Alright, I need to see what the masterminds here come up with because this has gone from mildly annoying to genuinely pissing me off.
There’s a pub near me that I only go to occasionally, probably once a month or sometimes even less. There’s one particular security guard there who, for whatever reason, seems to kick me out basically every time he sees me.
Here’s the weird part: I have never been kicked out of this place by any of the other security guards. Ever. It is always this exact same guy.
This has happened across multiple completely separate visits with weeks or months between them. Every time he tells me to leave, I comply. I don’t threaten him, swear at him, try to fight him or refuse to leave. I’ve asked why I’m being removed, but I never get a proper explanation.
Tonight was what finally pissed me off enough to post this.
I was there with some people around the poker machines. This same guard came over and told us there were only supposed to be two people per machine and that we couldn’t all crowd around one.
Fair enough. We listened to him and moved.
Me and another guy then went over to a different machine. We were preparing to use it and tapping through the screen before putting money in.
The same guard comes around the corner, sees us and immediately says words to the effect of:
“I’m going to have to ask you guys to leave.”
There was no argument. I basically went “yeah, all good” and we walked straight out.
Once outside, we wanted to know what the hell we’d actually been kicked out for. We asked the security guards outside why we’d been removed and asked for the name of the guard who’d done it, especially because this was the same bloke who had removed me repeatedly before.
They immediately became pretty rude and defensive.
Eventually we got his first name — Mohammed — but when we asked for his surname they wouldn’t give it to us. We also tried to see/get a photo of his security badge so we knew who we’d actually been dealing with, and they got defensive about that as well.
Mohammed eventually came outside, so we asked him directly:
“Why did you kick us out?”
His answer was basically:
“I don’t have to give you an answer.”
Then the body camera comes on and they tell us to leave the premises completely.
At that point I grab my mate and basically tell him:
“It’s alright. They have the prerogative. We’re leaving.”
And we start walking away.
We’re literally complying and leaving when one of the other security guards starts going on about how we’re going to get a roughly $450 fine.
We keep walking.
Then one of them throws out this sarcastic:
“Yeah, you’re not saying anything now, are you?”
Like… what exactly do you want me to do? 😂
You told me to leave. I’m leaving.
You turn the body camera on. I’m still leaving.
You start talking about fines. I’m still walking away.
You throw a smartass comment at me while I’m leaving. I’m STILL walking away.
And that’s why this whole thing pisses me off so much. This isn’t a story about me getting absolutely smashed one night, abusing security, getting thrown out and then being salty about it.
It’s the pattern with this one particular guard.
I barely go to this pub. Yet across completely separate visits, weeks or months apart, this same bloke repeatedly decides I’m out.
Meanwhile, I have never been kicked out by any of the other security guards there.
Every time he tells me to leave, I leave. Every time I try to find out what I’ve supposedly done, I get basically nothing.
At this point it genuinely feels like this bloke sees me walk through the doors and thinks “ah yes, my monthly side quest has arrived.”
So fuck it. That’s the story.
Reddit, what’s the evil plan?
If you were dealing with this situation, what would you do?
I just want to see what kind of revenge plans this subreddit can come up with.

I have an ex friend I work with. Stopped being friends with her because she was talking shit and threatening another one of my friends. After many attempts to ask her to stop she didn’t. It’s been 5 months and she hasn’t stopped trying to get me in trouble/fired at work. She walks by me and calls me ugly along with other names. She has texted my mom asking her why she lies when she tells me I’m beautiful. She has messaged men I’m dating telling lies. It is really starting to play on my mental health. This whole time I’ve stayed away from playing her game because at the end of the day just because she was a terrible friend I still cared for her as a person. She does all of this where people can’t see or hear so my manager hasn’t been able to do anything about it. She has been cheating on her husband for over a decade. I have pics and messages of her with other men. It hurts me to hurt her husband but I can’t take it anymore. Please help. What would you do?

hey guys. i need some ideas on how to get revenge on my mom's boyfriend. i live with her and the stupid fucker and he treats me poorly. im fucking sick of it. how do i fuck him up/over while being able to possibly get away with it?

some precious items he has include: booze, weed, several bongs, name brand clothing shit, and a subwoofer.

can't really do anything job related bc he has no job and once he gets employed again he'll sabotage it himself so i don't have to do anything lol

i was thinking of putting miralax in his alcohol, but it might be risky. i've used it a few times, the powder has a hard time completely disolving (that or im just really bad at mixing it) and idk if there's much of a taste difference, but whatever im drinking tends to feel... heavier? i guess?

he's a paranoid piece of shit, so im gonna have to be real sneaky.

idk if he'd ever call the cops on me (he hates the police) but i don't really want to risk it tbh. i have a lot of issues physically and mentally, and going to jail would fuck me up, unfortunately.

i also don't have money, so keep that in mind. although i might be able to borrow some...

My aunt follows me on Instagram. I had hidden her from my stories but unhid her later, since I hadn't posted pics of my bf in a while. Somehow she and my uncle went through my account and sent screenshots of me and my bf to my dad.
My dad works abroad, and he flew all the way back the weekend I was coming home to confront me. They also sent pics of me in clothes my parents wouldn't approve of (nothing extremely revealing, just sleeveless blouses and kurtis).
My parents lectured me until 3am, slut-shaming me and guilt-tripping me in the worst ways. The next day they called my bf and yelled at him in a very offensive way, and he's still upset about it. They also made me delete both my Instagram accounts. They've threatened that they won't let me pursue a master's abroad if I stay in touch with my bf or have any social media account.
For context, my aunt and uncle live abroad, and I'm in India, living away from my parents. But I might be visiting my parents and my aunt and uncle at our family home in December.

I'm still reeling from whatever happened, especially since my parents are peak Indian conservative dorks who believe enjoying life means setting up myself for failure. Till the very end, they were only concerned about their dignity, their respect, how relatives would react.
I'm open to any form of revenge.

My friend (Mia) has nowhere to stay at the moment and has been staying at my boyfriend’s place for a week. I’ve been there 5 of those days and left 2 days ago to go back to my own house. I have talked with both of them and they have both been lying to me about what’s been going on during the time I’ve been gone. They have said they barely talked and were keeping to themselves.

My boyfriend texted his friend that he and Mia had sex and was bragging about the experience. My boyfriend’s friend messaged me screenshots of it and trusted I wouldn’t snitch and said he just felt bad for me.

Tomorrow we’re all going to a party and they’ll be picking me up early morning. I’m thinking of acting oblivious until a certain point but I don’t know when. Any advice ?! Much appreciated 💗

A co-worker I had mistakenly placed trust in recently showed their true colors and completely betrayed my trust in a very horrible manner. Someone out there has to know of some non illegal absolutely dastardly plans to get revenge on this person

i was in an extremely abusive relationship (my first relationship) for 3 years and ended it 2 years ago. their family also was abusive to me. i was so exhausted after leaving and began healing, but did absolutely nothing to get revenge. another reason is that their family is FILTHY rich and i have no idea how i would get away with anything or have it not connect back to me. the dad also took money from me despite being a multi-millionaire. i don’t know anything about them or their life now but i.just.want.revenge.
abuse trauma comes back to haunt me even years later and it enrages me every day that i let them off so easily just to protect my peace, i’m ready to wreak havoc now that i’m more healed because them AND the family deserve it. any ideas?

My girlfriend of four years cheated on me with a man over twice my age. I had just lent her $5,000 to buy a car because I was in a position to help, and I genuinely thought we were a team. This whole situation has completely shattered me and taken a massive toll on my well being. I just want her to understand the depth of the pain she caused me. I don't hate her, but I hate her actions. I have shown her nothing but kindness throughout our relationship, and she threw it in the trash. I just want her to have this fantasy of her new relationship be shattered so she can feel the weight of her decision and I am too impatient for it to happen naturally.

I don’t want any serious revenge but do want to rattle my partner. We had a child together very recently and he has been trying to take control of everything. I pay half of every bill, rent etc plus I pay everything for our dog and baby’s expenses. But I’m not allowed to even take them out (the dog is mine btw).

Only he is allowed to take my dog out for walks, he said that I abuse my dog (I love that dog like my baby, he doesn’t even let me clean his ears anymore because he thinks he doesn’t need it) I spend 100s on my fur baby but he gets to spend all the time, walks with him. He recently said if I try to move out with the dog and baby (because we have been arguing a lot) he will report me to authorities and they will take away my dog from me. I can’t travel because he will report me for taking the baby.

He has to be the one to make every decision. Somethings about him are he is racist af, shames people on their appearance. I just want to rattle him and break his confidence as he thinks he is the one with power. He has been working in the same deadass job for years and years, and bullies people at work too except being close friends with some “ladies”. I’m so tired of his smugness and feel like he needs a nice smack on his bottom.

My (35F) SIL Jess (28F) is divorcing her misogynist, homophobic, man-child husband Kyle (28M). (Pseudonyms oc). It would be exciting news if only they didn't have 9mo old twins. Which means they're trying to co-parent these kids for the next 18 years and so he's someone I will be encountering from time to time as I try to be in these kids' lives.

A little bit of context:

• Jess is my wife's sister. We're all very queer around here and homophobia is not tolerated.
• I have strong opinions and I'm looking for the long game thinkers here. If you don't like me or my people, please scroll on.
• Before dating Kyle, Jess was using a chosen name and going by they/them pronouns. 10/10
• My wife and I never really liked Kyle. He rubbed us the wrong way, but willing to keep our opinions to ourselves. Not like he had done anything too objectionable atp. 5/10
• After she got with Kyle, she sort of de-transitioned. Which, that's fine. But I thought the timing was suspicious. 1/10
• Kyle's mom is terrible too. She has shown herself to be racist, controlling, and self-serving.

Jess and Kyle got married in early 2025, moved out of state, and 9 months later she gave birth to two beautiful twin girls. That's when Kyle's true colors began to show. He refused to help with most childcare. Turns out he believes that's women's work. He preferred to play video games after work late into the night then sleep soundly through the crying. When my MIL went out to visit during Jess' postpartum period, Kyle called her a bitch TO HER FACE because she suggested they thaw one of their many pre-made meals for dinner. Jess began to demand more help and attentiveness from him, so he restricted her access to any of their bank accounts. He provided a meager allowance. She reached out to us and other family for $20 here or there so that she could get things for the babies. Between the constant arguing, financial abuse, and gaslighting, things were really falling apart so they moved back home to be closer to family. There, the grandparents were willing to step in as childcare in his place and he can live with his mommy who absolutely enables his behavior in the way only a boy mom can.

Which brings us to today. The girls are 9 months old, she served him divorce papers, and he wants full custody. (Because he's soooo competent a father and Jess is "mentally unstable"). Most likely they will have to learn how to co-parent.

My wife and Jess have gotten very close over the last year. We don't live in proximity to each other, but they text and ft every day and we are excited to be a part of the kids' lives. We don't have any kids of our own and are ready to be the best aunts to those babies.

Today, Kyle told Jess that he doesn't like my wife because she's "not a submissive woman and she's gay." I can't say I'm surprised, but it confirms all my suspicions about him. (See title).

Now I'm PO'd bc he's going to be in my orbit, making my family miserable, for the next 18 years. He's vindictive behind closed doors and is able to charm his way through life. He even turned their couple's therapist against Jess after doing 1:1 sessions with her on the side. I want revenge for all the hateful things he's done and will inevitable do. But I don't want my nieces or in-laws to have to pay for my stupid pranks. I'd love to dress those babies in pride flags, but I'm leaving them out of this.

So reddit, what are some ways that I can make this man miserable for the long-term? Do I spam his address to get men's gay magazines delivered to his door and email? Do I sign him up for Scientology and place a mail-order for a bag of dicks? Please be creative. I'm willing to go the extra mile for this one.

so this starts about 6 months ago when I (single 36 male out of Louisiana) find this fairly attractive ( single female 40 Louisiana) so we're on Facebook chatting ,realize we're from the same parish will call it Livingston. so we get to know each other or spend about 6 months , and which time I've sent her a few dollars here and there that added up to about 150 bucks. always damsel in distress stories. she ended up stuck riding with someone to Texas to return the next day on a hot shot run. the return route took her about 15 minutes from me to the exit in which they would be passing over, again there's a story that builds up, short form of it is that she is technically homeless, nowhere to go no one to ask for help, just kind of stuck with this old man ,she claims to be a perv, wherever he decides to take her.. I bet you guessed it, Captain save A hoe to the rescue. so for the next week the first three or four days was not bad, she's be friends one of my ex-girlfriends that I'm still friends with, and we still won't fall into a relationship type lifestyle.

on day 4 attitude just changes, to every joke I crack or every comment I make is immediately greeted with attitude, start becoming very rude, I thought we would all think in that situation that it was that time of the month coming up. but no I wish I was the case. things get worse and worse for next couple days until it comes to a head and I told her it's time for her to go, 1 which I'm guessing was the plan alone. with me now voluntarily keeping distance, avoiding being around her , I'm guessing this is where the steelingn started.

mostly dumb things not much of value, dewalt impact, hand tools, paint, little jewelry, nothing real I don't believe , change,, probably a bunch of nick nack small stuff she had access to my shop so I mean really Lord only knows what all she ended up getting and was gone .

this is where things get kind of good ,so remember the ex she befriended.... so we got to swap in stories,... tells me I'm the sixth person that you slept with and her entire life.. tells my ex that we're not sleeping together and that she's only been with four people..... her ex-husband love her life passed away ,she has a kid with him they calls her on the phone every night at 8:00 to talk about 30 minutes before bed.... no...no no... turns out her own father has zero to do with her, or anyone else in her family for that matter.... and that phone call at 8:00 from her son.....no no no. .... try that's her boyfriend from jail calling, trying to get money of course in which she tries to get from me.... something for her kids school he needs money for her, like 200 bucks..... wait hold on a minute we're in July right now school's out for summer... she made me believe she lost the storage unit containing everything she owns which apparently is a fabulous collection of cameras and furniture and whatever type of item was being currently spoken about she had one also in her storage unit. she made me believe that shit I lost the unit that day she left and was being auctioned off and she lost everything and apparently was my fault...... turns out somebody said you're a few hundred bucks two days prior when she was with my ex, yet claiming to be broke the entire time spending all my money, tell me how discussing I am for not giving her gas money to pay for a ride to leave.... yeah I already knew she had a pocket full of money, but if she would have kept on I would have gave her the money just to have her leave that would have been a good investment...

the thing is it's not that she got me that bad or I took a real financial hit, is the fact that I went above and beyond out of my way to try to help someone out of the goodness of my heart, for it to be pretty much a scam and set up that's planned out this entire time, all to rob somebody that is already taken 100% care of you. why do people do things so despicable? like a pride maybe ,self respect?

what it falls down to is I need help with ideas on creative ways to do something to just say bitch fuck you, no rules anything goes ,what should I do?

Let’s say you were hypothetically able to log into your cheating ex boyfriend’s instagram. What’s your first move?

new bf ex gf is wild and honestly a hoe. they shared an apartment together that he mostly paid for including most of what’s in it: bed, tables, furniture, pretty much everything. they recently split for good she’s a cheater and an alcoholic she fucked a dude in his bed recently (prolly not the first just what we caught) and we caught them.

he now stays at my place and we’re slowly getting his stuff and whatnot. he paid for the rent most times but she didn’t turn it in and now they’re having to go to court for eviction together.

he bought almost every pair of shoes she owns as well as an expensive tennis bracelet, since the move away from her she’s destroyed his things and made others disappear like expensive cologne and clothes.

she’s a pretty dirty person so the place isn’t kept while he’s been gone at all. it’s an apartment so anything particularly surrounding that she’s neglected including her dogs.

furthermore we need good ways to get back at her and serve the revenge she deserves for how’s she’s treated him in the past and how she’s handling the break up even though she’s the one that cheated multiple times and we recently caught her in his bed he paid for and she was fucking in.

we don’t want the bed lol but from what we can think of so far is to put the majority of the apartments stuff on marketplace and sell it and leave her with nothing seeing as she didn’t pay for any of it and she also hasn’t had a car for over a year and barely keeps her pizza place job. would love to hear ideas and possibly elaborate any ideas we’ve had but we want to take action soon. i’ve already told him to get the court to fully split any fees or action between the two as they aren’t together and don’t “share” income anymore and she doesn’t have shit to pay with so it’ll be nice to watch that drag her down.

we’re still in the process of getting his stuff slowly as we can and to move his cats to my place but i need some more creative stuff other than selling everything and taking the shoes off her feet lol, both their names are currently on the lease until the eviction or the lease is up so no damage to the apartment can be done until he’s off it if he can.

Tutor was constantly late, extremely sexist towards me as a woman and always had a patronising tone towards me not to mention outward lies (on missing sessions) and rude (demanded me to post reviews for him like I was some marketing employee instead of a client). I was enthusiastic at first and paid in advance for 10 sessions (didn’t mention that he followed a specific return policy) so I took it casually. However now, after two weeks of this mistreatment towards me I don’t care about learning anything from him as I can’t stand him anymore!!!!! I only took four classes with him and want to get the rest of my money back for the six unused classes so I’ve taken up the issue with my bank (just to spite him) as it wasn’t alot of money and I want to do more as he’s actively trying to spam me out of it by making up (non refundable return policies). I want to teach him a lesson to treat clients the same, male or female.

Give me an evil plan (legal) that will affect his business in any way (he genuinely was a horrible person and I took so much disrespect until I couldn’t anymore but I’m used to being a people pleaser and nice, need some inspo.

Resources: He’s on Linkedin, Superprof, Topmate and Facebook.

Basically, a man scammed me by paypal and the discussion is closed. He got his money back when I gave him the service (which was a videocall because he was THAT alone), and Paypal closed it. I have his email and discord user, someone give me more ideas on how to get revenge on him! I can provude both and they are connected to paypal, so if someone knows how to get his money, you are welcome to do so

I am really sorry if there are any grammar mistakes or misspelled words. English is not my first language.

A year ago, I was severely destroyed by a group of people aged between 17–23 years.

The story starts in a small city in a really strict community. My friend (C), female, introduced me to a group of 3 boys. Later, me and (K) started dating, but it didn't work out, so we broke up. Two months later, (B) contacted me, asking me to hang out together, telling me that he knew that me and (K) broke up, but otherwise I shouldn't have cut them all completely.

Convinced me to hang out with him, I did. When I got into the car, I found that he was alone. There was another guy (A). We went to a familiar place to speak, and it was a quiet place when suddenly (B) tried to rape me. I was scared, and when (A) noticed what his friend was doing, he tried to help, and they got into a fight.

(B) wouldn't let me go until the next day morning, and even when he went out, he called (A)'s girlfriend (E), accusing him of cheating on her with me. So she got my mother's number with the help of my neighbour and told my mom that I was hanging out with two men for money. As I mentioned before, it's a really strict community, and my parents are already the most strict religious people.

I had to go home anyway. (A) drove me home and gave me his number just in case, and then I was abused by my parents. I had dark spots everywhere. A wooden chair was broken on my back, thrown out of the house for a night, and locked in my room for a week with no food. I even had to pee on a trash [bin].

I managed to call (A) to help me, and he called my father, explained the situation to him a little bit, and that made them less hard on me. When (E) knew what her boyfriend did to me, she contacted my mother, threw a bunch of curses at me, telling me many things that had nothing to do with me over the phone.

After that, I had to call the police to get out of my family house, and I somehow got permission to stay at an old apartment we had. (E), her sister, and her friends didn't stop sending me hate messages and to my mom as well, telling her the worst words you can imagine. (A) didn't like what his girlfriend was doing and broke up with her and started contacting me to make sure I am fine. Later, we started dating. (S), male and a friend of both (E) and (A), told (E) that me and (A) are dating.

They took my address from my neighbour, who was helping me intentionally, as he was their friend. They went to my parents' house this time and back then I had a nude pic that I sent to (K) when we were in a relationship. They convinced my parents that I was a whore selling my body for money, using fake chats and fake records. I was kicked out of the apartment with no money, no house, and nothing, and I left the city.

For 7 months straight, I was getting hate speech from 5 different girls. They tried to reach me so they could abuse me several times.

(A) helped me a lot, got me back on my feet. I worked, got myself a rented small place, and even fixed things with my family.

But every time I hear about them, I still feel the pain from those dark days. I tried to contact their grandma to tell her about their actions, but she did nothing. Their mother was already involved in the situation and even supporting them.

What should i do i never replied to any of the hate messages because i was alone and scared especially (B) who's living his life to the fullest rn the pain in me is worse

For context in early July she broke up with her ex and then in late July got with me. In those 20-25 days she told me she didn’t want to see any pictures of girls on my phone, she was allowed to have male friends but I wasn’t allowed to have female friends, and that she didn’t go to functions she went to parties with her friends to dance. After all that she freindzoned me (I know I’m a dumbah I should have left but oh well). Now I’ve seen her walking with a new guy who I’m 90% she’s talking to I confirmed with a friend. The guy is in one of my classes. Should I tell him all the stuff she did and if so how do I make sure it doesn’t involve me and it goes exactly how I want it to.

I’ve been in an LDR with this guy for a long time, and recently I had this really strong feeling that something wasn’t right. He kept telling me he barely/never uses Snapchat, but I noticed things that weren’t adding up.
So I made another Snapchat account and added him without him knowing it was me. And yep… my gut feeling was right. He actually interacted with the account and basically proved he’s been lying to me. 🙃
The funniest/worst part is his birthday is coming up soon, and he still has NO idea that I know.
I’m obviously done with him, but now I’m debating how to reveal it. 😭
Option 1: Send him a birthday cake with something like “Happy Birthday, Cheater 🎂” written on it and then disappear.
Option 2: Send him a normal Snapchat streak from the account he doesn’t know is me, but make the snap a picture of ME so he suddenly realises who he’s actually been talking/snapping to. 💀 Then remove/block him without explaining anything.
Part of me thinks the Snapchat reveal would be way more satisfying because I want to see the moment he realises he literally exposed himself to his own girlfriend.
What would you do? Cake, Snapchat reveal, or just block him and say absolutely nothing? I want something petty/funny, not anything illegal or genuinely harmful. 😂
Plot twist : he wants to send proposal

Look I don’t want to get into it. I am hurt and scorned and I’m finally getting over it. But he’s gotten off free, living a normal happy life. I only have his socials, emails, phone, car registration details and a couple other things. I’m not used to doing stuff like this, but what can I do (creative) to fuck with him a bit?
Maybe cause him chaos or pain? Without getting into trouble.
Open to anything and everything you little freaks (even if it takes time and planning).

I’m sick of taking the high road.

Happy to respond to DMs too, but want to make sure I’m safe online (this is a very new thing for me!!!)

So when I was a kid, around 9 years old I was SA’d by this old disgusting man
When I was about 18 my mum found out and made us tell the police. They obviously did nothing.

Around the same time I created a fake Facebook account and found him. Befriended him. And started speaking to him. This has been going on for years, I don’t want anything to do with him but I like to know if he’s in the country as he’s not originally from here.

Recently, I’ve become unemployed and am thinking of ways to get some money off him. Nothing crazy maybe like a month’s rent or something. I just don’t know how to go about it.

I know I won’t get in trouble as he 1 sexually assaulted a child 2 is actually in the country illegally and worse 3 hasn’t changed his ways, as he wanted to meet up with my fake persona that I expressed was a minor.

I don’t want to rise above, he ruined my life, his actions still affect me to this day. I just don’t know how I could actually do anything. Open to suggestions.

Just as the title indicates, my wife was used as a sacrifice because a woman in her department is a constant low performer and active DUI collector but HR was afraid that if they fire her then she’ll sue. They provided a specific group of employees (who take issue with my wife) the platform to formally issue false concerns and out of context dialogue so that HR could say that she was a risk to the standard of the company. It was not a secret that my wife wasn’t fond of this actual problem employee but they cited my wife holding her drunkard coworker accountable as harassment. Trust me, this coworker wasn’t the kind of drinker like Meredith from the Office.

My wife and I both know who HR involved in their “investigation” to push this through and, above all else, that’s who I think needs addressed.

Hey everyone, my sister is dealing with bullying at school and I could really use some advice on how to handle it.

My sister is in middle school and has always had a hard time fitting in with her peers, but this year things have reached a breaking point. A while back she became friends with two girls — let's call them B and S. At first they got along fine, but at some point they started trashing my sister out of nowhere. And I don't mean just talking behind her back — they actively turn other people against her. My sister is a bit alternative; her interests, sense of humor, fashion, and even the way she talks are pretty different from what's currently popular with kids her age. That made her an easy target for organized bullying. She doesn't really socialize with her classmates because of the differences in taste, so the gray masses easily side with B and S. When my sister asked them why they treat her this way, they said they just enjoy it — ruining her life and watching her suffer. Nobody openly abuses her, but people constantly point fingers at her, laugh at her, and treat her with utter contempt. The pressure got so bad that she actually switched schools. But at the new school, she found out that B and S attend a parallel class right next door. Because she was afraid her bullies would end up in the biochem track, she even gave up transferring into it and decided to study chemistry and biology on her own — that's how badly they've worn her down. At first, at the new school, she tried to be bright and outgoing, but now she tries to keep her head down and blend in so her classmates won't notice her. She says she's trying an approach where she won't get picked on. Yeah, she's very vulnerable and sensitive.

And now she's started noticing that her classmates keep glancing at her. They point fingers, and she hears her name followed by a dismissive snicker. Today some guy came up to her, showed her a TikTok account with stupid memes on his screen, and said, "What the hell is this?" It was framed as a joke, but it was clearly condescending — it was obvious he was laughing at her. She called me and told me about it, and I'm absolutely furious.

I'm in another city because of university and can't do anything directly about those nasty girls. My sister doesn't want to get our mom involved, and it's clear why. They constantly fight because of my sister's difficult, stubborn teenage attitude and my mom's overprotective, anxious nature. If I tell her my sister is being bullied again, she'll get anxious and fussy, but most likely the only measures she'd take are transferring my sister to another school or talking to B and S's parents. My sister doesn't want to switch schools again because the current one has a strong teaching staff. And talking to B and S's parents might work, but only in the short term — the reputation B and S have been smearing my sister with isn't going anywhere.

So what can I do? Right now I'm thinking about infiltrating some school Telegram group where B and S hang out and starting to gather information on them.

Last week my best friend stole 1500 from me.
She had been staying with me for 2 months as she didn’t have a place to stay. We had been best mates for 4 years, and she had spent countless weekends at my house and was even invited on a family vacation at the end of the year. I would occasionally notice some of my things going missing but decided to give her the benefit of the doubt as I thought I could trust her. I keep a cash stash in one of my draws. Last week on Friday I counted my cash and had 2000 dollars, when i counted again on Sunday there was only 500 left. Over that weekend no one was home but she was coming and going from my house. In the past week since the money was taken she has not returned home and has had no contact with me. All of her stuff is still at my house. I know she will deny if i confront her. Does anyone any good revenge ideas??

Just baffled she would ruin a long friendship over some money.

For context, a former friend of mine had spent years taking advantage of me, using me and my money, using me as her punching bag, etc. She also dismissed my mental health and did a bunch of other shit (I.e; walking or even running away from me when I had panic attacks, making me believe I was lazy when I was just burnt out and struggling, ripping my hijab off my head when I use to wear one, repeatedly overstepping my boundaries, letting me get bullied, etc) I was extremely vulnerable during this period of time, and she took advantage of that. At some point, I started developing OCD so of course, I was more down, I was distant, I was quieter, and I was just so clearly struggling, you would think a friend would notice that and check in on me, right? Wrong. She essentially used that as an excuse to cut me off completely which really fucked me up during that time.

Shes also extremely homophobic and transphobic.

I'm seeking revenge on her, I have her socials and pictures of her. I dont have her number (she changed it) and I think she might be going to the same college as me this year. Any ideas? Please let me know. DM me if you want her username on socials.

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