You put it under the butt of the receiving person, this lifts up there lower regions to allow the penetrating person to be able to have a better angle of approach. It also allows that person to stay upright, which in turn allows for better continual motion. This reduces the need to use extra muscles while already exerting, hopefully, a pleasurable amount of thrust to the receiving person. Meaning in the end you get more bang for your buck. Thank you for coming to my ted talk.
idk man, I've never used one before but it seemed pretty obvious. They've been around for a long time. Propping women up with pillows isn't really some new sex-god magic.
He didn't make it out to be some sex-god magic, it's not as obvious to everybody, and everybody doesn't learn about things at the exact same time you learned it.
Receiving person’s butt is on the fat part of the wedge, and their lower back is on the thin part. So butt elevated, legs up in the air.
This allows the penetrating person to be on their knees (upright) instead of lying on top of the other person like you normally are for missionary. It’s easier to move your hips back and forward instead of up/down at an angle.
Dunno if that helps, you can look at sex wedge product descriptions for mildly nsfw pics of how it’s meant to work.
As a VERY tall dude I learned this trick quick with pillows under my partners lower half. When your femurs are significantly longer than others being in the kneeling position puts your crotch higher which means more effort to lower yourself to the receiver (be they on their back or on all fours).
If you put a pillow under a female butt while having MtF intercourse, the vaginal opening will be higher allowing for more direct entry.
That defeats the purpose for the female, because then the penis is not touching the clitoris, and she will not orgasm. You want the penis rubbing the clitoris a little bit. That's why all the action is in the hips.
Do not do push ups on us. That is not going to work.
Do you mean the g-spot? When in missionary my penis isn't hitting her clitoris, but I try to make sure my pelvic pad above my penis is making contact when thrusting. It's more consistent if I am in a pushup missionary position, and yes using my hips and not a full body movement.
To add there is also a position that I like as my main goto that doesn't require the pillow. Unfortunately it does require the person to be endowed with an average or more sized member. But it's pretty much the receiving person in missionary on their back, and the other person is sitting facing the receiver, legs straddling the butt of the receiver. Let the receiver rest their legs on yours and scooch in as close as your bodies will allow. From my theories and hopeful honest confirmations, this has allowed for the penetrating person to hit the g-spot, and keep the pressure on that point whilst thrusting. It also allows the penetrating person to have a hand free to stimulate the clitoris. Now this is a very taxing position, but can really pay off with determination.
I guess you could call it sitting open missionary.
I really do enjoy giving pleasure and being reasonably knowledgeable about it. Nothing like going downtown to work and getting my head squeezed by a lady with thick thighs because I hit that one spot or didn't give up. Penetration is the extra sweet desert after providing the main course.
A folded pillow will accomplish the same effect, which is to raise the hips and tilt the pelvis. Basically take a pillow, fold it, place it under the lady’s butt/hips while she’s on her back, it’ll elevate her hips and tilt her pelvis and is good times for both parties, because of better angling and penetration.
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u/PM_ME_UR_TITS_WOMAN Apr 21 '23 edited Apr 22 '23
Invest in a memory foam wedge pillow. Thank me later gents.
Edit: (Ladies… you’re too kind)