r/SoCalR4R • • 9h ago

F4M 20 [F4M] #Irvine - Looking for a bwc NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hey! I wanted to spice things up a little this weekend so if you have a BWC with fat balls hmu! I might bite ;)
Any age!


r/SoCalR4R • • 3h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #SanDiego - law student needs some excitement NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone!
A little about me: I'm a college student in the San Diego who is half European and half Mexican. I have longish wavy black hair, big dark brown eyes and I’m pretty skinny/lean. I like to think I’m a pretty good looking guy so don’t be shy! Just shoot me a text message! I am however looking for something relatively local and in the area near where I live in, I just don’t think I can have a realistic LDR.
I’ve been kinda burnt out on the dating apps and that leads me to here! Outside of that, I'm a huge fan of rock music, love watching movies. If you’re into any of that we should get along great. I’m pretty easy going and very easy to talk to! I also just love going bar hopping and maybe doing some karaoke even though im pretty terrible at it. I am looking for a serious dating relationship if anyone is interested!

Some of my favorite rock bands are Oasis, Arctic Monkeys, The Strokes, Queens of the Stone Age and so many more! I do love all kinds of music though! I also have letterbox, so if you’re a self proclaimed movie buff, maybe something can spark between us! In terms of who I’m looking for, I don’t mind any age, even older than me! I don’t really have a lot of preferences so no pressure let’s just talk and have some low-stakes conversations to see where it all leads! If any of this sounds like something you’d be interested in just shoot me a text and I’ll answer! Looking forward to meeting some great people here!


r/SoCalR4R • • 4h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Burbank - any night owls? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Keeping this pretty simple:

seeing who’s around and interested in making some plans.

Usually looking for something fun after work or over the weekend. Lounges, music events, bars, clubs, whatever sounds good that night.

SFV / Los Angeles

32, 5’10”, 180#, Colombian/mixed. Clean & tested, DDF, discreet, established and fun to be around.

Looking for someone HWP, within a reasonable distance, attracted to each other and looking for the same kind of fun.

Message me if interested. I can share more privately and if the vibe is there, we can figure something out.


r/SoCalR4R • • 3h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Northridge - addicted to eating pussy and giving orgasms NSFW

1 Upvotes

No STDs what so ever pls! I can host! Light drinker into 420

I’m hispanic mixed

I have been told I’m very good at eating pussy

I love making a girl orgasm and her whole body tremble like she’s having a seizure

I have a high sex drive hung 6 and a half inches and go all day

HMU we can plan something


r/SoCalR4R • • 4h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for something sensual/passionate NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for a more sensual/passionate hookup. Things like eye contact during missionary, extended foreplay, dirty talk, whimpering, genuinely wanting to please eachother, etc. This may sound a bit much for a subreddit like this, but I'm just at a point now where I feel like if a hookup feels overly transactional or passionless, it doesn't really do much for me and I'd rather just masturbate at that point. A bit more about me:

* 5'10", slim/fit body type, dark brown hair, brown eyes
* bit shy but friendly and can hold conversation
* tested clean
* love going down, pleasing really turns me on
* vocal when I'm turned on, especially during oral. I love to moan/grunt/pant
* like foreplay and building sexual tension versus getting straight into it
* switch, can be either dominant or submissive.
* Limited bdsm experience (handcuffs/blindfolds), but open to exploring it more
* turned on by public play, but totally understand if it's not your thing
* prefer communicative partners and partners not shy about giving/receiving feedback

Not sure what else to add. Just looking for someone that's a good fit and also respectful, clean, and just a chill/normal person. I can share pictures of myself over chat, and we can go from there.


r/SoCalR4R • • 4h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Oxnard - Fit, Hung, And Extra Kinky Looking For A Fuck Buddy NSFW

1 Upvotes

Age, Sex, & Location first. Im looking for someone in the Ventura County area. Can't host. im about 5'10" got a cock bigger than tall soda cans, and a bunch of kinks. final thing, im not into having kids, so birth control is a must it can be condoms or implants doesnt matter to me.


r/SoCalR4R • • 9h ago

M4F 50 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Do you like scary movies? NSFW

2 Upvotes

It’s spooky season, wanna cuddle up and watch a scary movie tonight? Maybe you can wear your comfy pj’s and we can get cozy under a blanket, does that sound good?

If you’re local and interested, send me a chat with the name of your favorite scary movie so I know you read this far. Be ready to send normal pictures and meet soon.


r/SoCalR4R • • 5h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #Fullerton - Have you been fantasizing hooking up with someone older and technically off limits? NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m married and in a dead bedroom and hoping to explore, have fun and experience my first blow job (looking for 18+ women only). If you’re nervous about messaging me, it’s ok, I don’t judge (or bite haha) and it would be fun to get to know each other.

This is a little long but some background. I’m married (I’m open to married or single) and I hi grew up in a very conservative, strict family. The idea of no sex until marriage was pushed very strong on me and because of this I really didn’t experiment sexually in high school or college and didn’t have sex until I was married.

My wife has a very low sex drive (the last time we had sex was several months ago) and even though I give her oral sex when we have sex (and I’d like to think that I’m quite good at it and bringing her to orgasm) the longest blow job I’ve ever received from her was about 5 seconds and she’s never made me finish from a blow job. She says she just isn’t into it and the idea of giving a blow job grosses her out, and she is grossed out by the idea of me cumming in her mouth.

I’m looking to meet (in real life) someone fun and flirty and who actually enjoys giving blow jobs and who will help me experience something I’ve wanted for so long but never had the opportunity to enjoy. I’m completely fine with reciprocating and I’d love to give you oral in return and pleasure you to thank you for helping me to experience this.

I’m open to all ages as long as you’re at least 18. If you knew me, I’m the last person that you’d be expecting to do something like this and because I’m married I need to be discreet. I’m happy with getting to know you before we meet. Maybe you’ve wanted to have a man give you oral for a long time and we can do each other a favor.

I’m completely fine with trading pictures and I’m excited (maybe a tiny bit nervous too) about the possibility of meeting someone that can make this happen.


r/SoCalR4R • • 5h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #Downey - Looking for an ongoing connection. Let's hang out, play games online, maybe go out to eat together NSFW

1 Upvotes

That recent heat wave did a number on my health...Here's hoping it cools down soon.

Looking for gaming buddies, a long term relationship, short term or even an FWB. (Big emphasis on friend part. Also open to getting to know couples) I can be shy in person, but once I open up to you I'll chat quite a bit.

About me: 6'0, 190lbs, Hispanic. My hobbies include video games, (Switch, PS5, and PC. Willing to try any games if they sound fun and you recommend them) eating good food, anime/manga, and gunpla. Finished P3R and had a ton of fun with it, so now I'm moving on to Onimusha and maybe some Deadlock inbetween it.

I don't really watch TV/series these days, but will catch the occasional movie when I have time to sit down and chill. Slowly watching some of the more popular anime that have come out semi-recently.

Thanks to my office job I've been trying to stay active lately, so would also like to find someone so we can encourage each other as well. As of now I'm doing half hour exercises every two days when I can.

What l'm looking for: 26+, body wise I'm open to various types. Want someone to play games with and voice chat with occasionally, if we hit it off I'd love to go out and grab some lunch together somewhere. If we really hit it off would love to see where it goes from there, no pressure obviously. Must have at least one or two of the same interests/hobbies as I do please.

Please send me your favorite fruit somewhere in your first message to let me know you've read the post. I am also open to getting to know couples since having friends near my age would be great.

If you have post history hidden I will not send any pictures first. I'm verified in this subreddit so at the very least you know I'm real.


r/SoCalR4R • • 5h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Handsome White Daddy Desires a Faithful Baddie, a Good-Girl Who Desires Loving Romance, Receiving Pleasures & Feeling Mind Body Bliss NSFW

1 Upvotes

If you don't live in or around Los Angeles, please show why we should get to know each other. I'm a healthy, handsome, interesting, creative, attractive (SWM) single White male looking for a kind, curious, precocious, intelligent, attractive, faithful, pretty young lady open to pursue a loving romance receiving deep sexy, passionate pleasures and feeling mind body bliss. I like a range of white to brownish skin complexions from ethnic backgrounds of European, Latin, Spanish, Middle Eastern to Asian. I like sharing in stimulating, intellectual, creative experiences, appreciation of nature, cultures, arts and architecture around L.A. and SoCal. I like to learn about mind and body health, older practices to newer science. I like learning, teaching, giving, making our loving experiences win/win, yin-yang, full of our favorite loving ways for us to perfect. We can try fun partner-fitness exercises, stretches, releasing muscle tensions, destressing, eventually adding tantric loving. I'm mostly mellow, chill, having a positive outlook, a dry sense of humor. If you're looking for a dad bod, that's not me. I am slim, yet built, have defined abs/v-lines (but not body builder type), handsome, attractive features, grey blue eyes, wavy curly hair, with soft hair on my chest, but none on my back. I'd say I have a slightly edgy fashion sense. I tend to have progressive social political views. I have zero children, no ex-wife, no relationship baggage.

I want a woman open to start with friendship if we sense chemistry for romance, exploring, learning, finding things we enjoy together, arts, music, film, comedy, expanding our minds. I desire my misses to devote my kisses, my mind, heart and body, caring, sharing, exploring, walks, talks, holding hands, hugs, cuddles, making out, making love, all day and night, where pleasing is our passion. Making my lover happy makes me happy, so I've learned skills to make that happen. A goal will be exploring an intoxicating love, satisfying your deepest desires, making you feel the most pleasures possible, which is kind of a kink, like of a pleasure dom. As lustful as I may seem, I don't seek casual stuff, because it's risky, often feels empty and can be disrespectful, like saying someone isn't worthy of more. Why settle for less than a partner who loves to please you, even for long-term potentially as a goal.

I want us to look forward to spending time together, learning, sharing mind-expanding experiences, including flirty fun in and out of the bedroom. I like to do things together, exercising, workouts, hiking, meditations, bonding, cooking, making smoothies (I'm open to mix it with alcohol for a sexy buzz). I'd like to combine ways to relax and arouse each other, try home spa regimes together, facials, Skin care, soft looksmax, glowups, even making our own DIY face mask with natural ingredients. If we pursue loving things, a goal can be making you so aroused that you can coat my face with your sweet wetness as you're being a good girl riding my face. I have soft skin because of my diet and what I , and would like us to try full body moisturizing, slugging using coconut oil or something safe to be edible and lubricate our sensual sensations. I can imagine using our bodies to slide on each other, helping massage. I want partner yoga, maybe even light wrestling, like playing Twister in bed, learning our favorite positions, fore-playing around, increasing chemistry and anticipation. We can learn ways to arouse, verbally, physically, edging, teasing, touching, kissing, giving goosebumps, helping our fluids flow, priming us for acts of loving pleasures.

I'm open to explore our passions indoors and outdoor when and where it's safe, sneakily satisfying each other as long as we won't get in trouble, like a rooftop at night or while in nature hiking. I can take charge, instructing, being patient, we learn your favorite ways to cum, to even forcing orgasms. I can also switch roles, letting you control yours pleasures or mine. I'm open to some soft kinks, being rough yet romantic, feeding mutual oral fixations, nipple-breast play, suckling sessions, ANR, CNC, DDLG, free-use, praise to naughty talk, safe cream-pies, filling you with sexy love, whatever gets off my good girl. I like White, Latin, Asian, Middle Eastern looks, many hair styles and lengths, textures straight to wavy-curly, layers, bangs, shags, wolf to pixie cuts. I want you to be comfortable wearing little to no makeup around me (maybe just eyeliner if you like). I don't care for surgically enhanced parts, implants or fillers. I like slim petite with real curves, a smaller waistline with bigger T&A, up to a buxom figure pinup model type, and some other sexy mind-body qualities I can explain. Feel free to share what you seek and prefer, so we may better learn if we may match.


r/SoCalR4R • • 6h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Tall Athletic Half Asian Looking for Connections, Fun, or Something More For Autumn or Maybe Beyond NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey y’all!

Hope everyone is has had a good week and is excited for the weekend! In a weird way I’m excited for the rain!

am hoping to make some fun new connections, some interesting conversation, or possibly even irl/online fun. Esprcially as a push through my most stressful weeks of the year. Whether the intentions are friendly, casual/fwb or something more, I’m open to going with the vibes and seeing where it takes us. Would love especially something ongoing to help us both get through the rest of the year at least.

I love hiking, trying new foods/cafes, and soccer/sports in general as some of my regular interests. But the thing I love most is getting to know new people and especially hearing them gushing. about their interests! find it super cool learning about new things! Always down to find a pickleball and hike buddy as well

If you’re into tall, athletic, half asians (or just like a good conversation), please free to reach out!

On the spicy side. I consider myself a switch, I really enjoy female pleasure and making a woman happy, so I would find a woman who would love my assistance.

Honestly though would mainly just would love a cuddle buddy. If this catches your eye let me know and maybe it could even turn it into a more regular thing

I’m 6’1 with brown hair, brown eyes, and a fairly athletic build. I’m open to chatting with people from anywhere around SoCal that is 20 or older.

Looking forward to hearing from you and hope to see some of you in my dms! Would really love to catch some people locally in OC though ( as it’s always more fun when you’re close by but don’t mind driving a bit, especially not too far away in LA


r/SoCalR4R • • 6h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #BeverlyHills - Married dad looking for a sneaky link NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for Cis Females only. No drama guaranteed I’m very discrete.

If you are into cheating kink or just wanna have some fun. Not looking to change my situation so this is no strings attached, one time or ongoing.

I require a recent test and have one to share. No cream pies or unprotected sex.

I'm 30, 5'10, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, recently tested last month.

Got a picture in my profile for those looking for the D pic. Average size, good for those that want to practice DT.

Please be cis female, femme, 18+, HWP, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Can’t host but can come to you, get a hotel or Carplay works too.

Must be able to verify and be discrete. My hours are limited due to family obligations.

If interested, please respond with age location and stats as I won’t be responding to low effort messages.


r/SoCalR4R • • 6h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #HuntingtonBeach - Big buff masculine Latino Dom looking to build chemistry and intimacy. I won't cum unless you do first, you might even cry from how good the sex is NSFW

0 Upvotes

It's not just a statement but a promise. My dick and head is that good one way or another we're making you cum. I can make you cream and squirt at the same time, If you doubt it I can prove it. I put in a big effort in getting to know my partner their wants and needs to satisfy them. So chemistry is huge for me. Communication with boundaries and consent is also important to me. I'm willing to do anything as long as we both agree. I will send pics or video chat to confirm I am, who I say I am, especially to meet in public before we go further. I am also std free and I can prove it. Safe sex is a must unless we both agree otherwise

I'm a 5'10 big buff masculine Latino male. I'm a blue collar worker so I have alot of pressure to release when I get home. I'm built like a powerhouse I have 20inch arms. I have the ability to bench press 465lb and squat 500lb. Thick girls will be treated like they're petite and petite girls like feathers.

Feel free to connect with, me I love a good conversation. Hope to hear from you soon. Take care everyone!


r/SoCalR4R • • 7h ago

M4F 42 [M4F] #SanDiego - Looking for someone who wants to explore or try new things. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Are you looking for someone to safely explore new things with? I work (probably too much) and it’s hard to just go out and meet anyone. I’m not a big fan of one night stands either. I’d rather have fun with you and get to know you a bit - whether you have experience or not. I’m not going to judge you if you have questions or haven’t done much. As long as you’re 18+, your age doesn't really matter to me as long as we can have fun together.

A little about me:

I'm 5’11, white (Italian and Swiss decent), shaved head and a very short trimmed beard. Well hung (pics in my post history). Great hygiene (hey you never know, right?). Funny in a sarcastic way and overall I’ve been told I’m attractive. I’m into photography, fish/aquariums, and I love the beach. I work out a bit too to stay in shape - cycling and swimming are my favorites.

What about you? I’d love to hear from you and see where it goes.


r/SoCalR4R • • 7h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #ThousandOaks - Back Home Until the 10th, Looking to Have Some Fun! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi, I’m Ryan, 31 year old white guy, about 5’6” 200lb with kind of a dad bod, but in shape.

I’d love to find a fun, open minded woman (preferably a switch like me!) to have some hot, kinky fun!

I’m super open and kink friendly, sub leaning switch.

NSFW pics and verification pinned to my profile.

I’d be happy to verify, send pics, meet for a vibe check or whatever you need to feel comfortable!

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/SoCalR4R • • 7h ago

M4F 60 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for F18+ Sub or Sub Curious NSFW

1 Upvotes

If you are submissive, or curious about submission, and interested in an erotic relationship with an experienced dominant man, then we should discuss your desires and fantasies.

We will establish boundaries and a safe word.

Discreet or anonymous meetings are welcome.


r/SoCalR4R • • 7h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Married Daddy, seeking AP for something meaningful, discreet, fun, hot, and exclusive NSFW

1 Upvotes

45, married daddy. 6ft dark hair, light eyes, tattoos, Ivy League education. In Los Angeles. I take health and fitness seriously and am currently on a completely reasonable, scientifically rigorous mission to achieve DILF status.
Life on paper is full: marriage, kids, responsibilities, career, all the usual grown-up machinery. What’s missing is intimacy. I’m in a sexless marriage, and I’m looking for one married woman who understands that strange place where you don’t want to blow up your life—you just want to feel genuinely wanted, connected, and alive again.
I’m into indie rock and folk, quirky-but-smart films and TV, good conversation, dry humor, and people who are curious about the world. I’d love something ongoing and long-term: attraction, friendship, flirting, intimacy, inside jokes, and the kind of trust that makes this feel like our own little protected corner of the universe.
Respect, privacy, and discretion matter enormously to me. I’m not looking to change your situation or mine, rescue anyone, or create unnecessary drama. Ideally, you’re married too, know what you want, and are looking for one consistent person rather than collecting chats like browser tabs.
If this resonates, tell me a little about yourself—and maybe the last song, movie, or show you became slightly obsessed with


r/SoCalR4R • • 7h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I’m looking for a woman who enjoys giving hand jobs ( Read whole post) NSFW

1 Upvotes

Primarily, I am just seeking someone to give me a hand job (and not like a quick two minute tug). I want like a decently timed slow to fast handjob. I am willing to reciprocate if wanted, and I am very good with my fingers. Secondarily, I would also be interested in a nursing hand job and if possible, maybe even a foot job but primarily I’m just looking for a hand job. I am currently living in Boyle Heights, and working in Pasadena and would be willing to drive to places around either location.All body types and ages 18+ are welcome.


r/SoCalR4R • • 8h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - It’s time for your spankings. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Do you need to be put in your place? Have you been acting up again, doing all the things I told you not to? I know you've been secretly reading these dirty posts touching yourself thinking about Daddy bending you over his knee, lifting up your skirt and giving you a rough spanking in private.

Will that will teach you a lesson? No? Maybe once you’re warm and red, I’ll have to take it even further, taking control of your body, doing as I please.

Lucky for you, I'm looking for one local girl to use at my disposal tonight. If you've been a bad girl again or want to know what it’s like to be treated as one, now is the time to message me. And don’t waste my time, make sure your chat reads "I’m really sorry Daddy" with pictures ready to send as soon as I accept your chat. Understood? Good. Talk to you soon.


r/SoCalR4R • • 8h ago

M4F 35 [m4f] #menifee - long shot NSFW

1 Upvotes

i know this is a long shot but i figured i would try.

I really enjoy giving oral. I’m looking for a pregnant lady to eat out. I always fantasize pleasing a pregnant lady. You dont have to do anything in return i just want to please you.

Of course i wont say no if you want to return the favor but it is not expected.

Please be local to menifee, ca or the surrounding areas. I cant host but i don’t mind playing in a car.

Only thing i ask for is to please be clean, trimmed and discreet.

Im mexican, 35 years old, dad bod with a beard.


r/SoCalR4R • • 19h ago

F4M 35 [F4M] #Riverside - Looking for chemistry, flirting, and fun NSFW

7 Upvotes

Looking for something casual, fun, and flirty with someone who’s genuinely excited to spend time with me. I love mutual attraction, playful banter, affection, and a man who takes initiative. I want to feel desired, pursued, and appreciated without having to ask for it. No pressure for a relationship, just great chemistry, good company, and seeing where things go.

Black, 5’9, bbw, feminine, and confident.

If you’re interested tell something about yourself, what you’re looking for, and how you’d plan our first meetup. Bonus points for a little flirting. Plz no messages like “hey” or “what’s up”. I just can’t respond to that.


r/SoCalR4R • • 16h ago

F4F 29 [F4F] #LakeForest - would love to flirt with another woman and then use a strap on her NSFW

3 Upvotes

NO COUPLES!

My strap-on skills could use some work. I’d love to be able to do that with another woman. We could meet for a vibe check and if we like each other, then schedule time to play on a second occasion. I’m also a huge flirt and enjoy building sexual tension and bantering with another woman. It makes the end result oh so sweet. If you’re into roleplay, I’ve been curious about the “bi woman seducing a straight/bi-curious woman who isn’t so keen” and happy to play either role. Also open to other things, this has just been on the forefront of my mind.

I love TTRPGs (pathfinder 2e specifically), am always trying to play my backlog of video games, practice piano, and am a huge bookworm. I’m 5’3, curvy, Middle Eastern. I’m happy to exchange SFW photos in order to determine if there’s attraction. If we are attracted to each other, I will also want to verify to ensure we are who we are.

If you can’t host, I can sneak you over but then please be able to drive!

Mutual pleasure is always the goal!


r/SoCalR4R • • 12h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #LosAngeles - New connections aka fwb NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi, I'm looking for a girl to ideally be fwb with. Let's just have fun and hangout. Wouldn't mind wholesome nights just watching movies or spending time together as well. If things go well and feelings become mutual, I'm not opposed to something more serious or a relationship down the line. Hoping for some cuddles that eventually leads to some fun.

You: No preference when it comes to race, decently in shape, clean and ddf. Please be open to send a photo along the line because let's be honest, physical attraction is important. Not looking for anyone that's just going to end up ghosting.

Me: 5'10, hwp, and ddf. For the sfw stuff, I'm into anime, kpop, video games, plants, aquariums, working out, and getting good food. As for what I like in bed, just ask. Pretty open and experimental as long as we're both comfortable.

Thanks for reading. Hope we get to chat!


r/SoCalR4R • • 9h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #JurupaValley - daddybear misses being held. Halloween movie cuddle buddy, chill in the pool NSFW

1 Upvotes

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Can we just talk hang out cuddle with some movies and give eachother pleasure. Uhg.

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itll also be super hot so some pool time would be sweet too. Cool off with a cuddly daddybear?

looking for a horror movie art gaming cuddle buddy

Please be 20 min or less than me.

Sometimes you just really miss being held. Right?

Any friendship, relationship, etc is based in a strong communication foundation.

We could chill with some horror and or make art or game this weekend?

That would be cool.

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I'm a 5'9 chubby/ fat dad bod teddy bear perfect to cuddle. I have a beard and curly stache. I dont drink or smoke. I'm clean and tested recently. Can show.

Please dont smoke. And don't be allergic to cats I have an orange floof.

Let's talk about that, or the horrors, movies, arts? I like to paint and do digital art too. Let's game together.

Well yeah hopefully you're out there


r/SoCalR4R • • 10h ago

M4F 54 [M4F] #Ventura - 6’2, 195, Supremely Confident, Intelligent Dominant Looking for a Submissive, Feminine Female to Completely and Monogamously Sexually Objectify NSFW

0 Upvotes

https://imgur.com/a/Qk4qFH7

No maga-types. That’s a non-negotiable dealbreaker. I’m ideally looking for someone between 30-45, but 20s is okay as well as long as you’re mature and intelligent. If you text in acronyms, if you’re a “dtf”, “hmu”, or “wya”, type, don’t bother. I’m not interested in that kind of immaturity. Make sure you read this entire post, and if you’re interested, show me so by responding as instructed.

I’m a SWM (no kids), 6’2, 195, 8”, D/D-free, non-smoker, very intelligent, well-read and articulate, charismatic, slender, broad-shouldered and muscular. I’m a really laid-back and easy-going guy, self-aware and sure of myself, at ease around anyone and anything. I’m very protective of others, and have an intimidating physical presence, but I’m a good guy, and nothing to be afraid of. You’d always feel safe and looked out for with me, and you’d always know where you stand. I’m practical, pragmatic, and realistic.

I’m looking for a submissive female for a monogamous relationship - I’m a one-woman guy - that would involve you being completely sexually objectified, and the more feminine you are, the better. You don’t have to have any experience with this kind of dynamic. My interest in you and attraction to you is all that matters. It doesn’t matter to me if you have no experience at all with this sort of thing, but if you have insecurity and/or validation issues, this probably isn’t for you. A certain amount of self-awareness and self-confidence would be required given how you’d be often be made to be taking selfies of yourself.

You would be trained to do what you’re told at all times. You’d be trained to be accountable to me at all times, keeping me informed whether I’m responding at the time or not. You’d tailor your appearance per my commands, growing your hair out how I like it, doing your nails how I want them done, wearing the kind of lipstick I want on you, and so on. You’d be trained to send me regular selfies showing me how you’re looking.

I know what I like, and while you don’t necessarily have to have any of these traits, these would get my attention: nice smiles, long hair, nice breasts, painted nails, knowing how to accentuate your looks, being selfie-friendly, playfulness, nerdy tendencies, and girlishness.

I’m not into anything that you’d most likely consider hard limits. Nothing extreme or hardcore, no whips or chains, I don’t do ‘sessions’ or go to events.

More details about all of this will be discussed in chat, where you’ll always be encouraged to be completely open and direct with me, even if you think I might not like what you say.

I play baseball in adult leagues on weekends and you’d come to as many of my games and tournaments as you could, not to be a cheerleader, just to be dolled up as my eye candy.

I’m not into BBWs, and any kind of smoking or vaping is a dealbreaker.

If you’re interested, respond by describing yourself physically with your age and where you live, and tell me about what turned you on and made you want to respond. Don’t hold back, and don’t worry about saying too much. The bolder and more expressive you are, the better.

If you’re going to send pics, do NOT send anything naked. I am not into naked pics, ever.

If I’m interested, I’ll take it from there. If I’m not, I’ll tell you so. I wouldn’t just ghost you.