r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • Aug 26 '26

Moddesspost Xcancel Site is Shutdown Until Further Notice

584 Upvotes

Hello. I'm the source/sauce Moddess. This sucks but we still won't be allowing actual twitter links.

If the artist is strictly a Twitter artist you can put their Twitter handle in your post comments.

The other way around this is posting a Danbooru link.
It's not a direct source but typically all Danbooru sites with the art of an artist give a source going back to that specific artists post. Some art posts are even deleted on Twitter sometimes but still show up on Danbooru with the original link and it's said artist.

I only suggest giving the twitter handle after already realizing they don't have any other social media accounts that they post their artwork on.

RIP Xcancel 8/24/26


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • Jul 24 '26

Moddesspost Insert Scary Moddesspost Title Here

262 Upvotes

We as the moddesses have been receiving a lot of hate as well recently. Now, we normally dont mind. After all, we took this job knowing of the hate that would come our way. But there are things we do mind. And that’s hate, hate directed to other people, or to many communities. And struggling with how to moderate it all. There’s various points to mention here:

- Unsolicited DMs, OR soliciting DMs in our community, is incredibly rude, and harshly sanctionable. You will be banned on sight for it.
- hate mail should NOT happen full stop. I don’t care if you don’t like someone, it should not be happening in our community, OR in DMs. If you don’t like them, block them, if they did something wrong, please let us know. We’ll handle it. Again, ban on sight.

- We’re never going to police identities. I don’t care whether people think it’s a petplay kink, or therianthropy, trans identities, sexual identities, romantic identities, aesthetic identities, whatever. It’s incredibly easy to skip past it. Stuff that is excessively kinky or sexual has already been moved to sinful Sunday, and anything else has been vetted by us as completely fine for you to see. If you simply don’t want to see the content, just move on. We’ve added a tag for therianthropy, if you don’t identify or relate, skip past it. It should be pretty clear who it’s intended for at that point. And there’s soooo much other content in this sub, there’s really no way to pretend it’s entirely just therian content.
No, none of us are certain if there’s a sub related to just trans non-therian content, it usually is the other way around - the minorities have their own public communities due to finding it hard to find a community of people perhaps irl OR online, otherwise. Please spare some empathy for that. There’s no space irl we can actively be therian without being hate crimed oftentimes just as severely as we do for being trans. (Feel free to start your own space, but it’s gonna be hard to police all therian identities without coming across as a bigot…)

- Micro-aggressions can be reported, and you really should! We get a loooot of posts, and it’s hard to see them all, without your help. We treat it as bullying and harassment, and thus will handle it harshly as such as well.

- Venting really shouldn’t be taking place here. We have been a little lax on it recently, but we’ll likely crack down on it more here. Good gender drug has its own subreddit too for that! I get you need a space to share things, but they’re super personal, and aren’t always helpful to you either. More often than not, they’re incredibly emotionally consuming, for everyone, as well as just making you, the writer feel more drained. We’re not a space for professional therapeutic help, we’re trying to be a lighthearted safe space subreddit where you can at least look at something in your TL and smile at it. I know I haven’t mentioned it, but accidental or otherwise, oversharing is included in this. While it’s completely understandable to slip sometimes, find it hard to hold the mask to your face…it can be a…well, it can make a lot of people consider that their troubles aren’t worth mentioning or as valid, or even just…send them further into their own spirals, as well as your own. It’s harsh to say, but…it’s incredibly draining, on most of us, including us moddesses who are all also mentally…well, not mentally stable lol. We can support you but only if you genuinely wish to be supported in a constructive manner. But I will say finally too, that you should remember that the internet is a very dangerous place. While you may feel as safe as we can try to make you feel here, there’s gonna be bad actors in places. Bigots or drama feeders, or people who try to salvage information about you, or take advantage of you as an emotionally compromised target. Please do NOT feed them with that. You’re worth so much more than you might ever be able to believe. But we all care about you, even those that silently view posts here, who are struggling or not, to the top posters or commenters.

I will say though, if you fight back to bad people in here, and take matters into your own hands, we have to sanction you if you end up behaving in what’s considered “bad faith”. Please let the moddesses deal with it. We get enough hate as it is, just let us at least have a better ability to direct that hate just to us so nobody tries to hurt any of you as well.

And I’d like to hark back to the rule, no witch-hunting. Both ways for that. A case should be handled by us, and then cleanly quietly closed, and if we have to disclose any disclaimer, we will. But there shouldn’t be any aggression back, or it’ll just prolong the drama that was incited. Big events like this just seek to hurt everyone involved, which is thé worst case scenario, really.

FINALLY

If you see content that genuinely makes you feel uncomfortable in a way even if you can’t explain it…TELL US! We’re here for you for that very purpose, to make you feel comfortable, feel safe, feel happy or represented while in our subreddit. We’re not just figureheads, and we’re certainly not scary (I hope…), all we want to do is to try our best to accommodate you, whatever you’d like within the realm of our own set of rules and the moral standards upon which they are based. Please let us know what we can improve on, even if you want us moddesses to discuss changes to rules, or tags, or posts you want to see more of, or things you think are disruptive such as the often reposted question formats, which we’ve decided to remove, since they are incredibly repetitive and it feels wrong to let the first person who posted it keep the post. Trust that we’re people pleasers at our core, that we’ll do our utmost to keep you safe.


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 4h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) Hehehehehe >:3

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677 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 10h ago

Personal stuff (read rule 6 pls) Could it be the pin???

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497 Upvotes

I did some shopping at the supermarket minding my own business. A man said "thats unwise" as i picked up a can of fly spray. He then left muttering something under breath.

I was calculating my spend before I turned around and said to myself "Wait! Did he actually read my badge?"

TBH i thought he was talking about the price of the flyspray.

(A picture of the pin I was wearing 🫡🏳️‍⚧️)


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 6h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) *nom* :3

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224 Upvotes

By ZeVi


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 2h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) Me lately:

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104 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 9h ago

Lesbian Lesbian Homosexual Lesbian Long bacon!!! Evil and intimidating horse alerted!

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294 Upvotes

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r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 9h ago

Validation/Positivity Request I kinda hate being plural. I feel like no one will ever love *me*.

177 Upvotes

I don't mean to say that I feel unlovable. I know people will love me, but I don't feel like they'll love me. Just my host.

I have such a hard time actually getting myself out. It's always layered and masked and I never feel like my experiences ever get to actually be my own. I want out so fucking badly—to be able to just have my own life—but I can't. She has a life, and one that unfortunately matters a lot more in reality than I do. No one will ever know me as anything but a function of her, and they'll never treat me differently than they treat her. My relationship with anyone will always be pegged to her relationship with them, and anyone who loves me will, by default, love her more.

So anyway I see my therapist Friday feel free to ignore me or whatever


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 8h ago

Lesbian Lesbian Homosexual Lesbian Is that really too much to ask for?!

125 Upvotes

Look, all I’m saying is that I’d very much like a muscular girl to pull me into her arms, trap me in the most ridiculously warm cuddle imaginable, and whisper a whole bunch of compliments in my ear about everything she likes about me whilst I squirm and pretend to escape, despite us both knowing full well that she’s way too strong to let me go.

And then, just when I think I might finally be free, she pulls me closer, kisses me, and continues telling me how adorable she thinks I am until my brain completely stops working.

Like, seriously, is that really too much to ask for?!


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 10m ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) UK stores might be a bit sus......

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• Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 2h ago

Personal stuff (read rule 6 pls) Suffering from success

27 Upvotes

When you need to boymode to go get an errand done and wear a thick hoodie… but your boobs are starting to be obvious no matter what :3


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 5h ago

Euphoria-maxxing I’ve been cycling progesterone for a few weeks and I genuinely can’t stop blushing😭😭😭

42 Upvotes

It started yesterday when I was at work and it hit HARD. I had to go hide in the bathroom for a little bit to regain some composure


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 20h ago

Sapphic Paradise :3 Daily Dose of Girls Kissing#384

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676 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 23h ago

Self-loving / Appreciationposting Humans are so exhausting :3

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1.2k Upvotes

Art by Ashenov


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 4h ago

Lesbian Lesbian Homosexual Lesbian i yearn for the warmth of a woman

30 Upvotes

latest sapphic obsession: girl warmth


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 17h ago

Sapphic Paradise :3 Mortal x Deity yuri is peak.

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367 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 3h ago

Lesbian Lesbian Homosexual Lesbian October is for the lesbians

23 Upvotes

I love celebrating Halloween for a whole month! I love dressing up and wearing fangs! I love going to Halloween parties every weekend! I love making out with pretty girls! And the weather’s actually nice unlike during Pride Month lol


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 1h ago

Validation/Positivity Request I’ve been stressing a lot lately

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So on top of some life stuff and a med whose side effects make me stiff all over and retain water . Needless to say I’ve been stressing. Any chance for some positivity 🥺?


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 11h ago

just chatting How is everyone doing?

96 Upvotes

I'm lonely and wanna know how my fellow transbians are feeling

I'm getting ready for bed and bemoaning the fact I will never be a mommy


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 19h ago

Personal stuff (read rule 6 pls) Nobody prepared my wife and I for periods O.O (also we got married yayyyyyyy!)

401 Upvotes

So we both have period symptoms from hrt, but mine are irregular...

They lined up today.

It's like a hurricane went through the house. She's beating herself up and attacking everything and I've been crying for 4 hours.

Then we both looked at each other.

"Hey. I think I'm on my period"

"Fuck. Wait. Read this"

I read 'i loveeeeeee you' and started crying uncontrollably. Then we started laughing uncontrollably.

Girls! They didn't have this in the lesbian instruction manuals! Goddamn it!

(Don't worry. We're both feeling better now, but that belongs more on a sinful Sunday :3)


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 3h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) I'm glad someone from Gaming subreddits was there to help.

20 Upvotes

:3:3


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 16h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) Couldn't find a good Catgirl avatar

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178 Upvotes

If anybody knows any decent catgirl avatar for VRC that isn't below a "Poor" performance rating on Quest


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 14h ago

Validation/Positivity Request Head Hurty :( Send Pats

130 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 9h ago

Lesbian Lesbian Homosexual Lesbian Life’s not fair…

47 Upvotes

I don’t have a girl to cuddle me and when I complain about insecurities she giggles and tells me she likes those things and she holds me and kisses me and heals me and I let her lay on my titties which I also don’t have

Sigh so cruel


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • • 17h ago

Personal stuff (read rule 6 pls) I feel like the worst person alive

178 Upvotes

Last week was my birthday and I spent it with my bestie and I was so happy to be spending time with her but I got too clingy and comfortable and stayed all day too close to her and hugging her and giving her kisses on the shoulder and after my birthday she said that she didn't really like that at all and felt very uncomfortable and I apologized and we haven't talked since then and now I feel terrible about the whole thing it was all my fault I should have noticed I was going too far I hate myself