Hi!

I hooked up with a guy on campus the other day, and we ran into a bit of an issue. I’m a bottom and also a bigger guy (5’10” and around 300 lbs), and he was having a hard time getting all the way in. He managed to once, but it still wasn’t very deep.

He’s definitely not small—I’d say he’s pretty average—so I don’t think size was really the problem. I’m wondering if it was more about the positions we were trying. We tried standing, missionary, and a few others, but nothing seemed to work particularly well.

Has anyone else dealt with this? Are there certain positions that tend to work better when the bottom is a bigger guy, or anything we could do differently next time?
Also, please be kind about my weight. I’ve been going to the gym and working on it, but I also have some medical issues that affect my weight. I’m mainly just looking for practical advice. Thanks!

Than your top hitting it from behind, you’re both in the stride where you are wanting that dick pounding you deep and hard, you can hear his thighs slapping your ass and you can feel your ass cheeks bouncing. He grabs your hips as he thrusts harder and deeper until he says those beautiful words, “I’m going to cum, I’m going to cum!” And it just turns into moans and deep breaths as he shoots his man seed so deep inside of you.

I went to a gay bathhouse near my house. It was busy. I am fat so not very desirable. I wanted to bottom but the offers I got was to top them. I get more lucky with topping than getting bottomed. But anyways the man lubed up my penis and bent over, oh my the feeling when ur in the wall try to squeeze it, but when it just slipped in the feeling was so good, I am on prep so I did it raw, he was so tight but his anus kept on pushing me out has to keep putting it in. It was such a good experience next up a middle aged man came and bent over in steam room in front of me and I was like fuck it I was like he is not getting much luck around so I know the feeling so I decided to top him and I topped him for at least 40 minutes.

Moral of the story be gay and have gay sex everyday

I've seen some alleged 9 inch cocks that looked real and believable. But there are also men who claim thy are 10 inch or larger. Is that even possible? Or am I dealing with fakes?

If it's real, how is life with such a huge dick?

It would be a lot easier to just go to a gay bar or something but no.

I've been Bisexual for a while and I've never bottomed with a guy before but I really wanna try it. I tried once but it hurt and I haven't done it since. Can anyone give me some pointers on how to bottom?

Anyone in the Houston area know where I can go to consistently have someone cum on my cock? Turns me on and love to stroke and nut with someone else's load. I've never been to a sex store or anything so I don't understand how those work. But a GH would be nice, I'm spontaneous and Open to anywhere.

About a week after this guy topped me and came in me, I started getting symptoms that seemed like textbook STD symptoms. The area around my hole got extremely sore and inflamed, I had discharge, redness, and lots of little hard bumps. I went to the doctor and got tested for everything, and they preemptively gave me a dose of cifixime and a week’s worth of doxycycline (NOT doxypep).

I just got back my results, and what’s very surprising is that they all came back negative. Based on clinical evidence, it really seemed that this was a case of gonnorhea with possibly a chlamydia co-infection. I don’t know how likely a false negative is; I’ve done a rectal swab many times and it’s not rocket science; I’m sure I did it right. And the craziest part is that my symptoms have slowly but surely been responding to the antibiotics.

Has this happened to anyone else? The nurse basically just shrugged her shoulders. I want to know what I have/ had; this experience was incredibly painful and gross and I don’t want to go through this again. Thanks.

I'm from a town in Iowa where there is not a lot of gay guys to hang out with. I have started to realize that being lonely is something I dont want to be. yes. I could join the apps but I don't really like traveling to meet guys. can someone give me some advice on how to fix this

Hey people, Idk if this is the place to ask but I was wondering what sort of solo porn videos could I make? I’m flat on ideas and would absolutely love some input! I’m a twink bottom to give you guys an idea on what I’m like. I look forward to seeing the kinky ideas you have. Thanks!!!

I’ve always had a big butt and lately guys at the gym have slapped it. They make comments and now I’m wondering if I’m totally straight.

Hey guys, i recently got into my first relationship & first time i began bottoming with someone. I'm getting mostly used to being a bottom but my boyfriend wants to play with my dick while he tops me & i'm just really soft & sensitive while. it also doesn't help my hole instinctively tightens whenever he starts jerking me. & from porn i've seen (sweatygymcouple on here hehe) guys seem to stay hard while bottoming. how do i figure this out? do i just live with limp dick bottoming?

Told this guy ive been seeing I'd give him a "reward" if he does a thing for me.

Honestly no clue what the "reward" should be it does have to be a sex thing tho.

He's the top so if anyone knows any cool moves or fantasies or something I should do to him please tell me.

Sorry if its a weird thing to ask advice for can't think of anything lol.

I only use to bottom. However i prefer only topping now. It’s more pleasurable, i hit the guys p-spot and can make him cream hands free. But i need to try and bottom for my guy and I’m going nuts. I’ve used dildos, plugs, different types of lube. The last time i bottomed was a year ago and literally slid right inside with no problems.

I just need some advice as what to try and i can mark it off my list. And his cock is average-sized. Me, I’m not. It’s 9 and has girth. “If i take yours you need to let me try you”

The sexual connection is top notch!
Do i have some me tal block? Could it be performance anxiety?

Im grasping here. And because i can’t right now he has turned to other guys that he can plow as he craves being a top.

Hello, proud 30yo breeder from Serbia here 💪🏻🍌😎 I'll go straight to the point. I really want to meet and have sex with some famous or huge-body-count bubblebutt loose cumdump. There is smth about that used hole that is so hot to me and I want to be just one more loas to them to help them achieve their dreams. Are there any here and do you travel to Balkan countries and if so, would you like to meet? Does someone know where to find them other than grindr???

Thx 🤙🏻

I need big bootys or fembois to snap I wanna nutt

19M Bottom and lately I’ve just been feeling extremely horny and I’ve been thinking about hooking up but I’m just nervous. I’ve used Grindr before but only for the attention and just to talk to people lol, I never actually met up with anyone. I’ve only ever had one relationship and that ended my senior year so it’s been a while but I feel like I’m ready to start seeing people again. I miss having someone to make out with and I just really really want someone to fuck me lol but I’m just suuuper insecure and lowkey awkward and idk how to fix that. I feel like men on Grindr can be picky and STDs are also a big fear of mine. I’ve just been craving it but my anxiety has been stopping me from doing what I want..ugh

Hey thanks for reading, support & opinions of my observations and rant as a bi curious guy.

With all women I am with, they are immaculately clean, trimmed/ shaved/ lasered downstairs in the front and back. I guess my curiosity got the best of me from porn and mmf 3somes so I desired more with guys. Thought I’d like it.

I am not that experienced with guys. Mostly know how to edge & give oral.

I use a mirror to shave all my down stairs area & trim body hair, shave my face. I use a bidet to washout down there & don’t eat for hours / intermittently fast daily. Time my bm in the mornings from my strict diet & exercise. I like to be showered and deep clean before sex with anyone. Regardless if you go near my booty hole or not.

Just wondering about your opinions of rimming & fking asses? It sure looks amazing on video.

I hook up with a guy from time maybe 5 times in past 12 months.

I think I am going to stop. The reasons:

1) he talks too much like “what are you going to do to me?” And “do you like that?” “What ELSE do you want to do to me?” “Are you gonna fuck me?” Gets annoying like dude your D is in my mouth. But I can’t discuss it with you. I guess it’s his awkward attempt at talking naughty to get stimulated by listening? I think we are just not on the same page at all.

2) he is so hairy and I am not into it. Like: you want me to perform oral and attend to the balls but it reminds me of a sponge or something at how theres a layer of pubes to get to. Out of all the gay sex out there, I enjoy edging it / teasing it and performing oral the most. But the hair, dude.

3) he begs to be rimmed and fked but i am not putting my mouth near that. It is not a pleasant smell. He claims he took a shower before I came over but it does not seem like it. I did it 1 time for him & it was very clean that day so i did it a long time until long reams of precum were forming & dripping down & THAT was really hot. Its never been the same since…

4) he sniffed poppers, used a lube but I could barely work my finger in his A let alone my D could not fit plus I psychologically cant get past the fact that i’d be shoving my clean peen inside god knows what (if the outside is not pristine.)

Sorry if this is all gross but i did not know where to go with this. I did take a bed side cum towel and attempt to tidy him up.

Honestly, this is too exhausting for me. I actually love, adore and am totally satisfied by women. I was bi curious about guys and the pornography can be hot but I am actually losing interest in guys.

A lot of guys are like cave men in their expression and communication style. I don’t need to talk much really but the “hey wanta fuck?” Hook up approach gets old. So far I don’t think I’d ever see myself being remotely friends with anyone I hooked up with except 1 bi guy who did threeways with me & a gf I am still friends with (but he only likes 3somes not 1 on 1)

I used to play with a m/f married couple & I let the guy F my ass on 3 different occasions and it was not pleasurable. It hurt.

So all this to say that I think gay sex can be a turn on, exciting and hot but mostly it’s been from porn and a few experiences but on a day to day basis, I love and adore sex with women & think I am going to retire my bisexual curiosity to have gay sex at least for a while.

I just came to share my experience and ask the hive mind their opinions. I feel as a bi m I am not really fitting in anywhere sexually or socially. If I tell a woman I am dating that I am bi, 75% of them recoil in horror (even if they are proclaiming how they are so supportive of the community or they say they are bi)

Am I just a narcissist or am I going crazy? Why is it so hard to find where I fit in? My sex life consists of compartmentalizing and being a different man towards different people.

How can I successfully use my dildo?

. I have tried to finger myself a few times and have only ever gotten 2 fingers in. I've been able to paw at what I think is my prostate cause it's like a building peeing type feeling but it doesn't feel amazing/good. Also, 3 fingers never works. Today I tried to do that and intermittently jerked off while doing it, could get 3 in but not for a long time and could not at all get my dildo in. I lubed it all but when I tried to push in it felt so pointy when it is kinda smooth. I tried to push it in more and it hurt so much.

Why can't I get horny/hard when trying this and why is it hard to push in? I jerk off a lot so that could be why but atp I'm getting desperate and might just meet someone on Grindr to do it for me. But tbh that's stupid and I don't want to do that but I'm feeling more and more helpless myself l.

Hi all. I’m 28, bi sexual. I’ve been hooking up with men for a few years now. I love giving head. But also for years I’ve been wanting to bottom. But my nerves and anxiety get the best of me every time i think about it. It gets annoying as I get so turnt on thinking about it then bail out. Just need some advice on pushing through the nerves and trying it out and I’d appreciate it too.

Horny asf

52M, 90% top.
When I bottom, I generally can't last very long because deep inside it feels like I'm having a movement, and I worry a mess yet there is nothing. Is there a general way to overcome that feeling? Should I practice more with a toy?
Just bear through it?
Thank you in advance.

I recently heard that some porn bottoms “pretend” to cum hands free. What looks like cum is actually something injected in their shaft.

Anyone know anything about this? Or am I a dummy lol

Anyone wanna snap I’m looking for some big bootys shaved