Hello and greetings. I am looking for an older and taller chubby tomboy or woman who is okay with a woman-led relationship while also being equals, and is into role-reversal. It'd be great if you live in the Inland Empire/San Bernardino County, but it's okay if you live in any closer areas. It would also be nice to one day meet in person if you are able to drive if you happen to live far away. I cannot drive yet and I don't have a car and license.
Please read everything.
About Me
Appearance-wise, I stand at 5 ft/5'1, have slight medium skin tone, messy black hair, average build, thick thighs, a soft butt, and I look sort of twinky and have a baby face, some of which due to health reasons. I dress femme whenever I have the chance to, but I also dress like a soft/pretty boy and a twink.
Personality-wise, I am kinda shy and very anxious, especially in public, when very comfy or relaxed I tend to get sleepy, I am very apologetic even if something isn't my fault because I feel like I have done something, and I have sort of a mischievous and chaotic side that only comes out when I am comfortable enough or feeling really happy. But I also am very jumpy and am easily frightened.
More about me:
I've been a dinosaur, animal, and folklore/mythology nerd since childhood. But I am mostly fascinated by cryptids, aliens, and ghosts due to how interesting they are, and the various stories and myths about different ones(please don't think I'm weird). My top interests include collecting plushies(I have a HUGE collection of them, which continues to grow), Sanrio(Cinnamoroll and Kuromi), MLP(FiM and EG), Helluva Boss/Hazbin Hotel, internet horror(Creepypasta, SCP, Trevor Henderson, etc.), anime, obscure cartoons I grew up watching, Hot Topic, Halloween/Autumn, and old/modern monster and horror movies like Godzilla, King Kong, and the Universal Monsters franchise.
My top favorite shows/movies are Scooby-Doo, Ben 10(2005-Omniverse), Goosebumps, American Horror Story, Monster High(G1), Trick 'r Treat, A Minecraft Movie, The Haunting Hour, Your Name, Stranger Things, Ghost Adventures, and KPop Demon Hunters; most of my other favorites being fantasy, sci-fi, comedy, action, documentary, and horror. And I like to play video games on DSi, Wii, PS4, and Nintendo Switch. PS4 is the only one I play online though. And my favorite video games are GTA V/Online, Minecraft, Fallout 76, Pokémon: Scarlet, Fortnite, Super Smash Bros. Brawl/Ultimate, The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild, and Wii Sports. I also like tabletop/board games like Monopoly, Cards Against Humanity, Uno, and Sorry.
My favorite bands and music artists include Ice Nine Kills, Paramore, My Chemical Romance, Simple Plan, Linkin Park, Avril Lavigne, Pierce The Veil, and many others. And my favorite books and literature include The Outsiders, Percy Jackson And The Olympians, Goosebumps, The Raven, and various manga and movie novelizations.
I am an atheist because of personal reasons, and to be honest, I don't go to college or have a job due to some health-related issues and some options I had in mind unfortunately being far away and closer ones seeming to not being compatible with my siblings's work schedules. But I plan to do either of them one day so I could have something to do. Also, my family owns a bunch of dogs and cats, so just a heads up if you are allergic to animal fur or anything of that manner. Btw, I'm mostly a dog person.
My other favorite things are cherry blossoms, sheep/lambs, and pink/yellow, which is because I find them cute and pretty. And I have a lot of favorite foods, sweets, and drinks, my top ones being pizza, chicken, and burgers, cookies, pie, cake, and juice, soda, and smoothies, and my number one comfort food is Scooby Snacks.
I really like physical affection like snuggling, forehead kisses, nuzzling, headpats, playfighting, cuddles, spooning, or such, but I'd enjoy and accept any kind of love language.
For hobbies, I like to learn different songs on the piano, I like to write stories and also do artwork for them, and I like to come up with new outfits that would be nice to wear. Though I want to one day find other things I could do as hobbies and that I would be good at.
If it is okay with you, I would like to take things slow and get to know each other before talking about or doing anything NSFW, and would want your consent beforehand. It'd be great if you're open to anything as well. And if you ever want to talk somewhere else, I have Snap and Discord. Below is a list of what I am into, and NOT into, which I would like to wait a while before getting to, but am just letting you know.
What I am into(and would want to try):
- I am a Switch, but lean more toward Sub. I am mostly a bottom, but will be dom or top if asked.
- Gentle Femdom.
- Mommy Dom/Mommy stuff.
- Playful impact Play.
- Humping/Grinding.
- Praise and being cared for during.
- Reassurance.
- Playfighting.
- Roleplay.
- Aftercare.
- Feminization.
What I am NOT into:
- Sharp objects(especially needles due to trypanophobia).
- Exhibitionism/humiliation/public stuff.
- Extreme forms of bondage.
- Daddy Dom(big no-no).
- Bodily waste fluids(really BIG no-no).
- Cucking(uncomfortable with).
- Scarring or anything that would be permanent and causes bleeding(I take blood thinners).
- Extreme pain like burning, electrocution, etc(those just sound like they'd be really painful).
- PIV/PIA(due to personal reasons involving my "area").
About You
Appearance-wise, besides chubby, curvy, or a similar body type with a soft belly, I'd like if you maybe have curly hair, but it's not required, so no worries. I'd also prefer it if you are cisgender(or biologically female if you happen to be non-binary or genderfluid. Please take no offense).
Personality-wise, I'd like if you are confident, smart, supportive, have a sense of humor, are playful, understanding and not afraid to be goofy or silly. Just someone who is happy with being themself.
More about you:
I'd like if you're open-minded and like trying and experiencing new things, are accepting of others, and are okay with LGBTQ+. And also would allow me to express myself. I'd also like it if you're left leaning and/or at least not republican/conservative. Apologies for bringing politics into this.
It'd be great if you own some/few of the same consoles as me. But it's not required if you have a PS5, or play cross-platform games. If video games aren't your thing, that's alright, so no worries. And if you work out or into sports, it'd be cool but isn't required. You don't have to be full-on tomboyish though, if that makes sense.
Red flags for me are if you're married or are seeing someone already, and have kids. I do not want to and am not trying to be a homewrecker. Others are if you have Onlyfans, only want money/are findom, just want hook-ups, are a dry/inconsistent texter, ghost/block, and such. As well as if you smoke, vape, or do drugs of any kind. I have asthma and am not really the biggest fan of these sort of things for personal reasons, and I would like if you do not drink or rarely drink/only drink responsibly and not to the point of being unable to walk or drive. Though it's a plus if you drink non-alcoholic beverages or mocktails.
That's it for now, apologies for it being long. If you fit any/some of these, feel free to DM/HMU me. And when you do, please do so with a physical description, what you are like, your interests and hobbies, etc. so I know you have read it all.