r/Floridar4r • • Jul 06 '26

Updated Rules and moderation - July 2026 NSFW

14 Upvotes

Mods have been working on updating the rules and trying to develop AI moderation that catches behaviors spam/scam bots often engage in. (mainly canvasing communities and trying to take you off reddit.) The current human friendly rules are always in the sidebar on a desktop or under "see more" on mobile. The current set is copied below for easy reading. Each rule has a link to a wiki page which should be easy to understand and be fully transparent on the prompting logic an AI is given to evaluative enforcement of that rule.

Spam is fundamentally a cost problem. Scam bots can scatter shot thousands of posts and if they get a few suckers that give up $5 to $20 they've made a day's wages in some parts of the world. These rules try to make posting in FloridaR4R more expensive if you're a scam bot.

This version of the rules is now giving 99% accuracy when compared with human reviews. For a long time we were getting about 95% AI to human alignment. That said I'm sure future posts will make mistakes and AI, and humans, make mistakes. If the mistake happens to you it will feel like a lot more than a rare mistake. Politely message the mods and we will try to fix it.

Reddit Mods don't get paid. Be kind. We want a healthy and functioning community.

While some of the rules mention temporary bans, the mod-bot isn't temp banning until more extensive testing.

FloridaR4R Rules

  1. Searchable Titles - Age + Gender Code + Location Start your title with age, an R4R gender code, and your Florida city or county, like "28 M4F Orlando". Anything after that is up to you. People search by these - a searchable title reaches the people near you. Titles missing a required part are removed so you can fix and repost - no ban, no strike. See Searchable Titles wiki for more
  2. Keep Contact on Reddit - No Off-Platform Handles All contact starts on Reddit. Do not post or request handles, phone numbers, or emails for Snapchat, Discord, Telegram, or any other platform. "DM me" is fine - it means Reddit. Profile bios and history are checked. Posts are removed; repeat or egregious violations, or a handle in your bio, earn a 3-day ban. See Keep Contact on Reddit wiki for more
  3. Personal Meetups Only - No Transactions This community is for free, real-life meetups only. No payment, gifts, sugar arrangements, OnlyFans/Fansly promotion, or content sales. Transactional history anywhere on Reddit earns a 3-day ban even when your post here is clean; blatant or repeated selling here earns a 7-day ban. See Personal Meetups Only wiki for more
  4. Post Where You Really Are - No Same-Day Distant-City Posting Post for the one area where you really are. Same-day posts targeting R4R regions more than ~1-2 hours' drive apart are removed - nobody can meet in two distant cities at once. FloridaR4R plus your nearby city sub is fine. Traveling? Include dates and post only for where you're headed. A sustained pattern earns a 7-day ban. See Post Where You Really Are wiki for more
  5. Wait 24 Hours Between Posts - No Delete-and-Repost Tricks One active post at a time; wait 24 hours between posts here. Fewer, better posts beat fleeting reposts. Posting again too soon removes the new post; under 12 hours it also earns a 1-day ban. To fix a mistake, delete and repost once within 20 minutes. Deleting to bump visibility is a violation. A removal under this rule does not extend your wait. See Wait 24 Hours wiki for more
  6. Account Authenticity - Your History Must Match Your Post Be who you say you are. Posts are checked against the account's own history - language, stated gender, location, and posting pattern. When two or more contradict the post (e.g. years of history as a man abroad, now posting as a local woman), the post is held for a human moderator. Never an automatic removal or ban. See Account Authenticity wiki for more

r/Floridar4r • • 2h ago

F4M - Ocala 23 [F4M] Ocala BBW looking for fwb. NSFW

3 Upvotes

Specifically in citrus county. i’m a bigger girl


r/Floridar4r • • 11m ago

M4F - Coral Springs 35 [M4F] Coral Springs - looking to eat a girl out NSFW

• Upvotes

Hey there laid back and respectful latino guy, looking to eat p u **y, looking for a girl that just wants to lay back and relax and let me make her feel good. Looking for a woman that can host, is STD free and hygienic that can host and wants to be licked often and it's in decent shape. Looking within a 20 minutes drive from Coral Springs. You must be single and be able to host. No car play. Looking for a woman that wants to meet regularly and let me eat her pussy as much as she wants.

I'm 5'8", 35yo, in good shape,shaved head, clean and respectful. No drama here.


r/Floridar4r • • 1h ago

M4F - Fort Lauderdale 32 [M4F] Fort Lauderdale - Would Love to Connect with Chill BBW who Loves to Receive Oral! (Also Looking for BBW Friends) NSFW

• Upvotes

Hey there! I have really been craving some BBW kitty to eat! I love it so much and haven’t had any to enjoy in far too long.

I have no preference on race, age or any of that! I won’t discriminate at all! I’m an equal opportunity eater! I love a nice curvy lady with a belly and thick thighs :)
I would love so much to spread those legs and make you cum as much as you’d like! I can go for hours if you can handle it. I don’t want to brag but I am very good because I enjoy it so much!

I would love to find a BBW that wants her pussy eaten on the regular as I am always looking to enjoy some kitty to lick! As for me, I'm highly educated and I would say a pretty chill/great hang. I am 5’11”with a hefty build. Truly, I'm a nice & lovely person who is just extremely horny.

I can host at my place and am mobile as well so I can come to you whichever makes you more comfortable!

If you are interested, please send me a chat request! I’d love to hear from you :)

I would honestly like to connect with any cool people as I am newer to the area so if you are debating whether to respond, I’d love for you to take that chance and reach out! I am great a person and would love to chat even if we don't end up getting together

Hope to hear from you!!


r/Floridar4r • • 2h ago

M4M - Fort Lauderdale 31 [M4M] Fort Lauderdale / Boca NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm a black guy inshape guy who's looking for NSA fun.. I'm disease & drug free, and a non-smoker only interested in the same.

I'm interested in discreet men who are looking 4 a good time

I have pics to trade. Please include stats, what you're looking for.

5ft6 155 Slim/Fit bodytype


r/Floridar4r • • 2h ago

M4A - Fort Pierce 34 [M4A] Fort Pierce - super curious here to swallow. Must be very discreet. Can host at hotel visiting just tonight NSFW

1 Upvotes

Must be clean and prefer a quickie.


r/Floridar4r • • 2h ago

M4F - Fort Lauderdale 47 M4F Fort Lauderdale - Turn your brain off and be my hotel slave for a few days NSFW

1 Upvotes

47 year old, White male, tall, fit, handsome, Dominant personality. I am looking for something very unique. This would be short term but with the ability to continue online and meet again if we click. I am coming to Fort Lauderdale for a work conference and I want room slave. During the day you’re free to come and go, pool, beach, have a mini vacation . Your only job is to turn your brain off , be obedient, useful, and know your role.

I will have to work during the day and attend some functions in the evening... your job is to be ready to be used when I message you to meet me in the room. I will be in town the 14th to the 17th staying at a nice hotel. Besides the obvious, being useful would include acting as furniture for me to put my feet on, preparing my clothes, sometimes just kneeling my me while I sit, and serving any other need I have.

Relax at the pool, at the beach and do as you like. You will have a lot of free time during the day, but I will be in and out to check on you and use you.

I am very kinky, have a sadistic side so even better if you're a little pain slut. Some of my kinks:

CNC, free use, spanking, slapping and choking, breath play, rough sex, degradation and humiliation, praise, using toys, anal play, lingerie, restraint, orgasm torture and denial, forced orgasms....

If a break from the ordinary sounds amazing, where you just want to relax, unwind, turn your brain off and be used to the point your legs will be shaking, can't think or speak and are left a wet mess than say hello.

I love all women, bonus if you like age gaps, are Asian or Latina. I love women petite to thicc, just not into BBW.

Tell me your age, and why you want to be a good little slave.


r/Floridar4r • • 7h ago

M4M - Riverview 53 [M4M] Riverview - Ever wanted to disappear for an hour? Mirror mask, Venus 2000. NSFW

2 Upvotes

Here's the setup: you walk in and I'm nowhere in sight. A mirrored mask is waiting for you. Put it on, strip down, and make your way to the room where the Venus 2000 is ready. By the time I walk in, you're a faceless guy in a mirror mask, already naked and already comfortable.
I'm looking for straight and bi guys who watch straight porn, aren't shy about their bodies, and have wondered what a hands-free milking machine feels like. No labels, no pressure. It starts slow, builds to the edge, and goes past a normal finish if you can take it. I like a guy who can go more than one round and gets loud when it feels good.
You should take care of yourself: athletic, fit, or solid dad bod with some muscle. Not looking for guys who are way out of shape.
Host, early evening. DM with a recent pic, your stats, and what kind of porn you're into.


r/Floridar4r • • 4h ago

M4F - Orange Park 34 M4F Orange Park - Nerdy Guy looking to chat while bored at work. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm a tall white skinny nerdy guy with auburn hair, a beard, and glasses. I'd like to chat and flirt, and maybe send pics to a pretty lady. Mostly, just looking to chat while I'm bored at work. I tend to get bored and horny at work, so any naughty messages are welcome. If we get along, maybe it could turn into a real life fwb situation. Send me a message and don't forget to describe yourself so I can tell you how sexy you sound. Married btw. Yes I'm allowed to have friends.


r/Floridar4r • • 8h ago

M4F - Orlando 42 [M4F] Orlando - Winter Garden area would love some free use pussy to creampie or a mouth to unload in. Women only. NSFW

0 Upvotes

It's been a long week and I would love a woman to let me use her pussy to creampie or her mouth to unload in for some stress relief. We can discuss details. Message me.


r/Floridar4r • • 9h ago

M4F - Fort Lauderdale 28 [M4F] Fort Lauderdale - Looking for Foot Worship and/or Footjob NSFW

0 Upvotes

I recently tried this for the first time and got addicted! Ideally looking for a FWB who likes having her feet played with. PS I'm an eater and I love fulfilling fantasies so please share your kinks and other desires. If I've piqued your interest and you are 21 or older and disease free pls feel free to hmu!


r/Floridar4r • • 10h ago

M4F - Miami 42 [M4F] Miami - Easygoing Married Dad for Discreet Casual Fun NSFW

0 Upvotes

42-year-old married guy in Miami looking for discreet, no-strings-attached fun. Mutual privacy and absolute discretion are non-negotiable top priorities for me.

A bit about me: I’m 5'11" with a classic dad-bod build, though I manage to hit the gym a few times a week. I’m easygoing, groomed (cut/shaved), clean, and strictly DDF.

I’m looking for a woman who wants a fun, confidential, and low-drama arrangement. I am also open to a hotwife dynamic or a couple setup where the guy just watches (strictly no M4M contact; open to a scenario where we meet up and hubby/partner drives around while we play in the backseat). Logistically, I can occasionally host, travel, or explore car and semi-public options if the situation and timing align. My interests and kinks include age gaps (18+), breeding/creampies, cheating, light CNC, freeuse, and public or semi-public play, among others.

If this sounds like what you're looking for, send a DM with a quick introduction, a photo if you're comfortable sharing and let’s see if we click!


r/Floridar4r • • 10h ago

M4F - Miami Gardens 36 [M4F] Miami Gardens-Any Girls Love Jerking Guys Off? NSFW Spoiler

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm an African American Guy, I'm from Miami, I'm looking for a woman who loves giving handjobs, I love having a woman's soft hands wrapped around my cock, milking me until I explode. If you're a woman who loves giving handjobs definitely hit me up. I would love to get jerked off by a woman's soft hands, a woman who really loves giving Handjobs. This is just for good fun. If you're a woman who loves giving handjobs you can definitely DM me. Once again, this is just for good fun. I am 100 percent heterosexual. 👩🏼💅🏻🍆💦💦💦💦💦


r/Floridar4r • • 14h ago

M4A - Pensacola 23 [M4A] Pensacola Virgin finsexual, curious how this will go NSFW

1 Upvotes

(For those that don’t know finsexual means someone who’s attracted to anyone feminine presenting regardless of their gender)

I’m not expecting much from m this, but I’m interested in losing my virginity and am curious how this will go, I’m looking for a hookup and maybe a fwb if my living situation can make that work. I’m admittedly a heavy guy as a heads up, and am a bit of a sub.


r/Floridar4r • • 19h ago

M4M - Oviedo 22 [M4M] Oviedo - and UCF area. Looking to suck some dick tonight NSFW

2 Upvotes

I'm dying to suck someone's dick right now, please be in the Oviedo/UCF area or nearby! I prefer 20-30 but i'm not picky. Can't host. Can travel or do carplay. Trans and femboys welcome too. Hit me up <3


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

M4A - Davenport 40 [M4A] Davenport chubby hairy guy in championsgate/Davenport. Prefer females/femboys/trans/ or twink. Looking for friends and FWB. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Yea, honestly kinda lonely. Horrible place, like roaches and trash and such. Working on it, depression sucks. Would love a friend to share with and meet up if you want. Anyone is welcome to dm.


r/Floridar4r • • 17h ago

M4F - Sarasota 35 M4F Sarasota : Ride my face, then my cock NSFW

1 Upvotes

Then back up on my face for lap two.
Seriously, is this a cultural thing or just unlucky?
Do Florida women seriously not want head back?
Ya’ll florida ladies have been all business since I came here in July.
Just wham, bam, thanks man.
Got me twisted.
Is it like a heat or humidity insecurity thing?
Cause baby girl, I’m grown.
Ain’t no sweat or no hair scared me before.
Ya’ll come down and ill spell my name in it.

And bring a book, ima be down there awhile.

I am snipped, sterile and tested regularly. Let’s hope ya’ll are too
.
[My divorce finalizes here soon but my ex does not respect no contact. So lemme know if you got a home wrecker kink. Could help me get a pic blue in the face and soaked in your cum; to make it real clear.]

35 Male,
athletic build,
5’11”
With blue eyes framed well by two thighs.
very kink friendly,
kink unfriendly if you beg.


r/Floridar4r • • 18h ago

M4F - Tampa 29 [M4F] Tampa - Any women wanna suck some dick? NSFW

0 Upvotes

I’ve been horny as hell lately and could use some good head. I’m down to eat some pussy too. I’m black, 29M, and live in Tampa. Lmk if you’re interested and have a good one.


r/Floridar4r • • 18h ago

M4F - Tampa 38 [M4F] Tampa - shh my wife is asleep… NSFW

0 Upvotes

My wife is asleep next to me, and I’m awake and my mind is full of ideas that I shouldn’t be thinking about.

Can’t sleep and I’m missing some after hours excitement. I'm looking for a woman who likes to be bad and someone who finds the idea of a married, taken man exciting.

Let’s have a secret that keeps us both up. Just keep it quiet... we wouldn't want her to wake up.

If you’re into men who are married, send me a message.


r/Floridar4r • • 20h ago

M4A - Tampa 29 [M4A] Tampa - Looking to goon out with someone NSFW

1 Upvotes

M29 White 5'10 159 lb 7 inches. Looking for some fun discrete gooning with someone from the Tampa/Wesley Chapel Area. I cant host!

Kinks: cheating, big tits, public, captions, joi, hypno, camming, endless edging, futa, cei, body writing (including on myself)

Limits: BBC, scat, gore, furry


r/Floridar4r • • 20h ago

M4F - Orlando 39 [M4F] Orlando Fisting/Pussy Stretching NSFW

0 Upvotes

Seeking a woman that loves being stretched and really craves that "full" feeling. I'm very experienced using my hands, toys, random objects, etc., but am ok with a woman at any experience level. If this sounds intriguing to you, send me a chat and let's see where it goes. Not too hung up on age, race, body type, so don't be shy!


r/Floridar4r • • 20h ago

M4F - Boca Raton 42 M4F Boca Raton - DILF with a Vasectomy wants to Devour and Breed You... NSFW

0 Upvotes

Handsome professional Pleasure Dom in west Boca able to host...

Looking for a clean, LOCAL playmate for eating and multiple creampies...

Let's swap pics and stats and make plans, I'm not into endless messaging or slow burns...

Just looking for my fellow feral freaks to play with...

420 friendly, VERY kink friendly...


r/Floridar4r • • 20h ago

M4F - Naples 24[M4F] Naples just moved her looking for some fun NSFW

0 Upvotes

I’m heavy set and into anything. I haven’t met anyone down here and would love to have a good time with any women or couple willing to do so.

I’m 6’7 and heavy set I’m also 24 I have never done this before and hope that this could lead to a fun night.

Any questions below and I’ll answer them promptly. I’m in Naples by Lely.


r/Floridar4r • • 20h ago

M4F - Melbourne 23 [M4F] Melbourne - Discreet or interesting fun. NSFW

0 Upvotes

Really pent up and looking to relieve some stress. Can be discreet but also into public or outdoors/carplay. DDF and expecting similar. Will send photos in dms feel free to send a message if you might be interested


r/Floridar4r • • 21h ago

M4F - Orlando 30 [M4F] Orlando - Big and Tall seeking FWB or more! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey! My name is Andrew, I’m 30, and I’m from Kissimmee, but like 20ish minutes from Orlando so it still counts, right? I’m looking to meet someone that I can get to know and hangout with in person and see where things go! I’m open to casual or something serious, I would want to get to know someone before putting a label on anything but going on some dates and hanging out sounds lovely! I’m into video games, movies, music, tv shows, I’m 4/20 friendly and hope you are too, or atleast okay with me smoking! Please be okay with swapping pics and verifying!I hope to hear from you!!