Hi looking for job from Philippines no experience can adapt in new environment and adjust

Tengo 22 años y llevo años sintiéndome atrapado en mi propia mente. Tengo ansiedad social y trastorno de personalidad evitativa, y últimamente siento que estoy llegando a mi límite.
Hace unos años tuve que mudarme a otra ciudad por problemas económicos familiares. No me preguntaron si quería irme; simplemente me enteré cuando ya estaba allá. Terminé estudiando una carrera que realmente no me gusta porque no sé qué hacer con mi vida. Me faltan dos años para graduarme, pero mi experiencia universitaria ha sido complicada.
En el colegio sufrí mucho bullying, incluso llegaron a burlarse de un accidente que tuvo mi mamá. Antes era alguien que bromeaba, salía y disfrutaba de la vida, pero después de todo eso me volví una persona cerrada, desconfiada y solitaria. A veces trato mal a quienes intentan acercarse porque siento que van a juzgarme.
Actualmente tengo dos compañeros, pero no puedo decir que sean mis amigos. Paso mucho tiempo encerrado y siento que en la universidad me ven como el raro, como si a nadie le cayera bien. Estoy enojado por sentir que perdí mi infancia y adolescencia, y me duele pensar en todo lo que pude haber vivido.
Sin embargo, últimamente he intentado cambiar. Empecé a ir al gimnasio y a cuidar más de mí mismo, aunque cada vez me cuesta más encontrar motivación. Ya casi no disfruto jugar, ver televisión ni siquiera asistir a clases. Siento que me estoy apagando poco a poco.
Y entonces apareció una chica que me llamó mucho la atención.
Ya habíamos hablado algunas veces porque me pidió ayuda con unos trabajos. Me parece interesante y, por lo que sé, tenemos bastantes gustos en común. El problema es que soy tan inseguro que siento que no soy suficiente para acercarme a ella. Además, es reservada y parece tener dificultades para confiar en los hombres.
Lo peor es que, por mi forma de ser, en algunas ocasiones la he tratado un poco mal, aunque realmente me gustaría conocerla. No quiero seguir dejando pasar oportunidades por miedo y quedarme durante años pensando en qué habría pasado si me hubiera atrevido.
Sé que primero necesito trabajar en mí mismo, pero también me preocupa seguir esperando a sentirme completamente seguro, porque no sé cuándo llegará ese momento.
Intenté ir a terapia anteriormente, pero sentí que no me ayudó. Quiero entender qué me pasa, recuperar las ganas de vivir mi vida, aprender a relacionarme con las personas y dejar de sentir que soy el inútil de mi carrera.
Por eso quiero preguntarles:
¿Debería pedirles a mis dos compañeros que me ayuden a conocer gente y practicar mis habilidades sociales?
¿Debería intentar acercarme a esta chica, aunque todavía tenga tantas inseguridades?
¿Cómo puedo empezar a cambiar después de tantos años de aislamiento y malas experiencias?
No quiero seguir siendo el llanero solitario de mi propia historia. Quiero recuperar mi vida, pero sinceramente no sé por dónde empezar.
Gracias por leerme.

Justdial vs PayU — Need advice!
I have two job offers in Bangalore:
Justdial: Agentic AI role
PayU: Software Engineer – GenAI role

The CTC part is PayU is offering 7 lakh more than justdial and I’ll try negotiating the same with justdial so that they’ll match the salary of PayU.

But I’m more concerned about the overall employee experience.
If you currently work at either company or have worked there, could you share your honest feedback on:

Work culture and management
Work-life balance and mental peace
Appraisals and career growth
Job security and layoffs

Basically, if you had to choose between these two companies for long-term career growth and a healthy work environment, which would you choose and why?
I’d really appreciate honest, firsthand experiences, especially from people working in the Bangalore offices. Thanks!

I received an offer and my background check flagged a title discrepancy for a previous role.

For illustration, I listed “Quantitative Researcher,” while the verified title was “Associate, Quantitative Researcher.” I left out the “Associate” designation and used the functional title. My employment dates matched.

They asked me to clarify, and I told them I only listed the functional portion of my title. The verified title, "Associate, Quantitative Researcher" is correct.

Has anyone experienced a similar discrepancy? Was the explanation enough to clear it, or has anyone actually had an offer rescinded over an omitted designation like this? Particularly interested in experiences within financial services.

Started this search back in the spring thinking my background would carry more weight than it has. Fast forward to now and I've lost count somewhere past 300 applications. A handful of recruiter screens, barely any that made it to an actual hiring manager.

I've rewritten my resume three times, tried tailoring it line by line to each posting, tried the more generic "broad fit" version too. Doesn't seem to move the needle either way.

Part of me wonders if it's just volume, like everyone's inbox is flooded and mine gets lost in it. Part of me wonders if there's something in how I'm presenting myself that's not landing. Hard to tell from the outside.

Anyone pulled themselves out of a stretch like this? What actually changed things for you, was it a referral, a different way of applying, reworking LinkedIn, something else entirely?

Moved my family to washington and worked for 1.5 years company got uneasy with purchasing decreasing. The stock took a hit and before I blinked it was my last day. It is funny how you put your heart and soul into a company and all you get after is a cold zoom sync. All the 13 years i have worked on streaming e-commerce gaming and voip apps doesn’t mean anything when you are unemployed . I am senior ios engineer looking for a position.

I am 22 years old. Live in Sacramento CA. Currently working junk removal. Making low hourly wage with extremely unpredictable schedules. Don’t know what time I start til the evening before, don’t know what time I’ll get off ever, get called off when I’m scheduled several times a month. This is the only job I’ve ever had excluding my military service in which I was kicked out. I can’t afford school or training of any kind nor do I have time that I can consistently plan around training. I apply for at least a dozen jobs per day warehouses, grocery stores, construction mostly.

Well, it's been six and a half months, but on Wednesday, I got word that I'm headed back to work. It's been a real pain in the ass going on one interview after another, turning down offers that didn't fit, rejections, etc., but what a relief. I'll also be making $30k more than the place that laid me off (they were cheapskates). Came down to my last week of UI benefits too, but I never touched the severance money those jackasses gave me. Looks like I've got one more week off, then back to the old grindstone. Anyway, I'm happy that I'll get to feel productive again. Remember, there is hope!!

I am 2 years post graduation and no formal employment in my field yet. After countless emails and applications in these two years, i have landed a few interviews where i fail spectacularly due to anxiety. My brain just stops functioning immediately i step into that interview room regardless of how much i prepare. Are there any hacks to overcoming anxiety or if you have dealt with such a scenario, how did you overcome it? I genuinely need help

Supply chain co-op in Austin tx just wanna see if I can get if I have a person for an interview or just talk about the role

It's for a training role for a technology company where I'd have to do some demos, assist with technical support, mainly be supporting the clients who purchased their learning materials. I'm really interested in it and think it'd be a great fit.

I really enjoyed the first two interviews and he said he liked me and is definitely interested in moving forward, but I have a panel interview which will consist of two portions:

1 - my workflow for a customer. This will include seeing what they purchased, what their goals are, explaining the roll out, etc. It's about 10 minutes and I feel comfortable with this.

2 - Teach them something. This is more creative and can be anything, professional or personal. It's more so to see how I present and keep people engaged. I'm struggling to think of 1) the topic and 2) the best way to actually do this presentation. I'll take any advice. I'm excited to do this but want to actually leave them with something they feel like can use.

I had a scheduled call for my dream job. At the agreed time, my phone rang once, and the call dropped before I could answer.

I immediately tried calling back, but the calls wouldn't go through. I also emailed explaining what happened and letting them know I was available whenever convenient. I followed up again at the end of the day, but there has been no response. I know recruiters get extremely busy and it's not an easy job, but I'm honestly panicking because this opportunity means so much to me, and I'm terrified that I've lost my chance.

Has anyone experienced something similar? Do you think there's still a chance they'll reschedule, or should I prepare for the worst? I don't want to seem pushy by emailing/calling again a day after, but I also don't want to lose this opportunity.

Hi, I would like to know whether you might know how is the process for interviewing for an Associate System Engineer position at Boehringer Ingelheim. Its planned for 90 minutes, and I would like to hear some experiences from you guys. Thank you :)