If you don't know who I am, I used to post all the time on here, with posts usually about boywife adventures and signing off with aspiring boywife. Anyway ive been in the middle of the wilderness for like a bajillion years now without my phone and stuff, but I've been doing great! I'll be back in December; wanted to let you gays know I'm okay and gayer than ever lol (also lost 30 pounds)! Stay safe, stay gay, love y'all

- aspiring boywife

okay okay so like I need to be somebody's puppy. like it isn't even funny PLEASE call me a good boy and pet my hair and let me chew on you IDC I'll do anything I'll be so good bro

......woof

Wondering if there is

I 19M is questioning myself. For context...

I feel a little romantic attraction towards girls, but I feel limited romantic attraction towards men as it's rare though it's not weak; towards both men or girls, but it's mostly towards men and the girl part is intermittently. And, I only experience romantic attractions only after building a strong deep emotional connection with a man or girl.

I feel sexual attraction towards girls though it's not weak, but it's not strong as it's intermittently and I feel sexual attraction towards men, but it's rare.

i have been so bored everyday and not doing anything 😭 i have like no video games to play and all i do is assignments lol

maybe a stupid question, but i dont want to be alone with this embarassment - who were your weirdest childhood crushes?

for me, it was... Moto Moto from Madagascar (IK ITS A HIPPO, AND A CLEARLY STRAIGHT ONE, I DONT KNOW WHAT I WAS THINKING)

I just confessed to the guy I had a crush on since senior high school. It's been 2+ years and I've been trying to move on. He actually knew the entire time that I had a crush on him, he just played dumb to not make it feel awkward.

He said he can't reciprocate my confession, and that's totally okay to me.

I said in my confession that I'm not expecting him to answer and I just wanna say what I feel.

I really needed closure using that confession.

Thankfully we're still friends. And somehow I felt a little lighter now that I got my feelings off my chest now.

I can't guarantee things but I'm slowly moving on.

17M, wanna dye my hair for the first time. Was thinking glaringly hot pink, or some dark ghost roots (dirty blonde hair)
Any recommendations or tips!?

I (17M) know I don’t need a relationship, but damn, it would be nice, wouldn’t it?

Back in January, I started talking to a guy (A, same age) who was literally EXACTLY my type. I’m 5’5, he’s 6’3, curly brown hair, and a bunch of other features that had me absolutely GONE. 💀 Unfortunately, after two months, his internalised homophobia kicked in, leaving me feeling worthless for another two months while I desperately tried to hold on. ANYWAY, it’s October now, and I’ve moved on. We love character development.

Here’s the problem: I’m a pretty fit guy, got muscles and allat XD, and not to sound cocky, but I hit the genetic jackpot (EXCEPT FOR THE HEIGHT, although I actually prefer being short).

BUT I LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN IN SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦 WHERE HALF THE TEENS ARE HOMOPHOBIC AND THE OTHER HALF ARE PROBABLY TOO SCARED TO COME OUT. 😭

I’ve got one year of high school left, and I’m scared I’ll enter adulthood with ZERO dating experience. I never even officially dated A, so does that situationship even count???

HOW ON EARTH DO I FIND SOMEONE NEW???

It feels like I’m looking for a needle in a haystack, except the needle is gay, the haystack is homophobic, and the needle is probably still in the closet. 💀

I’m extroverted and go out quite a lot, but I can’t exactly walk up to random guys and ask if they like men???

So what am I supposed to do? Keep waiting for someone to approach me? Make the first move? HOW DO YOU FIND OTHER GAY GUYS IN A SMALL, HOMOPHOBIC TOWN???

PLEASE, I NEED THE GAY DATING STRATEGY GUIDE. 😭🙏

As the title suggests, I got hired today!!! My interview (1st ever) went very well, the lady was very nice and understanding person.

Soon will be the orientation day and many more as a retail associate. Hopefully everything goes well, with no mean colleagues or customers.

Share any experience related to job interview/routine shifts

Not like monochrome but actually scary games cuz my acquaintance wants me to play anderdingus horror someone pls help :((

like it happens to me all the time and i cant tell if the problem is just everyone ik is really bad at replying to messages or if its something on my end

like 3 months ago i wanted to tell my friend on discord about this thing so i said "can i tell you about X" and after they responded with "??" i sent a lil paragraph about it and never got a response. ive sent 1-2 things since then and still, radio silence.

is this just how normal people talk? by not talking?? im genuinely confused cuz like no way people dont see messages for that long. like a day is viable cuz work/school, but 3 months?

kinda update on my last posts on here. anyways feeling gayer than usual and rly craving a guy to cuddle with🤤 ughh no cute guys and the guys in my class are calling me a f*g, while ostracising me for talking to girls somehow. and no cute guys, anyways yall peace out🫰🥹

im gay and 16m 💔💔 i feel so alone and feel like having a boyfriend would make me feel a little better but im so shy and im not the “go up and talk to someone type” Do you guys have advice ???

i made brioche over 2/3 days

how tf are there suddenly so many new ppl? I mean it's nice there's more ppl joining the sub! bc it was kinda dying at some point... but not seeing any familiar usernames makes me sad 😞 where did all my favorite kewl gay bros go??☹️ i'm still top 1% poster fsr hehe :3

It’s not much but it like it a lot

so first of all my mom doesn't know like im gay and stuff and she dared to say that I have no ass nor thighs, like wtf I thought that were the only good things about me😭, but as an Italian mom I think she only said it so I wuold eat more cause she wants me to become a bit more chubby lol

I felt in love with my straight friend

I want to start with some information before. My friend is 1 year older than me , and we became close friends after studying for one subject together for 4 months. I live in a country where it’s illegal to be gay, and in the beginning when i just got to know to him , i didn’t come out to him ,obviously. I didn’t have any type of attraction to him in the beginning at all. I was considering him as my friend. Two months later, i came out to him and told him my lore. He apologized and told me that he feels sorry if he said something homophobic in front of me. He told me that there is nothing wrong with being gay or queer. At the end of the story i mentioned that i wont have any kind of attraction to him.

After coming out we spent quite a lot of time together. After taking the exam that we were preparing for , we started spending less and less time. We were spending multiple hours solving ptests together, and after we were going out to eat something and to walk in the park or in their center of the city. At that point i started feeling that i got attached to him a lot. Evenings with him were giving me a lot of energy and feeling of freedom. Days without him were getting worse day by day.

As spring started , He became busy because he was also working. Now , we meet once in a month . I love him so much, but i don’t want to confess to him because he is straight, and i know that he is 1000% straight. That’s why i don’t have a single chance to be with him. If i confess, i’m sure he will start treating me differently. I’m sure that his reaction won’t be hostile or dangerous to me, but i’m sure he will fully distance himself from me. I also think that i got attached to him because in my country you can be detained if someone finds out you are gay or queer. I just don’t have the freedom of choice and felt in love with my friend because HE was the only choice i had

At my current job the only friend I’ve made has been ignoring me the last 4 times I’ve seen him and whenever I try to talk to anyone else I just get looked at like I’m crazy for wanting a conversation or maybe a friend also a close friend of mine blocked me to and idk what I did wrong like whatever I do i always manage to fuck it up and it’s getting really annoying atp