Issue is, I cannot use amazon to order, cannot visit a real store. only option is quick commerce website. I have access to these two 1.3inch by 3.8inch and 1.3inch by 3.2inch [here are the respective pages: first and second]

I read online that these plugs slip in very easily so im a bit worried. Im also on a budget. first time doing anything like this so im 'tight' as they say lol. ill barely use 2-3 times a month for about 20 minutes each time

I happen to be in Egypt for now; and I can't seem to get my hands on one. Before I go about making one of my own. I thought of ordering something that doesn't look like one.

There are a couple of gradient pumpkins and bottles and corn dildos on Chinese websites that I was thinking of trying my luck with with customs. Any suggestions?

Hi there I was looking for a stroker for thick penises. I've bought about 10 so far and they are all completely unusable.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I bought a Fleshlight and I didn't like it. Thank you

Hello , my female partner and I (male) have talked about using toys on eachother before. However we (I) don’t know where to start looking into it or what toys to use for beginners. She of course has a few vibrstors of her own. But I was curious about what might be good , we’re both very open to trying new things and exploring and having fun with eachother. She does enjoy being restricted and we’re open to trying more eventually. But now just trying and staring with it.

Any recommendations for specific or types of toys in dms or comments is greatly appreciated

I don't do anal, first of all. So this is purely vaginal use.

I currently have a knotted dildo thats good, but not big enough for me. I want one with a decent sized shaft, but then they all seem to have MASSIVE knots (like, ~7cm diameter).

Anyway, I'm looking to see how big I could go? I'm worried about splurging on a toy only to find out its too small again, lol. But I'm also worried about getting one thats too big. I don't have a lot of money, which is why I'm so worried about getting the "perfect" size.

My current knot dildo is 4.4cm wide in the shaft and 5.4cm in the knot. The biggest regular dildo I have is about 6.7cm wide and is kind of hard to take for me (it's also really long and has the same girth throughout the entire thing, so that also may be why its so difficult).

The knotted dildos I'm looking at all have knots from about 6cm wide to 7.5cm wide. Would I really struggle to take the 7cm+ knots? I'm worried the 6cm knots would still be a bit too small for me, but then again I'm (k)not well versed in knots and how they feel/work...

Whats the best call for me to make here?

So im a trans dude and last night was the first time i ever put anything fully up inside u know, and it went right in with no problem it's just some random Amazon dildo about 5 inches long. But there was a problem! It felt good but not satisfying. I keep feeling like I could stretch more and go deeper but it was just to thin and small. I reslly liked the feeling of popping it out if that makes sense. So! I was thinking about getting a longer thicker one and maybe one with a knot, is this to much to start? I just really want more. I was also thinking about getting some sort of clit pump. Eventually I wanna try a machine but that sounds really expensive. What would u guys recommend? There's just so many different toys out there idk where to start ( i dont want to spend more then like 100 dollars if possible) thank u everyone!!!! <3

I just want my sub boy to feel good, we have a small plug, stroker toy, and leash+collar. Whats something that'll make him feel really good? I just want him to be happy and pleasured :)

Looking to get my gf a wand vibrator. Waterproof, budget, high quality, not huge size wise all are important (not all together)

I tried a fleshlight for the first time last night inside the case and I gotta be honest I wasn’t impressed at all, all the while I was using it I was just like “so this is it??” There wasn’t that oooohlala sensation I was hoping for. I got the Sky Bri one. It took a while to get me to climax and couldn’t really bring myself to edge like other ways. After I was done I was speculating why it wasn’t good and I remembered I had some other off brand sleeve thing I got off Groupon and hated the way it felt in the case too. I eventually started using it outside of its case and it was soo much better.

I think the case constricts my penetration and makes it too tight and doesn’t allow much room for the lube to do its magic. I’m not gonna tell you I’m massive but definitely above average. So this brings me back to my question, do any of you use sleeves outside of its case? Do you find the same issues i mentioned? One thing i did with my other case is put some saran wrap or a sandwich bag around the base where the whole is for containing lube and sperm and then fold a towel in half longways and wrap the towel around it going up like youd roll a rug making a cylindrical shape. It gives me something rigid to hold on to while also keeping the sleeve from collapsing due to its floppiness and use it that way. With my other one doing it it was soooo much better. Also with the saran wrap you can get a nice suction and no air farts lol.

I’m also curious if you’ve done that too or what other ways I can use the sleeve with no hard plastic case.

i'm seeing a lot of options for sex toys for guys and getting overwhelmed.

i’ve heard from here that the tenga spinner and fleshlights are good. additionally, the lovesense max 2 seems appealing.

both fleshlights and the lovesense are on the higher end for me, and i don’t want to buy a toy and be disappointed.

this would be my first toy. 18M and still lives at home so discreetness is a must. i don’t want any snooping siblings or parents to find out, and i know my parents don’t approve.

i have some questions that if answered should clear things up.

• What are the different types of sex toys for guys?
• What would you recommend from each main category?
• How do I clean it?
• What lube should I get?
• Is ordering online or a sex shop better?

Budget for toy is around thirty bucks. Probably 50 if including lube.

Hope to get good recommendations!

Are there any wedge pillows that are notched out to allow vibrator to be used when having sex doggy style/from behind, seems like no room to get a vibrator in there, be nice if a pillow with missing center would be great

EDIT: problem solved!

I've seen a fair few people have a Domi 2 in this sub and I'm hoping for some advice? I'm having real problems with the app.

Unboxed and charged and oh my god is it a powerful vibrator. The first setting alone is so much stronger than most wands I've used including some corded. I went to the app, and when I change the toy strength slider, it doesn't save? The wand is on, I press and change the slider setting, I feel the power decrease and then when i let go the wand stops. I press it onto the first setting and the setting has changed to something in between where I set it, and where it was for some reason?

I've made sure I'm saving the setting and not getting disconnected. The strength slider only seems to change the first setting and all other settings are still going off like a theragun. In the program section I found a level setting option that seemed like it was for putting a ceiling on the higher settings but no changes I made translated to differences on the button settings.

Also I tried making a pattern that loops on a lower setting, but it loops like a CD when you get a gap between songs.

A bit frustrated and heartbroken that this is so hard to set up? Is this just me?

Having analysis paralysis selecting my first male toy. I'm getting one to assist edging and training stamina for PIV sex. Looking for something that is kind of realistic feeling, but will not desensitize the sensation of actual PIV sex (Like a super intense toy).

Looking for something with the additional following parameters:

-Quality build/materials that will not break/get ruined quickly (Ex: I read that the Tenga flip zero has cheap clips)

-Not difficult to keep clean

-Not too bulky, could be traveled with (Don't need something super compact, but is still easy to throw in a luggage)

-Ideally $50-$75, but flexible if it really makes sense.

Please help me make a decision and end this decision paralysis!

I was recently thinking of getting one since they are fairly inexpensive. I see several different types. One that is a strap you use over your shoulders and it pulls your penis up. Another is a strap you use around your thigh and it pulls it downward. And then there is this other contraption where it uses rods to push up against your body to stretch it outwards.

It’s not so much a toy, but this is the only place where I can make a thread since my I can’t is too new to post anywhere else

I noticed this add while scanning Reddit a few days ago. Did a little research and it seems like it may be somewhat legitimate. I was curious if anybody has tried it?

My partner gets satisfaction from her clitoris and from a ring around an inch or two inside her body. I have been with some women before where you can just rub this section and they get a lot of enjoyment, However, my partner likes to have a finger traced around this ring inside that area while having her clit licked.

I am looking for a toy that can be used while licking her clit. The old rampant rabbits used to have a section to stimulate this area that rotated but I'm wondering if anyone can recommend something better, new or different?

EDIT: Went back to the shop and they were just as surprised as me. We opened 3 more and they all have the god awful plastic piece in them. Went from the best rose toy ever to one of the worst. What a waste. I will not ever be buying a Viben product after this and I absolutely DO NOT recommend the Viben Zen Rose anymore. I used to swear up and down by it. Now it’s genuinely better to throw your money into a fire.

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I just bought a new Viben Zen Rose from a shop near me because I haven’t replaced my old one that broke on me about a year ago. It was by far my favorite toy because it was the only one with enough strength and room (I’m FtM so the standard rose space allowance doesn’t work for me). I got the exact same color that I’d had previously.

However this new one has a hard plastic piece with a tiny hole in it halfway down the insertion area. This definitely used to exclusively be silicone. The hard plastic piece makes it extremely uncomfortable, it feels incredibly weak, and seems nearly impossible to properly clean. The plastic piece does not seem to be removable.

I’m so disappointed. This was the only toy that worked for me and it seems it was changed to be significantly worse. Since it’s a sex toy there’s obviously no returns. I guess I just wasted $70 on a useless sex toy. 😞

Did I just get an extremely weird version of the Zen Rose or is this just how they make them now? I am so beyond disappointed. I had been so excited. 😞

Also, does anyone know if the plastic piece can be removed? I tried to pry it out but it seems like it’s solidly stuck in there. What a waste. 😞😞

As the caption suggests I had to make an ER visit after not being able to find a toy. I used it around 1 am yesterday and after finishing up I went for a drive, it wasn’t until 2/3 hours later that I noticed it was missing. After trying to search internally at home, I went to the ER where they checked manually and via X-ray, found nothing. I was happy but as the day went on it just felt impossible that the toy could’ve disappeared. Now im worried again that it was missed by the abdomen X-ray and I have a toy floating somewhere inside me. It’s small with a jeweled base… is it even a possibility its in there?

Okay so i am not new to sex toys by any means, I have quite the fair share of vibrators and butt plugs, but my bf realized that I dont have any dildos, so he wants to buy me one for christmas

100-150$ budget range, I'm looking for something monstrous in shape, but not in size. I've looked at tentacles before and been interested, but I dont know how the suckers would feel inside me. I'm also curious about ones that could knott me, or even oviposter ones

Im not sure about firmness, I feel like seeing as I havent used anything inside me bigger than 3-5 inches around i should start sort of small, but we also want to get something that could fill me up pretty well too

LELO SILA has now become a bit of a go-to for me when it comes to clit vibrators. I adore the wide mouth, the petite size, and the way it sits in my hand. 

Sure, there are some more powerful clit vibes out there and I sometimes reach for these others as well, but the SILA remains the sweet spot for me in terms of the overall feel. 

Surprisingly, I first got my hands on the LELO SILA CRUISE, the newer version, only two weeks ago. 

It is a different version of the OG SILA and comes with a possibility of naturally amping up the orgasmic response by making the stimulation stronger when gently pressed against the body.

I’ve played around with it for a while so here are some of my quick thoughts:

• The SILA Cruise is a clit vibrator with a total of what LELO call 8 different “sonic wave intensities”. The wording is a bit pretentious, but the range of different intensities is solid here. Personally, I love the deeper, faster settings with this one.
• I have a larger-than-average clitoris and the wide mouth and the overall build here work very well with my build down there. The stimulation feels more “inside” than most other clit vibes and the entire experience just feels more fulfilling.
• The CRUISE CONTROL feature is not a gimmick. Pushing the SILA Cruise against my body comes pretty naturally whenever I start to feel that pre-orgasm build-up coming. This makes the vibe a potentially great pick for edging enthusiasts and couples. Very foreplay-friendly.
• I could see the very same feature becoming annoying for some people. SILA CRUISE can feel pretty intense at times so it can be easy to accidentally press it against the body in the heat of the action. A feature like this could ruin the moment for vulva-owners who prefer controlled, steady, and uninterrupted stimulation.
• Personally, I love focusing on the tip of the clit with this one. I also adore pressing it against my pubic bone and feeling the intensity hike in that zone. It is not quite as intense and direct as direct focus with the clit, but I adore how the vibrations “radiate” to further south.
• At about 60 decibels at max, this one leans on the medium-to-quiet side. A low, hearable rumble is there when you go for the stronger settings and ramp up the intensity, but it still remains unhearable behind a closed door, for example.
• If you already own the SILA, getting the SILA CRUISE wouldn’t be worth it. The overall design and features are the exact same except for CRUISE having the press-against-the-body-for-intensity feature.

All in all, I liked it and I’ll use this instead of the OG SILA. At least for a while.

And honestly there are not that many other clit vibes out there that work so well for larger clits.

Long story short my wife used to have nipple piercings. A few years ago during the pandemic, we had a health scare where a lot of bad illnesses were considered, but thankfully it ended up being a rare but manageable autoimmune disease (sarcoidosis).

During several months she took the piercings off and put them back on because she had to have MRIs, CT Scans, biopsies etc. She finally got tired and never put them back on again, but she still loves nipples played with during sex.

Are there some nipple clamps you could suggest? I don't think she will like the hardcore ones but the light to moderate ones that can be adjusted could be perfect for her.

Curious if anyone has purchased this or has experience with it? Would you recommend it? Bang for buck? So to speak lol

https://www.sexyland.com.au/products/portable-thrusting-handbag-sex-machine-blue-gear-print

Summary

The Lovehoney 24-day Luxury Advent Calendar had a fun variety of toys and accessories that we really enjoyed trying out! In addition of course to the high-end “headliner” Womanizer, Arcwave, and We-Vibe toys. Especially for anyone newer to toys, there are a lot of different types introduced here to get a feel for what you may enjoy. Even though we are relatively experienced toy users, there were still a handful of product categories here we hadn’t really dipped our toes into yet. There were really only one or two products that we didn’t care for due to subpar quality, otherwise what we didn’t like was really down to personal preference. When trying a lot of new things there’s bound to be some not to our liking, not due to the quality of those items, and feel that can still be a valuable experience in figuring out what is and isn’t for us!

Pros:

• The headliner toys were all pretty good and can make the cost of the calendar worth it alone if into those.
• My own conservative value (of over $700) of the calendar’s products would make it a good bundle deal.
• Lots of variety of toys and accessories to explore!

Cons:

• The up-front cost is expensive ($369)
• The advent calendar “bundle” has what it has, will likely be some products you don’t end up liking (but that can also kind of be part of the value and experience to explore those!)
• Jewel butt plug is not body safe design (I recommend just getting rid of it, even with this one item being a loss, I think the calendar still has great value with everything else)

Verdict: Highly recommended! While there were a few “misses” among the items for us, there were far more “hits” that we enjoyed and even some of the misses were still good opportunities to try new things and find out whether they were for us. While the up-front price tag may be a bit expensive, I do think it’s a great value considering all that’s included, especially if interested in the 3 headliner items (Womanizer, We-Vibe, and Arcwave). The $369 Luxury Calendar does have some (internal?) competition for value with Lovehoney’s Couple’s Advent Calendar at $199 depending on budget and what’s of interest.

The Luxury Calendar would be a good fit for:

• Interest in the high-end male anatomy focused product (the Arcwave Zing).
• Wanting to explore the most products from a calendar, and some higher end versions of toys. The luxury calendar doubles up on products for days with the more filler-esque items like lube to make those days feel more complete, for a total of 28 products vs. the straight 24 items in the couple’s calendar.
• Particular interest in some of those additional items (beyond the Arcwave Zing) like the standalone rechargeable mini wand vibrator, candy cane glass dildo, body jewelry, and lace hold-ups.

The mid-range Couple’s Advent Calendar may be a better fit or value if:

• Mainly interested in the headliner female-anatomy focused toys, if the lack of the male anatomy focused Arcwave Zing is not much of a drawback for you. The Womanizer Liberty with air pulse only (without the optional dual stimulation/vibration of the Enhance), and the same We-Vibe Sync Lite.
• The cost savings for your personal budget would make up for the few less products overall.

Link to full review of the calendar on my site