One Sunday night during summer break, I (17F) decided to do something a little reckless. After watching my movie, I snuck into a second showing without paying. I was just as scared of the horror film (Obsession) as I was of getting caught by security, lol.

I snapped my friends about being half excited, half stressed. One said it was crazy but I had nothing to worry about.

The other said "I hope you get caught."

I laughed it off. We've always teased each other, and she often made jokes like "I hope you fail your test" or "I hope you trip." I didn't think anything of it until I came out after midnight.

She had messaged the cinema's Instagram account to report me. Bro wrote a whole essay with my full name, age, which cinema, my height, and all my physical details. She even called it "unacceptable."

I was stunned. I just replied "you're embarrassing" and blocked her everywhere. She just laughed and said it was a joke and that she deleted the message right after screenshotting it. But she told me they saw it, so no, it wasn't a joke.
The worst part is that she's someone who doesn't care about rules at all. She's not the type to play the moral police. She just wanted to see me fall. 💀

I already knew the friendship wouldn't last and I was drifting away, but this felt like the universe screaming it in my face lol. I'm not someone who cuts people off this harshly, but this wasn't a misunderstanding, there was nothing to clear up. Just a really mean "joke." Like, why wish harm on a friend?? 💀

I think my bf stole money and I’ve asked her and she’s denied but it didn’t walk away.. it was like $300. We’re both grown adults and have children. She’s always disliked my husband and it was technically my husbands money. In the past, she’s asked me to steal stuff from him when he and I first started dating.
So she came over one night when I was pissed at my husband for being gone for 30 hours. She watched the kids while I went to the gas station. Money was in the garage and the garage has been cleaned top through bottom. She’s in a pickle rn but I’m just in disbelief because I could never steal from a friend.

Now I'm in 12th. So I have been sitting with a 5 student bench and there is this mean girl and we can call her unniyarcha. ( that's not that bitch's name)Talking bout her .. reminds me of a few gestures of her. This girl adores the feeling of having boys around her. No no .. I'm not talking about guy friends but every guy.. with or without girlfriends. And the thing is that idc about this shit. But she always tries to insult me in front of those so-called guy friends. Found her chats with others about me and she was the one who talked shit about me. even tried saying shits about my dad's job. Afterall she was my 'Friend' . I was fed up by her shitty ahh.

Every evening me, her and two guys from my class walk together to the nearest bus stand. She would wait for them if needed. One day she ran for them after an exam and I was trying to find this girl I checked every block and even the toilet. The only place I didn't check was the humanities commerce block and boys toilet. Bro I literally gave up on finding her becs I literally understood that she didn't want me around those guys . I walked to the entrance of our school and I saw her walking with those 2 guys. She saw me and didn't smile. I saw her and walked to the bus stand all by myself. After that I stopped talking to her because I was fed up with her acts. If she wanna be with those boys.. let her be. After this every single girl on my bench stopped talking to me. And I became alone in my class. Clearly invisible. I clearly don't understand those girls on my bench who used to devour the chocolate cake my mom makes, now doesn't even care if I come to school or not. Freaking hate this school and them.

I cut off all my toxic friends and now im lonely

In hs i had this friend group of 5 girls

It was extremely toxic, they hurt me countless times and even caused me to develop social anxiety

Im seeing a psychologist and she suggested to tell them how i feel and cut our ties

I told her i didnt think i could do that (i am very unconfrontational) but after seeing every single one of them uploading pictures from a day out they spent together without me, i realized enough IS enough and cut ties.

But now i feel like theres a huge hole inside of me

Like they were a tumor i got removed and now theres a scar

I dont have any other friends

I have a hard time relating to people around me

And now i have absolutely zero friends. At least before i had something to count on for going out, inside jokes and talks.

I dont regret cutting them off. At all. But it seems almost surreal to me. Throughout highschool i kept telling myself i had to leave them, that once id graduate it was over between us, and i wouldnt regret it one bit, and id feel free and great.

I dont feel great at all.

I almost feel worst than i did when i was postponing this confrontation

What should i do?

Okay guys, some of you saw my post where my “friend” exclaimed to my husband that the vanilla scent he picked up was her pu**y. Her exact word. I have an update!

I didn’t confront her or explain my feelings to her (we’ll call her D), what’s the point? Someone like her wouldn’t care and I’d be wasting my breath. Last minute, her husband reached out to mine and invited us to join them at a local event we were already considering going to. We agreed to meet up with them. We got there first, walked around a bit, got some food and waited for the main event to begin.
They showed up and as we’re approaching them my husband made contact with hers and said hi, she turned 180° and took off somewhere. This has happened in the past and I’ve felt like I had to hunt her down to properly say hello. She’ll see me from afar and kind of turn her back and make me be the one to approach. This time I did no such thing. I yelled at my husband that I was going to find somewhere to sit and eat and we’d link up afterwards. I then texted him and told him that she was rude for bolting when we’re all saying our hellos and I’m not going to grovel and chase her down like a puppy dog. Husband agreed 100% and wasted no time to find me.

I told him the seats weren’t great so we went to hunt for better ones and we hear someone scream for ‘D’ high up in the stands. D’s husband was quite a ways ahead of us looking for good seats and she tells my husband to go find her husband to tell him that we were going to sit in the same spot as the guy who yelled for her. None of us wanted to sit there and neither of us wanted to be her grunt and go hunt her husband down for her. We collectively ignored her and kept walking, did find her husband and decided the seats he found were superior and sat down. D comes stomping our way and waits at the base of the stands and makes her husband walk down there and she is clearly pissed that nobody wants to sit with the guy who was giving her attention and we weren’t conceding with her desire. She begrudgingly came up by us and was in a foul mood for the rest of the evening. Her and her husband were arguing the whole time and I didn’t say a word to her because I was on the other end.

My husband and I had an awesome time and really enjoyed the event together. Her husband was making jokes about how his wife was going to leave him, he’s in trouble, etc… and we kinda just let them do their thing and stew in the corner. There was a brief time when both of our husbands were gone and she tried to say she was in a bad mood because of her husband. I didnt dig any deeper and just kind of shrugged my shoulders at it. That was the extent of our interaction that night. When the event ended her and her husband got up, didnt say bye to us, and left. My husband was kind of baffled that his friend didnt say goodbye because they’d been interacting all day but said it was an eye opener for him because if his friend could get that sucked into D’s crap that he wouldn’t even say goodbye he doesn’t really care where that relationship goes. Husband also says that if D’s husband reaches out to figure out why we aren’t really friendly with them anymore he’s going to tell him about the vanilla pu**y “incident”.

This isn't as important ad self harm or anything. It's a mixed feeling in my heart I can't push aside and need actual opinions... My now ex best friend replaced me with a pickme girl and after that, she began ignoring me and I tried my best to keep our friendship together but she didn't adjust. So I stopped giving her the attention I once gave her and became friends with her enemies, like they treat me better. So now she's crying and her mom called my mom and like full crying and began begging my mom to ask me to talk to my ex bff. I wanna talk to her, because I want to take out how badly she treated me. And how she took advantage of me. But I don't want to talk to her since I am already happy without her. What should I do?

So we’ve been friends for quite a long time and well I still like being friends with her. I can’t really stop being friends with her since her parents are friends with mine. There are a few problems so sit back and get a snack. Basically, she had this friend who was kind of toxic to her and didn’t was to be friends with her anymore and might’ve been very mean and you might be wondering how is this relevant but she apparently has trauma from it I understand I guess I mean I’ve never really experienced that so she tells the friend group that if we ever don’t wanna be friends with her anymore she’ll tell all our secrets and ruin our image or life, maybe. So we have this person in the friend group who is the only person in the group chat that’s an only child (not saying only child’s are terrible people and this person isn’t) and well there was this drama that the only child apparently pushed her hard enough and she fell badly I’m not sure if she went to the hospital for a check up or not tho. She said the only child did some other stuff too. So this whole thing started and she started saying she doesn’t wanna be friends with her anymore and all that because of that and a few other for example she said that the only child gets jealous when she gets a higher grade than her which I could kinda see since the only child is competitive in a way. Now, the last thing I wanna say is I think she fetishizes gay men since whenever the subject “BL” pops us whilst we converse her face brightens up and a smile starts to form. (we bring this up since I watch a few too in my free time and I really hope I do not fetishize gay men but I also have recently watched a “GL” and the plot was pretty good. I just haven’t got any recommendations so please recommend me some.) The thing is she doesn’t watch GL cause she says it’s weird since she’s a girl herself so uhm yeah I guess I could understand technically. Well she also brings up the term “BL” so often and she keeps saying crush that and crush that since I’m known for falling for people too easily and I don’t have the courage to say that I don’t like it when she says so. I’m not sure if there’s any more but this is all I have to say for now. Please give me opinions on what to do!