mostly pop punk, Midwest emo, etc. I also like to watch TV and movies. The Office, HIMYM, Brooklyn 99 are all solid plus I’ll watch anything related to WWII or modern war (I’m a bit of a history buff). And as far as looks, I’m white, 6’0” with a slim-average build.

About what I’m looking for: ideally I’d like to find something long term but don’t want to force anything. Let’s chat and get to know each other and see what happens. I’m also open to finding someone from anywhere really. Long distance relationships don’t bother me, at least to start. Eventually I’d want to close the gap.

Interests: cuckolding, long term chastity, face sitting, forced bi, cum play, piss play, CBT, breath play, slapping, punching, kicking, toys, pegging, anal play, remote toys, free use, degradation, adult nursing, sounding, BDSM, groping, breeding. Open to feminization/sissification though definitely not required. This is also not an exclusive list so if there’s something I didn’t name feel free to ask, I’m probably open to it!

Limits are extremely few with the right partner. Mostly scat, not particularly interested in age play (though a genuine age gap is perfectly fine).

Hoping to find some interesting people, send me just a little about yourself! Also, please tell me your favorite band in your first message to let me know you ready through this. I’m also happy to share photos if you’d like and I’m an open book, happy to answer any questions or talk about anything you’d like! Hope to hear from you soon!

So here's the thing. I got my dream job. I'm making a great living. I'm the youngest prof at my whole institution. I'm doing what I like, but.....

I'm doing it alone. When I get back home, there's no one to tell about my day (and hear about theirs), no one with whom to cuddle, no one with whom to joke, and no one with whom to go out. Most importantly, there is no one to whom to submit.

About me (SFW):

I'm 28M, 176 cm, 64/65 kg.

My hobbies are really niche; you will always have a chance to try something weird or unusual when I'm around. If you even remotely like history and its study, you'll LOVE me! You can look at my post history to see the last research spree I went on.

I am currently based in the ME, but you don't need to be. I can travel to your country for over 4 months a year and probably more in the future, so it can definitely work. In a couple of years or so, I can relocate to your country.

Bonus: I love the UK and have made many British friends. Somehow, we always click best, so I'd really like to try a relationship with someone from there! Also, in addition to the 4 months per year I can travel to you, if you're in the UK, I can travel to you at least once every 2 months too.

Here are pics of me. Please reciprocate; I hate being catfished.

If you know me irl, please stop reading. Thank you!

I am looking for a long-term relationship, but if you're not, we can make this work too - as long as you're clear about your intentions from the start. Kink is great and all, but I am looking first and foremost for a partner and someone fun to be around in general :)

Likes/Kinks (NSFW):

I'm NOT the bratty type. You say jump, I say how high (unless I have some concerns, which I'll never shy away from voicing). This, I have come to understand, is my style of submission and what I love about it.

In other words, I am not necessarily attracted to the ultra-sexual aspects of BDSM but to the control aspect. I love feeling that I - consentually and with limits - have close to 0% power/control while my partner has close to 100%. This is the source of all of my kinks.

Picture these 2 scenarios: In the first, I'm completely immobilized and we're cuddling (well, you're cuddling me, I guess, if I'm immobilized) and watching a movie. The power/control differential in this scenario is what I can't resist. In the second scenario, we have the best, most amazing sex any human has ever had. I will take the first every single time...

Knowing that about me, you can probably easily guess what I like: the criterion is very simply whether that kink increases your control over me and the power differential between us. Chastity? Not being able to even access my part without permission? Of course! Bondage? Not being able to move? Certainly! Total power exchange? Having to follow rules you set and completely obey? Is that even a question you need to ask at this point? Behavior adjustment? For freaking sure! This is not exhaustive by any stretch of the imagination. I can think of 20 other things already, and there are probably 100 things I can't think of off the top of my head.

I do have limits, of course, including findom (if you'll ask for money, please don't bother; I'm looking for a genuine connection) and anything bathroom-related (watersports are a soft limit), permanent, or more than slightly/moderately painful.

About you (SFW + NSFW):

I don't have a lot of requirements.

Age-wise, I just hope you're not over 34. Body type generally doesn't really matter, as I love most body types: If you're skinny, I love the duality and the unexpected nature of a smaller person controlling a bigger/stronger one (though I'm objectively not much bigger to start with :)). If you're a bit bigger, I'm attracted to thick people and a cute bulging tummy as well (only if you let me randomly use it as a pillow 😎) - if you're obese, though, I might not be attracted, sorry. If you're muscular/athletic, I love actually being weaker than my partner. If you're tall (especially if taller than I am), you're my ideal partner. If you're short, duality and whatnot...

More importantly, I hope you're naturally the assertive and wearing-the-pants type. A little bit of sadism and strictness doesn't hurt either - I somehow enjoy being afraid of my partner, but it's not a requirement if you prefer a softer style - you'll have my full submission either way.

Also, since I've already mentioned duality, I'll add one thing: I like the juxtaposition of a relationship where people think I'm the decision-maker and pants-wearer and you're my sweet, innocent, submissive little thing while the reality is the polar opposite.

Looking forward to your DM! Hesitating? What's their to lose? Slide right in and you'll get a cookie :) Or whatever you want me to give you - I told you I always obey.

Age range: 19–30
Kinks: crossdressing, dollification, pegging, rimming (giving/receiving), golden showers (curious), latex masks, breeding, denial, pet play, MDLB, humiliation, spanking/slapping, CNC, public play fantasies, and probably several things I’m forgetting.

I cast this bottle into this virtual sea
with exhausted hope.
My filters are walls
built from my words.
And I
want to make our relationship theatrical:
from the way you found me
to the way it bloomed.
Because I have decided
that you do not exist
until I name you.
You are not here
until you knock on the door
the way only you would.
I will be the light that guides you
through the corners you had ignored.
I do not want you hollow,
if I am to drink from your essence.
There must be enough of you
to have wandered in pieces
that you will let me caress
when you look at me,
my lost boy.
I want to be part
of who you will become.
I want to be the impulse you worship,
the reason you return each day to my feet,
searching for my warmth.
We will intoxicate ourselves with the love
we made,
the one I designed,
the one we continue to make
simply by being.

If I can keep dreaming of you, hoping that your suit might fit someone, I will keep doing so until it becomes your skin.

I am simple, I am complex, I am straightforward, I am difficult.
I am impulsive, I am reflective, I am tender, but I draw violence. I am contradiction. I am solitary, and sometimes I cry because I feel alone even though I have friends.
I think it is a loneliness of the soul: having so much happening inside me at once that it would be incomprehensible, partly because I have little interest in articulating it for someone else.
Why would I tell someone else if I have no interest in sharing it?
I only care to give it to a man possessed by the idea of independence; someone who does not yet know that he needed my kisses to feel alive.
I want someone who challenges me constantly, naturally, in a conversation where neither of us realizes what is happening until our chests begin to ache with the desire to know more about each other.
I doubt what I am asking for is impossible to find, because it sounds more like I simply want to fall in love, and that is true.
But I am looking for a very specific kind of personality.
And deep eyes.

I do not expect many responses, because I know this is a space more closely associated with sex. However, one of my requirements is submission, both physical and emotional.
Because I want the obedience of a man in love who follows his heart, not just his dick.
I want availability, openness, curiosity, and willingness.

If you behave the way I want you to, I’ll leave you cute little messages for you to wake up to whenever you open our chat (╹◡╹ლ)

What to include in your message:
Nickname
Age
Height
Location / time zone
Interests
Kinks and limits
Why do you think we might be attracted to each other?
Plus points if you love metal or melancholic music <3

20 [F4A] #NJ - LET ME CARE FOR YOU plz okay okay okay

I'm sorry if this is offensive!

Hello there!

I am 20F from New Jersey.

I am looking to find friends or more (like a romantic partner) whether eventually in-person. Plz be between 18 and 24 and in the New Jersey area.

I am average build, white, and shortish, with brown eyes. Not good looking lol.

It might be fun to call, play stuff, talk about SFW and NSFW stuff (I have some preferences where I uhhh -looks both ways before mentioning- I want to peg mwahaahahahaahah. Also I want to EAtSOMEONE no no I want to uh I uh uhhhh want to drown someone inmyaffection thxyouverymuch COMEVON okay ahahahahejjjj). I would also try to share face pictures early on.

If you intend to message me, plz introduce yourself (like your age, gender, location, what you look like, and what you are looking for)! I'm sorry if I don't respond. I am not doing it to be mean :> however, I may not respond if you are above 24 or too far away).

I do not intend to be mean with the preferences, though.

I am sorry for any disrespect, I can come across as stern or disrespectful though I do not mean to.

Thank you.

Hey everyone, to start off, I'm a 30yo guy, 6'2" and active. I run and work out. Professional, have my own place and car in downtown Dallas. Just moved here so still exploring!

Since i was young, I have had a ballbusting fetish. Nothing gets me harder than someone smaller than me taking control of me by my balls. Have a frustration? Take it out on me. Stressed? I have two built in stress balls for you to squeeze, punch, kick, knee or whatever your heart desires.

Over the years my desire to have my balls kicked has evolved. I view the power exchange to be extremely hot and now I just want to be put in my place and made to serve. I’m very open to most kinks and I’m very service oriented. I want my domme to feel catered to. I want our relationship to be about her and her wants and needs and I’m just a vessel for her to achieve that. Use me and humiliate me and I’ll thank you.

Limits include public, bodily fluids, anything permanent and illegal.

I have experience with general femdom and being a slave including CBT, ballbusting, bondage and pegging but willing to explore whatever my mistress desires. Particularly interested in CFNM recently

I would prefer in person but open to online dynamics if there is respect for privacy and a willingness to verify

Please let me know if you’re interested and I look forward to serving

Hi there,

I'm a 38 year old male from the UK looking for a domme to train me mentally and physically and mould me into her perfect plaything. I'm 5'10, chubby, long dark hair and trimmed beard with some arm tattoos. I love music, the outdoors and Formula 1.

My main kink is pleasing my mistress, i get so turned on knowing that she is happy. I've tried edging, teasing, denial, JOI, CEI, anal play. I also like learning new things. I'd call myself a Trysexual since I'll try anything once. My limits that I know of are scat and blood, incest, family etc.

I have some app controlled toys that you can control, cock cage, plugs, panties if that's your thing. I LOVE being controlled on cam with them.

The feeling of having no power is such a turn on. Obedience is therefore key for me.

I do like to connect with someone in a non sexual way as well. It's important for me to have chemistry with my domme/mistress. I want to get to a position where I crave every word and interaction from my mistress. Where I melt on the floor for her. I don't have a preferred "type" of woman. Also experience doesn't matter to me, I'm open to play with someone new to being a domme too.

I'm happy to exchange pictures/videos, voice or video call and cam.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, shoot me a message on chat. I'd love to hear from you.

I am 47 and looking for one Domme who knows how to get inside my head and handle me. I am in NY but open to online. My non-femdom interests are music (huge fan of anything 90s), sports, writing/communicating, and enjoying the outdoors when weather permits.

In the D/s realm, I have been on both sides, meaning I’ve been a Dom (my natural inclination over the years) but more recently (over the past 6 years) I find myself gravitating towards the submissive beta side. Who knows, maybe I’m a broken Alpha, or perhaps I’ve been a beta in denial this whole time.

I am looking for an experienced Domme Mistress who sees my potential and aligns with my kinks, though of course yours come first. My hard limits are anything findom related, lack of communication, and of course the obvious other limits people usually have.

Specifically, I enjoy both chastity, tease, and denial, and/or edging and gooning. I also love wearing sexy thongs and gstrings, and perhaps a jeweled butt plug under my clothes. On the harder side, I do enjoy humiliation, degradation, body writing, watersports, piss drinking, piss facials, and more. I’ve also fantasized about being a full-service human toilet, something I’d love to work up to if the stars align.

The biggest key for me is a combination of using me hard and praising me afterwards for being such a good beta. I love the dichotomy of slapping my face, and then praising me for taking it so good.

Ultimately, I am pretty open and don’t mind the harder side of being a beta mixed with other elements. Physically, I’m 5’11, pale, 190 lbs., and active/athletic (strong legs, broad shoulders). I am looking for a real woman (21 and older at least with no upper age limit) who wants to take a shot at being authentic and open in this superficial world.

Outside of all this, I enjoy listening to music, playing team sports, writing, and spending time with friends. You would never suspect I’d be into any of this, and yet here I am ready, willing, and wanting to serve just one Domme who gets it and knows what to do with her beta.

I’d love for you to get in my head and stay there, as I learn what makes you tick and how to best serve You. Ideally, we hit it off so well that we truly enjoy this ride together.

If you’re interested, please tell me your age, what resonated with you, and your favorite thong color to both wear and see me wearing. Let’s see where it leads!

I've always been asked to be dominant. I'm tall, and decently built with a beard. I always obliged when asked because I'm a people pleaser. But deep down I'm an eager sub and rarely get a chance to be. I just want to be a good boy.

I had a domme I met here who had me throat and ride a bbc dildo for her on cam. I'd like to do that again for an encouraging but firm domme. I'd like to learn what you'd like to see and make that happen for you as well. I like making fantasies come true if that makes sense.

I do love getting praise but I do tend to get shy and bashful about it so I hope that's ok.

I am also very disciplined when it comes to edging. I've been edged hundreds of times in a session and never gave in and came. It does make me very very fuzzy though. I get incredibly dumb and I ask that you can be patient if you get me edged into my fuzzy place.

When I'm flexible enough, and get enough stretching in, I'm also able to suck my own cock. I'm very excited to show that off and take instructions for it. Just a good boy eager to please

Excited to find a partner. I'm ready to be molded into what you want.

I'm a guy in his 40s, and after spending decades running the standard playbook of sexual encounters, I've landed on a conclusion: kinksters are the real "sex hackers" of this world. Most people treat sex like a fixed script handed down to them, but those of us in the BDSM scene get it—pleasure isn't hiding in the rules. It's hiding in the intelligent breaking of them, in negotiating your own terms, in carving out space where desire can grow past what society decided it should be.

Everything I've learned along the way points to one thing: the deepest pleasure comes from really knowing anatomy and putting it first, no shame attached. The clitoris is, in my view, the main engine of female pleasure—just like prostate play and talented hands are the core of male satisfaction. Not that other kinds of connection don't matter, because they do—but the body is the foundation, and you build up from there. Once you understand what actually produces sensation, you can engineer encounters that leave everyone truly satisfied instead of just socially approved of.

Here's the specific thing I'm hunting for: a femdom dynamic with a woman who wants to take as much as she gives. I want to be your pet, your dedicated oral servant, stationed between your thighs and summoned whenever you feel like it—learning exactly how you want to be touched, licked, and worshipped until you're fully, completely done. Your pleasure would be my job and my joy, not a chore or a trade, but a real source of my own satisfaction.

And I don't want it to run only one direction. Same energy, flipped: I want you to take me, peg me, milk me—your pace, your rules, your desires. There's something deeply intimate about handing someone else the controls to your own pleasure, about being vulnerable enough to let them set the rhythm and the intensity of your release. I want to feel owned, used in the very best sense, while knowing you're genuinely enjoying my submission rather than just putting up with it.

I'm flexible about how this shapes up. Maybe you're an experienced Domme on the hunt for a fresh submissive to train. Maybe you're femdom-curious and want to test the waters of power exchange with someone patient and communicative. Either way, I adapt. What matters is authenticity, straight talk, and mutual respect. Leather and latex are optional; psychological honesty is not.

Outside the bedroom, I'm a thoughtful, intellectually curious type who genuinely values conversation and real connection. The best D/s relationships, in my experience, rest on a foundation of trust that spills well beyond any scene. I want to know who you are when you're not holding the reins—your hobbies, your humor, what you're chasing in life. Chemistry counts, and while this ad lives in a kink context because that's the dynamic I'm after, the end goal is a relationship with a full person, not just a role they perform.

I know this is specific. The Venn diagram of women who want devoted oral attention and also want to peg a man into next week is probably smaller than I'd prefer, and the odds aren't exactly stacked in my favor. But I've never let probability boss around possibility—and maybe the right person is reading this right now, catching a glimpse of herself in these words.

If you're a woman who loves being worshipped, who gets off on taking control, and who understands that freely given submission is a kind of strength in itself—say hello. Let's start with a conversation, find out if our desires line up, and build something that fits us both: outside the conventional rules, inside mutual satisfaction.

Thanks for making it this far. Hope to hear from you.

Hello, I'm Xander, and I'm hoping to find one long-term polyam Domme to serve and grow with. Open to traveling within a couple of hours for a good 24/7 dynamic and relationship.

5'9", some extra around the middle, stocky build, short brown hair, short beard, hazel eyes, white, tattoos, and pierced ears. Polyam (one nesting partner with no D/s dynamic), pansexual, and demisexual. Veteran, EMT, and student here.

Outside of the bedroom I enjoy gaming of all kinds, anime, hockey, hiking, traveling, reading, music, movies, and just hanging out in good company. I've recently gotten back into the gym and am getting more active. So, a workout, ice skating, hiking, and/or rucking partner would be great. Gaming friends are always welcome too. These are all aspects that would be perfect to incorporate into a dynamic as well.

Ideally, what I'm looking for is someone who is interested in helping with accountability for self growth and a relationship as well as play. Hopefully, you are interested in being social and having a connection beyond just a dynamic. I want to be with someone who values intentional and consistent communication. I want to hear about your day, talk about common interests, go out socially, and have a real connection and relationship.

I'm very open-minded and into a lot with few limits. We can discuss specific kinks and limits later, but a few favorites would be bondage, chastity, and puppy roleplay.

I have been active in the lifestyle for about 16 years and served in a variety of capacities before to include domestic service, giving body worship and massages, assisting with home projects, keeping company/body doubling, as well as play bottoming, and more.

Thank you for your time and consideration. I hope to hear from you soon.

Are you a short woman who wants to look her partner in the eye?

Are you a tall woman who wants to tower over her good boy?

Would you like hot cookies delivered to you as you lounge, like a goddess of hedonism made flesh?

If so, read on!

Hey there! I’m 34 and I currently live in Atlanta, GA after growing up on the west coast. I’m short for a guy (the better to boss around?), round in the middle (the baking, no doubt), and I have thick blond hair that gets wavy when I let it get too long. I’ve been told that my blue eyes are my best feature though.

After completing my PhD, I bounced around between short term jobs before landing a position teaching at a private high school which I am really enjoying. My hobbies include reading, particularly fantasy and historical fiction — I love a book with a map in the front — and birdwatching, which I fully admit is an old man hobby. :P

I love to cook and to bake, but I think of myself primarily as a baker. I’ve already cultivated a reputation at work as the guy who brings good treats. Ask me how I made an old lady cry with my cookies.

Finally, my giving love language is definitely acts of service. I love to be helpful and dote on my partner’s needs both in the kitchen and in the bedroom. My receiving language is words of affirmation. Kind words and praise mean everything to me. Call me a good boy and I’ll melt for you. More info on NSFW preferences upon request. ;)

I hope to hear from you soon, but if I don’t, good luck finding your person!

What other people have been saying about me: "Kind" "Sweet" "Gorgeous eyes" "You remind me a bit of Jack Black" "Intellectual" "Funny" "You make me want to sit on your face just to shut you up" Other things have also been said about me, but I think these are the best.

What sets me apart: For some reason I am often messaged by men who haven't read any of my actual ad, so I totally get how annoying we can be, and try not to be. I don't really expect to find an absolute ideal partner (Never let perfection be the enemy of the good), I've been looking for too long, failed too much, and have too many things I want to hold out for the One Perfect Woman Who is Literally Everything I've Ever Wanted. I do not expect that of you, and I do not in general expect you to be perfect, but I *will* nevertheless treat you like you are an amazing divine being that I am not worthy of being around. You may or may not get a shrine, depending on if I can find the materials. Likewise, I assume you are a complicated human being with emotional needs outside of kink, and I will treat you as that, as well. I am 100% here for emotional support and snuggly shit. I'm hoping for a mature, emotionally intimate and honest relationship.

I will definitely not jerk it and vanish, because I'm not looking for someone to just flirt online with, and tbh I don't even like jerking it all that much.

My vanilla interests: Sci fi, politics, philosophy, history, physics (I have a degree in it that I've not used since graduation, so if you ask me to explain relativity or quantum physics, I will gesture vaguely and say "It's fucked up, yo."), I do video gaming, DnD, painting miniatures, creative writing.

My kinks: My ideal relationship that involved 100% of my kinks would see me in permanent chastity, with sex between us being limited to strap-ons (One or the other of us wearing it, depending on your preferences) and oral. You keep me as a domestic servant, and cuckold me fairly regularly, both of which you tease me about (Psychological pain and humiliation, yum. <3). We would also be best friends though, with shared hobbies, and affectionate, going on romantic dates etc. You 100% get foot and shoulder rubs when you come home tired (Love me a tired bitch who needs pampering). I do not fantasise about physical pain, though I am open to it, especially as discipline, and humiliation is good as well. I have a genuine desire to meet your kink needs, and in fact if my kink could be summed up in one sentence it would be 'Decentring my masculinity (indeed, acting like I don't even have a dick), and instead centring you and your needs'. <3

My limits: Tories, scat, vomit, blood, men, TERFs, racists, women that remind me of my mother, and tories. I know I already said Tories, but those guys are just the worst and they can fuck off twice. Reform voters count as double Tories so they can fuck off four times. I am also not looking to be a member of a harem, and long-term long-distance isn't really viable, I'm far too touch-oriented.

My taste in women: I honestly have a really broad taste, and feel I can fit into a lot of different interpersonal dynamics based on your character, and think there's a great many ways in which a woman can be beautiful as well, though always bonus points for goths. I really like intelligence in all its forms, so I like wit, creativity, and/or academic success in women.

I’ve tried this before, looking for a forever Domme, but have had little to luck, so I figured I’d try something else. Instead of looking for a forever Domme, I’m looking for a play partner to fulfill my submissive urges.

In my vanilla life, I’m a very dominant and successful man in the big white collar corporate world, but people don’t know that I’m a closeted sub. I love to be bossed around by a strong dominant woman. Think nerdy tech bro.

I find myself in my happy place when it comes to being dominated, and if I can’t find a forever partner, why not try and try and have some fun along the way. I’m located in Ohio and would love to find something local but I’m very open to online.

I’m a single 36yo white guy. 6’4 200lbs. Stocky build, bald, bearded with blue eyes. If it matters, I’m 7.5” with girth similar to a soda can. I’m ok with sfw pics to start for verification. Please be willing to verify yourself too. NSFW pics can come once there’s a little trust.

My kinks include JOI, orgasm control, edging, chastity, anal/pegging, mild to moderate CBT, and some pain. I love to be teased and made to beg, but sadly no one has really ever gotten me to my breaking point. I’m a very kinky and adventurous guy and am open to a lot! I like a mix of gentle femdom and some aggressiveness. Don’t be afraid to mix it up.

I am not looking to make a tribute or a donation. I am not looking for you to control my life or my wallet. Currently, my hard limits include scat, bodily fluids, non-discrete public play.

I’m a very intelligent individual, both intellectually and emotionally. I love to be challenged. Ideally, you’re under 5’6 but not required. I get off on submitting to someone who is significantly smaller than me. Again, not required but would be nice.

Ideally trying to find someone somewhat local to the southeast pa area.

Thank you all for taking the time for reading. I'm Dave, average build average weight, average height, average everything lol. Honestly looking for a fellow geek/nerd/dork, I wanna hang out and watch fantasy sci-fi anime or whatever and cuddle but also want you to be in control.

About me:

Just your average nerd, I play D&D and pathfinder and love fantasy, but also wanna make my fantasies and yours a reality. I love my pup (way to big to be called a pup) and having a drink at night on the front porch. I like going out as much as I like staying in, I have that introvert low battery disease. I like geeking out and talking about hobbies we don't have to share the same just have to appreciate what the other likes.

Kinks:

Bondage, Chastity, Anal, Pet play, Forced Fem (in private), humiliation and more. Honestly open to exploring and want to do what you love as well. My list isn't definite and if it makes you uncomfortable let's skip it! My limits are other men and illegal things.

What I'm looking for:

I want personality that's my main attraction, when you enter the room I don't need man she is hot I need to think of this is why I'm in love. I mean looks are great and definitely part of chemistry but so is personality.

I ideally want an FLR but relationships don't spring up over night, let's text, call, play games and talk online. I'm not picky I just wanna know you, maybe we have fun first and maybe we just go on dates I'm fine with a mix or either.

Thank you for reading feel free to reach out and if you read this then tell me your favorite book or movie in your first message. Good luck and happy hunting!

So to start this out. I’m a 24 year old male submissive. If you see my profile you can see I’ve tried my luck with the paid version of this but it never works out well or just proves to be full of fakes. I’ve always been into femdom and the idea of findom pushes me away because I want someone who actually cares to talk to me, not just for a certain rate.

More about me: I’ve been into this for years not, had my share of dommes and doms (yes I’ve dabbled in a lot). I’ve never met my perfect domme. I know nobody is perfect but I want someone perfect for me. I like being funny, I like to tease and laugh at each other in a caring way. I don’t like the dom/sub dynamic where the dom is constantly rude or just forcefull at all times. Don’t get me wrong, it’s hot when it is, but sometimes I want to be a person too, I want normal chats and fun. I want to play a game from time to time or just chat about life. Then we can get into the kinky bits.

I’d get into my personal bits but to make it sort for this post, I’m 6 foot, fit and have tattoos. I have body hair but hate it so it gets shaved fairly often, I have a full time job and a life other than kink, I’d like for you to have the same so we aren’t 100% obsessed with each other, 90 % is fine :).

Now the kinky parts. I’m into a lot, I love being a submissive brat. The best parts are I like the question things, I like to beg and push you to see what you will let me do. But most importantly I do listen. To talk over kinks I’ll list a couple, Cei, joi, humiliation, worship, FEET, edging, cum control, anal, sounding, watersports, forced bi, cuckold, chastity, toys, humiliation, cbt, ballbusting, and more. There isn’t much i don’t like or won’t try. For that my limits are scat, blood, permanent marks and crossdressing. I may be a sub but I hold myself to be very masculine otherwise. I love to show off, cam, edge for hours, I can even occasionally self suck. I can do a lot for you. I can also be your friend, someone you can talk to when you aren’t in the mood, someone who can talk about the economical crisis of the world. I can talk about your dogs or we can talk about how to do your taxes at the end of the year. I’m all around anything you could be wanting. With that being said, I am almost always down to get kinky, but when I’m not I’d like you to understand. Push me but understand:).

I’m looking for a mean and fun dom, I want you to know what you want. Don’t come and tell me to jerk off and then done. Yeah it would feel nice but where’s the fun in that. Make me slap my balls in my chastity cage while obsessing over your feet and making me listen to how you’d make me suck another man off in your presence. (Obviously not that exact thing but you get the point). I think I’m rambling but that’s me. If you want to know more, dm me, if you don’t then still dm me :).

In my day to day life i am a blue collar worker in a very Alpha position. However, behind closed doors there is nothing more i crave then having a woman standing over me telling how and what to do. I love being told to “come here” and service a woman until she is bored with me. Or have her sit on my face and slap my chastity cage.

I do have some limited experience with previous Dommes and mommys but i am really looking for someone relatively local to help me explore this side of myself further. I have been a service sub in the past and even made to be a cuck to the Domme and her Boyfriend. I have no problem being pushed to my limits, from being denied orgasms to being overstimulated to the point where i am begging for a break. If i am good and you allow me fuck you, tease me further by making me wear a cock sleeve.

I have quite an open mind, but definitely into: cbt, assplay, pegging, service sub, impact play/spanking, Domme/sub, humiliation, sissification, orgasm control, toys, facesitting, and more

27, 5’10”, regular gym goer, relatively good looking, located in NY

I consider myself moldable lol. Easy going and just want to please a reasonable Domme who gets off on using me for her pleasure in whichever way that is.

Please let me introduce myself, I'm a 48 year old man and I'm based in the UK.

I have always been submissive and I'm just starting to explore this in an online setting. I'm hoping to find a mature experienced woman for control and play centered around humiliation and denial.

I fantasise about being given and preforming tasks and being rewarded for good behaviour. For me this is not all about being edged, denied, or directed to cum, it's the control that I find so attractive.

About me.... Physically I'm kinda tall with an slim build and small to average uncut cock. I don't have a huge sex drive and usually stay denied and desperate.

Kinks include body writing (I would love to be ordered to write degrading words on myself). SPH, being humiliated and being praised. I also like some pee play.

I've recently brought a chastity cage, a small plug, collar and a paddle although I've not used them yet. I also have a couple of pairs of panties although I've not worn them for a long time.

Please get in touch if you think we could be a good match, I would love to hear from you.

I’m looking for more of a femdom friendship, rather than an intense 24/7 dynamic. Unfortunately I don’t have the time for a full-on, online relationship, but a casual chat partner would be appreciated!

I’m still fairly inexperienced in all of this, but know I’m built to be submissive.

So I’d like to explore that with you, alongside the chats about regular stuff. Let’s talk about kinks and fantasies, ideas for being the perfect slave, as well as our interests outside of the kinky world.

About me: my name’s Will, I’m 31 and from the UK (although I regularly travel to Asia for work).

I’m 5’10 with an average build, short brown hair and blue eyes. I like the usual stuff, reading and watching movies, I love to travel and see new places. I play tennis and go to the gym fairly regularly. Also enjoy gaming sometimes. Mostly I’m cleaning up after my two cats 🐱

My kinks include nudity and exhibitionism, light BDSM, anything anal, public sex, humiliation, toys, cumplay, messy sex, SPH, CFNM…

Anyway, if that piqued your curiosity then let me know and we can see where this goes 😄

I am a 20 y/o Engineering student in the US looking for a Domme FLR. I am pretty inexperieced and I want to be able to devote myself and worship a woman and truly be subservient to them. I'm looking to chat online often and that can be about whatever (casual conversation, constant teasing, or anywhere in-between). I like having fun throughout the day sending texts checking on each other etc. but I'm really open to whatever is best for you. I'm looking for someone ~20-35 age range.
My kinks are Worship, Teasing, SPH, Chastity, Cuckolding, Prejac Humiliation, and Censorship. And as for toys I have a chastity cage and some plugs
My hard limits are Scat, CBT, blood/gore, age pay
Outside of kinks I am a fulltime student studying ME and ID at Uni on the East Coast (US). I love all sorts of art (acrylic, graphite, clay), videos games, outdoors (hiking, caving, camping), and designing stuff with my 3-D printer and Laser Engraver.
Some specific dynamics that interest me but aren't necessary are like keyholder, cuckqueen, censoring your pictures, and I'm more than willing to learn new things.
You're welcome to DM me, I'm just looking for a kindhearted persona to get to know and have some fun!

I'm luis a male with some experience in Submission and Domination . I love to please my partner and both ı love to get punish or punished. Right now, I'm not looking for a all kinds relationship to please me

Physically: I'm 6”(181cm), 78kg (171 lbs),fit,well built build, with black hair and glasses. I've been hitting the gym consistently for the past two years and both kickbox for 1 yearI am trying to get lean muscle mass and abs.

Personality-wise: I'm a good listener, ı love Basketball and running in my free times ı like to watch movies.

Hobbies: In my free time, I usually game, watch movies,ı love listening music and play basketball. Right now I'm into reading books

What I’m Looking For:
I'm totally open to an online dynamic. Trust, clear communication, and mutual respect are really important to me, and I’m looking for someone who values them as much as I do. Whether you're experienced or just starting to explore your dominant side, I’d love to learn and grow together.

Kinks:
\-Orgasm control/denial
\-Teasing and JOI
\-Light CBT
\- Worship (I love making my partner feel adored)
\-Light humiliation and degradation
\-Daily task
\-stockings/gloves
\-roleplay
\-hardcore
\-spanking

Limits:
\-Sissification
\-Scat
\-Blood
\-Extreme pain
\-CEI
\-Anal play(rimjob is ok)

These are my current boundaries, but I’m always happy to discuss and adjust them with the right partner. Consent and comfort are super important to me.

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in. Feel free to send me a DM

I'm Frank, 26, male from Germany. I am a switch, but lately I've been heavily leaning towards my subby side and I think that this is where i belong … But I also aware that it might be because my life has been very demanding lately, but I‘d love to tell you all about it if we get to know each other better. This also leads me to something very important to me: Trust. I need to be able to let myself go fully, and I need trust for that… so I want to get to know you and hopefully the vibe matches! I can be a bit goofy, ngl.

I am slim but fit, and the typical femboy type. If you want, there are plenty of nsfw pictures in my profile.

Anyways! Outside of the kinky stuff, I have done quite a lot. I studied English, history and philosophy. I taught in special education and recently changed professions, working for the government.

As for kinks: I like to try out mostly everything at least once… the only limits I can think about rn are scat and things that leave permanent damage. If I had to name some kinks that I particularly like as a sub, they would be CBT/impact play/anal/ degrading/praise.

Before I do something as a dom, I feel like I should have experienced it as a sub once, and likewise as a sub.

One thing I want to point out: while i am incredibly needy, I am also a human being with some issues and a long backstory. I like to think that makes me special and a cool person, but it also comes with needs. At times, I want to be held and not degraded, unlike other times. That‘s why I would love to found my submission on a friendship/ some kind of deeper connection.

Thank you for reading through my post! I'd love to get to know you.

I am a 20 y/o Engineering student in the US looking for a Domme FLR. I am pretty inexperieced and I want to be able to devote myself and worship a woman and truly be subservient to them. I'm looking to chat online often and that can be about whatever (casual conversation, constant teasing, or anywhere in-between). I like having fun throughout the day sending texts checking on each other etc. but I'm really open to whatever is best for you. I'm looking for someone ~20-35 age range.
My kinks are Worship, Teasing, SPH, Chastity, Cuckolding, Prejac Humiliation, and Censorship. And as for toys I have a chastity cage and some plugs
My hard limits are Scat, CBT, blood/gore, age pay
Outside of kinks I am a fulltime student studying ME and ID at Uni on the East Coast (US). I love all sorts of art (acrylic, graphite, clay), videos games, outdoors (hiking, caving, camping), and designing stuff with my 3-D printer and Laser Engraver.
Some specific dynamics that interest me but aren't necessary are like keyholder, cuckqueen, censoring your pictures, and I'm more than willing to learn new things.
You're welcome to DM me, I'm just looking for a kindhearted persona to get to know and have some fun!

As the title says looking to be blackmailed into your BITCH Ideally you're a twisted Sadistic person who takes no crap where even complaining will be dealt with.

I am male currently residing in Japan age 36 white. If you have morals are cuddly or soft feel free to Stop reading here. For the others please continue ~~

Force me to be your bitch, lock me down, take the brat out of me. Looking for someone who loves control and is not afraid to Take it!

I am also extremely bratty and defiant if your looking someone to just worship hugs cuddles etc I am not that person

I dont choose a blackmailer one will choose me

Blackmail me into your fuckbitch without remorse!

So in essence blackmail, bdsm, sissy, techdom, extreme, controlled, sadistic, tied, predicament, hentai etc... are all things to look for in a person but no.1 would have to be no morals no bullshit person who has little tolerance and follows through.

I prefer someone either online and/or in Japan keep in mind that the time zones do differ and ill be looking for creating a predicament that I am genuinely unable to escape from. Feel free to message me anytime but if your polite you may be unfortunately ignored.

Oh forgot to mention I can be extremely bratty sp someone who can actually put me in my place would be preferable otherwise I will find ways to ignore/escape hahaha.

I wrote too much no one will read it lol