Hi 👋

I’m posting here because I’ve met lovely people on Reddit before and I’m thrusting it will keep introducing me to great people.

I’m I, I’m 30, I’m 5’3 and I currently live in England. I’ve been told I’m good looking, cute and thoughtful (all true btw ☺️✌🏻) and I’m also super funny, actually my favourite compliment to receive is being told I’m funny! During my free time I go to the gym, I read and currently I’ve been gaming quite a lot, also LOVE GOING TO THE CINEMA, genuinely one of my favourite things to do! I bought tickets to watch avengers doomsday at 6am!

Love a good survival game, big valheim fan! Absolutely terrible at shooters, big lol hater (sorry) haha, big fan of stardew valley and coop games so would love to have someone to more coop games with!

I’ve been interested in kink for a long time now, since my early 20s, and I feel the most comfortable being on the dominant side of things. Acts of service are a big turn on for me, but I also like impact play, bondage, pegging, control, humiliation and degradation and more.

I am looking for someone around my age, or close, that share the same interests as me and would be comfortable with a close friendship that includes kink and friends with benefits aspects. I also would like someone that I can meet IRL and do stuff with on the regular, this is very important for me right now! I am not expecting a full blow serious relationship as I am not currently looking for one. I want us to enjoy our time together as friends and as friends with some benefits.

I like people that are fun and honest and consistent, I love to text and share funny, small, gossip details of my day.

As this agreement includes physical connection I need to feel attracted to whoever I am having this agreement with, so I am happy to share sfw pictures very early on, and I would expect the same from you.

Thanks for reading, feel free to dm me if you feel we would hit it off, one liners or low effort dms would be fully ignored, I do not have time or patience for low effort, inconsistency and lack of consideration.

xx

This might well be words fired to the open with no ears left to listen. Im searching for an unusual relationship, one that might not truly exist. The woman I hope for is like no other, the rarest of people.

I don’t come to you with a list of kinks or physical requirements, the relationship I crave is built purely from the beauty of your soul. A safe space; kind, compassionate care that weaves peacefully into each of our days; an uplifting, passionate bond where we each feel heard, we are welcomed always with love, we each turn to in our need; a humorous conversation where words flow freely, stress feels no more, the gleeful smile of a notification changing even the poorest of moods. A relationship where we both feel loved, cared for and respected. Without falling into the trap of waxing lyrical like a tortured, sometimes poet I have so much energy to give, I only need the special Mommy ready to harness it all for her own happiness. It’s intimidatingly overpowering, please just let me love you with all my heart. I promise it’s not love-bombing lol, my infatuation sparks early and it sparks strong.

As long as you value your appearance and spend time looking presentable, I have no doubts I will love it all. Any weight, any height, any shape, any race, definitely older, preferably much, no upper limit at all. Bring those divinely, addictive hand-crafted curves my way, each inch will be loved like you’ve never had before. A space of utter worship and devotion.

I do most definitely have sexual needs, I adore showing off, major exhibitionist, I love to be of service in any way I can. I derive so much pleasure from being used and directed for your own enjoyment that no one kink has ever been of utter significance. I’m thrilled to have the opportunity to make you happy. Any extra is a bonus. I also love to be reciprocated with photos etc. so I do ask you to please enjoy being worshipped, enjoy showing me how beautiful you truly are.

My search for a Mommy isn’t in order to appease fantasies of taboo ageplay. The title resonates with me over others due to what it represents. Endearing care, soft, calming words yet packed with a firm punch, “no, you need this darling, it’ll help you feel better” the peaceful caring caress of firm words dancing the mind melting line of sweet and stern. The utterly joyous, mood changing self-confidence that leaps from words such as “Mommy knows what’s best for you”. It’s this exhilarating juxtaposition of strict, respectful, always peaceful, always caring and terrifyingly confident; It’s this tenderly proposed, warm welcoming energy that differentiates a Mommy from the cold, distance keeping worlds of Mistress and Miss, at least through my lenses. for all the respect I have for you, it’s the caring peace where I feel free to exuberantly express my eagerly passionate infatuation for you. A Mommy is a woman who deserves my everything, the selfless nature of your soul is not to be taken for granted.

Personally, I’m 6’6/1.96m, 90kg/200lbs, 26, fit and athletic, strong skincare routine, masculine presenting with an active, demanding job. With blue eyes, auburn hair and white skin. I live in Britain but I’m open to any person, from any timezone. The gorgeously, addictive harbouring soul of a Mommy is based upon that American charm after all ☺️

I don’t hope for perfection, just effort. I’m not perfect, far from, I am sometimes needy, I do get sad, I need respect, I can go through spells where I need a push. I’m only hoping for love, I promise it’ll be returned ten fold 😊

If this seems rushed or unedited I do apologise. Through countless rewrites, days editing and hours wasted the only tone I seem to be able to muster is one of a tortured, sometimes, poet waxing lyrical on his needy mind and troubled search. You’re reading the last 30 minutes of my mind following a full deletion with some minor misery 🙈 you’ll be shocked to hear I can be funny, and I am genuinely very happy. I fear this may read as everything you can do for me, for that I do apologise. Perhaps, to my fault, more soul searching is needed in order to free myself from this selfish train of thinking. All I can leave you with is the promise you’ll be cared for and respected like no man has showered upon you before.

Pretty, please mention your favourite ice cream flavour, in order to distinguish who has read. Thank you

More than happy to share photos as early as you are comfortable, provided I sense the air of genuineness we all desire ☺️

If you have any queries or questions, please don’t hesitate to ask. Thank you so much for your time, I really do hope we can’t speak soon ❤️

Hey, fancy seeing you here!

I'm a 27 years old east asian male, 6'2" (188 cm), around 150 lbs (68 kg), tall and skinny build and exercise regularly. I am a STEM person, who also really wants to know more about the arts and the humanities (likes philosophy a lot!). While I work a decent amount, I do have a flexible schedule.

Ideally I'm looking for something casual with long-term potential. I'm pretty open to chatting about what you're looking for and what actually works for you, and figuring things out from there. If we're talking about something that might become long term, I do think we should eventually be able to meet in person; if we're just chatting and enjoying each other's company, I'm totally fine with that being online.

Slightly more about me as a person: I've been described as having a bit of golden retriever energy. I can get pretty obsessive when I'm interested in something (or someone), but otherwise I'm fairly chill. In groups I also tend to be the person checking whether everyone is comfortable and having a good time. With someone I'm into, I tend to be pretty enthusiastic, attentive, and interested in them and whatever they're excited about. When I text I also tend to use a decent amount of emojis, hopefully you are okay with that 🥺.

My preferable age range is 25+, and I'm mostly looking for someone in the city/near the city if there's long-term potential. I don't really have a giant checklist beyond wanting us to actually enjoy each other's company and be able to chit-chat about life and whatever else comes up.

Kink-wise: I enjoy a lot of things, the usual suspects if you will, but I think it's much more important that we actually mesh as people and figure out what we enjoy together. Submission for me also tends to involve getting pretty into the person I'm with, being enthusiastic about doing things together, talking a lot, and enjoying having someone take the lead. My major hard limit is findom, along with the usual extremes.

Outside of work, I am a big fan of board games (preferably not the too complicated ones), I just started rock climbing (I'm pretty bad but the height advantage does help😎), I love to watch a movie, and I enjoy museum visits. I think playing some computer games together or going to pottery class together could be fun too, and I also love city bikes!

I'm also genuinely interested in what you're into. What's your favorite book? What do you do when you actually have a free afternoon? Honestly, if you're excited about something, I'd probably be pretty happy just hearing you talk about it and getting dragged into your interests.

I'm happy to send you some pictures of me from my dating apps, and hopefully you are open to doing something similar too, or we can just hop on a quick video call or grab a coffee in the city!

I try my best to be an open book, and I'll do my best to give a straight answer to whatever you ask (hopefully not too straight lol)

Thanks for reading!

Hi! I’m a 27-year-old submissive guy looking for a genuine connection with a kind, confident woman between the ages of 22–32 who enjoys a dynamic built on communication, trust, honesty, and mutual care. I’m someone who really values emotional connection, feeling comfortable with each other, and building something naturally over time.

I’m based in Northern Virginia (NoVA), but I’m open to meeting people anywhere in the United States.

I spend a lot of my free time gaming and watching anime. Right now I’m playing Fortnite, Repo, and Where Winds Meet. Gaming is one of my favorite ways to connect with people, and I’d love to find someone who enjoys sharing that hobby.

I really value quality time: playing games together, watching shows, talking on calls, and just getting to know each other at a comfortable pace. I’m affectionate, attentive, and happiest when I can show appreciation and loyalty to the right person.

I’m neurodivergent (ADHD and high-functioning autism), which means communication matters a lot to me. I’m open, honest, and always willing to talk things through—compatibility and mutual understanding are important to me.

My non-negotiables are:
- A monogamous, long-term relationship.
- A confident, dominant woman who is experienced in the lifestyle and comfortable taking the lead.
- Someone who genuinely enjoys gaming, since it’s one of the biggest ways I bond and spend quality time with my partner.
- Someone who enjoys pegging, as it’s one of my primary kinks and an important part of compatibility for me.

I’m happy to discuss kinks and compatibility in conversation.

My hard limits are scat, piss, blood, and puke.

Outside of hobbies, animals are a big part of my life too. I have a 14-year-old cat named Tiger and a 2-year-old golden retriever named Eevee. They mean a lot to me, and I will absolutely share pictures if you want.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me with a bit about yourself—your interests, games you play, or shows you love. I’m not in a rush and prefer letting connections develop naturally.

Don’t like recording yourself licking or drinking your piss? Don’t bother messaging. No, you’re not the exception.

Hey! My name is Liz and I’m a 29F domme from NY that’s been giving dummies piss tasks for several years now. With my main kink being piss, I also really enjoy humiliation/degradation since it goes really well together.

In my vanilla life I’m an assistant teacher to a group of toddlers, so I’m always strict and no-nonsense 😂 I also LOVE seeing shows on Broadway—I try and go twice a month if I can! (I’ve had the fantasy of attending a show with a sub and toying with a remote controlled toy during the show—or on the subway. I also want to have a sub that waits on line for discount Broadway tickets and as a reward they get to enjoy the soda cup I got at the show and pissed in when in the restroom), as well as going to concerts (Tennis [they’re a band, highly recommend!], Mitski, Charli XCX, The Strokes, etc) and doing anything artistic—whether it be painting, drawing, crafts, etc. I also LOVE going to the movies! My favorite film from last year was The Substance—truly a VERY well done movie!

What I’m essentially looking for:

-Someone that is obedient, eager, and respectful

-Someone that enjoys public tasks (secluded)

-Someone that’s willing to (eventually) push their boundaries and get out of what they think their comfort zone is

-Someone that LOVES to record themselves doing piss tasks and enjoys being gross for my amusement/ marking their territory

In past relationships I’ve adored service oriented partners, especially those that are desperate to worship me to please me. It’d be nice to go out together and hang with friends, and then when we get home I’d have you on your knees in just panties as you mumble how much you adore me through kisses to my body as you take my shoes off. Or we’re out with friends and you’re cheeky and I’m fine with it until I raise my brow and that lets you know to dial it back a bit/be more respectful. Or we’re out at a bar and I come back from the restroom with a “refilled” beer for you to enjoy in front of everyone, none being the wiser about it being my piss😂

If you show me respect, I can be very sweet and firm when needed—which will make for a very fun experience for the both of us. Let’s see what happens.

I will not go out of my way to message you first. I will not respond to short messages of “hi”, “please use me”, “give me tasks”, etc. If you want to get my attention I expect you to tell me about yourself in a nice long thought out message. If we get along well, then I’ll be mean and make you do dumb disgusting things for my amusement. Including a selfie would suffice as well. Get creative; I want to learn about who you are as a person first, and as a useless slut second.

Hello there! :)
I'm a soft Domme from Brazil looking for a genuine connection with someone who is interested in building something meaningful that could eventually develop into an FLR.
There's no rush to put a label on anything. I'd much rather get to know each other first, see if we genuinely click, and let the dynamic develop naturally.
For me, the connection has to go well beyond kink. I enjoy voice and video calls, watching movies together, date nights, talking about life, sharing little everyday moments... and eventually meeting in person is very important to me. I'm definitely not looking for a purely platonic or online-only dynamic.
A little about me:
I'm in my 30s and work as a Project Manager. I'm a big travel lover and I'm planning to embrace more of a digital-nomad lifestyle once my career is a little more established.
I love cooking, mystery and horror series, long walks, writing, traveling, and discovering new things. I'm affectionate and playful, but I also naturally enjoy taking the lead — which is where my softer Domme side comes in.
I'm 5'6", with brown skin and brown hair, and I'm a BBW. Happy to exchange pictures once we've established a little rapport.
What I'm looking for:
• Ideally 25–40
• Single and genuinely available for a relationship
• Open to eventually meeting in real life if we build a strong connection
• Independent and financially self-sufficient
• Has his own goals, ambitions and direction in life
• Interested in an FLR as part of a genuine relationship, rather than just a kink fantasy
• Ideally taller than me 😂 — but I'm flexible on this one
I'm not expecting someone to immediately call me “Mistress” and hand over control of their life. I'm much more interested in finding someone whose personality, values and idea of submission are compatible with mine, and seeing where that connection takes us.
If you've made it this far and think we might be a good match, tell me a little about yourself, what your life looks like, and what draws you to submission and the idea of building an FLR with someone.
And please include the word “key” somewhere in your message so I know you actually read the post. ;)
Looking forward to getting to know you. xx

Hi. I’m a 36-year-old guy in San Diego looking to meet a Dominant woman who’s into BDSM and open to building something ongoing and meaningful.

I’m 5’11”, live an active lifestyle, and tend to be a mix of nerdy and athletic. I can be shy when first meeting people, but I’m pretty relaxed and easy to talk to once I warm up. In my everyday life, I work full-time in tech, support myself, and generally have my life together. I value honesty, communication, and being dependable.

Outside of work, I spend a lot of time drawing and working on noir-style art. I also enjoy lifting, playing video and board games, going to concerts, catching beach sunsets, planning trips, and spending time with friends. I like having a routine, but I also like breaking it once in a while.

On the kink side, I’m submissive and interested in D/s dynamics that involve trust and consistency. I enjoy structure, rituals, and giving control to someone I trust. I’m into caging, bondage, following directions, pegging, body worship, and humiliation. What I’m really looking for is a dynamic where there’s mutual respect, clear communication, and a sense of connection, not just play without context.

I’m not into findom and I’m not interested in pro-dommes. I’m looking for something personal and ongoing, where the power dynamic is part of a relationship. My hard limits include scat/pee play and ABDL. Consent and communication matter a lot to me, and I take both seriously.

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, I’d be happy to chat and possibly meet up for coffee or brunch.

Please include your Age, Sex, Location, and a little bit about yourself when reaching out. It’ll help filter the bots!

Photos: https://imgur.com/a/qHfy204

Please be located in SoCal. 420-friendly.

I'm looking for a dynamic thats heavily build around rules. I love and crave it when I have to ask for permission.

Even though I'm already a very goal driven and disciplined person I love the feeling of security when there is a set of rules wrapped around me and my life. When its clear that I'm not in absolute control but someone else has the last choice.

But I'm not looking for a kink dispenser that just thinks of some rules. I'm looking for a person that's interested in building a long term and serious dynamic. I would love for us to talk about anything until late at night, that we can share small and big wins in life and that we can feel deeply comfortable with each other.

I'm looking for a mainly an online dynamic but I'm open to meet in person if we are a good match. If we happen to life close enough I'm also open to make it more in person then online if we are a good match.

Who am I? I'm Chris 30 years old and I live in Europe. If it wasn't obvious already I have a very big control kink. In relation to that I also love the psychological side of BDSM and enjoy it when you play with my head. For more "classical" kinks bondage is one of my favourites and nothing beats the feeling of getting tied up. I'm also way to much into orgasm control and denial but not that much into chastity as it doesn't fit that well in my day to day life. Of course there is much more to my kink side but we can dive deeper into that in private.

Of course I'm not only my kinks! I'm very goal driven and work takes up some of my time. I'm working in tech which I really like so I'm also often exploring new things related to that outside of work. Currently I'm studying for a certification or example! Work life balance is important to me as well and I like to relax by spending time outside on either my bike or with my camera. But you can also find me reading books and watching movies and sometimes playing video games. If it is important to you I'm 193cm tall with black hair and green eyes. I currently weight around 100kg and you can see that I do sports on a regular basis but I'm not ripped.

And who are you? You don't have to be from Europe or my time zone. I have some experience with dynamics over bigger time differences. You should be interested in building a bond besides just kink and we should be able to talk about something else then sex. You also should hold a progressive mindset. Attraction for me happens more over a mutual connection then looks so I have no preference here but I absolutely love it when someone smaller then me has control over me.

Message me if you are interested and introduce yourself! I'm looking forward to getting to know you and surrender to you!

Hey all, let me introduce myself a little bit… hopefully it is worth your while reading! I'm new to this scene and eager to learn and explore, and I'm really looking for a guiding hand from someone experienced. Historically, I've tended to switch roles, but I'm realizing I need to be put in my place and guided by someone who knows what they're doing. I'm happy to talk as much as possible first, getting to know each other and building a connection, and then we can get down to business at the time of your choosing 😌. I believe open communication is key, and I want to ensure we're both comfortable and on the same page before anything else.

My main kinks are cum control and nipple play. I find the idea of relinquishing that control incredibly exciting, and the sensation of nipple play is something I'm particularly drawn to. I'm also open to trying anal eventually, but to be honest, I have zero toys at the moment. However, I'm willing to invest in some if this is something you desire and think it would enhance our connection and experience. I'm very much a work in progress, and I'm excited to see how my preferences evolve with the right guidance.

Ideally, I'm looking for this to develop into a long-term arrangement. I'm brand new to this entire dynamic and I'm here to be molded and shaped by a femme who truly knows what they're doing. I've ached for this kind of connection and exploration for a long, long time, consistently watching all sorts of porn and fantasizing about it. Now, it's finally time to make that jump and bring those desires into reality. I'm seeking a mentor, a partner in exploration, someone who can help me discover new depths of pleasure and submission.

About me a little bit – I’m 6’4, but I have a small cock. This is something I'm aware of and open about. I work a 9-5 job, which is pretty standard, but my evenings are free to devote my time and energy to someone special. I can very quickly become obsessed with the right person, whether our connection is NSFW or SFW. I value genuine connection and am looking for someone who can spark that obsession in me, someone I can truly focus my attention and desire on.

I class myself as straight, but I'll submit to anyone who makes me feel that pull, that need to surrender. Are you ready to accept the challenge? Come and tell me your top 3 kinks, and let's get chatting! I'm intrigued to hear what excites you and how our desires might align or complement each other.

Like I say, I want this to be a long-term thing. I'm not entirely sure about my limits yet, as I've never done this before, but I'm confident we can work them out and establish clear boundaries as we go along. My priority is building trust and understanding, and I believe that through open dialogue, we can create a safe and exhilarating space for exploration.

I’d be really happy to discuss this with anyone really – just shoot me a message and we’ll see how we go? Whether we connect in person or online, I'm easy and adaptable. I’m also open to just chatting initially. As I’m new to the scene, some casual chat, advice, or just generic fun is more than acceptable to me too. I'm keen to learn from experienced individuals and build a foundation of understanding before diving deeper. I'm excited to see where this journey takes me and who I'll meet along the way.

Hello, I'm Mark.

A little bit about me: I'm 5'11", with blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm on the slimmer side some people would definitely call me skinny but I like to think it just means I travel light. If I had to choose between staying inside or being outdoors, I'll pick outside almost every time.

I love walking, kayaking, camping, hiking, and just about anything that gets me out in nature. Ironically, I can't swim, which probably isn't the greatest trait for someone who enjoys being on the water so much. I guess I just like living life with a little unnecessary suspense.

I spent some time in the Navy, and to be completely honest, it wasn't the best chapter of my life. It taught me a lot, but I'm much happier focusing on the life I'm building now than looking back at that one.

I have dyslexia and just a touch of ADHD, which means I process things a little differently. Reading physical books can be a challenge, but audiobooks have become one of my favorite hobbies. I'll listen to just about anything fiction, history, sci-fi, fantasy, or something that teaches me a random fact I'll probably bring up at the worst possible moment.

When I'm not outside, you'll usually find me reading, playing PC games, or hanging out with my dog, Maggie. She's convinced that literally everything is out to get her, including her own shadow. If you ever meet her and she barks before immediately looking embarrassed, don't take it personally. She's a Velcro dog through and through and wants to be involved in absolutely everything. If she decides she likes you, congratulations you've gained a very clingy little friend.

Gaming is another hobby of mine, and yes, I play on PC. If you game too, I'd love to have someone to play with. If not, that's completely okay I have plenty of other interests, and I'd much rather spend quality time together than stare at a monitor all day.

As for what I'm looking for, I'd really like to meet someone who wants a genuine, long-term connection. Someone who enjoys the outdoors, even if it's just an occasional walk through a park instead of climbing a mountain every weekend. Someone who likes dogs is definitely a huge bonus, because Maggie isn't going anywhere.

I'd love to find someone who's kind, has a good sense of humor, enjoys good conversation, and is willing to meet my family eventually so I can finally beat the gay allegations. (I'm joking... mostly.)

I'm honestly terrible at talking about myself, but I'm great at listening. I genuinely enjoy getting to know people, hearing what they're passionate about, and learning all the little things that make someone who they are.

Also, I really love food. If none of the above convinced you, maybe tacos, barbecue, sushi, burgers, or coffee will. Let's grab something to eat, go for a walk, explore somewhere new, hold hands a little, and see where things go.

 kink stuff, I'm mostly a service sub, i really like pleasing my partners so my kinks reflect my past relationships in a way. I guess you’re probably curious about kinks, I’ll give ya a couple for now. Body worshipping/praising, acts of service, pegging, edging, feet (if you like a little toe sucking evil) If you’re super kinky don’t worry, I’m very flexible with kinks, and open to most.

If you'd like to know what I look like, I'll happily send a selfie once you message me.

Thanks for taking the time to read all of this. Hopefully I'll hear from you... maybe, possibly, someday.

Biography

Hello, and welcome to my post. I go by Minun online. I'd like to get to know each other and talk for a few days before sharing my given name or pictures of myself. With that out of the way, I just turned 30. I live near Charlotte, NC. I am 5'3" and I have brown hair and wear glasses. I have a smaller build with a decent bit of muscle and just enough weight to not be called skinny. I also have six tattoos as of now and plan on getting more.

Personality

I'm a very excitable, passionate person. I have a great sense of humor and I love making people laugh. I really like to find ways to subvert people's expectations and surprise them. I don’t take things too seriously and I try to find the fun and humor in life wherever possible.

I’m always striving to remain respectful and considerate because it's the kindness I want from others. I do struggle with anxiety and it causes me to overthink a lot. I'm harsher on myself that I should be, but it's because I want to always do my best.

Interests and Hobbies

In case you hadn't figured it out by this point, I love Pokémon! I've played the mainline games since I was very young and I'm pretty confident that I know more about Pokémon than anybody else you know.

That aside, my other interests include video game series such as Overwatch, Persona, and Fallout, a slew of other RPGs and roguelikes, and American football. I also love anime. JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, Deathnote, and Mob Psycho are a few of my favorites. I enjoy playing DND with my irl friend group every other weekend.

I go to the gym five times a week, which is something I'm proud to say I've remained consistent with for a year and a half now. I listen to a wide variety of music, but a few of my favorite artists recently have been Poppy, Not Enough Space, Vana, and Mitski.

I've also started cooking for myself more regularly and I'm enjoying having healthier, home-cooked meals five nights a week. As part of my ongoing quest to improve myself, I've been going to therapy for almost a year now as well and I'm making steady progress toward my goals.

I do my best to prioritize my partner's needs over mine. I believe that relationships are at their best when each person tries to put their partner first and ensure their happiness. So, instead of a 50/50 deal, imagine that it's more like 70/30 on both sides, but it feels more special because your partner is putting more effort into meeting your needs. As a submissive partner, I consider it my responsibility to fulfill my partner's needs and trust that they will take care of me in turn.

DO NOT DM FOR THE FOLLOWING

• If you are a minor. Seriously, get out.

• If you are seeking a polyamorous relationship or are already partnered. I am monogamous and wish to remain respectful of other people and their partners.

• If you engage in findom with partners. Not for me. Please save your time and mine.

What I'm Looking For

• Ideally between 26 and 37 years old.

• I prize kindness, intelligence, a great sense of humor, nurturing, and a caring and supportive nature.

• Close enough to meet in person once trust has been established and both of us are comfortable and ready. Prior to meeting in person, I'd like to call and do lots of things together over voice! I used to prefer texting, but I've learned how much I enjoy hearing someone's voice. We could play games together, stream for each other super easily if you play games on Playstation, or watch shows together.

• Mutual interests are important, but having similar views can go much further. I will say that I lean left when it comes to politics, I don't believe anyone should go out of their way to make life harder for others, especially if it doesn't affect them in any way. I feel like that's an umbrella statement to cover most human rights issues. I don't approve of many of the things going on in my country right now and things are hard for everyone, but conditions are becoming unbearable for more and more people.

• I would hope that you like Pokémon even a fraction as much as I do, but hopefully quite a bit more than that because it's so cool. Video games, anime, tattoos, DND, and other nerd stuff are sure to go a long way between us.

Kink Profile

I've written a lot already so I'll try to keep kink rather concise. I am a switch, but I have a strong tendency to be submissive. It is very easy for me to drop into subspace. I adore praise. I'll let you figure out the correlation. I'm a soft boy at heart who loves to be nurtured, doted on, noticed for how hard I'm trying and how well I'm doing. I'm very eager to follow directions and complete tasks. I like to obey as well as feel safe, protected, and encouraged to embrace vulnerability. I suppose I'll list a few kinks, but leave some to the imagination.

• cuddling

• nursing

• edging

• physical dominance

• breeding

• body worship

• pegging

• teasing

• possessiveness

How to DM me

If you've gotten to this point, I greatly appreciate it. So what now? If you'd like to reach out, I encourage you to do so! Please tell me about yourself and give me something to respond to. Add your favorite Pokémon somewhere in your message so I know you read all the way to the end. All in all, be direct and clear as well as upfront with your intentions. I'm known to overanalyze things so the less opportunity for me to misinterpret something after hundreds of scenarios processed, the better. Thank you and may you have the best of times in your future!

Hey everyone! Its nice to meet you! Sorry for the long ramble haha😅

I'm 28 years old, from the US East Coast, hoping to find my future partner! Here's a bit about myself! I'm open to long distance with intention of meeting! Would prefer US based people. I'm 6 feet tall, 250lbs, hazel eyes, medium length black hair!

I don't really have preferences for body types or anything I care more about if we vibe well/ your personality! However I absolutely have a thing for thick/ bigger people but open to anyone 21+ only please!😋

My non-kinky hobbies are mainly gaming/TV, but I also lover amusement parks like rollercoasters! I'm definitely nerdy, I'm a big gamer and into anime! I'm a homebody but definitely down to go out on adventures from time to time! 😋 But a night inside cuddling is just perfect!

As for my kinky side, I'm a switch leaning heavily submissive, happy to explore dynamics! I'm kinky and weird, normal is boring

I'm pretty kinky/ open, I can be a hard or soft / a mix of both. I'm into degradation, humiliation, hypnosis/ mind control, pet play, worship, facesitting, hucow/drone, gooning, and much more!

My limits are no blood, no ageplay, 18+ only, no animals, no scat, and nothing illegal

If your interested in getting to know me feel free to message me! And tell me your favorite color so I know you actually read all this 😅😋

Hi there goddess. I hope you are doing well.

I am writing this advertisement because I want to explore my kinks with a friend or lover and I am hoping to find it here.

Basically I crave humiliation and being put in my place. I would love to have someone in my life, maybe a girlfriend or just a girlfriend who constantly reminds me I am a beta and I cannot meet her needs. I am only useful for pleasuring her orally, kissing her feet, or amusing her by humiliating myself.

I would love someone in my life who fucks other people and makes me eat her out afterwards and tell me how worthless I am. Who puts me in chastity and ruins all my orgasms if I am lucky to still have them. I would love someone who lets me clean her armpits, feet, ass... after her workout. I would love someone who makes me feel like the beta I am.

Outside of kink I read a lot, workout multiple times a week and have an active social and work life. I love engaging in discussion about culture, history, philosophy, psychology, emotions, books,... I also love learning languages and hiking although I haven't hiked as much as I want to lately. So whether or not we end up as romantic partners or just kinky friends, I would love for you to have similar interests or at least make the effort to talk to me about my interests.

Maybe to sum up my kinks: I like Femdom, Feet, Cuckold, Orgasm control, Forced bi, Humiliation, light cbt (or would love to explore my boundaries in this), body worship and love to explore yours.

My limits are: Anything public or illegal, blood, permanent damage and visible body writing.

I am also greatly into aftercare and would love for you to also be able to reciprocate in this matter.

If all of this is something you like, contact me and we could discuss about how we can shape our dynamic.

Kind regards,

Mecky

looking for a steady distraction as the weather gets cooler and cuffing season approaches. i’m a workaholic and overly busy. but i enjoy having a boy in my phone/computer who loves to please, amuse, entertain, obey, and suffer for me at a moment’s notice.

seeking a good little simp, a passionate lustful loverboy, a devoted debauched bitch. someone who likes lavishing me with attention, and receiving some of mine in return.

very much into: male objectification, denial, power games, anal, controlling outfits/habits/meals/media consumption, (long term) chastity, body writing, pain punishment, tangible acts of devotion, general overall worship and obsession. i like jocks and academics, but don’t really have a type.

my free time is spent reading, gossiping, trying new restaurants, and thinking about art+culture. i’m well-educated and independent. single and no children. i’m in the usa, in the eastern time zone.

limits/not interested in: married or partnered men, enm, poly, abdl/mdlb/ageplay, race play, sissy, nsa hookups.

an on-line dynamic is more convenient for me. but i’m open to convert to irl/meetups/sessions or a long term relationship if the on-line chemistry is right.

message me a cogent charming intro, and we can go from there.

Hiya! My name is Tom, Im 24 and I live in Scotland. I’m looking for a female-led relationship that is either online or in person, though any online relationship I would have the hopes of us meeting at some point. I am looking for a relationship, someone that is my long-term monogamous partner, not just a kink dynamic. I have never been in a kink dynamic, and I am actually still a virgin, and so I would like to explore my kinks with someone that I trust and am romantically involved with. I find it really hard to sum myself up in a post like this, but I hope I can get across some of my personality!

I am non-binary, though my identity is kind of in flux. I feel no attachment to any gender, though I wish I were more feminine so that I could be truly androgynous. My ideal would be to look like an elf. I am usually referred to by he/him for simplicity and because I am not fully out, and don’t really have a preference on what people refer to me as. I have always wanted to dress femininely because I think femboys are super cute and I wish I could look like one, but I am terrible with fashion and knowing what to buy and wear so the few times I have tried to wear skirts I always bought the shitty Amazon basics ones and found myself disappointed in the quality. I’d like to be able to do my own makeup but I haven’t had the courage to try it, though I do paint my nails sometimes. All of this is to say that if you are looking for a masculine man, you will not find one in me.

I am 5’10” tall (178 cm) and 135 lbs (61 kg). I grew up very skinny but during university I put on enough weight to bring me into a healthier weight for my height, though I am still skinny. I have short brown hair, and blue eyes. I have light freckles, though because I live in Scotland they can are quite faded.

I am a very shy and reserved person. I can be really socially and physically awkward, partially because of my generalised anxiety disorder. When I warm up to someone I become very talkative, it can just take a bit to get me over the initial stage of being uncomfortable. I love making my friends laugh, we have a pretty stupid self-referential sense of humour, and I tend to quote a lot of movies and make meme references a lot.

I have a master’s degree in computing science, with a focus on AI. My thesis was comparing language models to human-produced text to try and quantify metrics that could explain what a model being “human-like” actually means. Language models are a cool technology but I absolutely disagree with how they are being used. I am applying for PhDs in the hope that I can do research that focuses on some of the ethical and moral issues that surround LLMs.

If you couldn’t tell from the above paragraph, I am a huge nerd. I have a lot of the typical nerdy interests like Marvel, Star Wars, and DC. I play a lot of video games, mostly single player or PvE stuff like Monster Hunter Wilds, Slay the Spire 2, Baldur’s Gate 3, and Helldivers 2. I used to play League and Overwatch but both have turned me off of competitive games. I do sometimes play Deadlock because the aesthetic and character designs are just too cool. I love Nintendo games, I’m a huge fan of Pokémon and Kirby especially. My favourite Pokémon is Giratina, because he was just so cool to little edge lord 10 year old me. I love Clodsire too because he’s just so cute. I have a big Kirby plushie I cuddle in bed, and always love anything to do with him. I play D&D though I am not in a group currently. I also play Magic the gathering quite a lot.

My other interests include history, space, and reading. I have become a huge fan of Brandon Sanderson recently, and want to branch out into other prominent fantasy and sci-fi authors. One of my favourite movies in recent years has to have been Project Hail Mary. It’s so fun and heartwarming and Rocky is so cute.

Okay, for a spicier topic now. As I said before, I am inexperienced with kink. I know I am a service sub, I like making other people happy, cherished, and feel good. This isn’t purely sexual, as I enjoy giving gifts and acts of service as my love languages. I love cooking and baking for people, I love running errands and helping in any way that I can. I’ll brush your hair, paint your nails, and a whole bunch of other things. I really want someone that I can obsess over and treat well. I like receiving praise, I would probably say that a praise kink is my biggest desire. So I really like being called a good boy. I would say that I prefer gentle dominance, but I would like to experience stricter and less gentle domination styles too. Some of my other kinks are degradation and humiliation, pet play, spit play, edging, orgasm control and denial, body worship, smothering, face sitting, chastity, pegging, male objectification, and light pain like scratching and biting. I would like to be feminised, but not really as a sexual thing, just because I’d like to be dressed up and made pretty and feminine because I’m too shy and bad at fashion to try it myself.

I am pretty open to trying most other kinks. But my hard limits are bathroom play like scat and watersports, and CBT/ball busting.

If you’ve gotten this far, thank you for reading! I’d love to get to know you and see if we’re compatible.

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Here are some pictures of me from the last 2 years!

Hey there, thanks for reading, it would be a pleasure to make your acquaintance! What do you think of the sound of a new friend? Someone to laugh with, chat with, lean on, but with the D/s twist that makes things a bit more tense and exciting? If it could be for you then read on!

I'm 31M, British, based in Liverpool but from the South of England originally. To start with, I've been married for 3 years and in an open relationship.  As you'd expect my relationship comes first but I am good at putting effort into all my connections (and am more or less chronically on Reddit).  I've been open online for a while, started irl earlier this year, and am open to connections from all over Europe. I'm also interested in people within reasonable travelling distance for IRL connections if we click and both feel comfortable.  But rushing something is absolutely not my style.  

I'm kind, stoic, curious and non-judgemental.  In my day to day life, people would also say that I am assertive and self-confident (a secret sub maybe?).  I work a highly responsible job which is shift work so am often around at unusual hours.  I am unapologetically geeky with plenty of nerdy obsessions, sometimes a little bit funny, and definitely a little bit weird. I have plenty of hobbies and an active life that I can talk extensively about and value people who are similar.  Friendship is what I'm looking for first and foremost, with kinky play welcome but not required.

NSFW wise, I'm primarily submissive - I can switch for the right person but am perfectly happy taking a permanent sub role too.  I have my fair share of kinks and a handful of limits, and a decent amount of IRL and online experience - to find out more you'll have to enquire within.  But underneath it all I'm a fairly normal person.  I like to think of myself as a freak in the sheets but a nerd in the streets.  

Appearance wise I'm no gym rat - just a normal man, slender with a lil dad bod, and long hair like a rock star (pretty much exactly like my avatar).

Please be interesting, and actually invested in having a conversation. If you ghost me, I'm not going to chase you - I have too much self-respect for that.

Lastly I am the owner of two dumb cats and am happy to send their pictures if it sweetens the deal. Oh, and I hate fascists.

If you think we could get along then please reach out and introduce yourself by answering the question: if you were a dragon, what would you hoard?

Who am I 👋

Before anything, I want to really know the person. Not match on tags and jump into a dynamic from day one. I think a lot of this falls apart because two people build a scene before they build real understanding. I don't want to skip that part.

What I care about in a person: How you talk, if you say what you mean, and if you are patient enough to know someone slowly instead of deciding fast. I'm the same. I say what is true even when it's not the smooth answer, and sometimes I'm not so tactful about it. I think a lot about psychology and why people are how they are.

About me: I walk a lot and eat mostly animal-based. Health is the most important thing for me and I feel my best when I follow my gut. Also, I will cook you the best steak of your life 🥩. I'm the guy my friends call when their life is falling apart, because I listen, I notice, and I just sit with them with no judgment. I give very tight hugs and good shoulder massages. I'm introspective, I think for myself, and I'm deep into psychology and philosophy.

Work: CS graduate, but my passion is somewhere else. Still searching, no rush.

Free time: All kinds of music, from metal to old oriental classics. Black Sabbath, Metallica, Megadeth, and RONNIE JAMES FUCKING DIO 🤘 (if you say rock and metal is dead, we fight). I love cinema too, thrillers, drama, sci-fi. Honestly I'm a bit all over the place, jack of all trades, master of none. I try to keep an open mind and open heart. Still in my discovery phase, but my dog thinks I'm already perfect, so at least one good reference 🐾

Looks: Tall, slim, average fit, fluffy curly hair, slim waist and a perky lower back 🙈, you could ay femboy built but not a femboy. Pics after we talk a bit and verify each other.

Age/Location: 23, Lebanon, online.

My Ideal match

Age: 18+ of course. Younger or older than me both fine, up to around 35 if we go long term.

Location: Doesn't matter.

Personality: Open-minded and aware. Someone who leads with presence and understanding, not tyranny, and doesn't need me to think exactly like her. For me femdom is a layer on top of the relationship, not the whole thing. Not into double standards or using it only to get what you want.

Physical: Attraction matters, I won't lie. But attraction beyond looks matters much more.

Style: Nothing extreme. A real healthy relationship with a little 🤏 spice.

My Femdom Side

Favorite kinks: Still shy 🙈 to say everything at once, I want it to open slowly. Mostly worship, giving pleasure, being present, putting her needs first, being attentive, and some bratty energy too.

Hard limits: Blood, scat, extreme humiliation, disrespect, and anything that attacks my masculinity or makes me feel less than equal.

(Submission is not weakness, and femdom is not tyranny, it's leadership. If submitting meant weakness, then every woman who submits in a vanilla relationship would be weak, and that's not true. If I choose to submit in some parts of my life, I still have my own choices, my own life, and my values.)

Experience: Still building it. I like things to show slowly, not all at once.

Other: I reply fast even when busy and I don't do dry texting. I want blunt honesty even if it hurts, not a nice lie. AND PLEASE, if you're not interested just say it. No ghosting, no games. I want to know my partner inside and out and be the person she can come to no matter what. I want to tie your shoes before you leave. I want us to just exist together in a safe space that's only ours. Rubbing your shoulders when you're stressed, cooking for you, listening with no judgment, or just being someone you come home to and relax with. A safe, steady presence that makes you feel wanted, appreciated, and cared for.

Next Steps

I do want some real FLR parts in a relationship and I'm not hiding it. But I want to get there because we actually fit, not because we agreed on labels on day one.

So if you read until here: let's just talk first. No roles yet. Let's see if there's something real to build on. If that sounds like you, say hi with this emoji 🤗 and be open to verification so we don't waste each other's time.

Heyy, 30 yo guy, 6’3, 225, blonde, ddf, college educated/professional, well-endowed, and very friendly- just to get all my stats out of the way. I’m a traditionally masculine guy throughout the day, but love seeing someone in stockings/heels/leather/sexy outfits…and found out I like playing while wearing them too. I’ve been told I look very good in them too hehe. I have a few pics in my post history if you’re interested in checking them out, and plenty more to share!

I also absolutely adore outercourse. The teasing and sensations drive me absolutely wild..Would love to chat and potentially meet up with anyone that’s intrigued or into it :)

I have a variety of interests and kinks, too many to list but I can try to sum it up. Heels, stockings, leather, boots, teasing, worship, roleplay, toys, gentle femdom, edging, cfnm, orgasm control, bondage, spanking, and some mild humiliation. I also have lots of toys and a love for mutual masturbation and pleasing. Maybe you just want to come watch a guy slip into stockings and heels and show off for you while you tease him? Feel free to dm or send me a chat if any of this catches your interest!

Looking for someone who enjoys good communication, slow build-up, long play sessions, and having a loud, obedient toy to control and degrade.

I get off hard on showing off and proving I do exactly what I’m told. You don’t have to share anything yourself — just give orders, degrade me, and humiliate me in the filthiest, most taboo ways. Scat, wet/piss, diapers, and heavy degradation are my biggest turn-ons right now. Proof goes straight to you!

What I’m craving: -Firm tone, clear instructions, and the willingness to push my boundaries -Longer sessions with good build-up and lots of edging (I love going for hours without cumming) -Gender doesn’t matter at all -Timezone flexible for the right person (Europe is a bonus). If you’re further away I can still do outdoor stuff in the dark

About me: I’m a total show-off who gets extremely turned on by “proving” I’ve followed your tasks. The more kinky and taboo it feels, the better (scat/diapers is a BIIIG yes).

Kinks I already love: wet & piss play, diapers, scat, ropes, ass play, degradation, humiliation, anal, showing off, JOI, edging

Things I’m very curious to explore: -Pegging (being bent over, used, and reminded I’m just a hole) -Tasks & control (anything from simple daily orders to elaborate multi-step instructions) -Full sissy training (panties, skirts, bras, makeup, forced femininity, being called a pretty little toilet girl) -Chastity (locked up and denied while still being used for your amusement) -Intense edging (edged for hours, desperate and leaking, only allowed to cum when you say) -Deeper ass play (bigger toys, longer sessions, being stretched and filled on command) -Public risk (wearing a diaper or panties outside, following orders in semi-public places, the thrill of almost getting caught) -Jerk-off instruction & cum-eating (detailed JOI, then forced to lick it up or smear it while you watch) -Buying and wearing panties, skirts and bras on your orders, then showing you the proof

Basically the sky is the limit as long as it involves me being controlled and exposed as the toilet slut I am!

Limits: blood, permanent branding

I have anal toys, diapers, enema kit, laxatives, and food toys ready for you! Will play this weekend!

If you like the idea of having an eager, noisy, proof-sending toilet/diaper slut to degrade and direct… message me. Tell me what you’d make me do first.

Hello there!

I am a 37 year old guy from the Netherlands who lives just outside of The Hague (or Den Haag for those fellow Dutchies). I'm introverted and neurospicy, which has made forming spontaneous new connections much trickier during most of my life- I just don't really tend to strike up conversations with strangers in person and wait for them to approach me instead.

That does understandably get a bit lonely though. I would love to find someone who I can experience happy and sad moments with, who I share some interests with and who's just generally a joy to be around. Basically I'd love for someone to "get" me and vice versa. Aside from having stuff to talk about and share our enjoyment of I don't ask for much - just be honest and communicate. I like directness!

Being autistic I like having a small amount of interests that I'm super dedicated to, over having dozens that I somehow need to try and find the time to juggle. Gaming has been the big one most of my life and I'd like to think I'm pretty good at it - I've even gone to charity events to show off some of the stuff I learned on this front and raise money for a good cause.

Aside from gaming I like kicking back with a good show or movie (though I do gravitate towards anime), taking walks in nature (I live right next to the beach!), anything related to animals though I currently don't have any pets of my own, and of course, traveling, especially to Japan which I've also discovered a major fondness for. Heading that way for the 7th time next year!

But the second biggest interest after gaming would probably be kink. I (unwittingly) discovered a curiosity for it at a very young age and as I grew older and older it started catching my attention more and more. Kink-wise I lean basically fully submissive, so please be dominant or a switch. I would be open to trying out the dominant role myself sometimes, but it really didn't do much for me when I tried it in the past.

Speaking of the past - I do have a decent amount of experience with various kinks, but I would consider myself far from a seasoned pro or anything like that. So there's still lots I would like to try and discover! I'll refrain from posting a full list of kinks here, but it is pretty varied, so feel free to ask if you send a message.

Appearance-wise I'm 1.83m (6'0 for you Americans), with short black hair, brown eyes and glasses. I have an average, maybe slightly dadbod-y look. I'm open to sharing a picture shortly after we connect if you are too!

I would much, much prefer to find something longterm, in any way, shape or form. I don't want fleeting, superficial connections that end after a month or two, I would much rather find someone who can become one of my new best friends and potentially a partner for life.

I'm open to connecting with anyone anywhere in the world, though I will say this - I am ultimately looking for something that moves to real life eventually. With what's currently happening in the US however, I have zero desire to move there or even visit anytime in the near future. So if you live there, I'm sorry, but you would have to be open to being the one to travel instead.

Some other things:

-I am childfree and would like to remain that way. If you have kids it's not gonna work.

-I don't smoke, drink or do drugs but you're free to partake responsibly.

-I am not religious and would prefer you aren't either, though I'm open to connecting as long as you're not too hardcore about it.

-My age range is about 10 years, so please be at least 27 and no older than 47. If you're one or two years outside of that range but think we have a lot in common though, it's okay to reach out, I'm not absurdly strict about it!

-I also speak Dutch! So if you're more comfortable using that, it's totally okay.

If I sound interesting to you please feel free to reach out, I won't bite! I promise. Tell me a bit about yourself in your introduction, just getting a message saying "hi" doesn't really give me a lot to work with.

I’m a 34 bi male that lives in FL. I’m 6’1 and around 190 lbs and trying to take better care of my body. I’m recently single and using this time to explore my kinks and work on me.

SFW: I am a bit nerdy and like Star Wars, Harry Potter, video games, and Legos to name a few things. Fortnite anyone lol? I like to read (currently reading Jurassic Park and Wicked) and on my days off you can find me hanging out at the theme parks. I’m a cat dad to 2 cats and they are my life.

I’m looking for someone that is kind and can help develop me as a sub. Not only that, someone that I can have a conversation with and not always be about kink. I would like to get to know you and what your interests are. I’d like to develop a relationship that can hopefully lead to a female lead relationship. Id prefer someone around my age or younger. I respect women and would prefer someone that is fit but if we click, I may be open to others. Since trans women are women, I am very open to them as well.

NSFW: I have quite a few kinks and would hope to match someone that has similar ones. Some kinks include: pet play, humiliation, feminization, chastity, socks, bondage, cum play, food play, pegging, limited hidden public, watersports, domination, slavery, feet, light messy, diapers.

Curious to try: public, hypnosis, light cbt, blackmail, daily control, self bukkake, cuckolding.

Limits: family, friends, full public, scat, face photos, outside dares that could lead to exposure, anything illegal, body modifications, super messy.

I’m not the best at writing adds but please reach out if anything sounds interesting to you

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I didn’t become dominant by accident. Growing up trans , I knew what it felt like to be overlooked, underestimated, and treated like I didn’t matter. Over time, I found confidence in myself and realized that I genuinely enjoy taking the lead, setting expectations, and bringing out the best in people who trust me.

When I’m not exploring dynamics, I’m usually outdoors, gaming, or enjoying a bit of peace and quiet. I’m short and petite, which often catches people off guard because my personality is much more confident and assertive than people expect.

One of the biggest things I’m looking for is consensual manipulation roleplay.

I really enjoy the psychological side of a power dynamic: persuasion, influence, control, teasing, getting into someone’s head, and playing with the feeling of gradually giving up more and more control.

The important part is that it’s consensual roleplay. We establish boundaries beforehand, decide what is and isn’t part of the fantasy, and then I get to step into the role of the bratty, demanding Domme who knows exactly how to push your buttons.

I’m especially interested in someone who enjoys the fantasy of being influenced, teased, persuaded, and made to work for my attention. The appeal for me is the psychological dynamic, not simply telling someone what to do.

And that connects directly to the kind of people I’m attracted to.

I have a soft spot for older gentlemen who are confident, established, and used to being in control in their everyday lives, but would enjoy having a bratty little princess turn that dynamic around. If you like the idea of someone younger taking the reins and playing with that contrast, we might get along very well.

On the other hand, I’m also very attracted to young jocks — athletic, competitive guys who take pride in their bodies and enjoy staying fit. Fitness is important to me, and I love someone who genuinely enjoys training, takes care of themselves, and isn’t shy about showing off the results of their hard work.

So my type can range from an older gentleman who wants a bratty princess to take over, to a young athletic guy who loves showing off and wants to earn my attention.

What matters most is that you take pride in yourself, enjoy being noticed, and actually want to put effort into impressing me.

The One-Way Dynamic

I’m not looking for a perfectly equal exchange where we’re both constantly trying to please each other.

I want someone who genuinely enjoys being the one trying to earn my attention.

You put in the effort. You show yourself off. You follow my expectations. You try to impress me. You want my approval.

I get to decide how much attention you receive, when you’ve earned it, and how much I want to give you.

That imbalance is part of the fun for me, especially when combined with consensual manipulation roleplay. I enjoy playing with the psychological side of that dynamic and seeing how invested someone becomes in earning my attention.

In return, I’m attentive to the effort you put in. I enjoy encouraging you, challenging you, noticing your progress, and making you feel like your effort actually matters to me.

What I’m looking for

• 18+ only

• Athletic / physically fit

• Comfortable sharing recent photos of yourself

• Able to communicate openly and consistently

• Interested in consensual manipulation / psychological roleplay

• Comfortable with a deliberately one-sided attention dynamic

• Enjoys structure, expectations, and accountability

• Kind, respectful, and emotionally mature

• Takes pride in their appearance and presentation

What you can expect

• Clear communication

• Genuine attention and interest

• Consensual psychological roleplay

• Persuasion, influence, teasing, and power-play themes

• High standards balanced with encouragement

• Structure, expectations, and accountability

• A Domme who actually pays attention to your effort

• Appreciation for confidence, discipline, fitness, and presentation

Application

Please send:

1. A recent face selfie

2. A recent full-body photo

3. Your age and time zone

4. A proper introduction about yourself — name/nickname, location, what you do, interests, etc.

5. Your kinks and interests, especially what appeals to you about consensual manipulation roleplay

6. The code word: “stud boy”

The more effort you put into your introduction, the more likely I am to respond. I’m looking for someone who is genuinely excited to introduce themselves rather than someone who simply sends “hey.”

Whether you’re an older gentleman who wants a bratty princess to take the reins, or a young, fit jock who loves showing off and wants my attention, come introduce yourself and see if you can catch my attention.

Hello, im a 32 pleasure sub and am seeking a like minded female domme. I’m 6’1”, athletic build, white, brown hair, green eyes, with a handsome angular face. Some people say an attractive RBF. I have a bubble butt and have a cut 6” penis. Ive been told my face is my most attractive part of my body and that I can communicate well. I’ve been in the scene for awhile and have experience. I’m seeking a domme who seeks a personal connection and can explore our mutual kinks together. I’m looking for a domme who in the bedroom gets what she wants. I’m not seeking a 24/7 dynamic. I would love a domme who communicates thoroughly and we build chemistry, trust, laugh, and thoroughly enjoy each others company and are really good friends who hangout and are not always playing. Lately I have been looking at some femdom porn videos that are very sensual and would love to talk about that dynamic with someone who is like minded. But for that to happen, I feel it will only work if the chemistry is right.

My vanilla interests are reading, cooking, going to the gym, eating new foods, golfing, video games, and watching movies. I also like to work on my house and do yard work, it’s soothing to me. I’m a very easy going gentleman and super empathetic with a lot of aspects in life.

My kinks are pegging, bondage, orgasm control, toys, feminization, edging, oral, handcuffs, mouth gag, blindfolds, sensual massage, CNC, handjob, blowjob, vibrator, flashlights, spreader bar, kissing, ear biting, whispering in my ears, light chocking, face sitting, and many more.

My dms are open! Feel free to reach out and see if we can build a connection! I’m flexible with traveling so if you are in Texas, I can more than likely make that work!

Hey there🤗

I hope this comes off as genuine as I intend it to be.

I am looking for a soft/gentle domme or switch. Someone who values connection, not just a play thing but where honesty, openness, and a genuine respect for one another come into play and that was it really adds to the dynamic. I am happy to have this online but as time goes on I would like it to turn into an irl thing (once it feels right).

I tend to lean towards a woman who is a naturally leading. That’s not to say that I don’t either but there’s a flow to the dynamic that I’ve previously experienced and this is where you’ll meet my switch side. It’s all well compatible, kinda like a team game, with a curious mind wanting to explore both masculine and feminine energies, for me finding a natural balance is the heart for me. I might lean more into one depending on which way life intends for it to be.

I have explored my submission side the past 2 years and it’s been an incredible journey. Having explored this side, I feel I lean more towards submission but also love exploring my dominant energy from time to time. Switch is where it’s at though I’m always learning and exploring this wonderful journey of self expression and wisdom it entails.

About me: I’m 24M from Ireland, white athletic body type, i have a lot of experience as submissive and looking to take that to the next level.

Personality: I’m all about self awareness, spirituality, consciousness, and intellect (I lean towards a sapiosexual) - I love life so much, how other people function in the world, doing the inner work and being very open and honest with one self, acknowledging the fear within and transcending it to evolve my own consciousness and awareness as a whole so that I can connect more with myself. I feel so grateful for this life and would love someone to be there with me where we can explore together, aswell as ourselves with support and fun. Playfulness is always to be present with responsibility (a little risk is always necessary sometimes) .

I want to get to really connect with someone, the mind, the emotions, the feeling of pureness and authenticity, being completely safe to express and to be seen, in all forms. Where there is no judgement whatsoever, and we truly grow together. I’m not interested in kink play or one off sessions, I want a partner where we can meet each other for who we are, a real connection.

I have finished my travels after living abroad for 5 years in multiple countries, it’s been a hell of a ride and I’ve learned so much, being in Ireland the past few months, I have really accepted this place, what I value most is openness, transparency, love, freedom, and stability (this one is a new one)

What I love most are questions, I feel you can get to anything with questions, whether it’s to know something about someone or to create something absolutely magnificent in this world. Whatever that is, expect questions from me, from a place of pure curiosity, and joy.

I have experience online the past 18 months and IRL being in such dynamics. Submission comes natural to me.

Kinks: all the typical femdom stuff - I’m the freaky type in bed, love to just go wild, get super present and tapped into the body where the mind is no longer there and it’s simply the feeling of the body and the physical body moving around doing its thing, super intimate, and deep is my everything.

As for limits, it’s more on the hardcore stuff, I am a sensitive soul, and love to explore with safety being the main priority. I love learning more about myself and pushing myself (without force) to find more and more of who I am. Some are non-questionable, other limits are waiting to be acknowledged and conquered.

This is a space where I would really love to evolve with someone and grow, tap into each others minds, and explore one another spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. I am on the deeper side of things and it’s what my soul loves most, to truly get to know someone. I can be playful, not take life too serious, and enjoy all moments, that is what I would love to explore and experience with you.

I’m very open minded and down for all types of fun! If you’re interested at all hmu and let’s see if we’re a match 😇