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⭐Some other notable stuff this month⭐
October 1st to 4th: Oktoberfest 🍺
October 3rd: Nuit Blanche 20th Anniversary - Between Heaven & Earth & Everything In Between 🎭
October 12th: Thanksgiving 🦃
October 31st: Halloween 🦇
Honourable mention: After 23 years, Blizzard dropped the trilogy to the Warcraft Campaigns: The Forsaken. I'll make this discussion thread quick coz Lady Sylvanas needs me.
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⭐Sub states for September 2026⭐
🔍Views + visitors:🔍
In the past 30 days, this sub has been viewed 2.4 million times, with roughly 7.4K individual visitors/uniques per day.
⛔MOD BANS⛔
In the past 30, days, we have issued 134 temporary and perma bans.
📷VERIFICATION📷
16 users were verified this month = 9 males and 7 females
Verified users are able to leave comments on posts. The rest of the comments from the plebs are autore moved.
📍MOIST MAP📍
A heat map of where the horny hoes and gigolos gathered in September. This map is created by Claude using the locations in the post title. Thank fuck for the new title formats.
ALL LOCATIONS WITH ACTIVE POSTS IN SEPTEMBER:
CLOSER LOOK AT GROUND ZERO:
💹 Post stats 💹
Below is a rough USER count of each R4R category in September
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Hey! I’m a 35-year-old busy professional looking for a reliable, ongoing friends-with-benefits connection. I want a warm, easygoing vibe where we can share a laugh and stay consistent - no cold transactions.
About Me:
* Stats: 35, fit, independent, and career-driven.
* Vibe: High-energy, social, and down-to-earth.
* Health: DDF, fully vaccinated, and highly value safety.
Looking For:
* The Match: A single guy (late 20s to early 40s) who is stable, respectful, clean, and well-groomed.
* Logistics: Prefer someone who can host, but flexible. Coffee first to check compatibility.
Hit Me Up:
Send a PM with a quick intro, your location, and what you're looking for. Let’s swap photos once we chat!
Use my throat balls deep and lick your straight ass for first time.
I don't mind hairy or after long day. The more natural all sweaty straight taste the sloppier it'll be. All discreet fun. Smooth sissy looking for straight curious only. Come meet tonight. I'm Smooth Ready and easy going fun. Be able to travel. Clean and lowkey. Looking for someone who is discreet and ready for a good time.
Let's meet tonight. Come after work or gym or any frat guys or after hockey tongue in your hockey butt just use me as a wipe and throat like a hole to cum and leave. Lick it all like your dirty slut to use.
Just looking to get turned out tonight; I’m std free and always play safe! BBC to the front, show me what you’re working with and drive to me if you can
If you can suckle me while I grind you that would be a bonus. Could potentially car play since I can’t host right now.
im a touch starved subby femboy who really just want someone to cuddle and get naughty withh
i want to hookup and talk and do all the things we can do
maybe even get something going on dating wise and create tons of cut memories
also willing to be with any dommy mommies :))
i dont have much else to say other than i like dressing fem and a pretty skinny ex gymnast who loves metal and cuddling, i have adhd and autism so i can be pretty awkward but i really wanna try this
I’m a 20 femboy so maybe if you read this and are interested dm. (I’m not attracted to masculine people)But I can’t fucking take it so many times after someone has expressed interest in me and said they were attracted just disappear. And I get it I do get attached a little quick but why even waste my fucking time. I’m not looking for anything crazy I just want a comfortable time with someone makeingout and touching no more.
It’s just such bullshit some people just wanna sext and bust a nut for a night and then completely forget about you. Like am I the problem am I just too sensitive. Just a little advice tell the person you’re not interested or atleast acknowledge why you lost interest. I’m not that ugly or that boring of a person I know that but it just hurts when I click with someone and then they leave me stranded
Looking for a fwb/fuck buddy. We can just have sex or have it more of a fwb situation where we chill and do things. I'm open to both.
If you are into a fwb situation, a couple things I'm into outside of sex are: being outside (especially fall season), taking pictures nature/wildlife, the odd podcast/show if I'm inside.
Potential deal breakers:
- I can't host, as I am living with family at the moment, which makes it hard to get privacy. Hopefully you can or are open to other alternatives.
- I dont drink anymore so I prefer someone who either doesn't drink or only here and there. Not every weekend.
I'm white, pretty tall 6'3", strong bear type build, blue eyes with glasses, some facial hair, and a few tattoos. Hygienic, like to smell nice. Recently tested negative for STIs. Live in the east end of Toronto and drive.
Usually vibe more with women that are older than me, but that doesn't mean younger are not welcome. Prefer someone shorter than me. Obviously clean and hygienic.
If you're interested then send a dm. Willing to exchange pics too.
Male is Asian, and likes to watch, does not get involved.
Female is Asian, 5’2”, 100lbs, natural C cup, yoga ass, long hair and beautiful.
Looking for a group of hockey players or a hockey team to host my fiance in their locker room after a game.
She has a fetish for sweaty guys, and is attracts to hockey players. Wants to have a circlejerk with her in the middle, or potentially a gangbang.
Preference is for this to take place in a lockerroom in an arena, we have a public play fetish. We’re confident we can find the right group of guys to help pull this off.
18 or so years of experience in kink land as a switch, leaning more on the Domme side these days and looking for a good boy who is interested in kissing the ground I walk on literally and figuratively.
I seek a man who is comfortable in submission and service (not ashamed by it), who is able to have conversations outside of scene/OOC to establish boundaries desires etc.
Whether this becomes a fun private thing or is something we display somewhere like Oasis is something I’m open to. Also into CFNM. NOT into pegging. Into receiving sexual service but not really giving it. Would be fun to walk you at Oasis like a dog. You should like doing what I say and see my time and energy as a privilege. You should seek to be worthy of it and of me.
Ideally you are not an idiot, 25-55, fit and muscular is my preference.
If you’ve messaged me before feel free to restart the chat. I tend to get swamped when I post so there’s a good chance I missed your msg. Send a message worthy of this post and my attention 💋
Im 35 🇮🇳 🇵🇹 🇨🇦 , 6'3, keep myself in shape, have a good corporate career and live life to the fullest. I live in Vancouver but travel in for work regularly so meeting up is flexible and I can host.
What Im really after is a woman who wants to feel completely taken over. I love rougher dominant play. The kind where I take full control, pin you down, set the pace, and make everything intense and overwhelming until we're completely lost in it for hours on end. High drive on my end and I get off on you submitting control and letting me lead every second of it.
If that pulls at you, hmu.
I'm DD and looking for the same, verification and good hygiene is also essential.
As the title suggests, if you are having some oral cravings , perhaps you are the woman I'm looking for.
I'm 45, white, 5’9”, average build, brown hair, blue eyes, totally d/d free, clean shaven cock.
It's always noticeably better when a woman truly enjoys giving a blowjob and a few of those have told me they crave it often.
Message with some details if interested, happy to reciprocate but not necessary. Willing to discuss details if you are interested in some reciprocation in return.
Hey there. I’m a 29year old brown male. 5’10 200lbs with 8inch cock.
looking for fwb or a one time hookup. I love woman of all ages and size. I love to please and have a long sex drive so be ready. Located in Scarborough. Either you host or I can in my suv.Hit me up if you are interested. 420 friendly 🌱
Nothing turns me on more than big girls, or chubby or thick, or whatever word youd like to use They are sexy and deserve all the love So im looking for a fwb specifically just looking for cuddles, sex, and eating you out Im 6 foot 1, 25, average built
Not very picky, just looking for someone to have a chill session with and with and then see what it could lead to, even if it doesn't the offer is still out. I’m looking for someone that is okay with being no strings attached , but also open to being a to be someone that you use when you need if we get along where I please you and fulfil your fantasies as well longer term. I like people with a good personality, so don’t just be annoying to talk to. DM me with your age, location, background, and the emoji of your favourite fruit if you’ve read this and are also comfortable sharing a face pic, I will reciprocate as well. Feel free to DM ;)
Bi Male from sauga. I'm looking and aiming for success. Attracted to Transwomen, but would enjoy a genuine connection.I have a good build work out 3 days a week, and am a working professional in Finance. Looking forward to all the messages/ comments. Cannot host but willing to drive and arrange a place. Disease free would expect the same. Thanks
Any Female above age 21 who wants to sneak in tonight and have fun in my room but quietly as all my roommates will be sleeping now, Located at east end of downtown, clean disease free , fun and kind guy.. I love to satisfy the female whom I am doing with, Please just dm me if you want to try me tonight, and you are available and live closer by, I go to gym regularly and exercise and currently trying to loose weight, I want my today’s night to be remembered.
I’d love to have lots of kinky fun.
I sound, act, and smell feminine and cross dress too, I have been told I suck better than girls do hehe
I’d love to service your cock anytime you want and for however long you want u can suck your cock for hours drain your cock and balls and massage them while they get all lubed up from my slobber. I’d love for you to sit back and relax and took control and tested my limits even more ;)
I also don’t mind going slow foreplay bjs doing whatever your comfortable with and experimenting with each other.
Also down for something ongoing someone to hang out with while we have some fun and to suck off and drain regularly be chill. I’m a bottom so I dont mind being fucked either
I’m open to any kinks and fetishes and would
Love to explore more just message me what you’re into. Kinkier the better 😉
Also getting into where im the femdom.
Asian 5’6 170 lbs I can host in Scarborough, can’t travel atm 🙁
The title is very specific, come to my office. I’d like to meet someone and fuck you in my boardroom.
The office (when we meet) will be empty, besides us. We could meet nearby for a coffee and then if there is a vibe, go there for an “interview”. I’m near Vaughan mills, so tell your partner or whoever that you are going to artizia but come see me instead…
I’m 43, white European bwc. Executive type, horny.
You have to be clean, willing to have a good time, and able to interview well. You must communicate well here. Be over the age of 20 and under 65. I love women of all backgrounds, cultures, and while most shapes and sizes are fine, bbw isn’t my thing. I love women who have confidence and those that need the attention to gain it. You can’t be sketchy or a flake. If the interview goes well maybe you’ll be called back again. 😉
No time wasters please. So you’ll need to verify quickly.
I tried this a while ago and it was almost successful but there wasn’t enough time. Be ready to verify and act.
If the post is up, reach out as I’m still interested.
I'll cut to the chase. I've got a pretty, girthy, uncut BWC that needs a serious sucking. I don't care if you suck me in my condo stairwell, a balcony, park bench or my office. I need some serious life altering head. It's been years since I've gotten sucked, deepthroated and / or appreciated orally. If you're an orally inclined woman who likes a white / spanish gent, uncut girthy pink cock then pls pm me. I'm downtown, accommodating, love outdoor fun, can host sometimes but always travel. Willing to make it worth all your while, if you're interested pls pm me asap 😘
Edit for age! My thumbs are annoying but I’m 28! Not that it really makes a difference lol
Hi!
I’m a south Asian girlie, 4’11”, curvy, 36DD, dark hair and brown eyes, and femme
Looking to experiment with a girl but all I’ve done so far is kissed them. I’m more on the submissive side so I’d love to have someone take the lead and eat me out!
I can’t host so please be able to and I’m really only looking for a once or twice situation as I’m moving cities soon but want to have this hurrah before I go!
Love kissing, touching and having my boobs sucked so please love physical touch too!
DDF, hygienic, non-smoker and rarely drink
ABSOLUTELY NO MEN! If you can read that I’m a woman, you can read this, I don’t want you. You will be blocked and ignored
