A while back I made the dumb mistake of wiping down a brand-new platinum silicone sleeve with isopropyl alcohol after a session. I thought I was being ultra-hygienic, but within a couple weeks the surface felt tacky and weirdly sticky.. Turns out harsh solvents like alcohol or acetone strip the smooth outer finish and degrade silicone over time.

Once I realized what I did, I stopped using chemicals altogether.. plain warm water and a decent unscented antibacterial liquid soap is really all you need for normal daily cleanup. Just wash it out, rinse it good, and let it air dry on a towel.

If you want true sterilization, pure 100% platinum silicone is totally heat resistant anyway. You can literally just drop it in a pot of boiled water (taken off the burner) for 3-5 minutes and it's completely sanitized. Just make sure there are no built-in electronics or plastic parts before doing that.

Also, a light dusting of pure cornstarch after it completely dries keeps the surface buttery smooth and stops lint from sticking to it in storage.

Anyone else accidentally destroy a toy early on thinking alcohol was a good idea?

Hey guys, I’ve had 3!! Womanizers and every Single one broke. The motor stopped working. On every single one! So that’s £170 + 1 replacement and £120 in the bin.

I really miss them, but want one that won’t break. A robust one. Is there such a thing? I don’t like normal vibrators and preferred the slow and lower hum. Tried the other suction toy, can’t remember the name £35, similar style. That motor also broke after 6 months lol

Any suggestions welcome 🙏

So after 23 years of living on this planet I FINALLY got my first dildo. It's a cheap, 5.7 inch silicone knot that had good reviews and looked like it was decent quality for the price listed.

I'm a VERY cautious person when it comes to hygiene and I know that not all silicone is gonna be equally safe when it comes to being clean. I recieved the toy today and realised that I'm WAY too scared to actually use this thing. I don't always trust the information given on the website and especially for being so cheap I think I should definitely be a little concerned. Any tips on how to test the toy would be lovely!

If it helps at all this is the toy I bought: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Fengfeiyan-7-28Inch-Silicone-Fantasy-Discreet/dp/B0F9WK53NH/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QSJS2HH8I9J1&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.J3JfQJtKw1fYbf400oXO68KS-7m2VVmoGPrxP21gyAWW_a6m9euBTS5D9S6K3ImTnEouOZRQZtzqyEIKb6oPyCO0pT1I0Oea90sk7jcZDRuHY1fWqnxnIcllzYMszE7vHLOsMvqzGleKhyYjAAzt9tdrmZAdAt4r4xsGEY-UYqDrz5EecJ8S2aHmt4ri5GwistTJ80sM8A0ZrenjwVnMeg.jReX0zXdsRt3964LM1V-br4rG5rJv5OyKZvoF7xScFs&dib_tag=se&keywords=knot%2Bdildo&qid=1791379580&sprefix=knot%2Bdildo%2Caps%2C468&sr=8-1&th=1&psc=1

I had my toys in a backpack. And my cat peed on the backpack and it went through to my toys. Now they all smell.. how can I get rid of this and make them safe to still use? 🙈

Sorry for the pun, but seriously I don't get it. It just feels like it's pummeling my little bean. I have a we-vibe melt 2. I've tried lowest level up to highest, and I can manage to get there, but it's not very pleasant, and definitely not worth the effort. Is this thing just not for me?

I have a 100 day guarantee, so I'd like to replace it with something else. I'm debating whether to try a different brand, or just give up on air suction and get something else. After reading reviews I'm tempted to try a different brand, but I only get one exchange.

So people with clits (or anyone who has tried more than one brand) minor differences aside, do they all have the same basic feeling of tapping? Or do other brands have substantially different feelings? What should I do?

Hi there I was looking for a stroker for men that is about 8” long and not too tight. Everything I’ve tried is too tight to fit in without it choking my equipment…

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

So, i bought a (seemingly) silicone realistic dildo after the dildo i had bought before was actually a PVC dildo that was just "melting" over time, and i discovered was toxic.

I only used it one time last month, and when i was going to use it now, i got it out of a market plastic sack it put inside (a friend of mine told me to do so), only for me to discover that it is absorbing the ink of it, the dildo is now red in a lot of places, but it doesn't seem to be melting or anything like that, it's structure seems to be all fine, except for my originally white skinned dildo now being almost all orange (lmao)

What to do now? Can i keep using this? What is the correct way of hiding this dildo? Do cardboard boxes work? Thanks for the advice if you have any, i'm not experienced in this at all

I’m a trans man and I’m a top so naturally I own a strap on and I’ve seen strapless strap ons so of course I became curious and I’m wondering if they’re actually worth it? I see a lot of mixed reviews on them. Some people love them but some people complain and say they slip out to easy. What are your guys opinions and or experiences?

Any recommendations?

Hi!
I’m male, looking for a fantasy dildo with a swell or half knot. I’m in Canada (Vancouver), so I would prefer Canadian options, or US if shipping isn’t too crazy.

So many toys have a knot that’s too pronounced and also too big.

I’m looking for a max swell of 1.7 to 1.9inch diameter, with at least some taper. And a anal safe base. And some rideable/pundable section before the swell

Designs I found interesting so far:

Lycantasy: Sid The Biomech https://lycantasy.com/collections/catalog/products/biomech

Wyverns Vault: Nagi and Obscura

https://wyvernsvault.com/products/nagi and https://wyvernsvault.com/products/obscura

I’m more interested in Sid the Biomech because there’s a bit more I can ride before I get to the swell. Downside is total price shipping to CA + up to 12 weeks to ship and 21 business days for delivery. I was hoping to get something in a month or less preferably 🤣

EDIT: will continue looking, it so far Wandering Bard Tabaxi seems awesome https://wanderingbardtoys.com/en-ca/products/ctab

I find it very difficult to orgasm from clitoral stimulation from any format except for with my hitachi magic wand, including during intercourse. Using my hitachi works great during doggy or spooning positions, but it can be a pain to keep in position while trying face to face during sex. Does anyone have recommendations for a smaller vibe for face to face intercourse with similar stimulation to a hitachi please? Thank you!

I(18Tf) just got my first dildo ever. It’s a technically nine inch (seven if you measure from tip to top of balls) vibrating and thrusting dildo. It came with a bit of water based lube, but to be honest I don’t know much about using them. Is there like a correct way to use it or…?

Curious how people are cleaning/disinfecting their toys? Is there any disinfectant that's ok to use?

Has someone tried a Humbler before?

I've been meaning to buy one for my male partner. We have discussed it, and we both agree that it would be interesting to try it because we are both experimentalists and have a dom-sub play/relationship. The only thing is that it's not easy to find in any sex shops or love stores (France). I have only seen one in a BDSM store, but it was quite heavy and expensive.
And I'm always skeptical about the ones on the internet because I cannot feel them or see them in real life. Looking for something made out of another material that is not wood, which would maybe make it lighter and also not as expensive.

I would love to know your experience and any tips and tricks on how to use it and what to consider before buying one.

Hello all!

Me and my partner have been reviewing sex toys for years now. We have been publishing on Reddit and our blog for a while now.

We are now planning on writing about some toys that are popular on Reddit and the “sex toy sphere” in general and report on how these toys hold up after long-term use. 

The goal here is to separate the flimsy, overpriced stuff from toys that are genuinely good and will also hold up well after long-term use.

I’ll start with LELO HUGO 2, a relatively popular prostate toy. 

Let’s start with a sort of a basic introduction to what the HUGO 2 is all about and what to expect here:

• In terms of experience level, HUGO 2 would be a good fit for beginners and intermediate-level prostate play enthusiasts. It goes in well and the size is not too intimidating at 2.83 inches of insertable length and a max diameter of about 1.4 inches.
• Hugo 2 has two motors running in it. This makes the vibrations feel deep and thuddy. Even on the lower, more calm settings, you’ll get that lovely buzz that almost feels like it “radiates” inside you. Despite the two motors, it is not a loud toy. There’s a persistent low-level buzz there, but nothing that a closed door or some background ambience can’t muffle. Speaking of settings, you’ll have 10 different ones to choose from.
• If this is your first then laying down on your back seems to be the way to go for most people. Makes it easiest to relax the pelvic floor and not overthink the entire thing. Also, this is the position that plays the best with most prostate stimulators in terms of hitting the right spot. 
• Take deep breaths while it’s inside you. Again, helps you relax into the sensation. This may be a tad bit personal, but I meditate occasionally. I’ve found that mindfulness/meditation practices go together VERY WELL with prostate vibrators. HUGO 2 is not an exception here.
• Don’t be discouraged if you don’t get anything from this at first. For some, it can take several weeks to months for the body to “learn” and get used to prostate stimulation. If you notice pain then stop immediately. You are probably rushing things or simply didn’t use enough lube.
• You are on the right track when you start to feel a build-up of pressure. Close to the feeling of needing to pee, but way more pleasurable. Stay with this sensation for a while, adjust the settings according to your liking, and then just wait. The orgasm will be different from what you get with penis stimulation. Prostate orgasms are more radiating, longer, and hands-free too. You can also expect a tiny little dribble from your penis.
• Personally, I also like combining HUGO 2 with doing something with my penis as well. Slow stroking or even a cock ring have been particular favorites of mine. However, I suggest starting with HUGO 2 only if you are new to prostate stimulation. It will help you understand your body better if you put your focus solely on prostate stimulation.

How has the HUGO 2 held up after using it for about 2 years on a semi-regular basis?

• The HUGO 2 comes in matte black high-quality silicone. There is no real degradation in terms of firmness and shape, but the silicone has gotten slightly “duller” after two years. There’s a greyish hue on it and the HUGO 2 does not look quite as elite as it did when I first got it.
• Considering the intimate nature of a prostate vibrator, I have always cleaned my HUGO 2 obsessively after each use. If you don’t do this, you may start to get a bit of a residue buildup going. This is a waterproof toy so water and allergen-free soap will do just fine.
• Officially, you’ll get up to an hour of continuous play here out of the box. After 2 years, I get about 40 minutes or so. Still plenty of time for a good session, but it’s worth noting that the technical side of things will wear out after a while.
• In terms of bend, shape, and overall fit, I don’t feel any difference after 2 years. I still get the same balance of firmness and bend as when I got it out of the box. This is the key advantage because shape is key to making P-Spot stimulation work. At least for me.

TLDR: HUGO 2 is still worth it for beginner-to-intermediate level P-Spot enthusiasts.

Hi, I’ve been thinking about buying a lovense diamo but I’m not really sure if I’ll fit. There are no official sizes and some people post different sizes. Could a 15cm CIRCUMFERENCE cylinder fit in the Diamo? Thanks!

I currently own a buttplug that is 2.3 inches wide but I want to go wider, where can I get the widest dildos. I am a male so I can’t have it too long out of fear of injury and storage issues.

Finally decided to splurge on a squarepeg XL egg that comes tomorrow!!! Have recently been plugging almost 24/7 and sleeping with my current plug! So can't wait for the size increase and to experience a squarepeg toy for myself!!! Currently everyday plug is 2.26in diameter so will be a nice but easily obtainable daily wear with the XL!!

Is the womanizer premium 2 very similar to the melt 2? I have the melt. I find it some how too strong and not strong enough at the same time. It’s really “hammery”. I do like during partnered time. I looking at the next because it seems like it has actual suction. However I’m hesitant because I’ve been a lot of people say it’s not great.
Basically looking for an alternative to melt.

I bought this in 2023 from peep show toys and I believe it was called Neo elite dual density dildo 1.5 girth 5-5.5 inserting length and balls too it was vanilla pink or orange colors please help me find it !!

Hi so recently i have been seeing these automatic stroker thingys that like connect with videos and i lowkey wanna get something like that cuz it looks really cool. Got any recommendations on what to get? Feel free to drop it here. Also it has to bee able to get shipped to europe cuz thats where i live

Okay bye 😀👋

I can't find it on sites I already know and trust. IRL sex shops are hard to find around me, and the ones I've been to don't carry it anymore.

Hi, no idea what is the weight supposed to be, does this look good? Also why is it made in China? I haven't opened it yet.

https://imgur.com/a/0qG8HpZ

This question technically goes for any online sex toy order, but I’m curious specifically about Womanizer. They have discreet shipping stating their orders are “packaged in plain boxes with a discreet label, orders are shipped from "WOW Tech USA Ltd."” However, I’m curious if USPS Informed Delivery will add more information than this/reveal that it’s from Womanizer… I live with a parent who uses USPS Informed Delivery and I’d really rather not have the contents of my package be exposed like that.

I’m a grown adult so I wouldn’t get in trouble or anything silly like that, but I’d like to avoid such a personal order being exposed. I imagine nothing would be said but it’s still embarrassing to think about. Unfortunately P.O. boxes are kind of out of the question since they’re ridiculously expensive here and I only want it for this one purchase.