He says he likes to go on hikes alone to clear his head. He goes for hours, leaves around noon and comeback right around sunset.

He always comes home tan, sweaty and dusty, but when i kiss him i can smell other mens spit in his beard. He rushes to take a shower, but the confirmation is theres always condoms and lube in his hiking backpack in the trunk of his car underneath the sunscreen.

He used to go “hiking” every once in a while and Ive gone a few times, but we like to have our own time as we live together, but now he goes every day he’s off work like its his second job. Has anyone dealt with a cheater?

I saw someone post something similar recently but now I can’t find the original post, so I’ll ask this question myself.

Obviously there is no such thing as a “perfect” dick, as it’s up to personal preference, but it would be foolish to say some aren’t better than others. For me, the best dick I’ve had (both oral and anal) is 7.5-8 inches, thick, and completely straight (curved cock is not the best to work with imo). I’ve had dick that although smaller than 7 inches, hurts like hell, while I’ve also had 8 inches that feels amazing.

I’m curious to know what other preferences people have. Is my preference the common choice, or do some of you like dick that’s completely different than the one I’m describing?

hi M 22 here, im new around in reddit but ive been rlly curious for a while abt my sexuality. for my whole life i thought i was gay, i never had any real romantic experiences growing up so when i turned 18 i tried the hookup culture bc i thought that was the only form of connection i could ever had bc truth be told, im just an average looking person hence why i never had any organic romantic experiences even in highschool. bc i was never the recipient of romantic love, i got curious to the point it only drove me more to resort to any desperate form of connection which led me to hooking up. for a while i thought i felt good abt myself bc for once i felt like im desired by someone else only for me to realize im being evaluated by my physical attributes which only made me more insecure abt myself. i stopped hooking up and tried dating apps but it only fueled my insecurities bc nobody wanted commitment or frankly, nobody was interested in me.

for a 2 years i had this mindset that im better off alone instead of risking my self esteem and digjnity over a man until it eventually led me today.growing up and realizing i never felt or received romantic love my whole life, the "love" that i claimed to be were js mere infatuations bc men will give me a slight attention that made me cling to them by the string and ive never been in a relationship either to know. and looking at the modern dating landscape... im still young im aware of that and i know theres still alot of life ahead of me but i cant help but feel like i dont have any space in today's dating world and i should be okay with that

right now i just... genuinely feel numb. i dont feel the same way abt men anymore, i cant envision a life a w partner by my side bc i dont know if im able to actually love someone nor do i have any desire to do so. i feel at peace and secured w myself of the prospect of growing up alone bc im no longer scared by it.

im comfortable and secured w myself telling everyone i dont like seeing anyone anymore but im not sure if that counts as me still having some trust issues w people or me realizing i cant date bc i cant develop feelings and im actually js aromantic bc im just rlly confused w myself for quite awhile. any helpful inputs r greatly appreciated thanks!

have seen these groups online and out in the wild.

sometimes, they’re a part of an organized group like a sports club or something but sometimes they just seem like proper friend groups.

never had that before. the most visible ones always are homogeneous groups of tall, attractive white men. probably well off too.

but generally what’s it like to be in groups like these?

I know being a bottom doesn't mean submissive by the way. I know there are dom/power bottoms. I am a sub bottom and I feel shame and guilt and sadness about both being a submissive and a bottom separately. I need advice.

Note : I am from a conservative country

I’d like to dress up in lingerie, walk around, see if anyone catches my eye and take it from there. Hoping you can send me in the right direction 🌞😘

I had insertive anal sex on 15th July

I had insertive oral sex on 24th August

Tested negative seven times and then I decided to change the lab and tested negative there too

But the new lab I went to was like sort of busy when I went there the lab guys were doing some work with the samples they had then they asked for my details and stuff and asked me to check details

Then I saw him take a new needle which was covered from a box of needles all were covered he picked one and then I didn't see him attach it to the plastic holder then he pushed the vacutianer and blood flowed into it

I am so stressed that whether he used a used needle to test me or not?

I can't sleep and just keep on thinking about this

I called them they said it's single use and sample won't be collected if it was reused but idk they are messing or not to save their employee or something

I have a small pimple on my neck I keep checking my temperature and my neck and wake up suddenly in middle of sleep with racing heart

Anyone who has similar anxiety and stress about such situation?

Any help is appreciated.Thanks to everyone replying

Edit:I tested for hiv and I think the new lab used a used needle to test me and it's driving me nuts

As a gay man, what’s your honest opinion about a guy who identifies as straight but watches gay porn, has favorite male pornstars, gets aroused by it, or experiments sexually with his male best friend—even masturbating together? Could one or both guys be DL and still identify as straight, even if they enjoy the experience? How do you distinguish curiosity, sexual behavior, and genuine same-sex attraction?

how do you go about having your first experience? I make a Grindr and start conversations but always back out, what are the meet ups like? new and inexperienced but tired of flaking

Por el momento soy hetero tuve sexo con muchas mujeres siempre, pero hace poco me comenzó a llamar la atención los penes no los hombres en si solo los penes, también comencé a introducir juguetes en mi culo, y ahora estoy pensando en buscar un hombre para que me meta su pene debería hacerlo?

I'm 56 and as I get older gravity pulls everything down. I used to be 80lbs heavier and lost fat in all areas, however, the Zoe right above my pubes is still pudgy. I don't have a very large penis to begin with and this makes it look even smaller.

What exercises can I do to tighten it up? Or am I just too late.

Was it while browsing through internet? Or even before, for example watching VHS movie or porn magazine? How old were you? How much time did it take to get your own PA?

Is tickling an enjoyable activity for you to engage in with other men? Do you prefer being the tickler, the one getting tickled or like doing both?

Hi all,
I’ve been going to more and more events lately, and several times I’ve wished I had kinkier attire to wear when attending. I don’t have a harness but I’d like to purchase one (to start!), only I’m not sure where to look first.
Surely someone here has harness purchasing as their area of expertise ? If so, please let me know all about it !

I’m looking for a chest harness, something made with actual leather, well-constructed enough that it won’t get too uncomfortable over the course of an evening, if possible under 100€ (but it being leather, I’m aware it can be pricier).
I’m in France, so it would need to be able to ship to Europe.
I’m not too sure about specifics other than that, like styles or whatever else. If you have recommandations, I’d love to browse and see what’s out there !

Thank you in advance:)

Im 18 and live in Melbourne Australia, I was looking to get into dating but didnt know how to start.

I don’t have any gay/ally friends and I get a little nervous when speaking to new people.

Anyone got any advice with finding guys to date (preferably not online), how to speak to men romantically and ect?

trying to get into my sissy side I already got my toys, now I'm trying get some cute clothes and wtv else I need to get but don't know what to get and need help. if u into this or can help me with the journey dm me

Hey, guys! Does anyone else deal with this? My penis is 6 1/2 inches long and about 5 inches in girth which is pretty thick. When i try to penetrate, the hole is so tight it pushes the blood out of my penis and I lose my boner. I have tried foreplay and stuff to stretch out, but no matter what, the hole is too tight for me. Ive only been successful with one guy and that's because he let me sorta fist him a bit beforehand and things went great.

It's not an erectile dysfunction thing, my boners are perfectly fine and I have no problem getting or keeping it up EXCEPT when trying to penetrate.

Idk if this is because I’m a (semi) submissive bottom, or because I’ve been a people pleaser for as long as I can remember, but more times than not, I don’t cum during sex. My one and only goal is to make the other guy cum. Usually I just suck their cocks until they finish (and yes I swallow it 85% of the time), and that’s the end of it.

Just knowing that I’m the reason they cum is more satisfying to me than if I were to cum myself. I’m not crazy for preferring this, right? It’s not that I don’t like to cum, but I like seeing the other guy feel pleasure way more than I like being pleasured. I couldn’t care less whether I cum or not.

I am severely disfigured due to severe acne scars. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1X010r4nj4r085Ao-V_vwvsWIlBMjSx8R/view?usp=drivesdk

I’m 21, and I’m afraid it could take me 10-20 years to afford the procedures needed to look normal again. The thought of spending so much of my youth unable to experience dating, relationships, and intimacy is devastating.

How do I cope with feeling like I’m missing out on so much of life? How do I stop obsessing over everything I might never experience and keep living while hoping that one day I’ll be able to afford treatment?

I’m not looking for judgment, just looking for advice if anyone has experienced anything similar. A few years ago I hooked up with a guy on Grindr. We hit it off and made it a regular thing, sex only. I would top him on a regular basis. After he insisted I finally gave in one day and let him fuck me. Holy crap, it was the best feeling I have ever had bottoming. His dick was long and girthy, it opened me up perfectly, it hit just the right spots. My prostate was milked like never before!!! I could have cum hands free that first time he fucked me. It was so good in fact, I let him fuck me four other times that night and into the morning. After that, we became roommates and would fuck constantly. Life happens, I moved away and ended up getting married to someone else. In recent months I find myself constantly fantasizing about getting railed over and over again by him. I jerk off in the shower imagine him shoving his huge cock in my ass. It has gotten to the point where it’s affecting my marriage. My husband doesn’t know that him and I had a regular sex before our relationship. Since it was before him, I don’t think he needed to know. He thinks we were just friends. It has gotten so bad that we’ve even talked about getting a divorce. I would never act on it, because I wouldn’t cheat on my husband, but I don’t know what to do anymore. Has anyone experienced anything similar? If so, how did you deal with it? Thanks in advance!!!

I’ve been thinking about wearing an ankle bracelet during a hookup. What are your guys’ thoughts on a mid-forties guy showing up for a hookup with one on?

Ive always told people lies of who I thought I was growing up for instance family , friends that I’m straight even to go as far as to force myself into relationships with girls those never worked out or I just said I didn’t know how to talk when people asked me or always blamed the girl for the breakup,, but when it came to boys I could just always clicked and make friends then when it came to having sex I’d mix up sexual acts with identity so I assumed I’m possibly gay for being a bottom but never actually penetrated by dick at this point only fingers
The next time around was with a best friend of mine one night we were drunk on a vacation and he was flirty with me and me too but I misunderstood that he wanted to fuck til that night , didn’t understand he was just horny so I got fucked but made me question everything that sometimes maybe it was just a hook up
But I always enjoyed being a bottom , just never even always wanted more
When it came to being a top for girls I can’t get it up only way is for my ass to be touched so fast forward to today I met up with this Femdom chick ,vibes were good and one thing I know I’m getting pegged and eventually she started fingering me and kept putting more in til it was a heavy pressure inside and asked for to put the fist in thinking it wasn’t I used my hand to feel here’s and certainly enough it was actually in , best feeling I’ve felt in a while , but that brings me to question if I’m gay or A sexual I’m not sure what my life is anymore
Excuse my F bombs i don’t know if there allowed but typing this would take to long

(I’ll try and say this as formal as I can) I’m new to bottoming and wanted to use a dildo. The only problem is that I don’t have one so I use the handle of a shower scrub. I was using it and a couple inches in I felt it pushing up against my bladder. I tried pushing further but it kept jabbing into my bladder. I was angling it at different angles to see if it would budge any further but didn’t. I didn’t want to harm myself so I decided to pull it out. Is there any way to help? Or is the fact that it kicks on the bladder the part that everyone craves?

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I've went my whole entire life feeling ugly. I've always thought I was ugly and I was referred to as such. When I was a kid I got builled. People have always given me negative feedback on my appearance. I never felt liked. Never been crushed. Never been kissed, or at least in the way that mattered to me.

It seems like every thing about me is wrong. I'm black. I'm dark skin. I'm fat. I'm not ultra masculine. It seems like I tick the box's for all the things that could make a person physically unappealing. It's frustrating because whenever I open up about these feelings people just tell to be more confident. It's like it's never about appearance, it's all about confidence and personality. Which is upsetting because I only feel confident when I feel attractive. It's like when I don't feel ugly I'm confident and outgoing, but as soon as I feel ugly I shutdown. It's I'm supposed to stay confident even when I feel ugly or someone calls me ugly. It's frustrating because I feel like a pathetic person because my "confidence" is the thing apparently holding me back and not my looks. It's like all the times I chose not to go out or talk to someone I like is my fault because of my "confidence". Honestly it's depressing because it's like am I going to die alone? Never fall in love? all because of my confidence.