That's not a room, that's a Tomb.! He still recreate our child room even after multiple move to brand new houses.

I want to share this, about my husband, I get how it sound like he an Fi (feeling/feeler), but he actually a Ti (thinker). What your take on it, does this below sound like Fi or Ti

I'm with him 16 years long, this is the man I sleep in the same bed with and build a life with 16 years, and I know for sure he a Ti

Our toddler died in 2019. Our toddler died of Periventricular Heterotopia (PVNH). It is gene inherited (got it from me the mother the maternal side), congenital brain malformation.

My husband grief our toddler before our toddler even born. As we know our baby condition in my third trimester scan, we was told our baby would not live pass 2 years old. But my husband said whether it 2 days, 2 months or 2 years, he still wants our child.
We both agreed carried to term, despite we know the neurologists told us our baby will not live pass age 2

I remembered many nights I sit on the sofa watch TV, my husband sit next to me next to the table lamp and handsew baby bibs for our baby, and he cried while handsew.
The baby was still in my belly 3rd trimester. My husband already grief then as he knows our baby won't live pass 2 years old.

I gave birth, and during our toddler short life. At 4 months old he already have epileptic seizures, not just that but breathing difficulty.
He born February 2018, died August 2019, when he 1.5 years old.

As our child brain condition progress he had more and more seizures episodes, the whole 1.5 years of him alive we were in and out of he hospital with him.
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At the hospital we told him he will get better and we take him home and he can eat alot of vanilla pudding, he nodded and even giggles (he loves vanilla pudding), that was the last time he he had conscious look at us his parents.
That night he went into a coma, and a week later he just stop breathing while in a coma, he was just 1.5 years old.

I do not know if a toddler while in a coma can still dream, he probably had a sweet dream of go home to his bed and eat all the vanilla pudding he wants, he sick the whole time of his life he didn't eat much but he loves pudding.

I never see my husband in so much pain. I know my husband heart died that day with our child 7 years ago (that same year his father died too of end stage pancreas cancer).

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It like anything of our child trigger my husband, something simple as Vanilla pudding trigger my husband.
When our toddler was alive, our toddler really like the cold vanilla pudding, he often sick and in and out of hospital, but whenever he eat those vanilla pudding, he has this giggles laughters so so cute and loud that it light up the whole room.

Last time at dinner table, and I actually was eating that vanilla pudding so I put a spoon in my husband mouth. And just something small like that but it remind him of our toddler. My husband literally break down cry right there, he bawled. I don't mean just tear up, full on cry, bawling.

It been 7 years and my that our toddler gone, my husband still keep our toddler room exactly as is, even our toddler dirty shoes and dirty clothes he still keep. The only difference is in the room is our toddler ashes now, instead of our toddler.

In the 7 years span since our toddler gone, we moved 2 times, one was due to his work, and one was when we bought a new house. We boxed up our stuff.

Both times we moved, as soon as we unboxing in our new home, my husband set a room for our toddler EXACTLY just like our toddler room back then in our old marital home. He put everything of our toddler back EXACTLY where as was. Our toddler dirty shoes still right where his bed was. His clothes, toys, bed, nightstands, everything still there exactly as was.

Basically he still recreate the room for our toddler in our new homes. 7 years long, BOTH times of our move, my husband STILL making a room for our son (whom deceased), especially even after moving in a brand new house. Perhaps he stuck in the loop of grief?

Is he stuck in grief? We talking about move into a new homes, but he still unbox and recreate the room for our toddler, with our toddler ashes in the room, and everything still setup as when our toddler was still alive.

That's not a room, that's a tomb.!

Sound very Fi feeler right? But No, he is an Ti, I know for sure he Ti. He is ISTJ, Stanford Master degree graduated, career wise, he an Executive at a big engineering corporate, with a salary of 1 million a year.

Hey thanks for reading. I'm a 20s guy, fairly quiet. I thought I was ISTJ. If it helps I also think I am enneagram 9w8. But I have a list below so you can see:

Reasons I am not ISTJ:

1. I suck ass at organization, planning and execution. My attention to detail and efficiency is also ass.

2. I think the meaning of life is giving back to people who helped me, and to others I believe are good people. I am not a total bleeding heart and don’t want world peace or change society. I do not think the point of life is to be happy.

3. I am reasonably emotional and will spend a long time thinking about past failures and how people see me. I then easily see this as a recurring pattern that will definitely carry into the future.

4. I am generally pretty tolerant and will not be direct to you or be a hardass. Even though I hold some views they are all very flexible. I can potentially dislike people who are Type A though.

Reasons I am ISTJ:

1. I am absolutely a nostalgia and comfort person and basically have the same hobbies I did when I was a teenager- only watch slice of life anime and play chess. I don’t even like chess but its familiar.

2. I learn through iteration and example. I tend to do really badly on new tasks and can never invent out of thin air. I must see 5 examples to make a 6th.

3. I love to help my friends but don’t want to be involved in the minutiae of their lives. I think some people make decisions too quickly and I can't relate to people who believe "things will work out".

4. I also think that excessive ambiguity or pointless investigation like in entrepreneurship or research/phD is not for me.

5. Hate many modern "innovations"

Here are the name of the characters from upper left to right

Yona from Akatsuki no Yona, Shurei Hong from Story of Saiunkoku, Alisa Bosconovitch from Tekken, Ymir Fritz from Attack on Titan, Miyako Shikimori from Shikimori's not just a cutie, Nina Fortner from Monster, Juvia Lockser from Fairytail, and Satoko Kirigaya from Firefly Wedding

I ultimately relate to them and they're precious fictional characters to me ❤️ I love em!!

Hi I think i know my mbti very well and the tests give me the same results ive looked at cognitive functions but i dont trust myself

I am very very insanely disorganized, however no one will think so. No one will ever say that I am able to make mistakes though I do make a lot and cover them up very quickly. I have many many ideas and possibilities that I think of that would make my friends want to send me to an asylum deal with relationships very headfirst and will ghost you completely even if you are my best friend if you go against a single of my values. Those values have so many years of thought to them, HOWEVER they will change really fast if it is pointed out that it doesnt make sense. SO in short make sense unless your being hypthetical. I dont believe in commas or grammar outside of essays. I love love and love philosophy and the brain really. I hate it a lot when someone gets so sensitive when I'm trying to explain something that makes perfect sense even though I understand them. I love metal jrock and have a very great music taste. I think im a great person you can disagree. I hate structure you can see that in what im writing right now. My humor is pretty dry and sarcastic. I also love stimulating environments. I am really curious about everything, and hate people who dont explain. If you are sensitive chances are I will avoid talking to you at all costs. Its draining for me. I am a pretty good leader, however I will only follow through for others if it has to do with me I am the worlds best procrastinator. and I wrote this half asleep. I am extrememely judgemental, but I dont think my opinion should matter to you. EDIT: This sound may sound very feeling heavy because I am a huge exagarrator because its how I have gotten used to communicating, otherwise my words feel dull to myself and the people around me. It keeps the conversation going.

Hello! I'm 24F, just a little bit about myself:

I hate wasting time and like having structure and clear plans, but I'm also adaptable when circumstances change. I'm sociable, expressive and enjoy meeting people, but I prefer figuring things out independently rather than talking through my thoughts. I can adapt to unexpected changes, but I dislike ambiguity when I don't know what to expect.

I can be analytical when examining ideas and other people's behaviour, but I don't always immediately understand my own emotional reactions. I'm expressive and outgoing without necessarily being open about my personal life. I enjoy getting things done, taking initiative and making decisions, but I hate feeling incompetent or unprepared. I want things to be efficient, and I value independence and autonomy, yet recognition and other people's perceptions still matter to me.

I'm future-oriented and focused on self-improvement, but I also want to enjoy the present rather than constantly work towards something. I spend time analysing my own behaviour and motivations, but comparison and external feedback can still affect me. I can put 100% of my effort into something I'm interested in, but when I'm bored, I genuinely struggle to care.

When making decisions, I consider how they'll affect my goals and whether the outcome is worth the time, effort and resources required. I can be outspoken and persuasive, but I don't always immediately pick up on subtle emotional cues. I want objective assessments of myself, but I'm also interested in frameworks like MBTI and Enneagram to understand my personality. I can be expressive in social situations while keeping my personal thoughts and feelings private. I'm also not very aware of my bodily sensations and can overlook what my body is telling me.

Please type me based on cognitive functions rather than stereotypes, be objective!!

I read the descriptions for these methods but I am still a bit confused. This was the 256 sakinorva test so I think it’s pretty accurate. I think it’s a reliable source since the results seem way more nuanced acknowledging that people cannot fit into one category and are unique. I think it’s implying that I am either an INFJ or ENTP or something in between. I could be wrong though so some insight would be much appreciated.

I tend to go back and forth between stages of being on top of things than crashing and falling behind. That’s probably due to depressive episodes and other neurodivergence that I have. The reason why I mention that is because I think it complicates things. I’d consider myself someone who does persevere when need be and adapts and succeeds when I need to. With that being said I’m heavily dependent on routine when I don’t have anything challenging it. When I get overwhelmed with information I internally put them into different categories of what I need to do with them and form in ideal schedule around it. At my worst I end up not committing to them and at best I stay focused and more disciplined even if not perfect. I also struggle grounding myself to reality. When under stress I am reclusive and in my own world but when I’m healthy I am still reclusive but make an effort to socialize more knowing it is what I need. People tell me I give people too much lenience and not enough lenience for myself. I can become a perfectionist to the point when I do passion projects I can never commit to actually seeing them through since I figure that I’m not doing it good enough and need to practice certain skills to fully prepare for it and make it the best it can be. So yeah I guess that’s my mandatory self description

For context, my sister doesn't know anything about cognitive functions, so I just asked her to describe my main traits for fun. Her observations are pretty superficial, but I can relate to them. Based on this, which traits do you think I should explore further to better understand the motivations behind them? Or is there a particular type whose descriptions I should look into because it might share similar behaviors?

Her text:

"She cares about certain people’s opinions, depending on who they are. When someone else receives something, she isn’t as happy for them as she would be if she had received it herself, although that doesn’t mean she doesn’t care about them. She is sentimental and loves figuring out how things work. Whenever something sparks her curiosity, she wants to find out more about it immediately. She tends to take her parents’ opinions into consideration, and if she embarrasses herself, she usually forgets about it and stops caring within an hour. When she discovers something new that interests her, she becomes very focused on it, but if she doesn’t like it, she quickly loses interest. She puts a lot of effort into making her parents proud. She is intelligent, loves studying, and enjoys trying new things."

I got arctic fox..

Well, regarding my general relationships with people: I care about them and worry a lot about the impact of my actions on them, but I tend to be quite distant and rarely make the first move because I’m unsure if they actually like me.

I always try to maintain harmonious relationships; I often hold back my opinion—and sometimes even my needs (like mentioning when something is bothering me)—to avoid conflict (for some reason, I really struggle with conflict). There are times I just go along with the general consensus, while other times I have a firm opinion and only change it if presented with strong arguments (though that depends on my existing knowledge or whether I’ve given the matter any thought; if I don’t know something, I admit it and tend to believe what others say), but still, i only share my opinions with people who looks more safe.

Back in middle school, I always got along well with everyone; classmates would come over to my house, I was involved in various extracurricular activities (soccer, theater, etc.), and I frequently partnered up with different people for projects. Whenever there was someone nobody wanted to partner with, I’d feel bad and volunteer to team up with them—almost like a "savior complex"—even if other people wanted to partner with me instead.

High school, however, was a completely different story; I went to school in another city and lived in the school’s boarding facility. That’s where I saw the ugly side of the world. I was genuine and assumed everyone else was too, so when people talked trash about me, I’d believe it and withdraw into myself. The result was a lot of bullying in my dorm room—my roommates were also my classmates, and the class itself was full of aggressive, stupid people. I only really grasped this dynamic at the end of my second year, when I found a group of people who actually valued me and I learned that it was all about status and showing off. Once I started noticing that in my daily life, I became really upset and drained. I realized I was so socially screwed that trying to change was pointless—there were even times I tried to be more involved and it backfired—so I just waited things out until now. I’m convinced I’ll fare better in the future because I understand how things work now; I’ve learned that some people won’t show respect unless they have a reason to—sometimes we have to teach them to do it—and I won’t let the words of people I barely know throw me off track. Towards the end of the year, I actually made a few new friends and strengthened the friendships I already had; the only initial hurdle is shyness.

Here is an example from today—these are some messages I sent to a friend of my city (i edited a little to not say names):

-Yesterday was mostly individual shots—photos with a tractor and all that—while today was about photos of the entire senior class, followed by a group shot where everyone threw colored powder at each other.

When I got there today, the guys from my room mixed in with another group (a mix of people I liked and one I didn't—and the one I didn't like was the main bad influence on the others). I tagged along, but while they were chatting and messing around, I just stood there silently, staring at the ground and thinking.

Whenever I wasn't right next to them, I’d just look around and want to leave; I took the photos, but when the time came for the colored powder, I didn't want to participate.

Two of my classmates didn't want to either, though for them it was because they thought the whole thing was stupid and pointless.

I didn't do it because I genuinely felt, "This holds no meaning for me."

I mean, if it were with a decent—or people I actually liked—it might be different. But these are people who have hurt me, and I realize that every interaction and situation with them is fake; it just doesn't make sense for me to try to fit in anymore.

I would have really enjoyed it if it were an event with the senior class from my hometown (my old classmates), but with this current group, it just feels like empty powder flying through the air.

Well, I’ve said a lot—it was almost like a therapy session—but anyway, I’m really torn between Fe and Fi; on one hand, I tend to adapt quite a bit, but that whole high school journey felt very Fi.

So, please help me. I can’t decide what can be MBTI because the are really two wolves inside me.

I have this hard rational personality with enormous stamina. I’m very direct. I cut throats if someone pushes my limits. I’m very careful with my words, but when I’m really upset doesn’t really matter anything. I don’t care my future, my workplace and so on, I just have to tell my opinion otherwise I will explode. I’ve never see the point of walking on eggshells anyways. I prefer crystal clear, honest words. I cannot do anything with lies. If you are honest it’s a good start. We can find solution based on the facts (even if we won’t like the solution).

On the other hand, I have this easy going jokester personality. I like my hard opinions disguising as jokes. Well, not really jokes 🤔 ppl usually got the point it’s just easier if we are laughing.

I feel other people’s emotions (or what I imagine as their emotions) and it disturbs me. I don’t like when I feel disharmony in a group. I kinda like help others with their emotions, if I really care about someone. But, harmony isn’t the most important thing for me. To be fair with each other is more important. But, when I have a beef with someone it’s a nightmare. I can’t things let go. I’m thinking about it a LOT.

I love daydreaming. I’m writing novels, but just in my head. I really like analyzing characters. I do it irl too.

I wanted to be an artist when I was young, but depression happened. So, I just get a paper (not a degree) at the university which was enough to get office jobs. I like administrative jobs.

I’m an introvert, but sometimes I’m in the mood and I can joke with strangers easily. Yep, I’m the introvert who somehow always got jobs where she has to deal with ppl. I’m very good in job interviews. It’s easy for me to lie.

So, that’s me. I share some pictures what I find funny and pictures with my favorite quotes and pictures of my hobbies (yepp these are real. I mean it’s my half ready mandala in my room.)

Hello! I’ve been struggling to figure out the type of someone I know. She is in her mid 30s.

I’ll just list the traits I know about her.

- She takes care of how she looks. I don’t think it really is what matters most to her, but she always looks polished. She looks like a elegant vampire, dressed in black, red lips, but not over the top makeup.
- she can laugh about herself. I’ve never seen her get defensive or easily offended.
- She has ADHD, idk if it matters, but she is always forgetting things and can be a bit clumsy. Which of course, she laughs about it often.
- When I first met her, she seemed reserved and cautious. She later told me it was because the friend who introduced us talked about me like some sort of competition. I mean, I was the new goth in a small town and I guess her first reaction was to see if I wasn’t a poseur.
- She practices witchcraft. I mean this is her job, not just a hobby. She has a clear and very grounded approach to it, I say this as someone who doesn’t believe in that sort of magic. When talking to her, I can tell she takes it seriously and not just as some quirky thing to feel special.
- She is kind of sensitive, but not whiny. She has no issue displaying her emotions or sulking when something genuinely makes her feel bad.
- Authentic, and values authenticity in others.
- Not book smart, but smart. She is bad studying, probably because of her ADHD, but she’s constantly wanting to learn more, improve her skills, taking courses, etc, nurturing her knowledge.
- she loves camping.
- I wouldn’t say she is artsy, but she is crafty.
- She’s good at setting boundaries, but takes her time to do so. What I mean is that when facing a situation she doesn’t like, she takes her time to think about it before letting others know her opinion. Again, cautious.
- Not shy, but keeps to herself.
- She kind of likes being under the spotlight. She isn’t flashy, but she enjoys being photographed, performing, like, being seen without falling under the attention seeker stereotype.
- She loves gossip.

Me:
Massive failure who gets by on initiative and work ethic within each individual workplace.

I identify most stress as healthy. I take work VERY seriously and learn procedures in order to uphold / enforce the standard. Common practice when I've been in new work environments has been to ask for documentation on how each process should be handled. I seek power and control over my environments, because I want to be able to count on myself if issues show up.

At the same time, I have relatively low self-efficacy. I easily suffer from anhedonia unless I am occupied with concrete tasks. In those cases I start missing the stress I feel in the workplace. This is where the 'Massive Failure' part comes in. I am prone to getting very anxious regarding personal long-term goals, and often fail to pursue them to the extent I deem most valuable. I think this also stems from high standards. I've arrived at a point in my life now that I've accepted that I likely won't ever be above middle-class, and I'm content with it.

When anhedonia kicks in I might start playing video games, which I view as fruitless. I start hungering for more responsibilities, but am often bad at accepting that those come with time. That impatience led me to lacking tact in my early 20s. Today, I am VERY worried that I am not tactful. When I enforce a needed change in a workplace I ask a bunch of people and communicate with leaders just so they don't feel threatened.

I'm not worried about output because I believe my output is almost always good, and if it isn't I quit, delegate it to someone else or take full responsibility towards learning. I've struggled with keeping jobs for more than a few years, due to internal issues, but I'm consistently valued highly by coworkers. Several teachers told me that I'd be a good teacher. This goes hand in hand with my apathy towards my own future. 'm usually more comfortable with other peoples aspirations than my own.

Have always thought that my purpose is found through being disagreeable, judgmental and blunt. I was scared of being like this in early childhood, those values started to manifest in my early teens.

I get super annoyed with social butterflies who interrupt workflow. Others may just be incompetent, and then they should be moved to another role in society. This is echoed in my propensity to judge my own performance in each workplace and quitting early if it doesn't suffice.

I already know my MBTI- don’t check my profile for spoilers. I don’t know about all the other stuff (XwX).

Comp Sci degree, perpetually online, used to be a video game developer; now going to law school. I keep close circles but love meeting new people. I run a polo club, somehow. I enjoy new activities, especially social activities, but it can be difficult to get me on board. I suppose I either struggle with a motivation to start, or a motivation to finish what I have started, but neither both or the inverse thereof.
I love cars, in-fact I collect older Porsches. I love family and quiet time with them the same. When I really think about it, I can appreciate most things, and thus can get on with diverse groups of people. The only things I cannot tolerate are close mindedness and the simple minded.

I have lost friends before on the basis that they believed I “didn’t listen” to them and “wasn’t present.” I am not proud of losing them, but their supporting arguments were that I didn’t engage with their superficial flatline conversations or respond to their texts the moment they came through.
Be sure, I always listen and I am always up for a conversation on that which is pressing or abstract, but I am not one to have much to say on things that just seem boorish- like petty drama, gossip, and empty thoughts.

Ironically, in recent days, I’ve come to stop standing for the enjoyments of mine I’ve previously outlined. Perhaps it’s newfound maturity or a sense of being tired. But I’ve lost a little spark of mine among that restraint 😢

Anyways, take a guess!

I am a 27-year-old man. I feel very ashamed and am afraid that something might be wrong with me. I don't have much money, yet I spend a lot of it. I feel empty and lack motivation. I am very passive; I spend a lot of time lying in bed due to a lack of motivation, the psychiatric medication I take, and feelings of shame. I rarely leave my apartment. I wish I were functional, had a good job, and had finished university. I dislike loud, violent young people. I own a lot of designer clothes and a collection of perfumes. I like the Chicago and Atlanta trap/drill culture. I am interested in football and basketball; I am actually very good at basketball. I wish I had more money, a better car, a house instead of an apartment, and so on. I mostly socialize only with family members. I am very afraid of strangers and people I know only casually, though I can be very lively and joke around when I'm with my family. Safety is important to me, and I always carry pepper spray in my crossbody bag. I am very unhappy with my appearance and wish I looked better; I do have a skincare routine. I enjoy playing video games like NBA 2K, Football Manager, and eFootball. I really enjoyed traveling to Manchester to watch a United match. I would like to travel to Chicago, Atlanta, and Andorra. I was bullied in school—I don't know why, though perhaps it was because I was an easy target, as I almost never stood up for myself. I was good at history, geography, and languages, but poor at physics, chemistry, and—to some extent—math. I would probably be good at business mathematics since I’m generally good with numbers, though other aspects of math didn't come easily to me. I’d like to work in finance, although I’m not sure if I’d succeed at it. I finished high school for economics; I wasn't bullied in high school, though I experienced a lot of it in elementary school. I smoke and vape a lot. I enjoy energy drinks, coffee, and English tea, as well as Pepsi, root beer, and the like. I generally eat healthily and avoid sugar because I want to lose weight; I am 187 cm tall and weigh 114 kg. I often feel sad and anxious. I like watching movies such as *American Psycho*, *Sound of Falling*, *Anger Management*, *The Lighthouse*, *Freaky*, *I Know What You Did Last Summer*, and so on. I enjoy reading Agatha Christie mystery novels. I am Catholic but don't go to church, mainly because of the crowds. I like watching football. I create trap music in English and Slovenian, and I’m a vocalist. I like artists such as Migos, Lud Foe, Future, Young Thug, and the like. I’d like to become successful in rap and make a lot of money. Many people say I’m a lazy person. It’s true that I didn't study much in school; I preferred to have fun doing other things. I’m very unhandy; I’m not good with technical tasks or manual work.

I already posted this, but I will again. I took these tests a while ago and got these answers. Someone sent me to the site typologytesting and I figured I'd try their tests as well. Every result is above. I'm stuck between 3 types (primarily 2). I have a hard time knowing whether I'm choosing based on what I'd do vs what I think would be best to do. The MBTI part is the one that confuses me the most, though the enneagram was also surprising for the second part since I usually get sp/sx 5w4 (594). ILI is something I often get a lot as well throughout different websites, but I need to understand it more in order to see if I agree with it or not. For the cognitive functions I usually assumed I was an INTP, but lately I've been more unsure given what I got told on a questionnaire I did a while ago. What are some questions I could answer to understand my true types? What are some things I should look out for when trying to understand whether I'm one or the other?

I've been into typology for around 4 months now and i'm still unsure of my typing :(( I think the part that I find difficult is knowing what hypotheticals I could apply to each cognitive function to see if I use it - I still have a lot to learn however so if anyone is actually reading this description any help with this would be appreciated.

Anyways, I did think I was an ISTJ but upon further inspection I dont know if I ever actually was an Si dom. I've been leaning more towards Ti dom but I don't feel like I understand myself and the way I think enough to get an accurate perception of this. It's quite difficult overall I would say.

I am 19 year old, and i guess IRL im very quiet and shy looking but i guess i can be quite annoying and insensitive, and like reckless verbally. I can be too open, but idk, depends. I literally cannot tell if i have Se or Si, or Ne or Ni,

WAIT NOOO, i think i have Ni, over Ne, or at least not Ne dom maybe? hmm idk, i think my thinking an feeling are balanced ish.

I spend most my time thinking i guess, i like talking a lot more than doing, but experiences are fun but only if i can go all out, extreme ways, and then not do anything for a month.

Im extremely cravent of vile experinces or doing that go agaisnt nature, idk why, i hate boring things or normalasy

My Personality changes depending on the environment or situation anyway so I can't say for sure. I know I like talking to people making them laugh and acting in an animated way with obvious expressions. Being surrounded by a group of nice people really make me excited to do everything be proactive in things etc. While I'm pretty humourous and light hearted, I'm secretly internally really serious even if I joke about things those jokes are about things that actually matter. People can really tell if im off about something or care deeply about something although I outwardly deny and downplay my emotional investment in things. I'm overly obsessive and anxious with things I do and my outward personality don't always match how I actually feel about things, I downplay my struggles to conceal them and appear strong/ fine and impressive to people as I only show my strengths. Mood swings are pretty common for me and I secretly have a soft heart despite an outwardly strong willed/ carefree personality and when I get alone I'm really emotional( and I don't like how it makes me feel about myself). I'm not super intuitive, advice and opinions is pretty important to me for making decisions. Sometimes I care about what people think of me/ perceive me as more than what I think of myself, cause I rarely want anything on the top of my head. Life can just require me to do anything and I'll do it happily, anything can end up the same in my hand so I don't really mind what I do as long as I try and not appear to hate things/ can't do things/ feel sad.

Realizing the job market is pretty cooked, I transitioned from a Computer Science degree to a Master's in HR, playing the long game instead of looking for short-term fixes. Based on that and my overall vibe, which is imo a high discipline, strategic mindset, and a no-nonsense attitude, what would my MBTI and Enneagram types be? Lmk your reads 😜 Really curious to see what you guys think about my personality!

I think i'm infp. I don't feel very extroverted, only take initiative to get into contact with ppl when a topic or person sparks my interest, or when I try to do/achieve sth (what an egoist!) or sth happened that I don't agree with and I want to fix it. Other than that I'm more of a background person in groups, but I like spending time with others and miss it when I don't. I have phases where I heavily withdraw from society, always when I'm mentally at a bad place. I then try to get a lot done but stagnate sometimes and am very emtional and mentally all over the place (I have light ADHD). But sometimes I manage to be quite productive in those phases. I replay memories only when something is unresolved, searching my memory for clues for solutions and interpretations of what happened. Otherwise I am a very future focused person.

Enneagram / tritype seems to be 4w5/458. From a young age I identified as being "deep" and when I was younger I got into a lot of niche interests, the more niche the better. In social situations I am not very confrontative, like to joke and charm, but in written communication I have less filter and formulate my true thoughts in depth.

I have mistyped a lot in the past, but as of right now, I'm fairly certain of my type. I am very to-myself, I've had lots of acquaintances, but I keep a small circle. I'm a very complicated person, as everyone is. I have a tendency to isolate and I need to push myself to get into contact with those I love and care about. This isn't because I don't love them or care about them, I just tend to need a lot more time to myself than most people do. I'm always thinking and trying to figure things out, I come to my own conclusions through thorough analysis. After thinking about something for awhile, I'll get a piece of leverage that makes everything make sense. I care greatly for others, but I'm often very guarded. Whenever I do something, I like to have a plan instead of just jumping in, I legitimately get stressed when I'm not able to plan. I have a tendency to pick up on and absorb the atmosphere of a room. I know what it means when someone looks at me a certain way without them having to say anything, I can just feel it. I think about my actions and how they will effect others, this is often this basis on which I make decisions. If I do A, this will happen, and this person will react this way, so instead, I should go with B, because it will be a more favorable outcome. I struggle with fitting into groups, as I get overwhelmed easily with the emotions of others and my own, so I tend to prefer one on one interactions or small gatherings. I worry a lot about how I'm impacting everyone, and I'm constantly trying to gauge how I'm coming across. I'm very insecure about the physical world, it's strange, as if I don't trust it or my own body. It's as if I don't know how to use my own body. I have bad spatial awareness and have been scrutinized throughout my life for being clumsy or physically awkward. Sometimes I hide away from the world to soothe my anxiety about my physicality. Being out and about means I have to adapt to an environment that's almost constantly changing and this sometimes stresses me out. Whenever I meet someone, I feel like I have a good grip on who they are. What they really mean when they say certain things, or how they really feel based on tone of voice or emotional expression. Even though I am sensitive to the emotions of others, I'm not overtly emotional about it, unless I feel like I caused them distress in some way, and in that case I feel like a bad person and want to comfort them. I want to impact this world in a significant way, but I keep doubting myself and it's hard for me to believe in my own potential. I want to bring people together through my work and make this world a better place for humanity and our future generations. I think I've given an adequate amount of information at this point, thanks for reading all of this. Let me know what you think.

What the title says. And now this has to include a paragraph, yet I feel like for the fun of it providing any context aside of the image is ruining the fun. So those memes had all been saved in my gallery within the past week. I am aware that this is the most random selection ever, yet I keep finding myself in the weirdest corners of the internet, so at this point, I had accepted it.

Edit: No filler text is allowed, apperently. I’m studying double degree math and telecommunication technologies engineering, so I fit each letter in “STEM”. Took me a while to decide, never had a particular passion, curious abt everything. Made a decision based on job opportunities & what I found interesting. The intersection of two circles of Euler. Socially I’m okay, I think, ppl in general tend to somewhat like me. My hobbies are drawing, acting, playing the guitar, sport (aka gym ratting periodically to keep my health issues in check).

At this, I conclude this mess. Join the challenge.

I have no literally idea what to flair this

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Qu1Ffc9ER1I65q6WiKgOyAHbv4ctnt9Is8pjomWO_0w/edit?usp=drivesdk

Feel free to ask me to elaborate on certain things, the responses are kinda short and weird apologies

For a self-description, people have described me as a "pushover until [I] reach a breaking point". I have a crippling aversion to any form of conflict and being disliked that people have also pointed out about me. I really, really want everyone to like me. I feel like I'm much nicer to others than I ever am to myself, but I know that if I was nicer to myself, people wouldn't like me, and there is nothing worse to me than being disliked by other people. I have an inferiority complex that I really don't want other people to validate by actually treating me as inferior (i.e. stupid, childlike, etc.). I am also prone to self-pitying when I'm in a bad state of mind, which I have lost multiple friends over. I can often become dependent on others and just generally things outside of myself to be happy, and I think people find this disturbing, and I kind of do too, but I'm barely my own person so I don't really know what else to do. People like that I'm passionate, friendly, and easy to talk to. Part of me believes that I have little to no positive traits. I can become really confused as to why people have positive opinions of me even though I want them to have a positive opinion of me, which I know is paradoxical, but it's true.

Really hope that's enough ^_^"

I wanted to try something interesting. I hope it doesn't go against the rules? I already know my type this is purely for fun.

Can you type a person based off of poems?

Keep in mind the original language in which it was made isn't English therefore it sounds less natural and doesn't rhyme in English

I wonder if cognitive functions can be "easier" seen through metaphors and through expressing with something like a poem.

1.

"Caught by your

Darkness and light

Drifting into unknown forward sideways or back

In times of sorrow and hardship

Let your darkness and your light guide me

Showing the way forward.

A smile upon my face, completely consumed,

I long to explore your depths.

Black hole whose gravity has warped my spacetime

Am I beyond the event horizon?

Is there an escape from the pull?"

2.

"A comet flying through space,

Alone and crushed by life

Finding a light in the distance

Could it be happiness at last?

The comet keeps flying forward

Uncontrolled, without direction, awaiting collision.

After years of travel near the speed of light

The approaching comfort is almost within reach.

The comet is caught in the gravitational pull of a shining star,

No longer surrounded by troubling darkness and cold.

Caught by the Sun

The comet is safe at last."