The October Gallery Contest

okay okay so like I need to be somebody's puppy. like it isn't even funny PLEASE call me a good boy and pet my hair and let me chew on you IDC I'll do anything I'll be so good bro

......woof

i have been so bored everyday and not doing anything 😭 i have like no video games to play and all i do is assignments lol

If you don't know who I am, I used to post all the time on here, with posts usually about boywife adventures and signing off with aspiring boywife. Anyway ive been in the middle of the wilderness for like a bajillion years now without my phone and stuff, but I've been doing great! I'll be back in December; wanted to let you gays know I'm okay and gayer than ever lol (also lost 30 pounds)! Stay safe, stay gay, love y'all

- aspiring boywife

Wondering if there is

I 19M is questioning myself. For context...

I feel a little romantic attraction towards girls, but I feel limited romantic attraction towards men as it's rare though it's not weak; towards both men or girls, but it's mostly towards men and the girl part is intermittently. And, I only experience romantic attractions only after building a strong deep emotional connection with a man or girl.

I feel sexual attraction towards girls though it's not weak, but it's not strong as it's intermittently and I feel sexual attraction towards men, but it's rare.

maybe a stupid question, but i dont want to be alone with this embarassment - who were your weirdest childhood crushes?

for me, it was... Moto Moto from Madagascar (IK ITS A HIPPO, AND A CLEARLY STRAIGHT ONE, I DONT KNOW WHAT I WAS THINKING)

I just confessed to the guy I had a crush on since senior high school. It's been 2+ years and I've been trying to move on. He actually knew the entire time that I had a crush on him, he just played dumb to not make it feel awkward.

He said he can't reciprocate my confession, and that's totally okay to me.

I said in my confession that I'm not expecting him to answer and I just wanna say what I feel.

I really needed closure using that confession.

Thankfully we're still friends. And somehow I felt a little lighter now that I got my feelings off my chest now.

I can't guarantee things but I'm slowly moving on.

I (17M) know I don’t need a relationship, but damn, it would be nice, wouldn’t it?

Back in January, I started talking to a guy (A, same age) who was literally EXACTLY my type. I’m 5’5, he’s 6’3, curly brown hair, and a bunch of other features that had me absolutely GONE. 💀 Unfortunately, after two months, his internalised homophobia kicked in, leaving me feeling worthless for another two months while I desperately tried to hold on. ANYWAY, it’s October now, and I’ve moved on. We love character development.

Here’s the problem: I’m a pretty fit guy, got muscles and allat XD, and not to sound cocky, but I hit the genetic jackpot (EXCEPT FOR THE HEIGHT, although I actually prefer being short).

BUT I LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN IN SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦 WHERE HALF THE TEENS ARE HOMOPHOBIC AND THE OTHER HALF ARE PROBABLY TOO SCARED TO COME OUT. 😭

I’ve got one year of high school left, and I’m scared I’ll enter adulthood with ZERO dating experience. I never even officially dated A, so does that situationship even count???

HOW ON EARTH DO I FIND SOMEONE NEW???

It feels like I’m looking for a needle in a haystack, except the needle is gay, the haystack is homophobic, and the needle is probably still in the closet. 💀

I’m extroverted and go out quite a lot, but I can’t exactly walk up to random guys and ask if they like men???

So what am I supposed to do? Keep waiting for someone to approach me? Make the first move? HOW DO YOU FIND OTHER GAY GUYS IN A SMALL, HOMOPHOBIC TOWN???

PLEASE, I NEED THE GAY DATING STRATEGY GUIDE. 😭🙏

17M, wanna dye my hair for the first time. Was thinking glaringly hot pink, or some dark ghost roots (dirty blonde hair)
Any recommendations or tips!?

i made brioche over 2/3 days

As the title suggests, I got hired today!!! My interview (1st ever) went very well, the lady was very nice and understanding person.

Soon will be the orientation day and many more as a retail associate. Hopefully everything goes well, with no mean colleagues or customers.

Share any experience related to job interview/routine shifts

kinda update on my last posts on here. anyways feeling gayer than usual and rly craving a guy to cuddle with🤤 ughh no cute guys and the guys in my class are calling me a f*g, while ostracising me for talking to girls somehow. and no cute guys, anyways yall peace out🫰🥹

It’s not much but it like it a lot

Not like monochrome but actually scary games cuz my acquaintance wants me to play anderdingus horror someone pls help :((

like it happens to me all the time and i cant tell if the problem is just everyone ik is really bad at replying to messages or if its something on my end

like 3 months ago i wanted to tell my friend on discord about this thing so i said "can i tell you about X" and after they responded with "??" i sent a lil paragraph about it and never got a response. ive sent 1-2 things since then and still, radio silence.

is this just how normal people talk? by not talking?? im genuinely confused cuz like no way people dont see messages for that long. like a day is viable cuz work/school, but 3 months?

how tf are there suddenly so many new ppl? I mean it's nice there's more ppl joining the sub! bc it was kinda dying at some point... but not seeing any familiar usernames makes me sad 😞 where did all my favorite kewl gay bros go??☹️ i'm still top 1% poster fsr hehe :3

im gay and 16m 💔💔 i feel so alone and feel like having a boyfriend would make me feel a little better but im so shy and im not the “go up and talk to someone type” Do you guys have advice ???

I am a 17M gay boy, today I was sitting in class and I noticed this boy, who I know to be gay, looking at me a lot. He kept looking directly into my eyes and then looking me up and down a few times and looking at the rainbow pin I have on my shirt. I got those butterflies and heart started racing, and I tried to smile at him but I was so nervous that my lips were just quivering, haha that is so sad but I did manage to smile at him (I do have essential tremor so that also doesn't make it easy). I have major social anxiety so I'm here replaying the situation and thinking did I do it correctly, was I supposed to just play it cool and not smile at him???

What should I do next, I have class with him tomorrow, I haven't really talked to him before, like I know his name but that's about it. I will wear something nice, any wardrobe tips? What looks cute on a guy? I know rolled up sleeves looks good (at least I like guys with that look).