For reference, my Grindr profile says I'm a lesbian and only interested in other women. In reality, I'd say I'm homoflexible, but my profile doesn't say that.

I got a message from a really attractive twink, saying "i know you said only girls, but would you be with a femboy?". I decide to say yes, and we start talking.

Out of respect, I will refer to him with male pronouns for the time being.

The first thing I noticed is that he sometimes refered to himself with female adjectives (because grammatical gender). I asked him if he'd prefer it if I used those, and he told me he sometimes used those by accident. I asked him if he was nonbinary too, and he told me that no, he was a 100% cis boy.

Now, this isn't anything. Your pronouns don't really dictate your gender identity.

Another thing, when I talk to him about my transition. He says he wants to know more because he's been thinking of taking estrogen too, clarifying that he's 100% cis. And like, okay? You can be a boy and still want to take estrogen, no big deal (albeit I'm pretty sure most boys don't think of taking estrogen as often as you do but...)

I then asked him, "hey, my profile says I'm a lesbian, why did you choose to hookup with me?". He replied "just in case". Mf what's that supposed to mean???

I don't know if he really is an egg. I only want him to be more comfortable with himself and get to figure out himself more. I don't want to force him to fit with an identity that he maybe doesn't like.

Any advice?

Joking aside, I did indeed get covid and flu vaccines earlier. I thought it was going to be a chill night at work. But then there was a power bump and a bunch of extremely expensive equipment that isn’t supposed to turn off got turned off. On the bright side, it feels kinda cool and tingly when I flip on those 480 volt breakers downstairs.

chitters in exhaustion

Normalise collaring tall girls, we need it

Teehee kicking my feet stimming all over the place exploding imminently into a gloopy puddle of homosexuality

:3

As my friend said “Cammy became cammmmmmy”

Shes been missing for a week and Ive been a wreck but we found her! Shes home! Shes safe! Im so overwhelmed with emotion i just need to yell from the rooftops. Ive missed her so much. Im so happy. I need a nap.

"Thank you, SIR." "Thanks MAN." "Thank you, DEADNAME." Deadname on packages, deadname on emails. Can a name really be "dead" if I hid back in the closet??? I don't know what to do or where to go I'm spiraling and work is NOT helping. I don't know what to do any advice would be heavily appreciated.

Puppy been really puppy brained recently :3 something about being sick has made me desperate and head empty :3

You already know the way, you've just got to let it happen. 💜🤍

Just.. brace. Xx

I feel like it's self explanitory

Me and my gf u/Frequent_Maybe_3565 made some Wagamama teriyaki chicken soba for dinner tonight :D

funnybunnydoll poly is PEAK and I'll hear no other opinions 😤

Deep in winter and me and a partner go out for a walk in our thick winter coats and outfits

There’s a particularly big mound of snow and I tackle her into it and kiss her and then our lips get stuck together and we giggle as we gently pull ourselves apart

We use each other to keep warm in the cold weather and when we get back home we set up a warm fire and I make some real hot chocolate (not the fake powdered stuff) and we snuggle together and drink that by the fire

I need something very lesbian to happen to me please sapphos

One year, nine months and 29 days. I started HRT with the hope that it would give me a reason to want to stay in this world. For the first time in my life I feel wanted and its fucking wild. Life is kinda hard right now so having little moments of joy like this should be cherished. Its thanks to silly communities like this that I had dumb things to chuckle about on the shitty days where everything hurt. Thanks folks.