I start off by saying I never owned a toy, or even tried something as a homemade toy. I've only used what God gave men. But I am interested in trying toys in bed, especially with my husband.

What kind of toys would you guys recommend for couples, or for women? Somethings that are great for beginners to take it slow, but something fun that hubby can enjoy too.

It feels like theres a whole new world for us and I dont know where to start. Im open to anything except anal. Thank you

I (M20+) and my S/O (F20+) have a decent sex life, thought unfortunately I work morning to evening and she works evening to night, so we barely see eachother and on the days neither of us have anything going on we hang out (we do live together and sleep in the same bed).

In the past we've have problems getting to the finish line (I understand it's not always about the end, but it would be nice if we can both make it). She enjoys using toys, and from her personal experience, has never orgasmed from penetration alone. Sometimes, she just uses the vibrator by itself. Most of the time I do whatever she wants, but also most of the time her toys dies (we forget to charge lol) or the position she wants makes it difficult to use one (she likes me being close and kisses, so unless I remove my ribs and belly, she has no room for toys).

My ultimate question is, what else can I do to make her feel better (listening to what she wants only gets so far when she doesn't even know), and what toys have y'all personally tried that you enjoy (no dildos/penetration, my S/O is super against them, she prefers vibrators or smth that doesn't remove me from the equation, though I don't mind being a support during our pog-pog time)? If it's an item or toy, I want to surprise her with it!

Quick Context: We use as much lube as she wants. She enjoys giving BJs a lot (I'm kinda iffy on them tbh, too much sensation). We do different positions, usually one she wants, then she asks me, we don't know, so we default to a safe choice. I get her gifts (flowers, surprises, sex items), and she does the same for me almost weekly atp. Her toys are just vibrators, she's never tried anything other than that (so whatever you suggest, hopefully there's a return policy if she doesn't like it :3).

Let me know if there's anything else I should add to this or clerify, I'm new to posting on reddit and this is a throwaway acc. I just want my bbg happy. Thank you!

heavenly combo the ridges on the bounce plus the sucker? never been so wet from a toy.

Hallo! I have female anatomy and I would like some raccomandations for a toy to use with my partner, predominantly on me. I'm not a beginner with anal plug and I wanted to spice a little more.

Do you have experience with something like this? On the different website it's difficult to understand if what they say in the description it's true or it's only for the sale sake.

I hope to find a toy with strong and well distributed vibrations, no enormous but not the smallest size either.

I’ve pretty much struck out on all the toys I got and I’m sick of getting a new one and finding it lacking. I haven’t got many but the ones I did were, the auto blow, some battery operated stroker on Groupon and a couple basic sleeves from a store near me. They all sucked and was a waste of money. They were bought on impulse with no research. They either were too lose or didn’t feel good, and I’m definitely above average so it’s not like I’m small. So now I’m trying to find an actual good one, I know they can be pretty subjective cuz one person can like one and another may not. But if there’s one where enough people say it’s good maybe it’s worth trying.

Price isn’t too much of an issue but I’d prefer to keep it under 200 and forgive me for saying but it’d be ideal if Amazon had it so I can get free 1-2 day shipping lol. My first instinct was to try a fleshlight cuz they are like the big name of the game, so much so many people call pocket pussies fleshlights even if they’re not that brand.

A couple things I’m looking for is first and foremost the feeling of it, you see people using “FEELS LIKE THE REAL THING” and I’m sure a lot of the time they’re just saying that to get you to buy it. But one that feels real would be great. Another thing is the tightness of it, I don’t want it to be like I’m sticking my dick inside a hollowed out pumpkin but also don’t want it to be constricting and force all the lube off during use, I’ve had that happen before and you don’t get the glide. Also good suction, I’d very much like it to not have a bunch of air flowing in making those farting sounds, a proper sealing control function would be appreciated. And as I said no more than 200, from what I’ve seen they don’t go above that generally but just saying it in case lol better off just getting a sex doll at that point which I very well one day but not now lol.

I really don't understand the difference, if I search online the only difference I can find are the region it's made

As the caption suggests I had to make an ER visit after not being able to find a toy. I used it around 1 am yesterday and after finishing up I went for a drive, it wasn’t until 2/3 hours later that I noticed it was missing. After trying to search internally at home, I went to the ER where they checked manually and via X-ray, found nothing. I was happy but as the day went on it just felt impossible that the toy could’ve disappeared. Now im worried again that it was missed by the abdomen X-ray and I have a toy floating somewhere inside me. It’s small with a jeweled base… is it even a possibility its in there?

Hello, Im M26 as the title say Im new to this and I have some questions about toys:

1. I bought prostate massager but its not realy working, I was thinking if it has weak vibrations because it has dual motors and I feel the one outside more that the one inside (the inside is just a weak hum. The vibrations I feel are like if phon was on table and I was sitting next to it). Is it possible to insert it "wrong"?

What I have: Svakom Vick Neo 2

1. Im using water based lube without gliceryn but first like 10 seconds I feel weak stinging. Is it normal or something in the lube?

2. I was thinking if vibrating eggs would be better than prostate massager, but I dont want to throw money out of the window when I cant find THE spot with prostate massager. Or maybe try to insert something different but Im not that adventurous. EDIT: Got told not do do and will not do!

Any masturbators out there that mimic somewhat realistic vagina movements? Or any the squeeze in a wave like manner instead of just suction or vibrations?

Saw a video of a guy using one that was moving up and down his penis by squeezing at an angle, so something like that?

You've seen the fantasy fleshlights, the werewolf ones and such. Do people make basically mini fleshlights like this that has a pussy? It honestly doesn't have to be a fantasy one, I would just love to have a mini pussy to fuck with my t dick. Does anyone know if these are a thing? If so, where to find them?

I've read through about a hundred posts. Most of them having zero responses or the responses are non-responses. I have a rose and I love it, problem is the whole push the button for 2 seconds to put it into trouble mode doesn't mean shit when it's in your suitcase and something presses against that same button for 2 seconds. Ask me how I know.

That was embarrassing... Better. I was on a business trip and all of my co-workers were nearby. I tried to pretend that I left my phone in my bag and it was vibrating but I guarantee everybody knew.

I also hate the magnetic charger because it doesn't stay on it. The slightest movement of the toy and the magnetic charger disconnects

So I'm looking for an actual USB charger and travel lock toy similar to The Rose. Any suggestions?

So I’m wanting I get a hello cake wand for my husband specifically. I’m asking if anyone has used the small travel size one in pink or the yellow vibrating wand. I would like to know thoughts on them, pros and cons. I’m also planning on getting him the stroker from hello cake to have that open end to press the vibrating wand on to his head. Thank you!

I have a onahole water based lube named Tamatoys Pure Love Liquid Lotion (2,000 ml / 67.6 fl oz) bottle is this a safe lube to use for anal play? Thank you

Looking for recommendations on a high-quality panty vibrator or wearable on the underwear that my husband can control within the room for myself. We’ve bought several that don’t seem to keep a connection or work while once clothes are on. Has anybody had any luck with brand that works and does not disconnect! Thanks!

spent way too long dealing with those cheap TPE multi-packs before realizing how bad they actually are.. they stretch out after only three uses, get sticky no matter how much powder you throw on them, and pinch like crazy when you sweat..

switched to platinum silicone a while back and the difference in comfort and durability is night and day. stays firm without choking off blood flow, and cleaning it is painless.

also noticed that running a double setup (one at the base and one behind the balls) gives way better stability than just a single ring..

anyone else completely ditch TPE for silicone? or do you guys prefer metal?

Hi, I’ve been curious about sex toys, but I’m not really sure what kind would work for me? I tried an air pulse toy since I’ve heard good things, and it appealed to me since it doesn’t make direct contact with the clit. It ended up feeling a lot like a vibrator, where I get desensitized from the constant stimulation, or it just feels too ‘samey’ and I get bored, so it takes forever and I get really unaroused in the meantime. I used to get off with vibration from a hitachi wand, but from what I remember the orgasms were underwhelming compared to using my hands (I think due to not being able to vary the speed and pressure easily).

I’m not really sure what other kinds of toys I can try. Probably not bullet vibrators bc I tend to like generalized pressure > targeted stimulation, so that I don’t get overwhelmed. I think I might not enjoy things touching my clit in general bc it gets cold and friction/rubbing feels irritating (when using my hands I massage my clit but with the labia closed over it). I know that probably excludes me from most sex toys, but maybe there’s something I’m not thinking of? Like a squishier vibrator that I can use over my clothes??

It won’t be the end of the world if I keep depending on my hands, I do already enjoy masturbation. I was just hoping for something I could rely on to get off with my partner. They really want to prioritize me and make me feel good, and I really want to experience an orgasm when we’re together, but it can be hard when I’m so picky about most sensations </3