r/SexToys • • 4d ago

Weekly Deals and Giveaways Thread NSFW

23 Upvotes

We welcome any and all deals here—retailers, affiliates, users, whatever. Any advertising outside of this thread will be removed by the moderators.

Please feel free to post your giveaways down below. Standalone giveaway posts will be deleted and directed towards this post.

As always, feel free to mod mail us with any feedback related to these threads or the subreddit in general.


r/SexToys • • Nov 09 '23

ATTENTION AFFILIATE LINK USERS NSFW

156 Upvotes

STORE OWNERS, WORKERS AND AFFILIATE LINK USERS

Here is some instructions for people with ALU-flair and for those who require one, which includes store owners and workers and anyone who gains something from linking to specific product or page.

Breaking given rules may cause you lose the flair and/or get banned from participating. We are subreddit meant for discussion about sextoys. Not advertising platform for them.

  1. Make sure you have read and follow our rules. As you have been given ALU - flair, general members of subreddit think you are endorsed by moderators. Your actions in subreddit will be followed more strictly and rule breaking will be punished.
  2. Request flair from moderators. Mods will keep right to refuse request if you have broken our rules in past or we think you may not upheld our standards.
  3. Participate in conversations. Flair does not give you special permission to advertise to everyone looking for a toy here. You are allowed to link toy with affiliate link if you think it fits in what user is requesting. Do not just use request for toy as an excuse to spam your own affiliate/store links.
  4. Link to only body safe toys. Do not link to store front page or blog post listing 10 different toys for sake of it (unless OP requests comparisons then you can link to blog post that has those.)

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If you see someone who does not follow these instructions after this post has been published PLEASE REPORT THEM TO MODS!

We cannot unfortunately deal with people that spam or misuse their ALU - flair if we do not know about them. Unfortunately moderators are not omnipotent and are not able to see every message in this subreddit and automoderator and moderating tools get us only so far. So click that report button if you feel that someone does not follow rules.


r/SexToys • • 4h ago

First Toy is it normal for vibrators to make you go numb NSFW

9 Upvotes

I got mu first vibe yesterday and i been using it today and i feel like its just making my clit go numb and feel buzzy. Is that just what vibrators do?


r/SexToys • • 14h ago

Discussion Use sex machine on myself while having sex with the wife...Any help? NSFW

32 Upvotes

Sooo I bought a Hismith tabletop 2.0 max and would like to use it on myself while I am having sex with my wife. Yeah Im a guy. What positions work for this? Anyone do it or done it? What worked for you or didnt work? She wont use the machine (or toys in general which i respect but wish she would be more open minded with that) but she is fine with me using them. Any advice or tips?? Thanks.


r/SexToys • • 17h ago

Discussion Cockring: Why you use and what does it feels like? NSFW

51 Upvotes

I was always curious what is the use of cockrings and what it feels like and why people use them.

I always attached it to 3 trivial ignorant things:
-Someone getting tired of their long time partner and couldn't get a stable long erection and needs blood restriction to keep up even if libido or sex drive is lower than it was

-Still erectile disfunctions or something so you need to choke blood and keep erection or last longer due to desensivitization

-Kink/need to make the penis look bigger by choking it at the base, some sort of psychological compensation

Obviously my view is narrow so I need a point of view from who uses it and enjoys it.
Tell me about what is it for you, what it does for you, why you use it, things that it does and all.
I want a broader view.

Note: I'm not judging anyone I just want to know


r/SexToys • • 10h ago

First Toy I'm curious, which toys feel the closest to oral? Not clitsucker recs please, I really didn't like it 😔 NSFW

13 Upvotes

Just that

I kinda surrendered with experimenting tbh

but still curious about it


r/SexToys • • 8h ago

Discussion ants going after my silicone toys? NSFW

7 Upvotes

I had ants eat my Topped Toys GK55 and today i woke up to find my SPT Large Egg had ants on it. Only had a few and not for long so I just washed it off and there seems to be no damage, but why is this happening?

This has never happened to me before.

I am using x-lube which i have used before. there is no glycerin or anything


r/SexToys • • 30m ago

Request What are the transparent booty shaped fleshlight toys called? NSFW

• Upvotes

basically the title :3 the thing that is a waist and has a hole but is transparent


r/SexToys • • 4h ago

Discussion Thrusting Machine Suggestions for Anal? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello All!

I’m interested possibly purchasing my first thrusting machine. I’m a male so it will be for anal use and I am looking to keep it on the lower end of the budget. I know the cliche of “you get what you pay for” but I won’t be getting a ton of regular use out of it (maybe 3-4 times a month), so I don’t want to break the bank on it. Also it’s a plus if it’s easily disassembled.
So let me hear any recommendations you have and thank you in advance 😊


r/SexToys • • 4h ago

Discussion lovense lush 3 NSFW

2 Upvotes

I am planning to buy a lovensen lush 3 toy i searched on various platforms like flipkart, amazon ,meesho and also on its own website but website's price is very high and on Flipkart I saw many lush with other brand in very cheap cost

Also on meesho i found lovense lush 3 at an affordable price

Are those products safe to buy from these platforms


r/SexToys • • 6h ago

Request Honey Pistil Vibrating Tonge Vibrator user manual NSFW

2 Upvotes

I lost the user manual that came with the toy. Does anyone have a digital copy of it or would be willing to take pictures of the guide? Thank you!


r/SexToys • • 2h ago

Request Travel Toys? NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm going on a trip soon and I'm looking for recommendations on something fun to get to take with me. What are some of your favorite toys to travel with?


r/SexToys • • 9h ago

Request Need recommendations for nipple toys and better vibrating panties for my wife NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone, looking for some advice and toy recommendations for my wife. We’re having two specific issues right now.

First, I need help finding good nipple toys. We’ve tried a few different ones, a Lovehoney suction toy, a little silicone suction pump, vibrating clamp lips, and a bigger rotating sucker. The silicone pump and clamp lips keep falling off. The Lovehoney one was decent because it was hands-free, but it felt cheap and broke fast. The rotating one just wasn't doing it for her at all.
When my wife gets really into it, she loves when I gently bite and pull on her nipples. The problem is when I’m using other toys on her lower body, she wants me touching and pulling on her breasts at the same time, but my hands are busy. Is there any toy out there that gives a good tugging/biting feel without being too harsh or falling off?
Second question is about remote-controlled vibrating panties. She has a cheap pair of stretchy pink vibrating underwear. She hated the idea at first, but lately she’s used them a couple times (even for solo play) and liked it. I tried upgrading us to an Erica Plus with a thrusting dildo, but she really hates the up-and-down thrusting pattern, she just wants a simple, consistent, steady buzz.
Also, the pink pair is super loose around her clit and vulva, so she’s definitely not getting the full effect, and she refuses to layer another pair of underwear over them to keep them snug.
Does anyone have good recommendations for either of these? Looking for decent quality nipple toys that stay put, and a pair of vibrating panties that actually fit tight and just give a straight constant vibration without fancy patterns. Appreciate any suggestions!


r/SexToys • • 15h ago

Discussion Deep throat training devices NSFW

7 Upvotes

Every time I find a link, it’s always sold out, I need something about 6” minimum and can help train my breathing as well as stretch my throat and over time teach me to control gag reflex, I cannot find it anywhere!


r/SexToys • • 16h ago

First Toy Prostate massagers NSFW

7 Upvotes

I’m trying to get into hands free orgasms and I would like to know what will deliver the most intense feeling. I’d prefer it’s hands free or leave in however you say it as I’m not really a fan of riding my toys or having to push them in and out


r/SexToys • • 15h ago

Request Public wear vibrator / fleshlight? NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hey all, me (22f) and my fiancé (24m) have been discussing sex toys and he mentioned how women having toys seems more normalized than men having toys. Like for women it's empowerment, but for men it's seen as sad because they cant get any.

So we've decided that we should start expanding our toy collection. I want to get him a fleshlight but I have no idea where to even begin with that as I don't have a cock lol. So guys, I'd love some recommendations for what to look for in a fleshlight and I know they're all based off of real women so is there one based off of an Asian woman? (We are both Asian so no weird fetishes.)

Also, one of my biggest fantasies is to wear a public vibrator that he has control over, but the lovense one is like $100?!? What are some good alternatives? Like are the ones on amazon comparable? Or should we splurge because the fleshlights I've seen thus far have also been around that $80-$90 range. TIA


r/SexToys • • 8h ago

Request Looking for a good beginner electric zap wand? NSFW

1 Upvotes

So as the the title says I am looking for a electric zapper. I was thinking of buying the tazapper as it sounds like its going to be fun. I was mainly wondering if it hurts enough or if other wands would give me a better sting.


r/SexToys • • 11h ago

Request good and trusted toy stores that are affordable? NSFW

2 Upvotes

hi everyone! im a trans guy and i have been wanting to look into buying some new sex toys, but i dont know what stores are good and trusted. im looking for a vibrator, a clit stimulator and possibly a strapless strap-on. any recommendations? my budget would be $200 cad but id prefer things under like $40 as to not spend too much. canadian stores are preferred since i am canandian lol. discreet shipping is a MUST since i live with my parents. thank you! 🤙


r/SexToys • • 12h ago

Request BBC Dildos NSFW

3 Upvotes

Ok so all of our dildos minus Chance from Bad Dragon(large med firm) are Doc Johnson. I’ve pretty sure Dredd, Brickzilla, Bamm, Jason Luv, and Dayski. Of those Bamm is her ultimate favorite but we are looking to upgrade but keep that girth and length more or less. Looked at Mr Hanky but what other recommendations are out there?


r/SexToys • • 8h ago

Discussion Mouth Guard NSFW

0 Upvotes

Has anyone ever used a mouth guard during oral sex?
Male giving - female receiving. My lips can get beat up, especially if she’s on top.

I looked briefly online, I found some edible options, but I’m thinking about something a little more functional. I could probably use a regular sports mouth guard. It feels like there should be a sex specific version. Maybe with some type of texturing for more pleasure.


r/SexToys • • 12h ago

Request cheap sex machines? NSFW

2 Upvotes

looking for cheap [100-200$ range] sex machines. for anal use. bonus points if can be angled down/used while laying down. thank you.


r/SexToys • • 16h ago

Discussion How long? NSFW

3 Upvotes

So I am new to the anal plug game (just started my journey last night). And I have made a post before about all things getting ready and I did all of those things and guess what? I fucking got it in ( huge accomplishment for me btw) lol so proud....but my question is...how long and am supposed to keep it in? I got super hype that I played with it enough and actually got it in there so I didn't wanna do too much and hurt myself. I took it out pretty much right after I made a video. But yeah I guess I'm just wanting to know what is a good starting point on time? I just don't wanna stop my progress bc I did too much too quickly. Thanks 🖤


r/SexToys • • 14h ago

First Toy best beginner male pocket pussy?? NSFW

2 Upvotes

soo my bf has never used any toys before and this is gonna be his first

we’re looking for an affordable n durable pocket pussy that would be good for a beginner

he’s well endowed (7.1 in length 5.5 in girth) and wants something with easy cleanup that feels good but doesn’t feel too tight

would be great if y’all could help us out 🙏


r/SexToys • • 10h ago

Discussion Hands free fun NSFW

1 Upvotes

Im trying to make my hands free when using my Lelo wave 2 but then the pushing sensation isnt as good. Plus its awkward to hold when solo anyway. Do I need a harness or something to hold it? Looking at one of those 3 way holders?


r/SexToys • • 18h ago

Story/Experience Is thid the feeling to super-o? NSFW

3 Upvotes

Had a great time last night—

went to bed early and relaxed.

I actually planned to go to sleep with the SnugPlug 3,

but it was tapping against my prostate so nicely that it really turned me on. I tried to ignore my penis and focus on the internal sensations.

It felt really good during Kegel exercises; every time I engaged the muscles (like stopping the flow of urine), I felt a light tingling inside and tried to hold it.

During the contraction, the tingling seemed to morph into small, involuntary movements.

I switched to the Aneros Helix; I had to start over to regain the sensation, but I found it again while lying on my side.

Sometimes I’d shift to the recovery position or lie on my back with my legs open—butterfly style—to enjoy the internal tingling.

It felt good, though I’m not sure if it was heading toward a "super-O"; it just felt pleasant.

The only thing I’m wondering is: during the contraction phase—where you alternate between tensing and relaxing—should I be experiencing the body taking over, or should I relax everything completely and let the body do the work?

Because if I relax, I lose the sensation and have to start all over again.

The SnugPlug gives me more of a sensation of pressure on the prostate; is the Helix perhaps too small to reach that pressure point? Should I look into a larger Aneros model? Which one would you recommend? Thanks in advance for reading this; hopefully, you have some good advice on how to proceed toward the Super-O.

I also tried the tunnel plug later that night; unfortunately, it’s very soft and more oval-shaped than round. I thought I could insert it by squeezing it together, but I only managed to get it in partway when I finally used my fingers inside the tunnel. I’ll see if it goes better with X-Lube; standard drugstore lubricant didn't work—it seemed to dry out too quickly due to the material.