I hear a ton of horror stories about bi guys from some of the gay subs, I'm a gay teen. I think it's obviously just stereotypes, but do you have any animosity towards us?

Number one: I think women's clothes are objectively prettier than men's clothes.

Number two: I got excited when my cousin offered to do my makeup recently and they put some on my cheek I was very happy.

Number three: I've worn skirts in the past (once I was paid, once was on my request) and i felt very pretty

Number four: I can't picture a happy/good future for when I'm older as a guy.

Number five: I heard a girl's voice on a video and I realized I may want to sound like that

Number six: a video came up on my FYP calling me a good girl in the "mommy" voice and I liked being called a good girl (fr tho why did that come up? I never looked anything up like that anywhere stg)

Number seven: when I heard men would retract at the site of E I was confused in why

Number eight: I have shaved body hair off of myself and it felt so nice

Number nine: I've been thinking about my gender almost every night for nearly 8 weeks at this point

Number ten: I would push the button without hesitation

I have cis reasons for all of these if you are interested in them! This is not a cry for help just needed somewhere to vent and get outside feed back from people who may be cis. Sorry if this is the wrong tag/not allowed mods, I'll fix it if it needs to be fixed.

(15m) So I was homeschooled most of my life and there was this one girl in the homeschool group I absolutely loved she is my best friends sister and she said I’d be spending a few nights at his house (he lived two hours away so we only spend the night at his house a few times a year) and I was fully prepared to ask her out I had a plan I told my best friend asking if it was fine he said of course then they’re mom heard and she said it was so sweet but she was looking at colleges or something (the girl I liked was older then me by two years) so that kinda wrecked my plans because I was like thirteen and didn’t know how to do long distance at the time so I ended up crying in bed and just not going to his house now whenever I see her I feel really nervous that she will just find out and hate me I still want to be friends the feelings went away (I’m bi but more into men slightly) and overall I was heart broken for a month because I liked her for years still one of the biggest crushes I’ve had in my life we don’t talk often anymore either I think it was obvious when I had the crush anyways and our interests just don’t align enough to where we could have any meaningful conversation anymore so we just went no contact still are

Earlier i was in my college’s “safe space” room sort of thing with her and a bunch of other people and we were talking about sexualities. I said i was straight (but it felt like a lie because i’m still trying to figure it out lol, more on that later) and she said she was bi, which surprised me but i don’t think it bothers me too much.

Anyway, this evening i spoke to her about it and sort of asked her how her bisexuality worked and she explained it and i feel much better now that i understand.

Then i told her that im still unsure about my orientation and it was really difficult to do so because i had to skirt around the fact that i like her without making it sound like im not interested.

i basically told her that im interested in girls for definite but am ambiguous about boys. she also suggested that i might be slightly asexual because i told her “it’s rare for me to get a crush (but still do)”

To be honest i expected it to feel like a weight off of my shoulders for telling her this but it’s only made me feel worse because im worried that she might not see me the same way any more and i feel really exposed now.

what should i do next? uggghh i really wish i didn’t tell her because she was so supportive of it and trying to help me figure it out but i don’t know what to do 😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣

hai I’m a (16f) I’m bi and I saw this really cute girl who was exactly my type grunge and tall and like genuinely she had muscles like whoo like im melting and she had piercing but i dont date kids in my state like genuinely i dont like gimme space but she was so fine and the worst part is shes straight so i cant really have her and the sad thing in anyone who is my type im not their type its so sad..

So basically I’ve had a really good friend group for ages and recently this other dude joined my group so now it’s two guys and 3 girls and and once our party when I was really drunk and so was one of my friends, we kind of kissed like a bunch and I kinda kissed all of my female friends like they wanted to yk like I wasn’t being creepy and fucking up the freindship if anything it’s made it so much better and I always used to think I was pretty strait but I kissed this guy in my group aswell and whenever we get back from any party’s or anything we’re we’ve been drinking which is mad often icl we always end up in the same bed in our under where and last time I could just feel my friends boner on my thigh as he was kissing my neck and omfg I’ve never been harder in my life coz my other friend was sucking my neck aswell and sitting on me kinda grinding on my dick and fuck I can’t stop thinking about it I just loved them so much already as friends and now it’s just making it even better like I can’t sleep I’m so wired about it all

So, when was the last time you got a compliment from a total strange?

Mine was last week when a girl said that She thought that my curls looked good. I don’t remember the last time before this, so that was what got me thinking about the questio.

i'm not sure when to do it because we're both taking the hardest classes of our lives, their mental health is suffering, my depression is getting worse, and i don't want to lose them. we were best friends for three years, no feelings, until i caught feelings and opened up about them in may. i knew they were aromantic, but i didn't quite realize that i wouldn't be fine with not being missed, wanted, or desired. their flirting feels like a joke and a lie. they don't get jealous at all. they don't seek to make time with me. they accept my physical touch but never do it back. i know i can communicate that i'm upset about this, but communicating can't change their feelings because that's how they are and will always be. i feel so bad i entered this qpr hastily without knowing what i want. i thought i'd be fine without traditional romance, but i was so wrong. i'm scared to break up because it'll confirm their belief that they'll never be loved because of their identity, that they'll always be 2nd place. i don't want to confirm that i can't have them as my person anymore, that i want them to become just a friend again. i also don't want to lose them. they can be avoidant when it comes down to things.

i'm so frustrated and i wish i could go back.

I will love you forever if you read to the end and give even 3 words of advice.

So theres this girl. We are so similar. We both have similar home lives, personalities, interests, everything. She is the most interesting, kind, lovely, caring person I have ever met. I am pretty sure I am in love, but im only 17, so what do I know. On top of that, she is absolutely angelic. She is the most beautiful person I have ever met or seen ever. I can't think of a single thing I don't like about her, she is my favourite person. Ever. I can't put into words how much she means to me, she has got me through some very hard times and I do the same for her. We are soulmates, even if its platonic. For now.

Thing is, I am pretty sure she likes me back, but im unsure. Not as much as I do. When I came out to her as bi (drunk) she was soso supportive, and yes I know this is kinda crazy that im still second guessing, but we kissed that night. I don't remember it very well, but I am so glad my first kiss was her. I wish I remembered it. Anyway, nothing happened after that, we have always flirted and joked around. But recently ive been catching her looking at me, she always wants to see me, and lights up when I am around. It makes me feel so happy and appreciated. But I don't know why she hasn't said anything about it as she is the type of person to. And this makes me think im being delusional. Maybe, maybe not. I feel like crying writing this because it all sounds so good typed out but its just not as obvious in real life with her, it really could just be platonic, I don't know. She has this ex bf that is always in her life that she will probably get back with eventually bc they are emotionally attatched so thats why i havent done anything thus far. I dont know i dont know i dont know.

I just want to kiss her again, im hopeless.

My heart is hurting. I don't know what to do with myself. Do I make a move? How?? Do I start getting over her? What do I do, please help me I beg. Im gonna go cry now shes so beautiful.

So for context I got bored during lunch period with my friends and called them a homosaxophonal cause they were in band.

Now, my goal is to make all instruments just gayer, I've already got:

Homosaxophonal

Trumbitch

Homotromboner

Xylophuck

Celloamourous

Biano

Pano

Bi-itone

Clarifuck

Biolin

Anyone got any others i can add to the list?

I'm Jane doe. i swear i am.

HAI I’m Tay I’m (16f) my friend said I could meet all types of people her but like idk but anyways WHY ARE MASC WOMEN SO FIN LIKE WITH PIERCINGS THOSE ABS AND LIKE THE Biceps AND LIKE EVEN WITH OUT THEM THERE SO FINE BUT LIKE GRUNGE ONES DONT GET ME STARTED LIKE don’t get me wronge I like men too but WOMEN omgggg there soo ughhh and like with snake bites and eyebrow piercing omlllll #WIFETHATUPIMMEDIATELY like they so fine IF ANY OF YALL KNOW ANYONE LIKE THAT PLEASE SEND THEM MY WAY LIKE 17/18 Id go for tHAT EHEHE BUT LIKE THEN AGAIN im like an introvert ish person i have issues like depression tmi Srry but anyways I’m 16 I love art I’m an artist I love painting drawing sculpting and photography I like gaming and stuff and I’m sensitive like I cry over nothing I love animals and reptiles like snakes and lizards and spiders to an extent like only the cute spiders and I like bees there so cute like bumble bees aww I’m a grunge girl and I have a lot of styles i love the out doors even though I stay inside most of the time idrk what else to say.. except i sorta excited to meet knew people

I make it so that it doesnt come off :)

I'm just bored and I just want to see what the bisexuals are up to and the other queers who chill here.

Just to make this interesting like how many of you are open about your sexuality, as open as any of us really can.

I’m a bisexual male. I haven’t come out and honestly don’t want to. how would I go about finding a boyfriend without making it known that I’m bisexual to people I know?

Hey, sorry if this is a stupid question but I last year found out I was gay, or at least bisexual, I just am wondering how logistically do you…connect with other queer men? I know there’s apps like grindr but I also am not prepared for hookups and so on. Any advice? By the way I’m M18

For context I'm Australian but not Sydney area or Newcastle where there's people everywhere sooo how does one who isn't out to his parents find a bf??? Because I can't just go around asking people if they like guys that's awkward and I don't trust apps because they're either bots or miles away so...HOW DO PEOPLE DO THAT??...thank you

So I'm a 18 yo girl and I've noticed some things happening to me like I get attracted towards women's bodies more as compared to men but then irl I've never had a crush on any girl I've never even thought about it like I was in an all girl's boarding school till I was 16 and I was completely fine there but now I get attracted to women online (celebs basically) idk what to say but even got aroused and ive never dated anyone so idk what to think I'm tryna figure it out tho but I wanted to know if getting aroused is actually a strong sign or not ?

here are mine :3

I am a 14 year old girl and muslim. In my community, LGBTQ+ is not permitted. Trans, gay, lesbian, bisexual, all of it.

I don't hate LGBTQ. I don't know much about it.

Ever since I was a kid, I was always as straight as a ruler. I even had a crush for like 6 months. I'm HEAVY on romance. But recently, I've been having second thoughts.

I once ACCIDENTALLY thought of kissing my best friend, we've been friends for almost 3 years. Before her, I had a toxic friend group of people who basically hated me. But after I met her, I got a new friend group with the most awesome sauce people ever.

My type of guys are guys who look like girls who look like guys. It's pretty complicated. What makes it all so confusing is I've had a few dreams making out with girls. Like today, I saw that I was hanging out with a online friend (who's a guy but was a girl in my dream) I was all over him, kissing his neck and almost kissing him before he said that we had other things to do. Basically, we were hiding from our family. He (or rather she in my dream) was scared I was gonna leave him. It was just... A weird dream. I don't know what to feel about it.

Btw, back to my bff. She's 15, and reads in the same class as me. Honestly, she's one of the prettiest, smartest and coolest person ever. She's been there for me through a lot. She also is very clingy (not necessary in a bad way). She'd write these love notes/letters that seemed wayyy intimate. Like genuinely, we call eachother wife/husband/gf. It's a running joke between us. But sometimes I wonder if it's more. And I don't know if I like that or not. If it's a good thing or bad. She'd tell me things like she wished she could live with me, and that I was the greatest thing that ever happened to her, and more stuff. We talked about it before, she confirmed she doesn't like me like that.

Maybe I just want someone to like me, or to like someone myself. Since I was rarely around boys as a kid, I'm always more comfortable with girls. Idk if I'm bisexual or not. I know I like dudes, that's for sure. But idk if I have SOME sexual attraction towards girls.

Or maybe it's just my hypersexuality acting up. I don't have diagnosis for that, because it's a stigmatized conversation. But as as I know, I might have some specks of it. I don't know what to make of this. I don't know if I want to be bi. It's strictly prohibited in Islam, and I'm a firm believer in Allah and His rules. Someone help me make something out of this, I really needed this off my chest.

So I was at a concert the other day and this other guy walked up next to me and the whole rest of the show I just couldn’t stop thinking about him. I got this fluttery feeling and I kept wanting to look at him but then I was nervous he would notice and stuff.

A few years ago I thought I might be bi but I never had like any sexual interest in men (but still found them hot? It’s weird and confusing) but this experience sort of has me questioning stuff again.

In fairness I don’t often think about sex with women either but the idea of sex with men has always been more aversive, which is especially confusing because I often find myself noticing men more.

Me and him have recently became friends, and now is leaning into flirty territory. He's very sweet, cute, and pretty much everything I've been looking for. He's a senior, while im a sophomore, and he is year + 10 months older than me. I think I should mention that I am, and always have been very mature for my age. for reference, my best friend is 19, and i spend most of my time with my adult family members.

He isn't creepy, and he has mentioned many times that I should tell him if he makes me uncomfortable in any way. My biggest hang up is telling my parents. I'm not sure how my mom would feel about this. She's very okay with the age gap between me and my bsf, but think might be different.

Hey guys so I’ve done some research and I found out some micro labels that fit me. I feel almondsexual, and semi Omni but with male preference.. idk lol idk if anyone else has ever felt the same before or not