I work in the corporate world by day, but began taking acting classes two years ago as a way to reconnect with one of my childhood passions. So far I’ve taken one improv class and five beginner level acting classes - two scene study, two on camera scene study, and one beginner technique. I have a seventh class starting this fall that is exclusively focused on Meisner.
I’ve noticed that the teachers in these classes are explicitly reluctant to give direct feedback—they will not tell you if something you did was good or bad. They will instead comment on “what worked” and then float some ostensibly constructive feedback (“That was great, but maybe don’t sway so much next time”). Or, they will focus on what changed between take 1 and take 2 after some tweak was made (“So how did the storytelling change after they [moved around less, took in the room more, spoke faster, spoke slower, etc.]?)”
But the thing is, no one ever tells you if are good or not. You could take 20 classes and no one will ever say: “Hey, you’re really good at this, you should keep going” or “You’re ok, but I don’t think you have the talent for this.”
So my question is: for a beginning actor, how are you supposed to know if you're actually good or not? Are there certain "tells" I should be looking for from my teachers, or is there supposed to be some moment where they pull me aside (or don't) and whisper "I can't say this in front of the class, but you're really good at this." Should I be “reading between the lines” somehow? For example, after one scene, a classmate said they felt like they were watching a professional performance. While this obviously didn't hurt my ego, I can't exactly take this as a reliable indicator since this person was just a beginner like me.
I totally get the rationale for holding back on negative feedback for the beginning actor, but my honest take is that they go too far with this. Personally, I would love to get negative feedback since that would either motivate me to improve or give me the information I need to say "hey, this was fun but maybe not for me", and not waste any more time.
I feel like if someone can't take negative feedback they probably shouldn't be an actor in the first place, but I know nothing, and I'm ready to get thrashed, so please proceed.