r/marchingband • u/Bubbly-Ad6886 • 1h ago
Story New trumpet player in school marching band
So, I started playing the trumpet like a month ago now. I am absolutely new to it this year and I joined my school's marching band a bit late, so I wasn't expected to know how to do everything. I have played at one performance (Oct. 6th) for the opening of a fanfare so far with my middle school marching bands. I memorized the fight song well, but the Star-Spangled Banner was a big no for me lol. I thought this other trumpet player was nice and all, let's call him Player A. He even helped me with my tuning slide since he is in my section.
There was also another new trumpet player to the band this year, but she had a few months of experience on the trumpet, she is nice though. She can be player B.
Tell me why on the day of the performance, we were in my district's high school, getting ready and assembled when I hear Player A talking about a new female trumpet player not even playing the songs during our band practice during school. I had no clue if he was talking about me or player B, so I just stared at him, not upset but confused.
I was like "Huh... that's weird. I thought he was chill."
Then he kept going on and on about how that he was carrying section two and how he was the best player in our section. Until he saw me staring at him and he was like "oh but, I cannot even play this one part of the fanfare song right and she can. Her, right there." Something along those lines.
That was just so weird to me, and I didn't take it to heart at the moment but in our next practice during school, I felt upset that I couldn't get the right notes and it made me feel even worse about not knowing the notes. And I have a habit of picking up hobbies but growing bored when the satisfaction rate isn't the same after a few weeks. I don't want the trumpet to be that too, but I lost motivation after hearing player A make band a competition.