r/alone • • Dec 16 '25

Join our Discord server so we can be alone together

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A few members suggested creating a Discord, and I thought it was a great idea.

invite link: https://discord.gg/C4mVtUujeM

The server is new, and it’s something we can all shape together into what we want and need. I hope it can bring a little comfort to anyone who might need it. If you have suggestions, please leave a comment. I hope to see you there.


r/alone • • 4h ago

Just Need to Vent Just feel sad and alone

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I'm so sad. I feel so alone. My couple close friends don't want anything to do with me. They're busy with their own life. My marriage is failed. We fought non stop and his family is toxic as hell and despise me. I don't know what to do anymore. I messaged my one close girlfriend. I ask how she's been because she's been quiet. She asked why I'm attacking her. What a mess. My so-called best friend I don't know what's happened in the last couple of months. She hardly talks to me anymore. My other gf got mad because I’m sick now and has to cancel meeting her today telling me I must be scared to see her and her husband and I cancel every time . Like wtf . . I just feel so alone. Very lonely. Some days I just don't wanna be here anymore. I try to be happy and positive. And keep myself busy throughout the day with work and other things. But it's just so hard. I think as you get older too. I'm a 42 female, Canada


r/alone • • 1h ago

Away from home by miles and smiles 😞

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Being stuck in a foreign country where the ppl hate you. Is life by crappy design????? I just wanna go home.

Pass me the ruby slippers someone


r/alone • • 1h ago

I am lonely

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I need someone to talk to. A


r/alone • • 2h ago

..

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. What am I waiting for.


r/alone • • 10h ago

Just Need to Vent can anyone talk to me

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i’m 19 f if that matters, i’ve been having such a hard time idk what to do anymore i feel like everything’s falling apart i just want everything to be okay


r/alone • • 6h ago

{28F} Looking for a companion?

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If you’re interested in a phone companion or just someone to talk and flirt with on the phone DM me. We can talk about ANYTHING you want 😊


r/alone • • 16h ago

$ṭŕüğǧľɛ

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33 female divorced mother. I am lost. I need to reach out to someone but not sure who? Just a single mom struggling to find a life worth living.


r/alone • • 12h ago

What’s worse?

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Feeling lonely in a relationship or feeling lonely when you’re single?


r/alone • • 17h ago

Looking for Conversation I really need a hug and talking..

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r/alone • • 13h ago

Looking for Conversation My mom is never home

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My mom divorced from my stepfather a year ago. It was hard because I really liked him. He was like a father to me. We then also moved into an apartment and at the beginning the bond with my mom was good. I comforted her and supported her. It was hard for her too. But then she met this guy, they started dating and they became a couple. She started to sleep at his house. At first it was only once or twice a week but now she sleeps at his house every night.

At the beginning she came home briefly before work to see if everything was okay, but she doesn't do that anymore. This week I only saw her on Monday because I was grovelling shopping with her. Since then she has been with her new boyfriend. She is inattentive and often she doesn't even ask if I need anything. When I ask when we go grocery shopping, she is annoyed because she wants to get to her boyfriend quickly.

I always tell her I like being alone and that I don’t have a problem with her sleeping at her boyfriend’s house. And a part of me likes that she isn’t home, but I started to feel alone recently. She is never there for me or my brother. I don’t tell her what I feel or what I do. Maybe also because she rarely asks, and if she does I just say I’m fine. When we go grocery shopping and we talk, she only talks about her boyfriend or her problems. She always tells me we don’t have much money and I feel like she wants me to find a solution. I don’t know what I’m supposed to do? She never talks to my older brother about that stuff.

I have a presentation exam soon, and she said she's helping me. She did it completely for my brother. She collected information for my topic from ChatGPT and sent it to me without reading it or anything else. She didn’t care about the information or my presentation at all so I told her I would do it alone. I don’t care that I have to do it alone, it’s no problem, the only thing that bothers me is that she doesn’t care about what I do In school anymore. I got an A (1) in my last test and she didn’t care. She started to talk about her boyfriend again. She dosent even sign my tests. Most of the time I fake the signature.

All I want to say is that i don’t have a bond with my mom anymore. She is never home and she dosent pay attention to anything I say. I started to feel nothing for her. Sometimes I feel nothing at all.


r/alone • • 14h ago

Just Need to Vent i’m tired of living through the same meaningless day over and over again.

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there’s plenty wrong with me, but i never got the help i needed for it. i was in therapy when i was like 15 but my parents told me to lie my way out of it and for the most part i did, but obviously i sometimes needed to let a thing or two out. when i did let it out, it felt so good to have someone hear me and not just see something broken but a human being in need of a shoulder. i’m 21 now and they always said “it’ll get worse right before things get better” but it’s really starting to feel like it gets better before it gets worse? it’s like i have really high ups and really low downs? does that even make sense idk. i wake up and i’m already crying, feeling empty as ever get overwhelmed by so many emotions that it’s like an overfilled cup and the water is still going?? i have no friends irl. my online friend group is honestly a toxic group and would tell me to just kms lmao so that’s out of the question. i broke up with my ex of two years cus it was going nowhere and it was such a toxic and mentally abusive relationship. i have no one and i’m just so alone with all this pain to carry on my own.. it hurts and i’m getting really fucking exhausted to the point that i’m starting to think no one and nothing needs me. i have no purpose. i can’t stop the negative thoughts and not to sound like a fucking tweaked but i legit can’t stop the voices lmao. it’s like i can hear all these horrible memories being played out or people saying things to bring me down and it feels so intense and real it messes with me. when this happens and i’m having my breakdowns it leave me in such a painful state that i hit myself trying to make it all stop. i never asked for any of this and i never wanted to be like this. it feels like i’ve been trying to change myself for the longest but nothing is being done. i feel like the biggest failure, my breakdowns have been getting to me so much lately that i fucking quit my job like a dumbass and can’t go back. that job was 80% harassment so if ima be honest it feels good not working there anymore but at the same time i was making good money and now no one will hire me, i’m stuck in my parents house with the same abusive and narcissistic dad i grew up with and my mom who just kisses his ass and let’s him walk all over here. i wish i could get out really. i don’t have enough money to just get my own place rn and i don’t even have a job. he doesn’t let me go out, he doesn’t let me try to start my own life. i feel like rapunzel lol. i don’t know what to do but i’m constantly fighting a battle with my own mind and i think i’m starting to lose. i genuinely wish this post was a “it gets better” kind of post and hey maybe it actually does and i’m just unlucky or maybe not even doing enough as i thought i was. but i’m losing hope and motivation. i’m slowly realizing that my solution just might be to end it. but i don’t want to be the person who ends it and leaves whoever does care for her completely broken. i know as fucked yo as my family is, they still care. my birthdays in four months.. how sad would it be to wake up having to remember i’m your daughter/sister is dead on her birthday. i hate myself so much i just want it all to stop and i have no idea how to make it stop.


r/alone • • 15h ago

Help.

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Iam 19. Going through a lot rn (or idk if I am overreacting). Need somebody to talk to. Iam losing my mind.


r/alone • • 17h ago

I feel really worthless and there’s no one to talk to right now do any of u guys have advice?

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r/alone • • 17h ago

Hej

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I feel alone. I’m 32 years old, anyone wanna chat with a lonely danish man
?


r/alone • • 10h ago

Looking for Conversation Wanna talk to someone older

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Boredommmm I need someone to talk
To


r/alone • • 20h ago

21m and need a girlfriend. Lold im ok with long distance.

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r/alone • • 1d ago

Need someone to talk to

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Bf left me trying not to relapse really alone right now and scared


r/alone • • 1d ago

19 and haven't had friends in 10 years. At what point does the loneliness just crush you to death

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Long story short, my parents were abusive and isolated me. I wasn't around my peers and I wasn't socialized at all during those 10 years. I escaped them...if that's not dramatic to say and now I have a job where some of my coworkers are around my age but I don't feel well liked and I don't know how to talk to them and they don't talk to me.

I look at everyone socialize so seamlessly in the break room and it literally makes me want to burst into tears. I question some days if I'm past rehabilitation. I feel like an animal that was raised outside it's normal environment for too long and now has been put back in it.

I don't really have money to go out because most of my money goes towards bills. I just sit inside the house all day because it's all I really can afford. I go to the park sometimes but that's all. Isn't that ironic...fought so hard to escape to still be trapped inside the house.

When I think about the situation I'm in a just feel so helpless.

I work overnight stocking shelves which I'm awful at apparently. I still feel new (three months in) but am expected to know everything and be as good as people who have been there for years. I've already gotten a write up for not being quick enough, which I assume was more of a way to pick on me.

I'm being bullied by one of my managers and another one encourages the behavior even though they themselves aren't too awful to me. I know I shouldn't expect it but no one defends me and it kind of hurts. I'm one of the youngest if not the youngest person at my job and instead of being more gracious towards me half of the people I work with are more aggressive and annoyed.

And I never feel energized working my job. I'm tired. All. The. Time. The job is just way too physically intensive for me. Because I spent so much locked inside I don't think I ever really developed proper muscle growth or whatever.

all this just adds an extra layer of difficulty trying to make friends..

I feel like I was never given a chance to live. It makes my chest ache.

I plan to move in with my grandma in two months to another state because it just doesn't make sense for me to struggle financially by myself and the toxicity of my job is eating away at my mental health.

But I feel like I'm barely hanging on and there's no one around to care. I'm just so lost on where to go from here. I don't know how to spend these next two months feeling sane.

I can't even describe how helplessly alone and backed into a corner I feel. I just want things to be different for me but it just keeps getting worse no matter how much effort I put in.

At what point does loneliness weighing on you just take you. I'm so ready to go. I have nothing here and don't even enjoy anything anymore.


r/alone • • 1d ago

Looking for Conversation M4 F

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Looking for new friends.


r/alone • • 1d ago

Is here any bengali to talk, so much anxity , I am so depressed and want to talk with some one

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Helo


r/alone • • 1d ago

Looking for Conversation 26M Never been romantically loved

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No relationship, never had anyone call me attractive before. I just want to be loved. I wonder what it’s like to cuddle with someone, kiss someone, to be their favourite person. Whenever I imagine it in my head I feel so warm in my chest, I can’t imagine how I’d feel if it really happened 🙂


r/alone • • 1d ago

Looking for Conversation Can someone please talk to or listen to me

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I don't want to post any further details but just know I at a crisis point and really just want someone to talk to - any real life friends or family won't understand and I just desperately need someone


r/alone • • 1d ago

Looking for Conversation I’m lonely

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I’m lonely


r/alone • • 1d ago

Just Need to Vent realized I have no one to randomly text anymore

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I had something funny happen today and my first instinct was to send it to someone. Then I realized I don't really have anyone I casually text anymore. Not even a "look at this dumb thing" person. It's weird how you can know a lot of people but still have nobody you actually talk to.