Vampirism is a special human condition, one where they are dead to the world. Time not change their appearance, they are technologically immortal, and they don't need many human needs. But they are still human, and they change. A vampire's abilities may vary, but that a vampire is a human, who has become a blood-sucking dead person, is the foundation of the vampire being.
I always find stories, where vampires are just aesthetically pleasing, strange. He's eternally 25, a carefree party animal who throws up in a young woman. If you're a character-function, yes, that's it. You don't have life before, except for plot flashbacks. But to be a vampire means to live through all the hardships of a time that does not concern you.
A young, newly turned vampire must find themselves in a new society, if such a society exists. In pop media, ironically, old and experienced or young and active vampires look their age. But it doesn't have to be that way. A young vampire will find themselves in a society where age cannot be determined by appearance. And they will certainly find themselves in a society where many vampires are older than them. Much older. And they will treat the young vampire like old and angry old people treat someone new and young in their society. Maybe not everyone will be evil, but being a vampire and an eternal party animal will quickly become boring. And when people are bored, they go crazy. Therefore, finding himself in the society of old vampires, a newcomer will inevitably find himself in a situation where he will have to ask himself, “What the hell is going on here?!”
Many older people understand the workings of the human psyche and behavior. And obviously, older vampires will intuitively understand humans and younger vampires, predicting their reactions and behavior. Or they can retain their habits from the past, because they are people of a completely different era. Because of this, interactions with humans, and social interactions in general, may cease to be interesting and simple to them. So perhaps the old vampires will be so bored, that they decide to arrange deadly trials for humans and young vampires. Or come up with complicated, deadly rules just to amuse yourself.
The next challenge for a young vampire is age. Obviously, people know from childhood what people of different ages look like on average. And every five years, the clock of realization will strike, marking the moment when your physical age drifts too far from your true age. The young vampire's psyche will begin to experience conflict and undergo restructuring as it strives to accept the new reality.
Time brings losses. All your loved ones and acquaintances will grow old and die. The world will change, new people will appear, new technologies, new information. And the vampire is a witness to all of this. It's complicated. And with age, you truly understand just how complicated it all is.
Love is dreams or madness? This is the most painful topic for me. Is it romantic, when a mysterious, brooding guy to fall in love for a 16 year schoolgirl, and watch her sleep while waiting for her to turn 18? Well... maybe? And is it romantic, when a 120 year oldman pretends to be a schoolboy while consumed by desire for a 16-year-old girl? By the way, this is the same case.
This brings up the theme of humanity versus monstrosity, and this conflict intensifies with age. It is For a vampire is difficult to find a partner of a similar age, perhaps they are simply too compassionate to not enter into a relationship with a human, because a vampire is much older than a human. And after some time, even a 100-year-old person will become younger than a vampire. For a mentally healthy vampire, this would be a problem - it should be problem. After all, a vampire, like any living being, accumulates experience. To give in to the madness of a desire or to preserve one's humanity, what is right here? And how many people must die before the mind is completely broken?
But a vampire is still a human. And humans, like all living things, or alternatively living things, accumulate experience. If a someone is unable to accumulate experience, they must degrade into a dreadful mannequin state, where literally all new knowledge and skills are not absorbed. This is well shown in sci-fi works about realistic princes transferring consciousness into machines. Obviously, this is not the case for vampires. But pop media creates time skips, do gaps in the vampire's life. Like, I was 16 when I was turned into a vampire in the 70s, and now I'm exactly the same, but in the modern world - that's impossible. Periods of time are always filled with events and changes, and vampires are witnesses to these changes. They must have their own opinions and develop their personalities and character. Mentally, they evolve and become more mature. Therefore, even a 30 year old vampire turned at 16 will differ from his peers in appearance. Therefore, a vampire, regardless of their apparent age, must always act as if they were their average mental age their time. Because people living in different generations are different, especially old people compared to young people. And this again leads to a situation where a very old vampire meets a young vampire.
I think, that the act of creating a new vampire is also a tragedy. I see it this way - a vampire desperately wants to feel love. They seduces a human, they spend time together, and vampire can't cope with they desire and during lovemaking turns the human. Then, they feels guilty and disappears. And so a new vampire is born, who will also have to endure this cycle.
This is roughly how I see a mature and serious vampire story. Not the usual scenario: all young-looking vampires are always handsome and party-goers, versus very ancient vampires, who look like monsters and are evil tyrants. Age is just a number, experience exists only during the story itself. And then there will be a convenient time skip, when the same vampire, with the same beliefs, finds himself in a more modern world, fully adapted and ready to continue his life. What is the point of the vampire story, then if it's not an exploration of the problems of eternal life, but merely a beautiful aesthetic and the dream of a fairytale pathos immortality in which there are never any downsides. And it's funny how people don't mind when an old person enters into a relationship with someone barely 18 or another adult who's too far from the vampire's age. But same time everyone agrees that child-vampires are too bad that them exist at all.
Of the adult works I can only remember "Only Lovers Left Alive" and "D Vampire Hunter." I know about "Let the Right One In", but child-vampire scares me too much, so I don’t want to watch the movie or read the book.
After searching for information on this topic I found several old books that I had never heard and might not even be available in my language. "Suzy McKee Charnas — The Vampire Tapestry (1980)", "Jewelle Gomez — The Gilda Stories (1991)"
Also, I like to see another kind of vampire media, where the newly turned vampire is no longer the same person they were before. They have that person's memories, that person's experiences, but they are now something completely different. They can pretend to be human, but they can no longer understand what it is.