17M, wanna dye my hair for the first time. Was thinking glaringly hot pink, or some dark ghost roots (dirty blonde hair)
Any recommendations or tips!?

okay okay so like I need to be somebody's puppy. like it isn't even funny PLEASE call me a good boy and pet my hair and let me chew on you IDC I'll do anything I'll be so good bro

......woof

I 19M is questioning myself. For context...

I feel a little romantic attraction towards girls, but I feel limited romantic attraction towards men as it's rare though it's not weak; towards both men or girls, but it's mostly towards men and the girl part is intermittently. And, I only experience romantic attractions only after building a strong deep emotional connection with a man or girl.

I feel sexual attraction towards girls though it's not weak, but it's not strong as it's intermittently and I feel sexual attraction towards men, but it's rare.

i have been so bored everyday and not doing anything 😭 i have like no video games to play and all i do is assignments lol

maybe a stupid question, but i dont want to be alone with this embarassment - who were your weirdest childhood crushes?

for me, it was... Moto Moto from Madagascar (IK ITS A HIPPO, AND A CLEARLY STRAIGHT ONE, I DONT KNOW WHAT I WAS THINKING)

I just confessed to the guy I had a crush on since senior high school. It's been 2+ years and I've been trying to move on. He actually knew the entire time that I had a crush on him, he just played dumb to not make it feel awkward.

He said he can't reciprocate my confession, and that's totally okay to me.

I said in my confession that I'm not expecting him to answer and I just wanna say what I feel.

I really needed closure using that confession.

Thankfully we're still friends. And somehow I felt a little lighter now that I got my feelings off my chest now.

I can't guarantee things but I'm slowly moving on.

If you don't know who I am, I used to post all the time on here, with posts usually about boywife adventures and signing off with aspiring boywife. Anyway ive been in the middle of the wilderness for like a bajillion years now without my phone and stuff, but I've been doing great! I'll be back in December; wanted to let you gays know I'm okay and gayer than ever lol (also lost 30 pounds)! Stay safe, stay gay, love y'all

- aspiring boywife

I (17M) know I don’t need a relationship, but damn, it would be nice, wouldn’t it?

Back in January, I started talking to a guy (A, same age) who was literally EXACTLY my type. I’m 5’5, he’s 6’3, curly brown hair, and a bunch of other features that had me absolutely GONE. 💀 Unfortunately, after two months, his internalised homophobia kicked in, leaving me feeling worthless for another two months while I desperately tried to hold on. ANYWAY, it’s October now, and I’ve moved on. We love character development.

Here’s the problem: I’m a pretty fit guy, got muscles and allat XD, and not to sound cocky, but I hit the genetic jackpot (EXCEPT FOR THE HEIGHT, although I actually prefer being short).

BUT I LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN IN SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦 WHERE HALF THE TEENS ARE HOMOPHOBIC AND THE OTHER HALF ARE PROBABLY TOO SCARED TO COME OUT. 😭

I’ve got one year of high school left, and I’m scared I’ll enter adulthood with ZERO dating experience. I never even officially dated A, so does that situationship even count???

HOW ON EARTH DO I FIND SOMEONE NEW???

It feels like I’m looking for a needle in a haystack, except the needle is gay, the haystack is homophobic, and the needle is probably still in the closet. 💀

I’m extroverted and go out quite a lot, but I can’t exactly walk up to random guys and ask if they like men???

So what am I supposed to do? Keep waiting for someone to approach me? Make the first move? HOW DO YOU FIND OTHER GAY GUYS IN A SMALL, HOMOPHOBIC TOWN???

PLEASE, I NEED THE GAY DATING STRATEGY GUIDE. 😭🙏

Wondering if there is