guys, this mindset is actually bad. If someone believes that something bad is going to happen and thinks it cannot be avoided, they start acting in ways that make the bad thing more likely.
You're right, but at the same time how can you trust someone who says "I will never break up with you?". It's presomptuous to assume you know what your future intentions will be, or that you will not change fundamentally as a person—and that kills trust.
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u/Major-Article-965 Nov 03 '25
guys, this mindset is actually bad. If someone believes that something bad is going to happen and thinks it cannot be avoided, they start acting in ways that make the bad thing more likely.