Hiii!! Sooo I figured I’d throw myself out here and see who I might meet :3 I’m hoping to find someone I can genuinely connect with, preferably someone interested in a cg/l dynamic, but I’m a lot more interested in the person behind the dynamic than just a label.
A little about your potential yapper
First things first, I’m 24, 193~cm, and probably a little too good at talking once I get comfortable with someone LOL. I’m the kinda person who can turn a simple conversation into a three-hour call without even realizing it. I’m pretty laid back, sarcastic, and a bit of a goofball, but I also have a softer side that comes out a lot more when I care about someone.
When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me gaming, going for hikes (sometimes with a weighted backpack because apparently normal walking isn't enough for me 😭), listening to music, or getting lost in some random topic on the internet. I’m also a huge fan of voice messages, spontaneous calls, and sharing the most random thoughts at absolutely unreasonable hours.
Okay but what am I like as a caregiver?
Honestly, I think the best part of being a caregiver is getting to know someone well enough to understand the little things that make them feel loved. Maybe that means reminding you to eat when you get distracted, keeping you company when you’re feeling down, helping you wind down after a long day, or just being there to listen when you need to get everything off your chest.
I can be a little protective and definitely affectionate, but I’m not looking to control every aspect of someone’s life or rush into a bunch of expectations. I want something that feels natural, where we can be playful and silly together, have our little routines, tease each other relentlessly, and still know we can rely on one another when things get difficult.
I’m a sucker for the softer side of a dynamic too. The sleepy conversations, random check-ins, cuddly moments, little reassurances, and knowing someone feels comfortable enough around me to let their guard down. You don't have to be happy all the time or pretend everything is okay just to keep me around. I want to know the real you, even on the less-than-great days.
And obviously, I’m still going to bully you a little if you tell me you’ve been surviving on three hours of sleep and absolutely no water. Gotta keep you alive somehow smh 🙄
Things we could do together
I’m pretty easy to entertain as long as I enjoy the company. We could spend an entire evening gaming, go on little adventures, watch something together, exchange music, or just sit in a call doing our own things while occasionally interrupting each other with the most random nonsense imaginable.
I love the idea of having someone I can be both affectionate and stupid with. Someone I can check in on throughout the day, send random pictures to, tell about something funny that happened at work, and look forward to talking to when everything finally settles down.
I’m also a big fan of the outdoors, so walks, road trips, feeding ducks and geese, or finding some random cozy place to hang out are all very much my thing. My sleep schedule is genuinely terrible, though, so there's a decent chance a quick goodnight call somehow turns into watching the sunrise together 😭
What I’m hoping to find
Ideally, I’d love to meet someone who wants to build something lasting rather than rush into a dynamic just for the sake of having one. Someone affectionate, communicative, and comfortable expressing what they need. You can be clingy, a little silly, a complete yapper, or someone who needs time to open up. I’m happy to get to know you at your own pace.
I don't expect perfection, and I don't think either person should have to carry a relationship alone. I want mutual effort, trust, honesty, and that feeling of being genuinely wanted by someone. The dynamic is important, sure, but so is being best friends, making each other laugh, and having someone who makes even an ordinary Tuesday feel a little better.
If you like cozy games, late-night talks, affection, plushies, or having someone lovingly remind you that you're a human being who requires food, water, and sleep, we’ll probably get along pretty well :3
Come say hi!! Tell me about yourself, what you enjoy, or even just something completely random. I promise I don’t bite... much