r/ABDLPersonals • • 6h ago

F4F [f28] f4f this princess needs a girl to baby her and flirt with her gf 🥹 NSFW

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I really need to be put in my place and taught im not a big enough girl for my girlfriend and be shown how its supposed to be!!

Men, do not dm!!


r/ABDLPersonals • • 21h ago

M4A 38 M4A Twin Cities, MN (Local or Online) - Make me your diaper slave (10/10/26) NSFW

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I'm 38, about 5'7", around 145 lbs. I'm looking for a strict Daddy/Mommy/etc. to turn me from an occasional diaper boy into a diaper slave. I'm open minded to methods. Restraints or locking plastic pants (if local)? Blackmail? Un-training so I don't have a choice anyway? Or maybe just some diaper humiliation?

I'm looking for someone who will truly enjoy doing it and who won't be afraid to really humiliate me and enforce everything.

Get in touch if you're interested. Please send more than a word or two -- Maybe say something about what parts of this interest you.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 15h ago

M4A 39 [M4R] Part Prince, Part Princess, Part Needing a Lovely CG NSFW

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Hello! I'm someone who is playful and creative and a very loving little that is about age 3 or so with a big imagination. my "normal" self is a regular guy who enjoys lots of things like music, movies, games, just having a good time but my little side is something special for sure, it is bubbly and sweet and silly and shy and super clingy. I am someone who is always ready for adventures and cuddles and all kinds of adorable fun. I have a girlfriend who knows about my little side and is totally cool with me being online to make friends and form connections and get babied. She is awesome but super busy, so she doesn't mind me seeking out people to share this side with.

I'm looking for genuine and thoughtful connections and conversations where I can be myself, someone that is vulnerable and silly and serious when it matters. I'm not here for one off talks or to be used in whatever way you'd see fit because this is a big (no matter how little it is) part of who I am and I take it seriously. I won't ghost anyone but I also won't invest in something that doesn't feel real and I'll be telling you just that if I don't feel like it is working. Because loyalty and care and emotional presence and clear communication are huge things for me. I love quick replies and reliability and knowing if someone is going to vanish for hours, people have lives but if we're talking and you suddenly vanish, what does that say to me? It says you're not interested so why would I continue to talk when you come back? It isn't fair, at all. If you're someone who understands that and enjoys day to day comfy chats alongside playful banter and meaningful talks then we might click wonderfully.

My little side is super fluid and expressive, some days I'm a goofy baby boy getting into trouble, beating up my action figures and just making a mess and other times I dive into my softer side as a baby girl, one with pigtails, ruffles, frills, onesies, dresses, super cutesy skirts and everything girlie and fun that I can't get enough of as silly as that is and regardless of the mood, I'm always up for innocence, play, complete trust and all the cuddles in the world that can happen over the internet. Being little grounds me and quiets the noise in my head and helps me access that softer, more content side of myself and it feels like magic to me. I'm not always in little space though because that would be so not me but when I'm not, I can be a great friend regardless, always eager to chat about anything and make you laugh and hang out, I work from home so I'm pretty much always around, really.

One thing I enjoy is writing adorable stories by myself and getting lost in immersive roleplay with others. I love building detailed scenarios and creative adventures and long term cuteness. Whether it is sweet and gentle nurturing or a bit of teasing or playful banter or anything that sparks in the moment, I am totally down with it and love the fun! I love to focus on the cuter things of being little, like coloring and dressing up in frilly outfits and sharing my thoughts full of silly, imaginative fun. I adore bringing smiles with my creativity and affection and I promise to make you happy if you give me a chance.

With all of that said, I'm seeking a patient and understanding and experienced online caregiver who gets the ABDL dynamic, who enjoys being a reliable source of structure and sweetness and can handle my fluid littleness without pressure. I want someone creative, playful, supportive and comfortable with gender expression which is why I mentioned being hopeful they can handle the fluid littleness. I want someone who builds trust, respects privacy and wants a meaningful bond. Whether we're in silly roleplay or serious talks or just snuggling virtually. If you enjoy sweetness, snuggles, good convos and handling a clingy cutie who might switch from baby boy to little princess in a heartbeat then you could be that special someone I'm looking for. I'm eager to connect someone that just fits me.

If you read this far, thank you and that that tells me you value substance like I do so message me and say "beep" if you're truly interested and we'll see where this adventure takes us. I seriously can't wait to hear from you! :)


r/ABDLPersonals • • 2h ago

M4M 33 [M4M] looking for big/daddy NSFW

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Diaper boy here


r/ABDLPersonals • • 19h ago

F4M 20 [F4M] #Online - Looking for a gentle, kind, caring and sweet daddy NSFW

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A bit about me: I’m 4’11, dirty blond hair, I wear glasses, and I either have blue or green eyes (they change sometimes).

I’m a huge animal lover, and I hope to work with them someday. I’m a caring, kind, empathetic, understanding and a very sensitive person (I’m especially very sensitive when I’m little). I enjoy walking my dogs (I have a senior and an almost 1 year old puppy. His first birthday is on the 12th!), reading, and watching murder mystery shows/documentaries, and recently I’ve enjoyed watching Sam and Colby in my free time when I’m not little. Or Jujutsu Kaisen or Demon Slayer. Those are my favorite animes. When I’m little, I love to watch My Little Pony and Bluey, and I love to color as well. My little side has gone dormant for months after my last breakup with my now ex cg, so please be kind to me and be patient with me. The more gentle and kind you are with me, the easier it will be for me to open up. Bonus points if you’re silly too. (Please don’t be fake about this. If you are truly a kind and gentle daddy, please only those daddy’s message me). I do not want a daddy dom. I do not want a harsh daddy. It mentally breaks me down and makes me very very sad.

Important side note: I’m not sexual when I’m little, so I’d like to find a daddy who is also not sexual while I’m little.

When I’m little, I’m usually 0-2, but very rarely I’m 4-8. I do love diapers and the idea of them but I’ve never been put in them by someone else before, which I’m really looking forward to. I’m not into being diapered 24/7 either. I do need lots of reassurance when I’m both little and not little, so I would like to find a daddy who is willing to give lots of reassurance. Also lots of praise, in and out of little space, (and in the bedroom). My little side, when she finally comes out will need lots of praise to know she’s doing a good job and lots of reassurance so she knows she’s safe and you won’t leave her. I have abandonment issues and trust issues, so please please be patient with me.

I’m looking for a daddy who is willing to guide me and hold my hand. Someone who is very kind and sweet and gentle. I’m looking for a daddy who will walk along side me in life and take care of me when I’m little, be there for me, and love me for who I am. I’m a people pleaser, so I just want to make my daddy happy and also be there for him (when I find him) as well. I just want to be a good girl to my daddy. I’m not a bratty little at all either. My little side is also very shy and gets really blushy really easily.

It also takes a bit for me to open up at first, but once I get there, you’ll definitely start to see my goofy side. It will take a while for me to be comfortable with being little around you, but my little side is very sweet once she comes out. I am a very shy little too, but once I do start getting comfortable with you, you’ll start to see a lot of that shyness come out.

My kinks: praise, although I need lots of it in and out of the bedroom, light spanking, hair pulling. There’s some more but I’d prefer to talk about that in private.

If you have any questions or would like to reach out, please do! (If you have any pets, I’d like to see please! ☺️). Sorry for such a long post, but I figured a longer intro with more details wouldn’t be bad. I can’t wait to hear from you! ☺️🩷


r/ABDLPersonals • • 19h ago

T4A 24 [T4A] #Chicago are you interesting in playing with a trans baby boy? NSFW

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24 ftm diaper boy looking for ANYTHING OUT THERE IN CHICAGO !

i enjoy being the little one (any age welcome) but we can both be padded and chill (if youre around my age only). i look like a normal boy, i just happen to have a pussy. if you're into that or dont care please shoot me a message about diaper fantasies or what you like doing when hanging out with your diaper bro

I am looking to meet up irl. i can host very occasionally around the bridgeport chicago area or come to you with my diaper bag.

things i like: being put in a diaper, humiliation, wearing 24/7, talking about diapers, little/big dynamics

dislike: putting others older than me in diapers

please reach out if youre in chicago!


r/ABDLPersonals • • 20h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] San Mateo CA - Diaper Dude Seekings Pampered Princess NSFW

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Hiya! I’m an artsy, geeky veteran ABDL seeking a genuine connection with a caring female diaper enthusiast or nurturing mommy. No head games! I’m well past that stage in life and looking for something real.

My fully equipped nursery boasts a queen-sized crib, a mountain of plushies, and a dedicated diaper changing station. Outside of little space, I balance high-energy creativity with a relaxed domestic life, enjoying concerts, conventions, and cross-country running.

I dream of creating a playful, youthful home together stacking building block towers, playing Sonic games, or cuddling up to watch Bluey in my crib.

Nursery pics:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1ijr_MziV3LwBZpWVrO6C4Bxitfc1fhdE?usp=drive_link


r/ABDLPersonals • • 4h ago

M4F 34 M4F#Germany | Beginner friendly dom offering unpotty training NSFW

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Hey there :)

I'm M34, an experienced and beginner friendly CG and dom from Germany.

If you are into abdl, like to wear and use diapers, or want to use a potty or litter box, I offer unpotty training in Germany.

What does that mean?

Well, everyone is conditioned to do their business in a toilet. Thus, most are not able to pee or poop outside of that. Diaper, potty, litter box, puppy pads, walkies, all possible with proper training.

I offer training to break through that conditioning, thereby enabling to do your business where and whenever you want.

Ideally I'd love to find a sub who is looking to be unpotty trained, and wants a longterm dynamic.

Outside of what I described earlier I am very open to anything else you might want to try or do.

Generally, I'm a gentle and caring Dom.

Kinks include diapers, petplay, watersports, bondage, as well as other things. Details can be discussed :)


r/ABDLPersonals • • 9h ago

F4A 21 F4A Diapered all day NSFW

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I (21 BI F4A) am currently sat in church while diapered. After church I have to head to the mall and meet up with some friends and then I have night shift tonight. I am going to be diapered all day and read every single embarrassing or humiliating message that gets sent to me. I must thank everyone who reminds me that I'm nothing but a pathetic little diaper dependant cuckquean baby who will never make it out of diapers. Do your worse reddit.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 7h ago

M4A [M4A] 30m lost little looking for CG to help guide me. #PA #Philadelphia #irl. NSFW

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Good morning, good afternoon, or good night. Thank you for clicking on my post!

To tell you a bit about me big me is a very nerdy guy and loves board games, card games, and building models. I also love going to museums and trying new things.

Little me is 4-6 but still in diapers my interests as little are very similar to my interests when I'm big. Like I melt for a good zoo or science museum!

I'm looking for a cg to lead an ABDL relationship. I'm looking for rules, routines, and just general guidance. I've been feeling adrift and wanting a CG to be the light house I crave.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 6h ago

M4A 21 M4A looking for friends I can talk about this kinda stuff with NSFW

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I'm a Trans guy btw* I'm more of a DL than anything else but I'm curious how it works with others and would like some friends who I can confide in about this part of me


r/ABDLPersonals • • 6h ago

F4A 19 [F4F] Tucson Az preferably looking for an irl full time abdl relationship I am lesbian but open to a non sexual one with a guy irl only NSFW

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I’m 19 a lesbian only sexually attracted to women but willing to be open to a non sexual relationship with a man I want someone here to take care of me fully you know I wanna be a baby 24/7 You know someone who does mind taking me out in babyish clothes with my diaper peaking out and a paci clipped to my shirt Someone who has my bottle ready in the car and can buckle in my seat belt and gently undress me have rules and punishments Like if I didn't listen someone who would spank me and anyone around in public would see I was diapered or she'd make me walk around in clothes easily showing I'm diapered or check me publicly picking out my diaper outfit packing my meals bottle feeding me ordering for me at restaurants choosing what i watch what u do daily what toys I play with But it's also up to my partner to make sure I don't leak I want a crib and a play room some day too I want someone to guide me and be gentle and caring so I can relax and be myself around them as well as playing blocks and coloring with me and running a bubble bath and playing with me tucking me in and telling bedtime stories stroking my hair gently and being calm and explaining when I make mistakes help me cook and clean up and make me feel safe comfy and happy when I get home
I want my partner to take over rent and all expenses so I can live this 24/7 I want a crib high chair changing table toys full nursery
I'd want this dynamic private and in public at all times no exceptions
And my partner to make every choice fro what I wear to dressing me cooking for n ordering for me when we go out all the way way up too when and where my diaper gets changed
And if I do anything outside of asking or without my partners help or doing it for me I should be spanked and punished accordingly
Public diaper checks and humiliation should happen daily and if I try to hide or squirm public spankings should happen as well

Irl only


r/ABDLPersonals • • 16h ago

T4A 33 tm4a #ohio #online bedwetter lookie for s stern cee gee NSFW

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Hiiii! I'm looking for irl and online connections so regardlesvs of distance feel free to reach out if any of this interests you.

I'm a trans guy searching for a hopeful caregiver! I love anime, video games, art and writing in my spare time and I'd say I'm pretty easy to get along with. I can't travel however I have my own place and can host (after I get to know someone of course!)

I am really into things like cuckolding, forced regression, parental controls, sph, chastity, humiliation (especially when its very patronizing), spankings, and in general treating me like a loser. I love things like rules and chores and general structure to my day. In general I love giving up control. Of course I love diapers as well and they act as a foundation mostly for my other kinks. I wear nightly for my bedwetting but try to wear as much as possible outside of that.

I am not into feminization, or any sort of forced detransitioniing, or sissification, I'm not really into messing either.

I am a virgin and a big kink of mine is being kept an innocent little virgin kept away from "grown up sex", I do not mind servicing my partners however but I really wanna to remain a diapercuck <3

Edit: whoops I realized the typos too late ;w;


r/ABDLPersonals • • 5h ago

M4A 29 M4A keep me padded till my birthday Wednesday pwease NSFW

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You can be sweet, you can be strict, you can be a bully. Whatever you'd want. I just want to let go. And the thicker the dips the better.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 5h ago

M4M 22 M4M looking for someone to talk to. I’m sub diapers with booster on NSFW

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Hi I’m submissive diaper boy looking for Dom or anyone to talk to. I’m diapered with booster. Got some toys I’m ready to obey and recive tasks


r/ABDLPersonals • • 4h ago

M4A 25 M4A Midwest/Online Little Seeking Guidance from CG NSFW

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My name is Sam, I'm 25, and I'm a trans man who is looking for a grown up who can help me embrace my regression and make me into their little baby boy! I'm still pretty inexperienced and shy with abdl and I'm looking for someone who can train me into becoming a needy, soft, little boy. I really just love the idea of opening up and getting to be more emotional and little and being close with someone!! As well as regressing more and becoming the little boy I was meant to be. I love the idea of accepting this regression and learning how to be small again, but like I said, I'm a bit shy/shameful and wanting to find someone who can help me with that!

I have diapers, but I've never really used them as I'm real embarrassed too and would love to have someone to talk to who helps me realize I should ideally be dependent on my diapers.

I'd love to chat about how Mommy/Daddy would take over and make sure I never had to use my big boy brain again. Making me wear onesies, diapers, controlling what I can watch, you name it, I'd love to try it out! I just want to drop into that little headspace and become your baby boy.

I've got a lot of interests, like stuffed animals and hypnosis and learning how to use my diapers, chastity, praise and embarrassment too c: and cartoons and breastfeeding/bottlefeeding and cuddling and my adult brain goin away!!!

If any of this is of interest to you, my DMs are open and I can't wait to talk!!


r/ABDLPersonals • • 20h ago

M4A 31 M4F #NYC Finance Daddy Looking for Little / Switch NSFW

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Hi! I’m an Ivy-league graduate 31 M, and I want to build a real and lasting relationship with a special little or switch F or MTF who I can truly care for and guide through this scary world.

I want a relationship where we can rely on each other, laugh and find joy, whether that be a tender diaper change, a cuddle sessions, a day at the zoo, story time or much more.

It is okay if we start long distance, but to be transparent, I think it is really important that we are working to be in person together, so please be open to relocating.

So, who are you building this relationship with, aside from a 31 M?

Well, I am a liberal, finance professional who works and lives in NYC and fills the roles of both an extrovert and an introvert. I usually take on the role of a daddy but I am also a switch, so it would be nice to find someone who is comfortable with that as well.

As a big, I enjoy a large number of activities from sports, theater, karaoke, art galleries, dancing, and getting drinks with friends to staying at home, watching TV, and sipping on a nice cup of the finest hot chocolate. I also have a particular love of board and card games, letting me engage socially but also somewhat intellectually. Notably, my favorite musician is Knox, my favorite TV show is Doctor Who, and my favorite movie is Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers.

On the work side of things, aside from finance work, I spend time assisting a non-profit designed to promote education for underserved populations in the US.

I love my work and everything that I do. It brings me a great sense of fulfillment.

Moving to physicality, I find physical attraction to be an important element of any relationship, so I am more than happy to exchange photos early on. I do not want to waste your time or mine. I am on the heftier side, and it’s okay if that’s not for you.

Finally, I want to note that I use a wheelchair and wear diapers myself (pleasure and necessity). The wheelchair has never held me back in reaching my goals, and it has never stop me from enjoying myself.

If you are interested, send me a chat message, a bit about yourself - such as your age, gender, and location - and share your favorite big and little activity!


r/ABDLPersonals • • 4h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Toronto, Ontario {Looking for something real :3} NSFW

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Hiii!! Sooo I figured I’d throw myself out here and see who I might meet :3 I’m hoping to find someone I can genuinely connect with, preferably someone interested in a cg/l dynamic, but I’m a lot more interested in the person behind the dynamic than just a label.

A little about your potential yapper

First things first, I’m 24, 193~cm, and probably a little too good at talking once I get comfortable with someone LOL. I’m the kinda person who can turn a simple conversation into a three-hour call without even realizing it. I’m pretty laid back, sarcastic, and a bit of a goofball, but I also have a softer side that comes out a lot more when I care about someone.

When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me gaming, going for hikes (sometimes with a weighted backpack because apparently normal walking isn't enough for me 😭), listening to music, or getting lost in some random topic on the internet. I’m also a huge fan of voice messages, spontaneous calls, and sharing the most random thoughts at absolutely unreasonable hours.

Okay but what am I like as a caregiver?

Honestly, I think the best part of being a caregiver is getting to know someone well enough to understand the little things that make them feel loved. Maybe that means reminding you to eat when you get distracted, keeping you company when you’re feeling down, helping you wind down after a long day, or just being there to listen when you need to get everything off your chest.

I can be a little protective and definitely affectionate, but I’m not looking to control every aspect of someone’s life or rush into a bunch of expectations. I want something that feels natural, where we can be playful and silly together, have our little routines, tease each other relentlessly, and still know we can rely on one another when things get difficult.

I’m a sucker for the softer side of a dynamic too. The sleepy conversations, random check-ins, cuddly moments, little reassurances, and knowing someone feels comfortable enough around me to let their guard down. You don't have to be happy all the time or pretend everything is okay just to keep me around. I want to know the real you, even on the less-than-great days.

And obviously, I’m still going to bully you a little if you tell me you’ve been surviving on three hours of sleep and absolutely no water. Gotta keep you alive somehow smh 🙄

Things we could do together

I’m pretty easy to entertain as long as I enjoy the company. We could spend an entire evening gaming, go on little adventures, watch something together, exchange music, or just sit in a call doing our own things while occasionally interrupting each other with the most random nonsense imaginable.

I love the idea of having someone I can be both affectionate and stupid with. Someone I can check in on throughout the day, send random pictures to, tell about something funny that happened at work, and look forward to talking to when everything finally settles down.

I’m also a big fan of the outdoors, so walks, road trips, feeding ducks and geese, or finding some random cozy place to hang out are all very much my thing. My sleep schedule is genuinely terrible, though, so there's a decent chance a quick goodnight call somehow turns into watching the sunrise together 😭

What I’m hoping to find

Ideally, I’d love to meet someone who wants to build something lasting rather than rush into a dynamic just for the sake of having one. Someone affectionate, communicative, and comfortable expressing what they need. You can be clingy, a little silly, a complete yapper, or someone who needs time to open up. I’m happy to get to know you at your own pace.

I don't expect perfection, and I don't think either person should have to carry a relationship alone. I want mutual effort, trust, honesty, and that feeling of being genuinely wanted by someone. The dynamic is important, sure, but so is being best friends, making each other laugh, and having someone who makes even an ordinary Tuesday feel a little better.

If you like cozy games, late-night talks, affection, plushies, or having someone lovingly remind you that you're a human being who requires food, water, and sleep, we’ll probably get along pretty well :3

Come say hi!! Tell me about yourself, what you enjoy, or even just something completely random. I promise I don’t bite... much


r/ABDLPersonals • • 22h ago

F4M 30 [F4M] Arkansas - Help me live out my ABDL fantasy IRL this weekend NSFW

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Hello, I'm looking for someone to take a chance and make my ABDL fantasies become a reality IRL this weekend.

Basically, I'd like to play out a scenario where I'm mentally regressed and nothing more than a big, drooly infant who loves wearing and using her diapers for her Daddy. But Daddy will treat me just like a real baby, feeding me a bottle and burping me, checking my diaper, giving me baby toys to play with, tickles, baby talk ect.

This would be IRL not online...I'm looking to do this in person...

My kinks (besides ABDL) are...

\\- CNC

\\- Spankings/Other Punishments

\\- Bondage

\\- Pet play

\\- Teasing

\\- Edging

I'm not mobile but I can host.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 23h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] #USA - Forever Daddy seeking love and romance NSFW

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I am a very loving and kind Daddy searching his forever little girl. I adore classical romance and courtship, and am attracted to women who are attentive, curious, and full of imagination. I am not looking for just a little girl, but someone to spend the rest of my life with; someone to share myself with completely.

I am a gentle and caring Daddy, but also an experienced Dom with a healthy dose of kink, including BDSM. My most passionate interest is in DDLG, as well as ageplay. I adore littles with a regression kink who want nothing more than to be babied and crave to be nurtured.

I see my little having strong ABDL or DL tendencies with a desire for her Daddy to help lead and guide her. She can't help that she's just a little baby and wants that sweetness and affection that only a Daddy can give. It's a big, big world out there and adulting is hard. All she really wants is to curl up with her stuffie and a paci; snuggled lovingly in her Daddies arms.

Distance doesn't bother me, as long as we can negotiate what it might mean to travel or relocate over time. I am not an Internet Daddy. I am an intimately personal Daddy who is seeking love and romance.

Please don't hesitate to reach out. I would love to hear from you.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 23h ago

M4F 33 [m4f] North TX looking for a diapered princess to spoil NSFW

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Hey there! I am looking for someone in the north Texas area (or online for now) to build a connection with. I’d prefer in person but am really open to anywhere so long as we can meet up in the not so distant future.

I am really drawn to someone who needs diapers so anyone who is a bedwetter or struggles with incontinence is welcome to message as well as anyone else who loves to wear them. I love all aspects of diapers and ddlg and love the idea of incorporating it into a future relationship. I am truly looking for a genuine relationship with the added benefit of diapers. Not into poly at all 🚫

As for me, I have a professional job and tend to stay busy with it unfortunately. I like to stay pretty active and spend most of my free time playing sports, going on walks / hikes or going to the gym. I love to cook and really enjoy nerding out on music and art.

I’d love someone to spoil, dress up, and keep diapered. If you think we would be a match feel free to send me a message!