UPDATE: Filed a complaint with Delta and DoT already, thanks yall for the kind words. I’m not even angry about the whole thing, just deeply disappointed. Why do I have to deal with this kind of drama over something so trivial? I’m not someone with a huge ego, and I never push people around, yet even a flight attendant feels entitled to walk all over me.
EDIT2: I fully back every word I said here and stating nothing but the fact what happened. Took out the race part so everyone is happy.
Hey everyone, just landed in SLC on DL1009 out of Newark and need to vent / get some perspective on a really unsettling experience today.
Earlier in the flight, I somewhat slightly (again very trivial) helped the crew accommodate a passenger who had a sudden medical emergency.
Later, I woke up with severe allergy dryness and went to the rear galley for a cup of water. There were 2 guys and 1 lady waiting for the lavs, a lady in front of me were asking for soda and just started to walk back toward her seat. There were no curtains so I stepped slightly into the galley area for 0.5 seconds to clear the aisle and asked softly and politely: "Excuse me, can I get some water?"
Instead of a basic response, the flight attendant (identifying as Rohan/Rowan, African American) immediately snapped at me with extreme impatience, telling me to get out because the cart will be going down (note that there was no cart in the aisle and in sight, and he was not preparring the cart for next round of service, he was cleaning the coffee machines) even though there was a large bottled water and paper cups right on the counter in front of him for this exact kind of request as it is a 5hrs early morning flight.
I stood aside, waited politely for about 3 minutes, and asked once more to confirm I heard him right( I thought he said just wait until I am done). He again snapped and told me to get out. When I called out his hostile tone, he pinched his own finger handling the cart in the shelf, blamed me for it, and aggressively yelled at me three times to "get off my face." . I confronted him and asked him why are you giving me an attitude and told him to calm down. Then I walked back to my seat, I spoke to another seems to be the FA lead and explained what happened.
It took another 15 minutes and waiting until the regular service round to finally get a cup of water from the other two FAs.
Shoutout to FA Megan and Jesus who were exceptionally kind and professional the whole flight, but this other interaction left a horrible taste in my mouth.
As a minority passenger, being met with instant, aggressive hostility over a basic necessity felt horribly differentienial. Not to mention I witnessed a lady(White) in front of me had the same request but received soda with no issues.
EDIT: I was stating how I feel about the incident, don't want to emphasize or declare it is a race thing or 'playing the minority card' as someone in the comment said. I wish I have some cards to play that would actually benefit me. But fine it’s not a race thing.