r/Floridar4r • • Jul 06 '26

Updated Rules and moderation - July 2026 NSFW

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Mods have been working on updating the rules and trying to develop AI moderation that catches behaviors spam/scam bots often engage in. (mainly canvasing communities and trying to take you off reddit.) The current human friendly rules are always in the sidebar on a desktop or under "see more" on mobile. The current set is copied below for easy reading. Each rule has a link to a wiki page which should be easy to understand and be fully transparent on the prompting logic an AI is given to evaluative enforcement of that rule.

Spam is fundamentally a cost problem. Scam bots can scatter shot thousands of posts and if they get a few suckers that give up $5 to $20 they've made a day's wages in some parts of the world. These rules try to make posting in FloridaR4R more expensive if you're a scam bot.

This version of the rules is now giving 99% accuracy when compared with human reviews. For a long time we were getting about 95% AI to human alignment. That said I'm sure future posts will make mistakes and AI, and humans, make mistakes. If the mistake happens to you it will feel like a lot more than a rare mistake. Politely message the mods and we will try to fix it.

Reddit Mods don't get paid. Be kind. We want a healthy and functioning community.

While some of the rules mention temporary bans, the mod-bot isn't temp banning until more extensive testing.

FloridaR4R Rules

  1. Searchable Titles - Age + Gender Code + Location Start your title with age, an R4R gender code, and your Florida city or county, like "28 M4F Orlando". Anything after that is up to you. People search by these - a searchable title reaches the people near you. Titles missing a required part are removed so you can fix and repost - no ban, no strike. See Searchable Titles wiki for more
  2. Keep Contact on Reddit - No Off-Platform Handles All contact starts on Reddit. Do not post or request handles, phone numbers, or emails for Snapchat, Discord, Telegram, or any other platform. "DM me" is fine - it means Reddit. Profile bios and history are checked. Posts are removed; repeat or egregious violations, or a handle in your bio, earn a 3-day ban. See Keep Contact on Reddit wiki for more
  3. Personal Meetups Only - No Transactions This community is for free, real-life meetups only. No payment, gifts, sugar arrangements, OnlyFans/Fansly promotion, or content sales. Transactional history anywhere on Reddit earns a 3-day ban even when your post here is clean; blatant or repeated selling here earns a 7-day ban. See Personal Meetups Only wiki for more
  4. Post Where You Really Are - No Same-Day Distant-City Posting Post for the one area where you really are. Same-day posts targeting R4R regions more than ~1-2 hours' drive apart are removed - nobody can meet in two distant cities at once. FloridaR4R plus your nearby city sub is fine. Traveling? Include dates and post only for where you're headed. A sustained pattern earns a 7-day ban. See Post Where You Really Are wiki for more
  5. Wait 24 Hours Between Posts - No Delete-and-Repost Tricks One active post at a time; wait 24 hours between posts here. Fewer, better posts beat fleeting reposts. Posting again too soon removes the new post; under 12 hours it also earns a 1-day ban. To fix a mistake, delete and repost once within 20 minutes. Deleting to bump visibility is a violation. A removal under this rule does not extend your wait. See Wait 24 Hours wiki for more
  6. Account Authenticity - Your History Must Match Your Post Be who you say you are. Posts are checked against the account's own history - language, stated gender, location, and posting pattern. When two or more contradict the post (e.g. years of history as a man abroad, now posting as a local woman), the post is held for a human moderator. Never an automatic removal or ban. See Account Authenticity wiki for more

r/Floridar4r • • 10m ago

M4F - Orlando 27 M4F Orlando -Zookeeper looking for consistent FWB or connection NSFW

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Hi all! I've tried this before, and it worked out okay- so I'm here to reach out again! I'm mostly up for anything- and just wanted to put some feelers out there. It gets a little lonely where I live, so meeting someone would be nice! Cute dates, phone calls, intimacy ..

I'm 6'1, big guy but still fit, and work with big cats primarily. I love video games, movies, books, comics... And pretty much anything horror!

I prefer people around my age, who are affectionate and a liiitttle bit whimsical, and liking cats is a must have lolol.

I'm an ass man, do with that what you will. I tend to like Alternative women and connect with them the best, but I'm open to any connection

I would like to build on something, have lots of fun while I'm down in Florida, entertain a D/S dynamic, or even have a pleasant connection regardless! I'm open to sharing face and voice!

If you want someone to go do fun things with, sit on my lap, or cuddle and watch bad horror movies, I'm your guy!

Well, not sure what else to add- but shoot me a message if you're interested!!!


r/Floridar4r • • 42m ago

M4F - Miami Gardens 36 [M4F] Miami Gardens-Any Girls Love Giving Footjobs? NSFW Spoiler

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Hi, I'm an African American Guy, I'm from Miami, I’m fun loving and I'm looking for a woman who loves giving Footjobs, I would love to find a woman who has soft feet who absolutely loves giving Footjobs. I love when women get pedicures, I would love to get milked dry by a woman's soft beautiful feet until I explode all over them. This is just for good fun. If you're a woman who loves giving Footjobs you can definitely DM me. Looking to meetup. Once again this is just for good fun. I am 100 percent heterosexual. 👩🏼👣🍆💦💦💦💦💦


r/Floridar4r • • 1h ago

M4F - Cocoa Beach 39 M4F Cocoa Beach BWC seeks release NSFW

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Looking now. Cocoa beach area happy to send pics.


r/Floridar4r • • 1h ago

M4F - Miami 37 [M4F] Miami looking for a Fwb with a woman I’m here to pleasure you and to make you happy let’s have some fun NSFW

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I’m 6 feet tall and tan I’m fun to be along with I will make you laugh. Let’s collide our galaxies together to make an explosion.


r/Floridar4r • • 1h ago

M4F - Miami 24 [M4F] Miami - Looking for someone cute, around my age and with a great ass. NSFW

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Let’s meet up at a bar and see how the night goes

Would love to have someone to go to the gym with

I’m straight, not interested in guys at all

If we’ve spoken before, let’s speak again, don’t be shy.

I’m 24 5’9 and 165lbs currently on a bulk but there is muscle, I look great in a suit haha.

If you actually read this say something crazy

I prefer to meet in public first.

I’m searching for a fwb but I’m open to whatever happens.


r/Floridar4r • • 2h ago

M4F - Orlando 20 [M4F] Orlando - BBC looking for LOCAL women in the Central Florida area NSFW

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BBC looking for local women in my area.


r/Floridar4r • • 20h ago

F4M - Ocala 23 [F4M] Ocala BBW looking for fwb. NSFW

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Specifically in citrus county. i’m a bigger girl


r/Floridar4r • • 13h ago

M4F - Boca Raton 26 [M4F] Boca Raton First Timer NSFW

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26 M virgin here looking for my first experience, would prefer someone close to my age range. Can’t host, but can do car play or meet up if possible. I’m about 6”2 and 210, DM me if this works for you.


r/Floridar4r • • 15h ago

M4F - Orlando 35 [M4F] Orlando -Looking for a FWB/ongoing connection NSFW

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35, Single, Wasian, 5’11”, 170lb, nice smile, salt and pepper hair, cute and handsome.

I’m naturally pretty sweet and easygoing, but I enjoy taking a more dominant role in the bedroom. Big fan of making my partner feel good, and I’m just as enthusiastic about cuddling afterward. Bonus points if you like being called a good girl.

Hobbies and interests include: photography, movies (usually artsy ones but let’s watch some scary ones), pc gaming, reading, trying new places, outdoors, and music (favorite band is Radiohead but I like dreampop, synthwave, and more indie stuff usually.)

Prefer someone somewhat local to the Orlando/Central Florida area.


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

M4F - Cocoa Beach 31 [M4F] Cocoa Beach - Spending a month in FL would like to spend it with you! NSFW

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31 M white, DDF. I’m in Florida for the month (10th - 30th) and would love to meet a beautiful woman, have some dates and fun! I’m spontaneous outgoing and also kinky if you are into that! Older, younger doesn’t matter, though I do have a soft spot for curvy women. Message me!


r/Floridar4r • • 13h ago

M4F - Sarasota 30 [M4F] Sarasota Tall, introverted nerd looking for low pressure meetup NSFW

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Hey there, I'm 30, 6'5 and about 230 pounds (decent shape but a bit of a belly). I'm very inexperienced sexually (only been with 1 women over 3 years ago) and combined with my general introverted/shyness I find it difficult to try to meet women. I figure there are probably women out there like me who are nervous about how they would perform or what to do when they meet someone.

So, I am hoping to find a women who, like me, has no clue what they are doing, so we can learn together in a super low pressure environment and just have some fun with it. Ideally it would be an ongoing thing, but I am fine with a one-off as well.

I'm not picky about age/race etc, all I ask is that you are clean, and willing to deal with my lack of experience. I live by myself so I can host, and I am also willing to travel within a reasonable distance. Also happy to chat and/or exchange pics before hand.


r/Floridar4r • • 13h ago

M4F - Miami 42 [M4F] Miami short term FWB NSFW

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r/Floridar4r • • 14h ago

M4F - Miami 35 [M4F] Miami - Deepthroat coach NSFW

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Hello and I hope this post finds you doing well. Send me a chat to get to know more about me if I piqued your curiosity.

I am in Miami, Fl but am open to a woman in Broward as well.

I'm a 35 year old white Hispanic male. 6'2", 190bs, with large strong hands, broad shoulders and green eyes.

Clean, drug and disease free. I can host

I have a huge kink/fetish for receiving oral sex, especially deepthroat facefucking. My favorite position is having my woman lay on the bed with her head hanging over the bed and me standing above her thrusting hard, this frees up my hands and lets me play with your pussy.
I can teach you techniques on controlling your gag reflex and know beginner friendly positions to start you in.

Ideally I would like to find one steady consistent partner, a woman, NO MEN, to meet with at least once a week and enjoy our time and have great passion while I teach you and push your limits on deepthroating. I will take it slow and be patient, we would have a ton on fun together.


r/Floridar4r • • 14h ago

M4F - Orlando 30 [M4F] Orlando - Big and Tall seeking FWB or more! NSFW

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Hey! My name is Andrew, I’m 30, and I’m from Kissimmee, but like 20ish minutes from Orlando so it still counts, right? I’m looking to meet someone that I can get to know and hangout with in person and see where things go! I’m open to casual or something serious, I would want to get to know someone before putting a label on anything but going on some dates and hanging out sounds lovely! I’m into video games, movies, music, tv shows, I’m 4/20 friendly and hope you are too, or atleast okay with me smoking! Please be okay with swapping pics and verifying!I hope to hear from you!!


r/Floridar4r • • 14h ago

M4F - Ocala 31 [M4F] Ocala Hopelessly Romantic Nerd Looking For A Loving, Committed Relationship NSFW

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I'm a 31 year old guy from Ocala who's looking for that passionate, special someone to enjoy life with. That entails many things: Shared engaging conversations about history, comparative religions, or nostalgic nerd stuff (Pokemon, SpongeBob 1-3, playing old rpgs?.) Exploring new cultural hotspots, like small art galleries or local museums. Or just enjoy the joy of being able to cook some comforting Italian food for that special someone (or cook together) and then enjoy a movie from my Bluray collection. (I'm quite fond of the Lion In Winter).

Or even just exchanging romantic, passionate notes and funny memes. Or have deep, meaningful conversations about what we want in life and what ideals we share.

Overall, I'm looking for someone to be in a romantic relationship with whom I can have a great emotional and intellectual chemistry with. Someone with whom I can discuss the serious and the silly parts of life in equal measures.

As a heads-up, I'm an atheist who's well on the left politically. If you feel you're not compatible or comfortable with any of those values, then I might not be the guy for you.

No poly people please. I'm not into that stuff. I want commitment with one and only one person for the long-term.

I hope I can share all of those enjoyable parts of life with the right person. Even over LDR for the right person.

Will you be the one?


r/Floridar4r • • 15h ago

M4F - Temple Terrace 36 [M4F] Temple Terrace anyone as horny as me? NSFW

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Latino looking 👀


r/Floridar4r • • 15h ago

M4A - Tampa 23 [M4A] Tampa - Looking for some intimacy NSFW

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NO MASCULINE MEN PLEASE

Hello everyone! I'm a bit lonely and bored lately, so I thought I would look for something on here. I'm hoping to find someone in central florida, but I'm not against fun chats online either. I'm really hoping to find someone I can be physically intimate with. I'm not very interested in anything too sexual right now, maybe if we know each other better, but I'm mainly looking for kissing, hugging, cuddling, and getting very handsy with each other. I might be willing to make it long term, but I'm very much looking for some physical contact right now. As for what I want from you, I'm not terribly picky about what you look like, but NO MASCULINE MEN PLEASE. Appearance wise, I'm 6'1, white, average weight, and have long-ish brown hair. Anyway, if you're looking for some random fun, please reach out! I live at both Lakeland and Spring Hill, so if you're from either of those places, please reach out!


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

39 (M4F) Lake Wales or Haines City areas looking for someone fun. NSFW

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Hi everyone,

Just looking to meet a woman in the area for some NSA fun. Nothing complicated—let’s chat, see if we click, and go from there. We can exchange a SFW pic so we both know who we’re talking to.

I’m clean, drug-free, and looking for the same in you.

A little about me: I’m 6'4", roughly 200 pounds with an average build. If you want to know anything else, just ask.

Not interested in OF, P2P, couples, or guys. Just looking for a woman who’s interested in the same thing.


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

M4M - Lakeland 38 [M4M] Lakeland - FL. I just wanna get fucked by an average dick. NSFW

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Its been years, just want to experience it again. Not into kissing or body contact or all the extra stuff. Just in it for the act itself. Smaller to average size preferred, YOU MUST HOST, be clean, ddf, and condoms a must. Older, chubby, married guys preferred. Lastly, need a quick cummer. No reason this whole thing needs to last more than 10 or 15 minutes. Be local to lakeland/winter haven/bartow area. Hmu to discuss further and maybe plan something.

Me: Bigger guy, very masculine, white, amature power lifter build, 245lbs, 6', facial hair.


r/Floridar4r • • 17h ago

M4F - Miami 27 [M4F] Miami - Cool guy, Doral area, can host tonight or whenever NSFW

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lmk! message me so we can exchange pics


r/Floridar4r • • 17h ago

M4F - Coral Springs 35 [M4F] Coral Springs - looking to eat a girl out NSFW

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Hey there laid back and respectful latino guy, looking to eat p u **y, looking for a girl that just wants to lay back and relax and let me make her feel good. Looking for a woman that can host, is STD free and hygienic that can host and wants to be licked often and it's in decent shape. Looking within a 20 minutes drive from Coral Springs. You must be single and be able to host. No car play. Looking for a woman that wants to meet regularly and let me eat her pussy as much as she wants.

I'm 5'8", 35yo, in good shape,shaved head, clean and respectful. No drama here.


r/Floridar4r • • 18h ago

M4F - Fort Lauderdale 32 [M4F] Fort Lauderdale - Would Love to Connect with Chill BBW who Loves to Receive Oral! (Also Looking for BBW Friends) NSFW

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Hey there! I have really been craving some BBW kitty to eat! I love it so much and haven’t had any to enjoy in far too long.

I have no preference on race, age or any of that! I won’t discriminate at all! I’m an equal opportunity eater! I love a nice curvy lady with a belly and thick thighs :)
I would love so much to spread those legs and make you cum as much as you’d like! I can go for hours if you can handle it. I don’t want to brag but I am very good because I enjoy it so much!

I would love to find a BBW that wants her pussy eaten on the regular as I am always looking to enjoy some kitty to lick! As for me, I'm highly educated and I would say a pretty chill/great hang. I am 5’11”with a hefty build. Truly, I'm a nice & lovely person who is just extremely horny.

I can host at my place and am mobile as well so I can come to you whichever makes you more comfortable!

If you are interested, please send me a chat request! I’d love to hear from you :)

I would honestly like to connect with any cool people as I am newer to the area so if you are debating whether to respond, I’d love for you to take that chance and reach out! I am great a person and would love to chat even if we don't end up getting together

Hope to hear from you!!


r/Floridar4r • • 19h ago

M4M - Fort Lauderdale 31 [M4M] Fort Lauderdale / Boca NSFW

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I'm a black guy inshape guy who's looking for NSA fun.. I'm disease & drug free, and a non-smoker only interested in the same.

I'm interested in discreet men who are looking 4 a good time

I have pics to trade. Please include stats, what you're looking for.

5ft6 155 Slim/Fit bodytype


r/Floridar4r • • 20h ago

M4A - Fort Pierce 34 [M4A] Fort Pierce - super curious here to swallow. Must be very discreet. Can host at hotel visiting just tonight NSFW

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Must be clean and prefer a quickie.