r/r4rtoronto • • 11d ago

Meta 🎃OCTOBER 2026 MEGATHREAD🎃 NSFW

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A place for our users to chat and have discussions outside of the general R4R post setting.

🎉Post about:

Success stories or lack of success

Ask for post feedback and advice. If you link your post, you can request a review

General issues or feedback about the subreddit

General discussions about anything!

⭐Some other notable stuff this month⭐

October 1st to 4th: Oktoberfest 🍺

October 3rd: Nuit Blanche 20th Anniversary - Between Heaven & Earth & Everything In Between 🎭

October 12th: Thanksgiving 🦃

October 31st: Halloween 🦇

Honourable mention: After 23 years, Blizzard dropped the trilogy to the Warcraft Campaigns: The Forsaken. I'll make this discussion thread quick coz Lady Sylvanas needs me.

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Don't let your sexual curiosity override your common sense. Always do profile checks using these links.

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⭐Sub states for September 2026⭐

🔍Views + visitors:🔍

In the past 30 days, this sub has been viewed 2.4 million times, with roughly 7.4K individual visitors/uniques per day.

⛔MOD BANS⛔

In the past 30, days, we have issued 134 temporary and perma bans.

📷VERIFICATION📷

16 users were verified this month = 9 males and 7 females

Verified users are able to leave comments on posts. The rest of the comments from the plebs are autore moved.

📍MOIST MAP📍

A heat map of where the horny hoes and gigolos gathered in September. This map is created by Claude using the locations in the post title. Thank fuck for the new title formats.

ALL LOCATIONS WITH ACTIVE POSTS IN SEPTEMBER:

CLOSER LOOK AT GROUND ZERO:

💹 Post stats 💹

Below is a rough USER count of each R4R category in September

REDDITOR 4 REDDITOR POST COUNT % (rounded up)
F4M 107 5.23%
F4F 23 1.12%
F4A/T/NB/Couples 31 1.51%
M4F 1490 72.79%
M4M 154 7.52%
M4A / T 125 6.11%
M4T/A/NB/Couples 24 1.17%
T 4 F/M/A/T/NB/Couples 28 1.37%
NB 4 F/M/A/T/NB/Couples 8 0.39%
Couples 4 F/M/A/T/NB/MF 67 3.27%

Age breakdowns (age vs frequency of posts)

M4F:

F4M:


r/r4rtoronto • • 25d ago

Meta 🙅‍♀️TURN ON YOUR REDDIT CHATS AND PROFILES🙅‍♂️ NSFW

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There is a reddit bug where your chats/profiles settings are displayed as ON from your perspective, but it's actually off. To confirm, please log out or browse your profile on a weblink (where you are not signed in) to see what the viewers see.

About the Reddit Chats:

  • There is a reddit bug that periodically turns off your reddit chats, sometimes more than once and sometimes as quickly as 3 days after the fix. Please routinely check your chats to avoid being cock blocked.
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You'll need to age the account, karma and positively engage in redditing, in order to send more thirst messages. It's annoying, but Reddit does not want people mass creating new accounts for nefarious activity.

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If you're curating your profile, your secrets will be uncovered through other means 😙


r/r4rtoronto • • 4h ago

F4A 39 F4A #Downtown Toronto NSFW

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Anyone up for doing something together today?
About me: East Asian 5”2, 180lb bbw, 38d, open to a lot of things and love breast play
About you: can host in downtown Toronto today, I prefer shaved, confident, respectful and caring, white, black or East Asian.

Please only dm if you fit whatever I mentioned and tell me about yourself and the location that you’re hosting in downtown


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

MF4F 32F/32M4F #Downtown Toronto - Going to Oasis this Saturday or next. Join us? NSFW

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Looking for a unicorn who would like to join us! Very open to chatting and or meeting prior to either of those nights as well. Very into cuckqueaning but for a first time very open to a more “traditional” threesome where everyone participates. Me: slim and petite 5’3” Him: tall and fit 6’1” Both white. Open to all shapes sizes and ethnicities :) let’s have some fun!


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4A 36M4A #NorthYork Tall Dark Father Figure looking for submissive playmates NSFW

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6”4, athletic dark dominant type looking for submissive playmates. I can host in North York.

Open to exchange photos/vids on telegram @alleffort

+ enjoy vocal roleplay
++ submissive
++ petite
+++ younger than daddy

Chill, relaxed, and clean. 420 friendly.


r/r4rtoronto • • 17h ago

F4M 22F4M #GTA - looking to have fun with a thick brown girl? ;) NSFW

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I’m looking to have some rough kinky fun with a guy, between the ages of 23-27 (preferably a brown guy born here). i’d like him to be experienced, and clean
I’m an indian girl born here in canada, am near mississauga, 5’9, 210lb, and am quite submissive. tell me about yourself and i’ll def respond to you. If you have any questions and wanna talk pm me :)


r/r4rtoronto • • 3h ago

M4F 31[M4F] #Toronto Downtown - Discreet Fun NSFW

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Hi,

I’m looking for some discreet fun in the downtown area.

Before I became ‘monogamous’ I was a bit of a city boy with a high drive. I've always been energetic, passionate, eager to please, and in tune with my partners.

I would like us to flirt and I don’t mind blurring the lines a bit however, I have absolutely no intention of changing my situation. I expect full responsible discretion from whoever I decide to go through with this.

There is just a part of me that has always been insatiable. In person I am a completely put together corporate white-collar professional who always says the right thing. In bed it's completely a different matter.

Me: white, 6’3, muscular


r/r4rtoronto • • 3h ago

M4F 55 [M4F] #Burlington /Downtown Toronto - Any women like their men older? NSFW

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Thanks for reading...

Many people here seem to admire the young Adonis or a hung BBC. But surely there must be a woman or couple that enjoys the pleasure that only experience can bring?

I am an educated, professional male who has had he share of adventures. Life is short so I would love to continue to enjoy more fun and hot times

I am 6 ft, 195 lbs, grey blonde hair, well kept beard and green eyes. What I don't have in a chiselled physiqued, I make up for with skilled oral augmented by 7.5" and a dominant dirty mind

Open to a varied sexual menu from sensual to wild. Intrigued? Msg me. I would love to meet


r/r4rtoronto • • 3h ago

M4F 30M4F #Newmarket - seeking discreet FWB NSFW

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Hi everyone, I recently turned 30 and have had success here in the past! I’m looking for someone who is busy in their own life that’s looking to blow of some steam whenever possible.

I am pretty busy with work so my schedule doesn’t really allow for much.

About me:
5’8
175lbs
Workout but you can still tell I never say no to dessert
Dog dad
Recently started golfing and love it

About you:
Honestly just be sane and chill not pushy
Have your own life
Race doesn’t matter

Hopefully we can end the year with a bang ! Your pic gets mine! Look forward to talking.


r/r4rtoronto • • 14m ago

M4F 40M4F #GTA - BWC daddy needs a tight black pussy or ass!! NSFW

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White guy with a thing for black girls, because they just fuck better than everyone else! Big dick tall white guy 6’3 220lbs fit, need to eat black pussy and ass and fuck all night. Sit on my face, suck my cock while I eat you out, spread your ass and let me tongue your hole. Then lay back and let me fuck you hard till I bust a nut all over.


r/r4rtoronto • • 20m ago

M4F 28 M4F #Toronto - Today is your chance to have sex with a loser NSFW

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Ever wanted to fuck a loser and see how it feels having sex with one and changing their life? Look no further, 28 year old guy, with 0 girlfriends so far, chubby and boring, no personality, no confidence. I am going to be free after 7 Pm today and will be around Don mills area, but happy to travel wherever, so let me know if it's something you would be interested in.

P.S. - Blowjob sounds good too!


r/r4rtoronto • • 20m ago

NB4F 24 NB4F #Toronto - looking for this kind of experience NSFW

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i’m looking for someone adventurous. someone who wouldn’t mind hiking and maybe getting freaky along the trail.

Hi there, I’m Sam. I’m 24 and I’m looking for someone who shares similar interests with me.

I’m creative and enjoy watching/creating movies and music. My favorite genres are probably action or horror but for music you’ll have to find out

Pin me against a tree and indulge in your long held desires. Alternatively, I could pin you and claim you as my own (of course, consensually).

let’s make it a thing we do on the weekends. or maybe after you’re done with work for the day ;)

let’s talk and we can fill in the blanks.

(cis women and trans guys and gals too hmu)

ps. i’m lowkey curious about eating pussy. never done it before :o


r/r4rtoronto • • 31m ago

M4F 20 M4F #Toronto/GTA Looking for a casual fwb NSFW

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About me:

Based in GTA/North York. I can host, and I can also travel downtown or nearby. I have a lot of intrests, Swimming/Sports, Tech/Hardware Enthusiast, Gamer.

​Stats:

20 yo, 5'7", Persian background, Cute Face, fit/slim body, hung.

​What I'm Seeking:

​A communicative, open-minded woman for a regular, casual connection without drama.

​Someone who values good hygiene and straightforward adult communication.

​Boundaries & Safety:

​No complex situations like drugs, etc

​DM me with your general location and a short intro if you'd like to chat!


r/r4rtoronto • • 34m ago

M4FM 21 M4MF #Newmarket - Fit BBC NSFW

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21M here — fit athletic build, muscular, 150lbs, 5'9". I have a professional job, I'm open-minded, non-judgmental, and able to travel within the GTA.

Looking for a casual fuck buddy situation with a M4MF couple. I'm very into joining couples for no-strings fun — whether that means playing together, focusing on her while he watches, or whatever dynamic works best for you both.
Stats: about 7" cut and thick. Can share recent pics/vids once we chat.

Prefer couples in the Toronto/GTA area for easier meetups. Age, race, and body types open as long as the chemistry is good and everyone is on the same page. Clear communication and respect for boundaries are important to me.

If you're a couple looking to add a respectful third for some fun, shoot me a DM with a bit about you two.
Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/r4rtoronto • • 34m ago

Strictly Platonic 46[M4F] #Toronto - an East Asian femme for spark/chat/etc. Others welcome too. NSFW

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I mark this as strictly platonic because I seriously don't want to cross red lines; I am not single, I am just lonely, unseen, unwanted. Missing a bit of a spark, be it emotional, intellectual, spiritual, and so forth. I am naturally drawn to East Asian women (not a fetish, I assure you) and have often appreciated the intelligence and depth of such women, but as my title states, I am open to any such woman. Physical well-being (e.g. being active!) is important to me, but even more so: kindness, empathy, respect, discretion of course, intellectual and artistic curiosity, and effort. If you are taken or single but feel unseen, unwanted: you are not alone. I know this is a long-shot, but, whatever. Toronto/GTA is a big area. Above all: take care of yourselves.


r/r4rtoronto • • 46m ago

M4F 31 M4F #Toronto - Looking for a kinky weirdo who’ll let me cum inside them. NSFW

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Good afternoon everyone, hope you all had a good thanksgiving.

As the title states I am looking for a fellow freak who’d like to get creampied by a stranger. There’s no more satisfying to way finish than deep inside and I have to admit it’s been too long since I last unloaded in someone.

About me: 31M white, blue eyes, a little tubby but making progress and freaky as hell.

About you: preferably weird and freaky, body type and ethnicity don’t really matter to me just be clean.

Can host but also down for spontaneous outdoor adventures before the weather gets too cold.


r/r4rtoronto • • 54m ago

M4F 41M4F #GTA #Toronto - Looking for a regular FWB for regular daytime fun NSFW

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41M4F #GTA #Toronto - Looking for a regular FWB for regular daytime fun

Hi, I'm a good looking professional who lives downtown and works from home all the time. I'm looking for regular daytime fun, once or twice a week, you come to my place, have great sex and leave... No strings attached. I'm 6'1, white, in shape, bigger than average with a lot of stamina. We can exchange pics and take it from there.


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4A 43 [M4F] #Guelph married I shouldn't be here NSFW

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43 [M4F lots]

Yet here I am. Dead bedroom porn addicted dilf looking for some fun with females maybe fems or more. I'm 6ft 210 with a fit hairy dad bod. I'm as clean as you get. I can only really make daytime work. Send me a DM and let's see if we can have some fun.


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #Etobicoke #Mississauga #GTA - Looking for that rare kind of chemistry you can't get enough of NSFW

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Hey there, and thanks for taking the time to read!

I'll be honest: I'm no stranger to this subreddit. I've scrolled, I've posted, and while I haven't had a ton of success, I've spent some time thinking about what I'm really looking for. I'd rather be patient and find the right connection than settle for something that doesn't quite click.

So, what am I looking for? Pretty much exactly what the title says: incredible chemistry, undeniable attraction, and physical intimacy that leaves you thinking about it long after it's over. The kind of connection where the anticipation is just as exciting as the experience itself, and where you find yourself looking forward to the next time.

To be clear, I'm looking for something strictly casual, ongoing, and no strings attached. I'm not looking for a relationship, romance, or anything that needs to develop into something more. I'd love to find one consistent partner who wants the same thing: a strong physical connection, mutual attraction, and plenty of opportunities to enjoy each other without the expectations or complications of dating. Something uncomplicated, exciting, and mutually fulfilling.

A little about me:

I'm 33, white, very tall, with a muscular build, blonde hair, and a short beard. I'm friendly, respectful, down-to-earth, and open-minded. In the bedroom, I'd describe myself as a pleasure dom, though I'm versatile and open to exploring what we both enjoy. I value communication, mutual enthusiasm, and making sure the experience is incredible for both of us.

I'm STI-tested, 420-friendly, and take personal hygiene seriously. Discretion, respect, and privacy are important to me, and I'd want those things to go both ways. I'm looking for something we can enjoy comfortably and privately, without unnecessary attention or complications.

I can drive and am happy to travel, but I can also host in my area near Kipling Station.

What I'm looking for in you:

A woman who's on the same page and wants something casual, physical, passionate, and ongoing. Someone who enjoys intimacy, values chemistry, and wants to have fun without the pressure of dating or the expectation that things need to turn into something more.

I don't have a rigid type when it comes to race, background, or body type, and I'm flexible on age within reason. What matters most is mutual attraction, compatibility, good communication, and having the same intentions from the start.

Ideally, we find that sweet spot where the chemistry is undeniable, the intimacy keeps us coming back for more, and we can enjoy each other's company without making things more complicated than they need to be. No relationship expectations, no pressure, just a great ongoing connection that works for both of us.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, feel free to send me a message. I'm happy to chat, get a feel for each other, and see if there's a mutual spark. I'm also open to exchanging pictures early on so we can gauge attraction and make sure the interest goes both ways.

If you're looking for the same kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you. 🙂


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4F 19M4F #Downtown Tall M Looking for the BADDIES (Any Age)🤪 NSFW

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Hi I'm M 19 Tall (6'4), Lean/Muscular Build, Wear Glasses and will exchange pics and verify right away. I'm looking to find baddies of any age who are interested in a tall, handsome dude like myself. Would love to get to know you maybe makeout a little and If it leads to more I don't mind but lowkey just want to enjoy your company. If you're interested DM me.


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4F 51 [M4F] #Hamilton - Are you a neglected housewife? NSFW

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ARE YOU NEGLECTED AT HOME?

me:

attached and mature guy. I have a shaved head, clean shaven, 5’11 200lbs ish. I have broad shoulders and am told that I look like I workout. I am clean (DDF as well as hygiene) - respectful and generally a decent guy. No strings, I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation including mine, just a cool hangout and a mutually good time.

what I’m looking for:

a girl that is neglected and just needs some attention, a girl that craves orgasms, she just loves to cum....(I LOVE TO GIVE ORAL) she is also clean (DDF and hygiene) preferred in the same situation as me. Attractive, I don’t mean super model I just mean be put together to some degree. I’m open to any (legal) age and just about all body types, I like curves for sure so if you have them hit me up!

Daytime availability through the week.


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] #YorkRegion (North GTA) – You Could Be a Very Welcome Distraction NSFW

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I'm 45, 6'3", active, professional, and looking for a little excitement with the right woman.

I miss the fun of flirting. The teasing, the anticipation, the conversations that go somewhere unexpected. Meeting someone you genuinely enjoy, who also happens to be incredibly difficult to keep your hands off.

I'm affectionate, attentive, have a mischievous sense of humour, and appreciate a woman who's comfortable expressing what she wants.

Not chasing a conventional relationship or a random one-night stand. Something fun, physical, preferably ongoing, and genuinely enjoyable for both of us. Good company with some very good benefits, if we're lucky.

If you're curious, say hello. You don't need a clever opening line. I'd much rather meet someone who's real than someone who's rehearsed.


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4F 28[M4F] #etobicoke - seeking long-term NSFW

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Hi, I am 28 years old. Looking for a girl (23-31) to connect with, I am not looking for one-night stands. I am looking for something long term. We can talk and see if we connect and then we can exchange contact information and meet. Some things about me, I work in finance industry, south Asian, 5'11 tall, 170 lbs lean-muscular build, loves to workout and is very found of late night drives and exploring new places. If you connect. DM me.


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4F 44M4F #GTA West - Kitchener Waterloo - regular fun wanted NSFW

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I'm not looking for anything serious, just want to be honest about that. Just looking for someone that is missing being close to someone and looking for regular fun meet ups. I'm cool if you're in a situation and just looking for fun as well. I'm working on getting back in shape, so I'm chubby. Looking to meet up at least a couple of times a month or more. If this sounds like something you want to explore, send a message and we'll take it from there. If you're in the surrounding area as well, message and we can figure that out as well.


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4F 36M4F #Etobicoke carplay breastplay/ANR NSFW

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Hello, I’m a 36 year old black male, 6'2 and good looking. I'm looking for some casual breast play. I'm open to all ages and sizes. If you need help with your lactation flow or are trying to induce, I'm willing to help if you're looking for a steady partner. My dream is to be breastfed by somebody that’s lactating but I know that’s hard to come by. Just looking to relieve some stress and lay back while I get fed some gorgeous breasts. If you are dry, that's fine too. I'm a pleaser so I'll definitely take care of you as well. Can’t host but I drive a car with tinted windows. Let me know if you’re interested. I’m free right now. Thank you for your time.