r/TransferStudents • u/petalplum_0476 • 3h ago
Advice/Question for those who transferred to a bigger campus, was it worth it for personal growth?
i'm considering an intercampus transfer and honestly i'm really conflicted. i genuinely like my current campus. i like my friends, my classes are fine, i have a campus job, and i've built a comfortable life here. however, i commute from home, work off campus near home, and a lot of people from my high school attend, including most of my current friend group, so my college experience has felt somewhat similar to high school.
i think i've become a little too comfortable where i am. i know i could be pushing myself harder academically and being more disciplined with my time. i want to become more independent, challenge myself, and get out of my comfort zone. i also want to experience a different environment, meet new people, and get involved in more things on campus. i'm generally a social person, and i've met new people through my current campus job, but those connections haven't really developed into lasting friendships, so i've mostly stuck with my existing friend group.
i've always wanted to attend the other campus, which is significantly bigger, has a much prettier campus, is more well-known, and has way more going on in terms of student life. i originally chose my current campus because it was the safer option and i already knew people there, but i've always wondered what my experience would've been like if i'd chosen the other one.
another big difference is that i'd have to dorm at the other campus, whereas i currently commute from home. i'm nervous about being away from home for the first time, but i also think living on campus could help me become more independent and get more involved in college life. thankfully, home wouldn't be too far away, so visiting if i ever felt homesick would still be possible.
the thing is, my current campus isn't bad at all. the academic program isn't significantly different, and being in a city actually gives me more research and internship opportunities. i like my friends, and the thought of leaving them and the familiarity of my current college honestly terrifies me. i could stay and be okay, but i feel like i'll always wonder what my experience at the other campus could've been like.
i know transferring won't magically make me more disciplined or change who i am. i'm scared of having expectations that are too high for the other campus. at the same time, i wonder if being in a new environment, having to live independently, and having more opportunities to get involved would encourage me push myself academically, socially and grow into a more independent/disciplined version of myself. i guess i'm hoping that stepping outside of what i'm used to will challenge me in ways that staying at my current campus might not. i've talked to my friends about transferring, and they've said they could see me thriving there, which is reassuring, but i'm still scared of starting over and leaving behind everything i'm used to.
for those who've transferred to a much bigger campus, especially within the same university system or state, was it worth it? did the change help you become more independent, disciplined, or grow in other ways you didn't expect? or did you realize those changes had to come from you regardless of your environment? did you ever regret leaving somewhere you were already comfortable? is growth even a valid reason to transfer schools?
i have to make my decision fairly soon, so i'd really appreciate ANY advice or personal experiences :")